Is it a Pisces thing to feel sorry for ourselves?

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I’m in a situation here where I’m not sure if I’m over reacting but two of my best friends have decided to go partying with one of the girls my ex cheated on me with, at first one of my best friends didn’t know about it so I told her it was okay but I was going to drop out in coming to her birthday and would do something with her seperately because I didn’t mind her being friends with the girl.. then she took it way over board and told her I was over reacting from the whole situation and I was selfish to miss her birthday. So we fell out and I just cut all contact with her after that because she said some hurtful things, then my other bestfriend messaged me saying she’s still going to go because she doesn’t want to pick sides and be involved, so I cut her off too. But I can’t help but think I’m over reacting I just wouldn’t ever do that to them especially knowing everything I have been through with my ex and the heartbreak and trauma he put me through with all these girls, for them to go and party with this girl is just a big deal to me I don’t know someone give me an outsiders perspective
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Their loyalty is to you their friend.

Next time don’t wait to call them out for this backstabber behavior. Don’t pretend to be fine with it.
I’ve fallen out and forgiven for a lot of things with my friends but as I’m a Scorpio moon I do hold grudges and this one is just girl code I don’t think I could ever forgive and if I do it wouldn’t be a friendship again, I would have to definitely just forgive but keep them away from me still. I’m quite heartbroken as well and I hope in the long run they see what they did was wrong and put aside their stubbornness/selfishness☹️
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Posted by Klh1203
Posted by LadyNeptune
Their loyalty is to you their friend.

Next time don’t wait to call them out for this backstabber behavior. Don’t pretend to be fine with it.
I’ve fallen out and forgiven for a lot of things with my friends but as I’m a Scorpio moon I do hold grudges and this one is just girl code I don’t think I could ever forgive and if I do it wouldn’t be a friendship again, I would have to definitely just forgive but keep them away from me still. I’m quite heartbroken as well and I hope in the long run they see what they did was wrong and put aside their stubbornness/selfishness☹️
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you are at that ripe age where close friends reveal their true colors

i lost all of my "best friends" at 25.



they really weren't that great

we just laughed a lot together in the beginning especially

but at the end of the day had those bitches no moral code seriously
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@Klh1203
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Klh1203
Posted by LadyNeptune
Their loyalty is to you their friend.

Next time don’t wait to call them out for this backstabber behavior. Don’t pretend to be fine with it.
I’ve fallen out and forgiven for a lot of things with my friends but as I’m a Scorpio moon I do hold grudges and this one is just girl code I don’t think I could ever forgive and if I do it wouldn’t be a friendship again, I would have to definitely just forgive but keep them away from me still. I’m quite heartbroken as well and I hope in the long run they see what they did was wrong and put aside their stubbornness/selfishness☹️
you are at that ripe age where close friends reveal their true colors

i lost all of my "best friends" at 25.



they really weren't that great

we just laughed a lot together in the beginning especially

but at the end of the day had those bitches no moral code seriously
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Yes, I’m about to be 25 in March.

Does this mean I’ll ever gain a good group of friends ever in the future? Or is that what adulthood is about, not having any friends lol🤦🏾‍♀️