Pisces Mercury Ignoring Me.. WTF? (Page 2)

Posted by MiZLeo
I just made a new friend who is a mercury pisces. I was a little worried about how we would communicate but he is a great communicator. We texted pretty much 24/7 unless he's with his son or we are sleeping or if we are hanging out in person. In person I can't get him to shut up. lol. He is also a major Aqua. Aqua sun, moon, Venus, and Mars. I call him my soul mate cause we are like 2 peas in a pod. We aren't in a relationship tho. Just friends....but he wants out of the friend zone.

That could very well be the Aqua. I've got a whole bunch of Aqua and I'm super verbal. Then again, I don't know everything.

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Posted by hydorah
what's his sun sign fam?

Aries

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then you should post this in the aries board, friendo

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Next time hook up with an Aries Mercury. Problem solved.

I was just getting ready to say that lol - I was married to a Pisces Sun - not sure wtf else he was but he was a mess - he somehow (stupidity?) collected like $ 13,000 in disability while working a good job full time - I tried to tell him he couldn't do that - but he didn't listen and years later when they finally caught up to him and billed him he just looked like he was such an innocent victim blah blah "I just don't understand" ... wtf - I just couldn't do anything with him - sometimes there was a large hole in his head where his brain should have been ...

signed - Aries in Mercury lol - just ask, I will tell you how it is without holding back lololol !!!

Right. You cannot do that. What did he expect? Crazy dreamy Pisces.

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no sh it - makes absolutely no sense to me and with my Capricorn/Taurus stability focus you know I had a few choice words for him LOL! Just one of the many reasons we are no longer married ...

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Next time hook up with an Aries Mercury. Problem solved.

I was just getting ready to say that lol - I was married to a Pisces Sun - not sure wtf else he was but he was a mess - he somehow (stupidity?) collected like $ 13,000 in disability while working a good job full time - I tried to tell him he couldn't do that - but he didn't listen and years later when they finally caught up to him and billed him he just looked like he was such an innocent victim blah blah "I just don't understand" ... wtf - I just couldn't do anything with him - sometimes there was a large hole in his head where his brain should have been ...

signed - Aries in Mercury lol - just ask, I will tell you how it is without holding back lololol !!!

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They say we're way too rude for most people's liking. But how can that be when we're always going to be 100% honest with you? You'll always know where we stand. Honesty is the best policy, rite?

I was just getting ready to say that lol - I was married to a Pisces Sun - not sure wtf else he was but he was a mess - he somehow (stupidity?) collected like $ 13,000 in disability while working a good job full time - I tried to tell him he couldn't do that - but he didn't listen and years later when they finally caught up to him and billed him he just looked like he was such an innocent victim blah blah "I just don't understand" ... wtf - I just couldn't do anything with him - sometimes there was a large hole in his head where his brain should have been ...

signed - Aries in Mercury lol - just ask, I will tell you how it is without holding back lololol !!!



They say we're way too rude for most people's liking. But how can that be when we're always going to be 100% honest with you? You'll always know where we stand. Honesty is the best policy, rite?



OMG that is so true - they do think we are rude and I have trouble with that - I don't get it - is it the way that we say it or what we say ? I HATE beating around the bush - I go right through it LOLOL - it's like they can't take it - what is that ? I say how it is and then no body says a word, they just look at me like "how could you have possibly just said that" ... I guess it is true that the truth hurts. My Taurus and Capricorn add much fuel to the Aries fire so to speak cause T and C are always on the truth wagon!

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OMG that is so true - they do think we are rude and I have trouble with that - I don't get it - is it the way that we say it or what we say ? I HATE beating around the bush - I go right through it LOLOL - it's like they can't take it - what is that ? I say how it is and then no body says a word, they just look at me like "how could you have possibly just said that" ... I guess it is true that the truth hurts. My Taurus and Capricorn add much fuel to the Aries fire so to speak cause T and C are always on the truth wagon!

Probably both. What we say and the way we say it. Too many people are poossies nowadays, too worried about what others will think if they say what they really mean. Combine that with the political correctness crap and you get what we have today.

The funny thing is we're just being honest without the phony-flavored sauce. We're not saying those things to be malicious, we're just.......honest.

By the way, have a chuckle at this one. You think you could handle this guy? *wink wink*

Sun Pisces 17.21 Ascendant Sagittarius 13.59

Moon Virgo 29.53 II Capricorn 17.41

Mercury Aries 1.45 III Aquarius 25.58

Venus Aries 21.39 IV Aries 1.49

Mars Aries 24.44 V Taurus 0.40

Jupiter Aquarius 6.26 VI Taurus 23.46

Saturn Scorpio 28.08 R VII Gemini 13.59

Uranus Sagittarius 17.53 VIII Cancer 17.41

Neptune Capricorn 3.25 IX Leo 25.58

Pluto Scorpio 4.29 R Midheaven Libra 1.49

Lilith Aries 20.23 XI Scorpio 0.40

Asc node Taurus 20.32 XII Scorpio 23.46

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Posted by hydorah
what's his sun sign fam?

Aries

then you should post this in the aries board, friendo

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I should. I guess I was more concerned with the lack of verbalization over the whole thing. Good looking out. Thanks!!

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Next time hook up with an Aries Mercury. Problem solved.

I was just getting ready to say that lol - I was married to a Pisces Sun - not sure wtf else he was but he was a mess - he somehow (stupidity?) collected like $ 13,000 in disability while working a good job full time - I tried to tell him he couldn't do that - but he didn't listen and years later when they finally caught up to him and billed him he just looked like he was such an innocent victim blah blah "I just don't understand" ... wtf - I just couldn't do anything with him - sometimes there was a large hole in his head where his brain should have been ...

signed - Aries in Mercury lol - just ask, I will tell you how it is without holding back lololol !!!

Right. You cannot do that. What did he expect? Crazy dreamy Pisces.

no sh it - makes absolutely no sense to me and with my Capricorn/Taurus stability focus you know I had a few choice words for him LOL! Just one of the many reasons we are no longer married ...

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Perhaps I should just look at it like that and let it rest. Poor communication between the two of us.. in a sense, there isn't much of a reason to pay that much attention to it. I just don't like not understanding things.

From a Capricorn's perspective (I have Cappy moon), I just can't even imagine what you were thinking. Rotfl.

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Next time hook up with an Aries Mercury. Problem solved.

I was just getting ready to say that lol - I was married to a Pisces Sun - not sure wtf else he was but he was a mess - he somehow (stupidity?) collected like $ 13,000 in disability while working a good job full time - I tried to tell him he couldn't do that - but he didn't listen and years later when they finally caught up to him and billed him he just looked like he was such an innocent victim blah blah "I just don't understand" ... wtf - I just couldn't do anything with him - sometimes there was a large hole in his head where his brain should have been ...

signed - Aries in Mercury lol - just ask, I will tell you how it is without holding back lololol !!!

They say we're way too rude for most people's liking. But how can that be when we're always going to be 100% honest with you? You'll always know where we stand. Honesty is the best policy, rite?

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I could very well see myself engaging in a lot of verbal disputes with an Aries Mercury (Aqua Merc. here), but then later cooling off and realizing that I appreciate the honesty. My Capricorn moon holds a strong desire for mannerability (I don't think that's an actual word, but..), so they'd have to say it in such a way that I approved of. I am high maintenance in all the non-physical realms. Lord help any man who tries... Rotfl.

Probably both. What we say and the way we say it. Too many people are poossies nowadays, too worried about what others will think if they say what they really mean. Combine that with the political correctness crap and you get what we have today.

The funny thing is we're just being honest without the phony-flavored sauce. We're not saying those things to be malicious, we're just.......honest.

By the way, have a chuckle at this one. You think you could handle this guy? *wink wink*

Sun Pisces 17.21 Ascendant Sagittarius 13.59

Moon Virgo 29.53 II Capricorn 17.41

Mercury Aries 1.45 III Aquarius 25.58

Venus Aries 21.39 IV Aries 1.49

Mars Aries 24.44 V Taurus 0.40

Jupiter Aquarius 6.26 VI Taurus 23.46

Saturn Scorpio 28.08 R VII Gemini 13.59

Uranus Sagittarius 17.53 VIII Cancer 17.41

Neptune Capricorn 3.25 IX Leo 25.58

Pluto Scorpio 4.29 R Midheaven Libra 1.49

Lilith Aries 20.23 XI Scorpio 0.40

Asc node Taurus 20.32 XII Scorpio 23.46



I know I don't get it. Ask me a question I'll give you my answer. Simple and job done. Why gloss it over with a bunch of superfluous crap and waste precious time ... I think I can pretty much handle anyone - I'm still learning the signs so I'm not great with that - you got a lot of Aries but Pisces Sun - how is that working for you ? My Pisces Mars has gotten me in way too much trouble ...

Perhaps I should just look at it like that and let it rest. Poor communication between the two of us.. in a sense, there isn't much of a reason to pay that much attention to it. I just don't like not understanding things.

From a Capricorn's perspective (I have Cappy moon), I just can't even imagine what you were thinking. Rotfl.

well with my Mercury in Aries, what my Capricorn is thinking comes out my mouth and yes it sometimes gets me in trouble but you can't dispute its not the truth - it's the presentation LOL!

so I would look at your situation as "you have leverage" ... I might have paid it too rather than deal with the x and all his blah blah crap - but then when he needed something I would not have forgotten about him being responsible for half of that bill I paid ...

yes I gave up not understanding things - or just understanding that that was how he was and being able to just walk away and say F It ...

Posted by tcta
Perhaps I should just look at it like that and let it rest. Poor communication between the two of us.. in a sense, there isn't much of a reason to pay that much attention to it. I just don't like not understanding things.

From a Capricorn's perspective (I have Cappy moon), I just can't even imagine what you were thinking. Rotfl.

well with my Mercury in Aries, what my Capricorn is thinking comes out my mouth and yes it sometimes gets me in trouble but you can't dispute its not the truth - it's the presentation LOL!

so I would look at your situation as "you have leverage" ... I might have paid it too rather than deal with the x and all his blah blah crap - but then when he needed something I would not have forgotten about him being responsible for half of that bill I paid ...

yes I gave up not understanding things - or just understanding that that was how he was and being able to just walk away and say F It ...

I can relate on the presentation factor, at times, too. Though, I'm a Cancer ASC, so usually that softens things at least a little. What's your Ascendant?

Walking away is my plan... though, now that you mention it.. I suppose I could use this as leverage.. more likely than not, I'd use it if I needed something (and was absolutely desperate). As of right now, I'm hoping that was the last interaction of them all. I'm starting to feel sick and tired of being sick and tired of his behavior. It's been several days and I'm still like: ... Really? ... No, "Thank you"? Really. Boy, BYE.

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I know I don't get it. Ask me a question I'll give you my answer. Simple and job done. Why gloss it over with a bunch of superfluous crap and waste precious time ... I think I can pretty much handle anyone - I'm still learning the signs so I'm not great with that - you got a lot of Aries but Pisces Sun - how is that working for you ? My Pisces Mars has gotten me in way too much trouble ...

How is it working out for me? I feel quite strange. I have the Fishy artful creativity (passion for music) but my Virgo moon and Aries influences are extremely prominent. When I'm stressed, I erect walls and shut down all emotions like a Virgo.

I'm also easily frustrated by mental incompetence, which means I tend to "speak my mind" more often than not. Stupid people irritate me beyond description. I prefer to arrange projects and tasks into bullet points & lists that can be easily worked through one item at a time. I don't like to make use of "middle men", I go straight to the source.

Just don't ask me rhetorical questions like:

- oh please, do I look stupid?

or

- does this make my ass look big?

I mean REALLY! What kind of answer do these people expect? "Yeah no, those pants don't make your fat ass look big".

I can relate on the presentation factor, at times, too. Though, I'm a Cancer ASC, so usually that softens things at least a little. What's your Ascendant?

Walking away is my plan... though, now that you mention it.. I suppose I could use this as leverage.. more likely than not, I'd use it if I needed something (and was absolutely desperate). As of right now, I'm hoping that was the last interaction of them all. I'm starting to feel sick and tired of being sick and tired of his behavior. It's been several days and I'm still like: ... Really? ... No, "Thank you"? Really. Boy, BYE.



I have Taurus rising - I try but my big mouth Aries fire takes over when I'm pizzed and then once that blows out I'm done and walk away - you can't fix stupid so I don't care to try - yes it just gets old trying to deal so why knock your own head against a brick wall ...

How is it working out for me? I feel quite strange. I have the Fishy artful creativity (passion for music) but my Virgo moon and Aries influences are extremely prominent. When I'm stressed, I erect walls and shut down all emotions like a Virgo.

I'm also easily frustrated by mental incompetence, which means I tend to "speak my mind" more often than not. Stupid people irritate me beyond description. I prefer to arrange projects and tasks into bullet points & lists that can be easily worked through one item at a time. I don't like to make use of "middle men", I go straight to the source.

Just don't ask me rhetorical questions like:

- oh please, do I look stupid?

or

- does this make my ass look big?

I mean REALLY! What kind of answer do these people expect? "Yeah no, those pants don't make your fat ass look big".



I gotcha - that is definitely the Aries fire with going off in the frustrations of mental incompetence, inefficiency and stupidity - that entire paragraph describes me - I go through the bush rather than beat around it. I've gotten better with that kind of stress management and maybe some wisdom with age but I still have the thoughts and the start of the feelings, I just am able to let it go more often than not anymore - mostly it affects me at work but I just go walk it off. Does it bother you that you are like that? I get so frustrated over these things that I can hardly even speak - that is after I blow my top LOL ... but I am doing better ...

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Ex has been minimally/non-responsive regarding the issue.. No "Thank you," nothing.. WTF? Please help explain this, Merc. Pisces people...

Simple explanation ...... the next time you ignore something that someone else takes care of, you will have your answer.



Or, you can continue to pretend as if you've never sat back to let another take care of something for you.



choice is yours .. you can be honest or a liar .. take your pick

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I gotcha - that is definitely the Aries fire with going off in the frustrations of mental incompetence, inefficiency and stupidity - that entire paragraph describes me - I go through the bush rather than beat around it. I've gotten better with that kind of stress management and maybe some wisdom with age but I still have the thoughts and the start of the feelings, I just am able to let it go more often than not anymore - mostly it affects me at work but I just go walk it off. Does it bother you that you are like that? I get so frustrated over these things that I can hardly even speak - that is after I blow my top LOL ... but I am doing better ...





No it doesn't bother me, on the other hand I find it hilarious. It makes me a funnier person in general. Combined with my Sagittarius Ascendant I get an extremely edgy sense of humor and I can make any person in the world laugh. It also keeps me from being a Piscean doormat lol. I do not suffer fools.

It's my Virgo moon that offsets that side of me and it's like there are two different people living inside me lol. It also fuels my inner critic because Virgos are harsh critics themselves. All in all it makes me immune to trolling attempts and noone can get the better of me in arguments.

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Ex has been minimally/non-responsive regarding the issue.. No "Thank you," nothing.. WTF? Please help explain this, Merc. Pisces people...

Simple explanation ...... the next time you ignore something that someone else takes care of, you will have your answer.



Or, you can continue to pretend as if you've never sat back to let another take care of something for you.



choice is yours .. you can be honest or a liar .. take your pick

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I totally see where you're coming from with this one. My job involves working with a lot of people. I try to be very reflective. "Thank you for..." is one of my most frequently used phrases. It's something I try very hard to make sure people understand: You are appreciated.

The difference between the two of us is likely that... while I may neglect to say, "Thank you" under special circumstances, it is almost always that: special circumstances... that I didn't know he/she did a favor for me. In this instance... there was open communication. He asked me how much the payment was, so he responded... but neglected to acknowledge my contribution. That, is where my frustration exists.

Did u ever get my message?

No it doesn't bother me, on the other hand I find it hilarious. It makes me a funnier person in general. Combined with my Sagittarius Ascendant I get an extremely edgy sense of humor and I can make any person in the world laugh. It also keeps me from being a Piscean doormat lol. I do not suffer fools.

It's my Virgo moon that offsets that side of me and it's like there are two different people living inside me lol. It also fuels my inner critic because Virgos are harsh critics themselves. All in all it makes me immune to trolling attempts and noone can get the better of me in arguments.



I actually envy that because I get stuck on not being able to argue effectively - definitely the Sag coming in for you - I just stop drop and roll - I feel it's a waste of my time

Posted by Lovelyx
Did u ever get my message?

There's nothing there 😢

Uh, I beg to differ (even with videos). There has go to be some COMMON COURTESY of which this world lacks. Thank you! All it takes is saying thank you for paying the IRS. Rude, Crude, Dude!

Good riddance! If he hasn't thanked you yet, he never will!!! What he is IS SPOILED, too. He's use to having others get him out of a jam....immature, too!

Again, Good riddance! OH! and it doesn't matter if he has Mercury in Pisces. I'm one; but I do not use people and I know how to say, "Sorry, thank you, and please".

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

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Did u ever get my message?

There's nothing there 😢

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I tired sending it like 3 times. Try messaging me

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Did u ever get my message?

There's nothing there 😢

I tired sending it like 3 times. Try messaging me

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Done.

Posted by EvatheDiva
Uh, I beg to differ (even with videos). There has go to be some COMMON COURTESY of which this world lacks. Thank you! All it takes is to saying thank you for paying the IRS. Rude, Crude, Dude!

Good riddance! If he hasn't thanked you yet, he never will!!! What he is SPOILED, too. He's use to having others get him out of a jam....immature, too!

Again, Good riddance! OH! and it doesn't matter if he has Mercury in Pisces. I'm one; but I do not use people and I know how to say, "Sorry, thank you, and please".

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Thanks for your perspective, Eva. I'm just like... Really!? Still. It's been a while now, but every time I think about it, it makes me mad. There's got to be a higher standard than silence when people do nice things for you and you're aware of their actions.

Good grief.

I appreciate you, Eva! 🙂

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Posted by EvatheDiva
Uh, I beg to differ (even with videos). There has go to be some COMMON COURTESY of which this world lacks. Thank you! All it takes is to saying thank you for paying the IRS. Rude, Crude, Dude!

Good riddance! If he hasn't thanked you yet, he never will!!! What he is SPOILED, too. He's use to having others get him out of a jam....immature, too!

Again, Good riddance! OH! and it doesn't matter if he has Mercury in Pisces. I'm one; but I do not use people and I know how to say, "Sorry, thank you, and please".

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Thanks for your perspective, Eva. I'm just like... Really!? Still. It's been a while now, but every time I think about it, it makes me mad. There's got to be a higher standard than silence when people do nice things for you and you're aware of their actions.

Good grief.

I appreciate you, Eva! 🙂

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Anytime, Girl. Being Piscean I also empathize and sympathize...but that's ME! 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love, Eva

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I actually envy that because I get stuck on not being able to argue effectively - definitely the Sag coming in for you - I just stop drop and roll - I feel it's a waste of my time

The Sag ascendant certainly makes things interesting, always ready with a sharp retort or a witty one-liner at the tip of my tongue lol. When I went to the doctor to get my x-ray results a few years back, he said "there's nothing to worry about, just some blockage in your large intestine"........and what's the first thing outta my mouth?

"So basically I'm full of shiit". I didn't even have to think about it lol, just came out so naturally. As if I didn't already know I'm full of shiit, now I have medical proof in case someone doesn't believe me.

As far as actual arguments go, I think it's mostly my childish Aries side that likes to have the last laugh. I love being proven right and then rubbing it into people's faces. I don't like letting people get the best of me in debates/arguments so I'm always ready to deliver a final blow to put an emphatic period at the end of the sentence.

I can usually resist that urge most of the time, but sometimes I just like to let it loose, with spectacular past results.

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I actually envy that because I get stuck on not being able to argue effectively - definitely the Sag coming in for you - I just stop drop and roll - I feel it's a waste of my time

The Sag ascendant certainly makes things interesting, always ready with a sharp retort or a witty one-liner at the tip of my tongue lol. When I went to the doctor to get my x-ray results a few years back, he said "there's nothing to worry about, just some blockage in your large intestine"........and what's the first thing outta my mouth?

"So basically I'm full of shiit". I didn't even have to think about it lol, just came out so naturally. As if I didn't already know I'm full of shiit, now I have medical proof in case someone doesn't believe me.

As far as actual arguments go, I think it's mostly my childish Aries side that likes to have the last laugh. I love being proven right and then rubbing it into people's faces. I don't like letting people get the best of me in debates/arguments so I'm always ready to deliver a final blow to put an emphatic period at the end of the sentence.

I can usually resist that urge most of the time, but sometimes I just like to let it loose, with spectacular past results.

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lol - that sounds like something I would think and say as most times my mouth can't control just saying whatever I am thinking - had a massage therapist who told me my butt muscles were tight and that I must carry a lot of stress there - "so it's true when I say things are a pain in the arse" - lol - gotta love us!

Ye, Pisces mercury here you solved the problem. Your his past, we move on and want to put all past behind us as if it never happened, you just need to to remember you sorted all this without getting in touch with him at the time before you paid it, so he probably thinks, ye so what your gone pay it then, don't tell me after the event, I would feel now your trying to make me feel like I'm inconsiderate...all over again, see a solicitor get it sent hell sort it it x

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I was once married to a Mercury in Pisces. The IRS recently notified us that we owed 1K in back-taxes. Which, I independently paid in full (mostly to avoid future conflict). My Merc. in Pisces Ex has been minimally/non-responsive regarding the issue.. No "Thank you," nothing.. WTF? Please help explain this, Merc. Pisces people...

Mercury in Pisces are really hard to communicate with. I'm dealing with two guys who have Pisces in mercury. They are very passive aggressive people. Dislike confrontation. Bad at texting. It's nerve wrecking at times. Lol

It is driving me insane. I've tried to ease-up on communicating with him since we're divorced (so, naturally). The divorce was mutual and peaceful and was agreed upon 4 years ago. The past keeps pulling me back with little things like this--some back tax notification comes in the mail, and wham--here I am again, being forced, more or less back into communicating--at---someone who isn't responsive. Thanks for your comments. Maybe all I needed to know was that this isn't just me and I'm not crazy for not understanding his silence.

IT is not that he doesnt know how to talk.trust me,he doesnt WANT to talk about it since you Solved the problem for him already,he doesnt care and acts like this never happened...

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I can see that. He did actually wind up reaching out to me a few days ago to say that he appreciated it. So, I feel better now. That's all I was looking for. Now, I can rest in peace. (::relaxes and sleeps restfully now:🙂

Posted by piscespoppy
Ye, Pisces mercury here you solved the problem. Your his past, we move on and want to put all past behind us as if it never happened, you just need to to remember you sorted all this without getting in touch with him at the time before you paid it, so he probably thinks, ye so what your gone pay it then, don't tell me after the event, I would feel now your trying to make me feel like I'm inconsiderate...all over again, see a solicitor get it sent hell sort it it x

I reached out to him before I paid it. He just responded in a way that led me to believe he wanted to avoid it altogether. He did reach out to me and thank me this week, so the pain associated with not being acknowledged for my gesture has subsided.

I feel much better.

I'm glad sweet x

Posted by piscespoppy
I'm glad sweet x

Totally a victory--for both parties.

Thank you for your input.