I am a Taurus woman, dating a Pisces man for about 6 months now. He made it official about a month ago. Backstory: he’s military, injured, depressed, and has ptsd. He’s a sweetheart. I trust him. I love him. Now recently he had a breakdown to me, telling me all his emotions. We y’all everyday, and I sleepover every weekend. He told me that he’s mine and I’m his. Last weekend he was telling his friends about me. But, later on in the day, he got into a mood swing where all he wanted to do was sleep. I woke him up, as when he does that, he tends to sleep for 12 hrs, due to his medications for his injuries, and depression. Which I get, but I see him 3 days out the week, so I woke him up after a few hours to spend some time with me. He just got into a mood, where he just didn’t speak like he didn’t want to be bothered. We’ve been through this before, so I know he needs to recharge. So I wouldn’t think anything of it. He texted me a few hours ago, saying “I have something I want to show you, but can you come over sun bc I want to be alone on sat” (mind you, I don’t see him tues-fri already) again, he has his moods so I get it. My thing is, all today, he’s been liking ig and fb posts saying, “all girls do is cheat” “I want to commit to her, but she has other dudes” “women talk about failed relationships, maybe she was the problem” “when girls say your the only guy they talk to, don’t be so quick to believe it” “if I’m acting different, it’s bc We fucked, I didn’t like it, stop hitting my line” now, none of that applies to me. But that being said, who would that be applying to? I’m torn between, is he just liking posts, is he agreeing with these posts? Is he seeing another female who is giving him these thoughts? (Backstory: he broke down to me about his depression about a week and a half ago, where we both ended up balling our eyes out, he said he was planning on introducing me to his friends,) but this past week he’s been acting distant. He had a drs aptmt Tuesday, since then he changes the subject when I ask, he texts me once every 1-3,4 hrs. I love him and trust him, but I don’t control what he does when I’m not around. Again, usually I understand that he wants to recharge, but those posts have me questioning, are you seeing someone else? Are you telling me to come sun, bc your seeing someone sat? Is it like he says and it’s just his medication acting up? Or does he need to recharge? (Side note: I plan on asking him when I see him sun, but I just want an idea of what I’d be walking into. Also the reason this hasn’t already been addressed is bc his actions are so carefree. For ex. He just told me he left a 3 yr relationship to his then fiancé, just like that, bc he lost a family member and had got injured due to the military. I’m afraid that if I address too much too fast, he will walk out of my life like he did his ex. Difference being that, when they were together, he was completely healthy, and had his family member, and when we met a year later, he was still going through and is still going through it. He says he wish he’d met me before he got injured, but again, that would be during the time he was engaged. I don’t know or care what other things took place during their relationship as that has nothing to do with me. I just want to know, if anyone has advice to whether he’s cheating, recharging, and if it’s logical for me to stay) by the way, he took my virginity, he’s my first healthy relationship, as in he takes care of all my needs, etc. I love him but I feel like he’s still fighting his demons and falling in love me bc of those demons
