What would you do?

If you had three very young children (twins who are 3 yrs old and one 9 month old) and found out your spouse was cheating on you...

He's a very young father (22) and he met his wife the first semester in college. They met, got engaged within 3 months and then were pregnant 4 months after that. They are both so young and still immature IMO.

Its speculation at this point, whether his wife is cheating on him. I'm just worried for him.

They live on their own. He works during the day and she works at night 3 nights a week.

I don't know if he suspects anything. At this point I've only heard rumors and just want to be able to help him out if he chooses to leave. My feeling is he will stick it out for the children.

Posted by CanceritaBonita

Its speculation at this point .....

Gossip.

You are gossiping about shit you don't even know the truth of. This is his personal shit, and here you are spreading rumors, and attempting to make it sound like truth.

And here you have encouraged other people to form opinions on it.

My hope is that he realizes you aren't the friend you portray yourself as.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by CanceritaBonita

Its speculation at this point .....

Gossip.

You are gossiping about shit you don't even know the truth of. This is his personal shit, and here you are spreading rumors, and attempting to make it sound like truth.

And here you have encouraged other people to form opinions on it.

My hope is that he realizes you aren't the friend you portray yourself as.

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This information came from her coworker, who saw something but since I don't know her motives, it is speculation.

Yes, I am asking for other Pisces opinions since he is a Pisces.

I've read yours, move on.

My mother bear claws are coming out. Part of me wants to protect him from the hurt. But I know I can't react to rumors. I still want to beat the shit out of her though.

In the end, I don't think I'd be happy in that situation. I'm all for forgiving, but if children are in the picture when someone cheats....I don't think I'd be able to move on from that. Therefore, if I'm not happy, that would lead to my kids suffering since they'd be witness to the unhappy union, growing up. Because of that, I would leave. Also, if the spouse has cheated already, I wouldn't put it past him/her to do it again. Marriage didn't stop her, kids didn't stop her....not sure if anything would stop her from doing it again. As others have said, though, all this needs to be proven fact. And even if it is proven, I'm not sure if it's up to you to tell him the opinions given on here, unless he asks. Just, be aware. I wish him luck, though, and hope these are just rumors.

Thank you. I have no intention of telling him. I feel if it's true, it will come out on its own. I'm trying to prepare myself to help him....and keep from killing her 😢