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He spend more time with his mother than he does with me (Page 2)
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Posted by Juliiette
sorry but this is funny. one day to funeral the other to the party. lmaoYEP! she is always going somewhere,sometimes its church service, the likes........ oh and it's her car by the way ,she can drive it herself she just prefers that her son drive her everywhere! click to expand
Is she elderly? click to expand
No she 40 something old click to expand
Your bf is 32 and his mom is 40 something? click to expand
49 turning 50,she had him when she was 18 click to expand
I see. Only child I guess? And the dad is not around anymore? click to expand
Is it that obvious? click to expand
Yeh I guess that's why she has such a tight grip over him. Might be that she is afraid of end up being completely lonely. Like she is afraid of losing him to you if that makes sense. click to expand
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Dets sad,cause he is tired of her controlling everything, he's planning to buy a new house and not let them visit until it's fully furnished by my choices,since he says they might even want to design his new house for him.by they I mean his grandmother and his mother
Posted by Juliiette
sorry but this is funny. one day to funeral the other to the party. lmaoYEP! she is always going somewhere,sometimes its church service, the likes........ oh and it's her car by the way ,she can drive it herself she just prefers that her son drive her everywhere! click to expand
Is she elderly? click to expand
No she 40 something old click to expand
Your bf is 32 and his mom is 40 something? click to expand
49 turning 50,she had him when she was 18 click to expand
I see. Only child I guess? And the dad is not around anymore? click to expand
Is it that obvious? click to expand
Yeh I guess that's why she has such a tight grip over him. Might be that she is afraid of end up being completely lonely. Like she is afraid of losing him to you if that makes sense. click to expand
Dets sad,cause he is tired of her controlling everything, he's planning to buy a new house and not let them visit until it's fully furnished by my choices,since he says they might even want to design his new house for him.by they I mean his grandmother and his mother click to expand
That's sad. Seems he's too afraid to put his foot down. Nothing will change unless he does. click to expand
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We've been through a lot me and him, it's sad to see him like this
Posted by MyStarsShine
Any man or even young man who feels scared of their mother has issuesOh tell me about it.....I've been with a few of them and I did the very best thing possible .....
Ran!
A strong man isn't scared of anyone.....he loves and respects his mother but knows how to put distance when needed. I was with one who when she rang would stay on the phone a long time because he was scared of admitting he was with a woman. It's really pathetic and I have consciously raised our lad to be honest and respectful but not to fear me or his dad
Thankfully he is growing into a strong independent non fearful mature man
❤️
It's not easy when u love someone the way I love him.I do think about running too but it's difficult
lol a mommy's boy is such bad sign
Posted by ufo
are you sure it's his mom?
M starting to have doubts,or maybe he just uses mom as an excuse,and he probably is cheating on me or he wants to dump me but is scared to tell me
There’s probably a veryyyy good reason as to why he hasn’t introduced you yet, maybe his Mom is crazy?!? Maybe she ruins his relationships so he doesn’t want that to happen with you. I would say you should let him know it bothers you and see what kind of solution he has. Must be a hard spot for him between his love and his mom.
Posted by ufo
are you sure it's his mom?M starting to have doubts,or maybe he just uses mom as an excuse,and he probably is cheating on me or he wants to dump me but is scared to tell me click to expand
just observe him from afar and distance yourself click to expand
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That’s the worse advice ever lol
I saw you wrote that he is moving mountains for you or words to that effect. Is that someone else?
Posted by MoonshineLeo
There’s probably a veryyyy good reason as to why he hasn’t introduced you yet, maybe his Mom is crazy?!? Maybe she ruins his relationships so he doesn’t want that to happen with you. I would say you should let him know it bothers you and see what kind of solution he has. Must be a hard spot for him between his love and his mom.
thank you
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Is it that obvious?