So out of curiosity do any of you ever go on a gut feeling in a relationship to later find out it was completely wrong? Like it was based on a fear and not your gut feeling? If that is the case, what did you do? How did you fix the situation?
Gut feelings: Pisces Sun or Moon,
I was interested in an Aries man once, he had pursued me, full on passionate with his interest. I had harbored a secret crush on him for awhile, but being the type of Pisces I am, I would never pursue him, but my intuition told me in my spirit that someday we would be together.
When he did come around and pursue me, I thought it was just my luck. I opened up and trusted him fast and in my gut, I felt it was okay because he was the first, and the ONLY person I have ever met that I felt I had known my entire life. Being around him just felt familiar, like home. It was a weird experience and I never have experienced a feeling like that before or since. My gut told me I could trust him, that this would be it. But then about a few months in, I started feeling insecure, I started feeling like it was all going to go to crap. I did not listen to it and was really heartbroken...worst heartbreak I ever felt. Not even my failed 4 year relationship with a manipulative Taurus affected me like this one.
I can't say I fixed anything, but what I do think happened was that our relationship mirrored how I felt internally. When I felt optimistic and positive, the relationship lived up to that like a self-fulling prophecy. The moment my insecurities about it failing came into the picture, the relationship failed.
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I'll give you one more story: I was briefly talking to another man and he was very charming, refined, took me on really nice, expensive dates. Now, I am not materialistic so it wasn't how much he spent, but the fact that he seemed so mature, so healthy, so interested in me, just the complete gentleman.
My gut told me "he's a player...he has wined and dined women like this before," I knew instinctively that was his game. I did not listen, and soon enough, the moment I let go of suspense and trusted him, he tried to take advantage of my vulnerability and strong arm me into being with him sexually with no commitment.
When he did come around and pursue me, I thought it was just my luck. I opened up and trusted him fast and in my gut, I felt it was okay because he was the first, and the ONLY person I have ever met that I felt I had known my entire life. Being around him just felt familiar, like home. It was a weird experience and I never have experienced a feeling like that before or since. My gut told me I could trust him, that this would be it. But then about a few months in, I started feeling insecure, I started feeling like it was all going to go to crap. I did not listen to it and was really heartbroken...worst heartbreak I ever felt. Not even my failed 4 year relationship with a manipulative Taurus affected me like this one.
I can't say I fixed anything, but what I do think happened was that our relationship mirrored how I felt internally. When I felt optimistic and positive, the relationship lived up to that like a self-fulling prophecy. The moment my insecurities about it failing came into the picture, the relationship failed.
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I'll give you one more story: I was briefly talking to another man and he was very charming, refined, took me on really nice, expensive dates. Now, I am not materialistic so it wasn't how much he spent, but the fact that he seemed so mature, so healthy, so interested in me, just the complete gentleman.
My gut told me "he's a player...he has wined and dined women like this before," I knew instinctively that was his game. I did not listen, and soon enough, the moment I let go of suspense and trusted him, he tried to take advantage of my vulnerability and strong arm me into being with him sexually with no commitment.
My "gut feeling" has never been wrong. But I won't lie, sometimes I overrule it, when it tells me 'no,' and do things anyway. Sometimes I ignore it when it tells me 'yes.' Anytime I dismiss my gut feeling, I get the same feeling of turbulence.
But when my gut feeling and I are insync, things work out wonderfully, and we give one another a giant, squishy highfive.
But when my gut feeling and I are insync, things work out wonderfully, and we give one another a giant, squishy highfive.
Posted by LillyPetalYes!
Anytime I dismiss my gut feeling, I get the same feeling of turbulence.
But when my gut feeling and I are insync, things work out wonderfully, and we give one another a giant, squishy highfive.
Posted by malloryorLol, perhaps I shouldn't have edited. Virgo rising problems.Posted by LillyPetalYes!
Anytime I dismiss my gut feeling, I get the same feeling of turbulence.
But when my gut feeling and I are insync, things work out wonderfully, and we give one another a giant, squishy highfive.click to expand
Posted by malloryorThis right here! It's what happened with my most recent ex, everything was fine and then he said for two months on/off he felt something wasn't and that he was getting "negative" vibes from me and that why he broke up with me it was based on this gut feeling that we wouldn't work out in a year. He is also a Pisces Sun/Moon(12th House) with an Aries Mercury/Venus (12h House). 8th House Mars/Saturn/Uranus in Sagittarius. I'm an Aries Sun/Mercury/Jupiter (1s House), Pisces Venus/Rising, Scorpio Moon/Pluto (8th House).
My gut told me I could trust him, that this would be it. But then about a few months in, I started feeling insecure, I started feeling like it was all going to go to crap. I did not listen to it and was really heartbroken...worst heartbreak I ever felt. Not even my failed 4 year relationship with a manipulative Taurus affected me like this one.
I can't say I fixed anything, but what I do think happened was that our relationship mirrored how I felt internally. When I felt optimistic and positive, the relationship lived up to that like a self-fulling prophecy. The moment my insecurities about it failing came into the picture, the relationship failed.
But here's where it gets interesting: I called his bullshit on it because I remembered the first week we started dating. He really opened up to me. He said he has HUGE walls up and that he has trust issues. He's been used, abused, and take advantage of in past relationships. He's been let down time and time again. He pushes people away. He was engaged to someone before we met and got together as well. The girl before that one? She up and left him. He's also been used by a few to cheat with and has been cheated on. Much like my own relationship history almost identically mirrors his own.
And when I point out all of this to him, he admit I was right. It's been about two months since this happened. He doesn't want me out of his life, he said this to me, "How are you so certain of why im reacting this way? Maybe you are right and i will realize and have to beg for your forgiveness. Or maybe i am correct with how i feel. Either way doing this will be the tell tale sign."
Lol always! I can't seem to differentiate gut feeling and fear any more. I cook up horrible events in my head when m scared or unclear about something, and m wrong most of the time.it drives me crazy! I have learned not to voice my so called "gut feeling" any more, I just keep it to myself.
Posted by AriScoPisGrlMy gut feelings have yet to be wrong.
So out of curiosity do any of you ever go on a gut feeling in a relationship to later find out it was completely wrong? Like it was based on a fear and not your gut feeling? If that is the case, what did you do? How did you fix the situation?
Posted by AriScoPisGrlHe sensed your uncertainty and that negativity awakened him out of his love haze, so now he is taking a look at things with more logic and security. Negative energies can be caused by ourselves and create poor situations out of thin air, which is why you have to check in with yourself from time to time and assess if it is your intution alerting you or your insecurity.Posted by malloryorThis right here! It's what happened with my most recent ex, everything was fine and then he said for two months on/off he felt something wasn't and that he was getting "negative" vibes from me and that why he broke up with me it was based on this gut feeling that we wouldn't work out in a year. He is also a Pisces Sun/Moon(12th House) with an Aries Mercury/Venus (12h House). 8th House Mars/Saturn/Uranus in Sagittarius. I'm an Aries Sun/Mercury/Jupiter (1s House), Pisces Venus/Rising, Scorpio Moon/Pluto (8th House).
My gut told me I could trust him, that this would be it. But then about a few months in, I started feeling insecure, I started feeling like it was all going to go to crap. I did not listen to it and was really heartbroken...worst heartbreak I ever felt. Not even my failed 4 year relationship with a manipulative Taurus affected me like this one.
I can't say I fixed anything, but what I do think happened was that our relationship mirrored how I felt internally. When I felt optimistic and positive, the relationship lived up to that like a self-fulling prophecy. The moment my insecurities about it failing came into the picture, the relationship failed.
But here's where it gets interesting: I called his bullshit on it because I remembered the first week we started dating. He really opened up to me. He said he has HUGE walls up and that he has trust issues. He's been used, abused, and take advantage of in past relationships. He's been let down time and time again. He pushes people away. He was engaged to someone before we met and got together as well. The girl before that one? She up and left him. He's also been used by a few to cheat with and has been cheated on. Much like my own relationship history almost identically mirrors his own.
And when I point out all of this to him, he admit I was right. It's been about two months since this happened. He doesn't want me out of his life, he said this to me, "How are you so certain of why im reacting this way? Maybe you are right and i will realize and have to beg for your forgiveness. Or maybe i am correct with how i feel. Either way doing this will be the tell tale sign."click to expand
What I often do is ask myself when I feel negative energy or uncertainty "is this my insecurity or my intuition trying to get through?" Typically, when I self asses
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...when I self assess like that, I am instantly able to determine the source and cause of all that negative energy. The downfall for me usually comes when I do not take the time to step back and self assess. Then I just let my impulsive aries moon take over my emotions and my pisces emotions to sweep over me.
I also do this in situations where I am falling hard for someone, I will ask myself, "is this hope speaking (wishful thinking occuring) or are my feelings and views of this person set in reality?" Again, I usually know my answer instangly.
The issue always appears when I forget to self assess. At this point, he is gone. He is doing the logical thing. He felt unsteadiness and instability and he snapped out of the love haze. It is time for you tor recognize the present and stop dwelling on the past. Perhaps in time he will return but he may not. The best thing you can do is learn to not let your negative emotions and insecurities become self fulfilling prophecies.
...when I self assess like that, I am instantly able to determine the source and cause of all that negative energy. The downfall for me usually comes when I do not take the time to step back and self assess. Then I just let my impulsive aries moon take over my emotions and my pisces emotions to sweep over me.
I also do this in situations where I am falling hard for someone, I will ask myself, "is this hope speaking (wishful thinking occuring) or are my feelings and views of this person set in reality?" Again, I usually know my answer instangly.
The issue always appears when I forget to self assess. At this point, he is gone. He is doing the logical thing. He felt unsteadiness and instability and he snapped out of the love haze. It is time for you tor recognize the present and stop dwelling on the past. Perhaps in time he will return but he may not. The best thing you can do is learn to not let your negative emotions and insecurities become self fulfilling prophecies.
Interesting question I must say OP
I'm a Pisces Sun/Moon, and, hoo boy, do I have a continual deluge of "Gut Feelings." It's honestly overwhelming sometimes, being able to read people, because it sorta stifles your interactions with them if you're not in the right mindset. That being said, my Virgo Rising/Aqua Mercury like to over-analyze and dismiss my Gut Feelings sometimes, so it's all very confusing. I've been learning to trust my intuition more though, and I've never been wrong about knowing when someone's been interested in me. (For better or for worse.)
(WHICH IS WHY THIS SCORPIO/CANCER/PISCES-DOM BOY IS CURRENTLY FRUSTRATING ME BECAUSE I CAN'T READ HIM FOR THE LIFE OF ME, but, ahem, that's another matter entirely. So much water in his chart it's overwhelming.)
(WHICH IS WHY THIS SCORPIO/CANCER/PISCES-DOM BOY IS CURRENTLY FRUSTRATING ME BECAUSE I CAN'T READ HIM FOR THE LIFE OF ME, but, ahem, that's another matter entirely. So much water in his chart it's overwhelming.)
Posted by malloryorWell I figured out what was going on with him after he told me some more stuff, which aligned with FEAR not intuition. He did tell me he is trying to heal himself. He was engaged before we ever met. And the women before his ex-fiancee up and left him without warning. He blocked her on all social media years ago when this happened because she was bring to reach out an he wanted nothing to do with her. He was very hurt. Last month he talked to the ex and they both got closure on the situation. He even said he feels lighter now.
He sensed your uncertainty and that negativity awakened him out of his love haze, so now he is taking a look at things with more logic and security. Negative energies can be caused by ourselves and create poor situations out of thin air, which is why you have to check in with yourself from time to time and assess if it is your intuition alerting you or your insecurity.
What I often do is ask myself when I feel negative energy or uncertainty "is this my insecurity or my intuition trying to get through?" Typically, when I self asses like that, I am instantly able to determine the source and cause of all that negative energy. The downfall for me usually comes when I do not take the time to step back and self assess. Then I just let my impulsive aries moon take over my emotions and my pisces emotions to sweep over me.
I also do this in situations where I am falling hard for someone, I will ask myself, "is this hope speaking (wishful thinking occurring) or are my feelings and views of this person set in reality?" Again, I usually know my answer instantly.
The issue always appears when I forget to self assess. At this point, he is gone. He is doing the logical thing. He felt unsteadiness and instability and he snapped out of the love haze. It is time for you tor recognize the present and stop dwelling on the past. Perhaps in time he will return but he may not. The best thing you can do is learn to not let your negative emotions and insecurities become self fulfilling prophecies.
My negative energies? What was that the result of? Me keeping bottled up the fear that I thought i was pregnant. As someone who had an abortion due to an ex who is a Narcissists prior to my ex-Pisces, I just couldn't talk to him about it no matter how badly I wanted to. Why? He was already struggling with serious family stuff, his work, financial matters, car situation, etc... he was trying to stay above water. I was going through a lot too, but my Pisces Venus/Rising in me with my Scorpio Moon/Pluto (8h House), just couldn't bare to put another burden on him. Thankfully I wasn't but didn't realize this till long are we broke up. I look back and can see how it was making me act, kind of distance, not all there, the very opposite of what he wanted which can appear negative.
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I have a Mercury in Aries, so I just didn't want to blurt out without bing sure I was 100% about it. He has a Scorpio Pluto in the 7th house, notorious for unable relationships and life lesson to learn inner balance. Plus his Sun/Moon 12th House in Pisces makes him more complex with how he handles things. Oh and his Aries Venus/Mercury (12th House), makes him incapable of knowing how to open up. Plus he is a Taurus rising... I will say that I do bliss based on my own "gifts" that are more than just intuition, he'll come back. He said he doesn't want to loose me. We became best friends while dating. We're a lot a like and I've been engaged myself, so I know what that does to someone when all that falls apart.
I have a Mercury in Aries, so I just didn't want to blurt out without bing sure I was 100% about it. He has a Scorpio Pluto in the 7th house, notorious for unable relationships and life lesson to learn inner balance. Plus his Sun/Moon 12th House in Pisces makes him more complex with how he handles things. Oh and his Aries Venus/Mercury (12th House), makes him incapable of knowing how to open up. Plus he is a Taurus rising... I will say that I do bliss based on my own "gifts" that are more than just intuition, he'll come back. He said he doesn't want to loose me. We became best friends while dating. We're a lot a like and I've been engaged myself, so I know what that does to someone when all that falls apart.
Yes but I don't have PS or PM..So must be a different water placements in my chart. So most people have these gut feelings and some don't or lack it..
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