why are pisces so rude?

they can be so nasty! sometimes i don't even say anything mean and they're all like "whatever". at first they can be really nice and sweet but then i notice they get mean.. sometimes after they're mean, they get nice and then mean again. they have all these different personalities and it gets on my nerves. for some reason i'm always attracted to them. every time i point out a guy at the mall or somewhere else and i really start to like them, i find out they're pisces. there's so many pisces i'm attracted to and i hate it because they can be so mean and hurtful. and what's up with all the staring?!

You inferred that every Pisces is rude?

Isn't that in itself rude?

I KNOW!! Maybe it's a lack of sleep and stress, now.
Lately the same has been happening to me, a certain Pisces I know has been skipping HUGE amounts of sleep and having "neck-aches" for about some days now, and has turned from a adoring Koi-fish into a hot-headed Kimodo Dragon. Calm, serene, sweet...then will QUICKLY flip into raging, controlling, throwing(bowls & plates on the floor when pissed off)...all assertive.
It will put you to that point...drugging or volently shaking them(to "wake them up") is in ALL favor, doesn't it?

BUT, then again there's 12 (or 13..plus the other twin of the Gemini😉) of them, your bound to catch the dominate-sides once in and a while. The staring is probably a day-dream or some shit, your just in the way.

Pisces aren't rude! LOL! That is the sillest thing I have ever heard...

Maybe you caught somebody having a bad day.

But then again if Pisces are rude. I get rude right back so it doesn't bother me anyway.

'Rude' is a pretty loose word, it can be applied to all sorts of actions/reactions.

The Scorpio female used to call me rude alot. After 2 month, she stopped reacting to it as rudeness, and simply started laughting. That's the point of rudeness.

We all end up at the same place in the end, so what difference does it make?

Nice . . rude . . don't give a shit one way or the other how other people see me as a Pisces . . the person I care about knowing me . . is me.

Rude and selfish . .ok, lol

''they can be so nasty! sometimes i don't even say anything mean and they're all like "whatever". at first they can be really nice and sweet but then i notice they get mean.. sometimes after they're mean, they get nice and then mean again. they have all these different personalities and it gets on my nerves. for some reason i'm always attracted to them. every time i point out a guy at the mall or somewhere else and i really start to like them, i find out they're pisces. there's so many pisces i'm attracted to and i hate it because they can be so mean and hurtful. and what's up with all the staring?!''

wow, I believe I am the one the same u have described. All I can say we do look for some perfection? And if you are not the one -- u better run a way!

And you first introduction with fish character is probably also the last one. There is no second try.

Pisces is the 12th sign right? so I heard they also contain all the 12 signs mixed in to one

Pisces is the 12th sign right? so I heard they also contain all the 12 signs mixed in to one

:-)

The pisces I've known are evil. All about control. Apparently they grow up someday. Don't get me wrong I think they can be very awesome peoples, they will give the shirt off their back but watch out if they want yours ... More for the minority

I suspect that since Pisces is a water sign and a muteable one too, a lot of their behaviour depends on other elements in their chart.

I do know a few Pisceans who are rude, but i know a few rude people in almost every sign.

I also know a few Pisceans who are very kind, patient people.

True, there are rude people of 'every' sign...

I know this is a dead thread - it has been for several years now, but after reading through some of the posts, I couldn't help but become a tad .. Offended. Not all Pisces intentionally mean to be rude .. It just happens.

As it is; Pices is the 12th sign of the Zodiac, therefore, we contain a little bit of all of the signs mixed into one - hot-headedness, sensitivity, generosity ... yes, even rudeness. Now, depending on where the placement of the moon, planets, and other celestial bodies are depends on the Pisces personality - however, the Sunsign determines the most. My sunsign is, in fact, Pisces, whilst my Moonsign is Aquarius. (I could list everything else, but that would become rather tedious to do ..) Therefore, I don't act like the 'stereotypical Pisces,' though I'm pretty damn close to one.)

It's a known fact that most people born under the Piscine Sunsign are dreamers. We like to live in the real world as compared to reality. We do this in order to escape all the woes and hardships of life .. Most often, I catch myself day-dreaming when I really shouldn't be (for example; I do this a lot at school, or when I'm being lectured by a parent.) On the other hand, I day-dream a lot at home, just lying on the couch or my bed, letting my mind wander. Sometimes even, when I'm reading a good novel, I'll get side-tracked and begin to dream ... However, when someone snaps me back into reality when I'm not ready, I become a bit .. 'touchy,' I suppose. I might snap or become hostile for no reason, even though I don't mean it. Pisces, typically, don't like to be disturbed when dreaming. However, it's inevitable, and we really must learn to get used to it.

Another reason Sun-sign Pisces may become rude is because you're growing annoying or tedious. Perhaps you're continuously repeating yourself (as parents are prone to do during lectures, etc) or attempting to be witty when it, obviously, isn't working at all. Or maybe, like some of my friends, you're jumping from one thing to the next, constantly changing directions, making the Pisces overwhelmed or confused. Pisces, though they like to multi-task on occasion, also like to stay on one task at a time. For instance; if they're reading a nice novel, and all of the sudden their friend comes along and drags them away from it, they may become a little annoyed. Then, if their friend suddenly wants to do something else right in the middle of the previous activity (and the Pisces has grown absorbed into that activity,) their frustration will increase that much more.

Pisces are also very in-tune to other's emotions. Depending on what someone feels normally determines what the Pisces will feel for a majority of the day. If you already approach your Pisces friend and you're upset in tense, they too will act that way. If you're sad, they may become a bit down. If you're elated, they'll most normally greet you with a large smile (unless they're already in a bad mood.) It also depends on your body language and the look on your face when you say or do things. If you're joking with your Pieces friend, poking fun at him/her, but you look serious, she/he may become offended, and become offensive because of it ... Poking-fun isn't that good of an idea, either. They may go along with it for a while, but if you keep it up for too long, it's likely that their feelings will become hurt, or they'll snap at you ...

All-together, Pisces are very hard to pin-down. They often have extreme mood-swings, going from one extreme to the next ... It's quite difficult to learn about them; and if you say you 'know everything about you' to a Pisces, it's likely you really don't, and he/she will take you up on that challenge, becoming defensive. They don't WANT you to know everything about them, because they like to keep a mysterious demeanor. They enjoy keeping your guessing, for it gives them a sense of fulfillment. ANother thing; they need a dominant role in their life, or else they will undo and retreat into a state of self-pity. You need to be there for them; be strong, and help them out, or it's likely they will become tense and depressed ...

Next time your Pisces friend is 'rude' towards you, ask them why they're acting the way they are. Who knows? Maybe she/he will answer you, and you'll be able to resolve his/her problem together. Actually, Pisces are very kind, and the last thing they would want is to start a confrontation. Not all Sun-sign Pisces are evil, malicious or rude ..

However, like I mentioned previously, the placement of the moon, planets and other celestial bodies determines their personality, too.

I, for example, with the Sun-sign of Pisces, and the Moon-sign of Aquarius, am a bit different from your 'stereotypical Pisces' .. Though I'm quite similar, there are many differences. For one; if someone's upset, I come off as slightly emotionless, acting hesitantly - pausing before I touch you, or possibly not answering you at all. Though that doesn't mean I'm emotionless. I simply just don't know what to do - because I really do want to help you.

Anyhow; I hope I've answered your question to the best of my abilities - and if not, tell me, and I will attempt to elaborate. c:

I hope the OP from 6 years ago comes back to follow up on this

Posted by 88pisces

Posted by BishounenNeko
Next time your Pisces friend is 'rude' towards you, ask them why they're acting the way they are. Who knows? Maybe she/he will answer you, and you'll be able to resolve his/her problem together. Actually, Pisces are very kind, and the last thing they would want is to start a confrontation. Not all Sun-sign Pisces are evil, malicious or rude ..
c:

you did a good job by the way. :-)

yep,

No one understands me.-------is why I get snapy.,, not rude. lol

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I didn't mean to revive such a dead thread ... But I just couldn't sit there and do nothing .. This was irritating me far to much for me to just ignore and move-on. Hell; I even made an account on this website JUST so I could reply to this one thread. ^^"

Thank you, though.

hahah mean... nahhh! I found it humorous.
She posted some decent thoughts on Pisces that someone else may read and glean something out of!

I think another reason Pisces can come off as rude sometimes, is because if we see a truth that needs to be seen by others - we'll point it out. A lot of people aren't capable of handling the truth. They prefer to live in their safe little world they create ignoring reality. This is why I find it odd that we are dubbed the dreamers and off in never-never land. We are capable of seeing the heart of many matters. So what if we drift in and out of reality, we see it where it counts - EVEN if people don't realize that we see it. Some are better at delivering the truth than others, and therefore some will come off as rude. And sometimes "rude" is the only way to reach certain people ignoring the truth. And to top that off, the truths we point out are probably hitting close to the core of people, so they take it extremely personally. The funny part is that fish can be so accepting of the truth we point out.

Best friend dressed as worst enemy.

hahaha the threads are never deleted for a reason, don't apologize! You felt you had something to offer, that's great, offer away!

I just like to amuse myself with my own jokes, it wasn't a slight towards you 🙂

Posted by deezie
hahah mean... nahhh! I found it humorous.
She posted some decent thoughts on Pisces that someone else may read and glean something out of!

I think another reason Pisces can come off as rude sometimes, is because if we see a truth that needs to be seen by others - we'll point it out. A lot of people aren't capable of handling the truth. They prefer to live in their safe little world they create ignoring reality. This is why I find it odd that we are dubbed the dreamers and off in never-never land. We are capable of seeing the heart of many matters. So what if we drift in and out of reality, we see it where it counts - EVEN if people don't realize that we see it. Some are better at delivering the truth than others, and therefore some will come off as rude. And sometimes "rude" is the only way to reach certain people ignoring the truth. And to top that off, the truths we point out are probably hitting close to the core of people, so they take it extremely personally. The funny part is that fish can be so accepting of the truth we point out.

Best friend dressed as worst enemy.

I couldn't agree with you more.

Posted by deezie
hahaha the threads are never deleted for a reason, don't apologize! You felt you had something to offer, that's great, offer away!

I just like to amuse myself with my own jokes, it wasn't a slight towards you 🙂

That made me smile, lol. n_n I'm glad you're not truly upset that I revived such an old thread. c:

Posted by 88pisces

Posted by a4_gemini

then again there's 12 (or 13..plus the other twin of the Gemini😉) of them, your bound to catch the dominate-sides once in and a while. The staring is probably a day-dream or some shit, your just in the way.

lmao, this makes me laugh.

my kid asks, why am I staring at her. ( Me "what, no when". lol)
her (omg mom. )

I had an interview with an agent that I wanted to work with, & I think it was a Gemini boss. OMy freaking gosh.
this guy spoke for 2 hours straight....I couldnt follow him, I started day dreaming right infront of him.
I honestly wanted to punch his face... left me so traumatized.

He wanted to hire me. & thought he should impress me.
said do you have any questions— Me " no, no you covered everything"
Hell no I didnt want him to keep talking anymore.

you are a quiet person, he said " do you process the information, then think about it. ??
I said "I sure do"

& my decision was to not work for him.. he wore me out the first day of meeting him.

that is a torture for a Pisces if you guys didnt know.

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Ahh, that's another thing - if people talk to much, or I become too bored, I'll begin to day-dream, and unintentionally stare at people. It 7th grade, a girl named Kyla pointed that out once. I was day-dreaming, and I was staring off into space. She was staring right back, before loudly announcing; "She just stares!" I was immediately snapped back into reality, my face rosy. I wasn't even aware I was doing it!

no,
honestly Pisces are pretty rude, for example when I am being rude its usually funny when youre on the other side, but when pisces are rude its just plain fuked up, for example in a conversation with my friend i was asking her if she would want to come out with us because we were going to a restaurant, and she says "no i cant i have to finish my research paper for my professor, he already emailed me." so consequently i ask her "well was he mad that you arent done with it yet?" and she says it really doesn't matter, and im like wtf you just told me your professor emailed you so you were obviously going to tell me what it was about since we are kind of really cool together too, so i text her back "well what did he say?" and she replies "it really doesnt matter, and i don't wanna hang out" you probably wont get what i mean but when it was happening it sounded so fuked up, i cant believe i used to like her, thank god not all pisces are this fuked up

Posted by KingOfAries
no,
honestly Pisces are pretty rude, for example when I am being rude its usually funny when youre on the other side, but when pisces are rude its just plain fuked up, for example in a conversation with my friend i was asking her if she would want to come out with us because we were going to a restaurant, and she says "no i cant i have to finish my research paper for my professor, he already emailed me." so consequently i ask her "well was he mad that you arent done with it yet?" and she says it really doesn't matter, and im like wtf you just told me your professor emailed you so you were obviously going to tell me what it was about since we are kind of really cool together too, so i text her back "well what did he say?" and she replies "it really doesnt matter, and i don't wanna hang out" you probably wont get what i mean but when it was happening it sounded so fuked up, i cant believe i used to like her, thank god not all pisces are this fuked up

Honestly, I have no desire to be rude to anyone. Sure, I'm rude towards my friends sometimes, however, at the same time, we both know that I'm only playing around with them, like we do on a daily basis. It's normally with insults. One of us throw out an insult, the other replies with one. Simple as that. I don't intentionally want to be brazen when I'm doing that.

Not all Pisces desire to be rude, though. Some, maybe. Others, no ..

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Haha, this Pisces guy at work can be talking to me (or anyone) in the most charming and friendly manner and then one of the underlings walks by that is--let's say--dressed inappropriately and I have seen Pisces rip them a new one for not being dressed properly and then go straight back to being charming/friendly. It's kind of a sight to be seen. First time this happened, I was in complete shock--this nice unassuming guy just ripped someone a new one? Now I just sit back watch it happen think ah well that's how this guy is, smile and go on with the day.

That's actually quite true. I do that sometimes, also. There are quite a few ... How do you say .. Sluts? At my High School .. And despite how strict the dress code is, they always find a way around it. I'll be nice, bubbly, and friendly with my friends, when one of 'them' will walk by. I lean in to my friends and whisper in their ear, something like; ''Oh my God, did you see how she was dressed? That's disgusting .." or "I can't believe she's wearing that. What a slut." before going on as if I didn't say anything ... That's because Pisces are so ehhm .. 'in tune' to people, I suppose. They're very susceptible to body language, and the way someone dresses can send our senses blazing. If they dress nicely, appropriately, and conservatively we'll think; 'oh, maybe they're not that bad!' But if they dress in skimpy clothing - i.e. short skirts, belly shirts, overly-short-shorts - we'll immediately assume the worst. And most likely, we'll be prone to express our opinions on that person to our friends or close acquaintances, before moving off the topic as if nothing out of the ordinary happened ...

hahaha seems to be a severe lack of 2nd decans in this shitshow called dxp too.... innnnteresting

your scorp moon makes you honorary 3rd decan

haha it doesn't actually (just in my own brain)... but 3rd decan are the scorp decan of pisces. So your scorp moon makes you fit in with us 🙂

annnnd thread over. 6 years. PHewwwf! Finally!!

*raises hand* I'm a first decan Pisces.. and about this "rude" thing, I say this (to all of you, not one in particular)...

Fuck you, you probably deserved it then. *famous Piscean shrug*

😛

Buncha wankers, Pisces. How can you non-Pisces stand them? :p

*shrug* I'm very emotionally strong, nothing gets me down for long, just keep swimming swimming swimming... but others' pain hurts me way more than my own personal pain, always - affects me longer too. That's probably why I can't watch the News.

And I have no problem apologizing for my wrongdoings.. if *I* hurt someone, yes I say sorry. And really mean it.

(Unless the bitch deserved it! muahahaha!)

I'm a Gold. Sweet as pie, but don't fuck with me. Or be stupid.

😢 So sorry to hear - that's so young!!

Me, a third deccan pisces here.

To the OP: I wouldn't peg pisces as being "rude". Not speaking really in defence for my fellow merpeople. It's just that term is way too "boxed" up, in my opinion. You just seem to have run into a case of sour grapes. Each and every sign has them. And it is never "RUDE". It's tolerating the BS for some time. Give it all you got, then you'd better run for cover 'coz we've studied you and you'll get it back where it most hurts. (applies only if we've been hurt by this significant person.). That is all. Way too simple in dealing with us.

That old astrology adage of fishes being "doormat"ish gets to me like no other. We fight battles, in OUR OWN WAY!

I have to read this thread in its entirety though. Apologies if I'm making remarks already done and dusted here. I'll get to this thread. Pronto. 🙂

^^^This. Made me smile, for some odd reason. 🙂😄

Posted by Sizzurp
Nemesis, you're March 18th too right?

I'm March 18th! *shows teeth*

Posted by juke
a quote comes to mind:

"...There are two kinds of angry people in this world: explosive and implosive. Explosive is the kind of individual you see screaming at the cashier for not taking their coupons. Implosive is the cashier who remains quiet day after day and finally shoots everyone in the store. You're the cashier."

pretty much any response I would give in a nutshell. I don't think we are rude intentionally but I think we just have many moments where we just don't care anymore, even when people expect us to.

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Posted by Sizzurp
Nemesis, you're March 18th too right?

I'm March 18th! *shows teeth*

Another March 18th. We should start a club. 🙂

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hahaha our leader!


No? Just me?.... ok.... lol

Posted by BishounenNeko
However, when someone snaps me back into reality when I'm not ready, I become a bit .. 'touchy,' I suppose. I might snap or become hostile for no reason, even though I don't mean it. Pisces, typically, don't like to be disturbed when dreaming.

Another reason Sun-sign Pisces may become rude is because you're growing annoying or tedious. Perhaps you're continuously repeating yourself or attempting to be witty when it, obviously, isn't working at all. Or maybe, like some of my friends, you're jumping from one thing to the next, constantly changing directions, making the Pisces overwhelmed or confused. Pisces, though they like to multi-task on occasion, also like to stay on one task at a time. For instance; if they're reading a nice novel, and all of the sudden their friend comes along and drags them away from it, they may become a little annoyed. Then, if their friend suddenly wants to do something else right in the middle of the previous activity (and the Pisces has grown absorbed into that activity,) their frustration will increase that much more.

i think you did a wonderful job in your description here...especially the first paragraph...

--Jack