Need to learn lots...

Can someone give me a proper insight on how to deal with him in general and also at present when he is in a very sad and upset state of mind coz of his mother? What, from my side, would make him feel good? I just want to soothe him in the best possible way!!!

Sorry for this long post and TMI. But I guess it is good to know it all for anyone to comment!

So much words...

And all u wanted was rough passionate wild sex..

Can't help u there...

It's against my policy to sleep with married women !

greengemini... thanks for not judging! Well I do not need to "rekindle" the fire in my marriage, coz it's already there!!!!! And no marriage disturbances responsible for all this that happened with the either of us. I know it sounds so immoral, but it just happened, unexplained and unintentional! We just feel the cosmic connection somehow. As weird as it may sound, it's just a bunch of good wishes, good vibes and support we keep passing to each other once in a while.

Interesting... know of Taurus and Pisces being a very good match... but with you here, having a husband and a potential lover, both pisces, not sure what I can advise... except, follow you heart and your conscience...and really I can not understand if oyu are "very much in love with your pisces husband"...what is the ? unless you need more validation/love that you might not be getting from your husband

Posted by 88NPPISCES

Posted by Spectre

So much words...

And all u wanted was rough passionate wild sex..

Can't help u there...

It's against my policy to sleep with married women !

lol, what kind of advice was that Spectre?.

you earned some points with 88 for respecting married women!! 🙂

your avi is scary tho, so if you want some more points that has to go.. lmao

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Hmmm u ask me this question when u know the truth...

Weird..

I must investigate u mermaids...

Of course !

Everything about me is so super..

Super bad..super evil...super clever...super creepy...super troll..super handsome.. etc..etc.

U hv my permission 2 call me superman !

Posted by iadorepisceans

I am married to a piscean and much in love.

You are in here talking about your feelings for a man who isn't your husband, to whom you quoted above as being much in love.

To quote VB ..... you're an oxymoron

The thread starter is a piece of shit & I pray your husband finds out and give you a good beating..but more then likely he's a pussy because chicks usually cheat on soft dudes who they know wouldn't touch'em

A nigga like me would stomp your fucking ears together thou

Posted by 88NPPISCES

Posted by Spectre
Of course !

Everything about me is so super..

Super bad..super evil...super clever...super creepy...super troll..super handsome.. etc..etc.

U hv my permission 2 call me superman !

lol, this reminds me of this song. wanna dance? lol

I don't care !

I dance a..soulful...slow dance..

Spectre style !

Thanks, tiziani and Poisson!

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Posted by DAMEN VI
The thread starter is a piece of shit & I pray your husband finds out and give you a good beating..but more then likely he's a pussy because chicks usually cheat on soft dudes who they know wouldn't touch'em

A nigga like me would stomp your fucking ears together thou

Would you really do that though?

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yes

if im in a relationship thats NOT going good, & me and her both knows it, and she end up cheating, then thats different..because its more understandable, but if im thinking everything is going good, and she's not giving me any signs that its a problem in our MARRIAGE, yet she still goes out and cheat?, then that's not understandable, which would cause major confusion & anger, and will lead to violence..

this situation is the same as walking in your house and catching your wife in bed with another man imo

(disclaimer: Merc Rx in Pisces has already begun to F me. This was written in the most illogical sequence, and very well may not make sense altogether, even if parts of it do. Apologies! Also - not attacking anyone, speaking in more of a humanitarian, existential way. I'm not looking to make anyone feel bad or inflamed haha).

What 88 said is very true - maybe a bit on the extreme end of the scenario... but true nonetheless.

People are so self involved anymore - that how things affect another person - the trust issues instilled in them alone from finding out their spouse/SO cheated, ruins them - never seems to cross the mind of the cheater. I wonder how it feels to say "I've cheated on and ruined a person". Harsh yes. What's more harsh is if the person being cheated on, DOESN'T get self righteous. They take it in stride, and still come out of it with psychological impacts. Again - extreme words chosen to illustrate the damage we willingly cause to each other as a species. This many years on the planet, and we still need to "learn" that dishonesty is bad? Demonstratively, all we as a species seem to be doing is glorifying, and teaching it.

Some cheat-ees take years to recover, if ever. The unfortunate part about it is - people, in general, don't take it bravely as a lesson, or there are many more casualties before the lesson is seen and accepted. And no they didn't necessarily deserve it. The cycle perpetuates itself because once wounded, some of these people who were wronged will then go out and be out for number 1 now, and they choose "nice" people to go and use to stroke their own ego. Eventually the weight of the world falls on those that are already strong enough to bear it, and the weak get weaker. Natural evolution seems to be missing the ending of the equation though.

That chain of events right there is sickening to me. Why anyone would feel justified in sneaking around, instead of just being an adult and accountable for their decisions, actions and feelings? What does the cheated on person have to be mature, but the cheater doesn't? Life's not fair? I know. haha

With that being said. We aren't all born knowing the answers. This I know. It is part of what makes the world go round. But the world is getting uglier by the day (few very strong of mind, many very weak of mind).... so one might muse that it's time to make some changes, especially when people seeking reassurance of their weak mindedness are flat out told the repercussions of their actions, and inappropriateness of them - and choose to ignore.

Fair enough tiziani - in my rant I failed to see the point you made about the emotional abuse. Well taken, and a good point.

And yes - taking all the blame on themselves is that "psychological impact" I was mentioning. Very far reaching implications to this sort of thing, or anything involving other human beings.