WHY DO WE DO THIS ?! Am I the Only One

One thing I’ve realized about Pisces is that we tend to be so stuck within our own imaginary worlds and trying to survive without having an emotional break down that we take longer to realize when things start or end ? Like I can date someone for 4-5months a swear I feel nothing than bam one day I get jealous and it ALL hits me or I can get broken up with and it never really resonates until I see them with someone else . Why DO WE DO THIS ? Is it like a coping mechanism? I’m starting to get better with this problem but I’ve been doing it for a very long time , like almost as if my life is a movie 🤦🏽‍♀️😭I only want to believe what I want to

I have aries moon so emotional break downs don't really happen for me. Sometimes I shed a tear or two when a sad movies on.

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I have aries moon so emotional break downs don't really happen for me. Sometimes I shed a tear or two when a sad movies on.

I ain't never watched but did you cry watching the notebook?

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cried like a baby

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One thing I’ve realized about Pisces is that we tend to be so stuck within our own imaginary worlds and trying to survive without having an emotional break down that we take longer to realize when things start or end ? Like I can date someone for 4-5months a swear I feel nothing than bam one day I get jealous and it ALL hits me or I can get broken up with and it never really resonates until I see them with someone else . Why DO WE DO THIS ? Is it like a coping mechanism? I’m starting to get better with this problem but I’ve been doing it for a very long time , like almost as if my life is a movie 🤦🏽‍♀️😭I only want to believe what I want to

What is your venus? I know what you mean but I don’t feel like that very often

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One thing I’ve realized about Pisces is that we tend to be so stuck within our own imaginary worlds and trying to survive without having an emotional break down that we take longer to realize when things start or end ? Like I can date someone for 4-5months a swear I feel nothing than bam one day I get jealous and it ALL hits me or I can get broken up with and it never really resonates until I see them with someone else . Why DO WE DO THIS ? Is it like a coping mechanism? I’m starting to get better with this problem but I’ve been doing it for a very long time , like almost as if my life is a movie 🤦🏽‍♀️😭I only want to believe what I want to

I have Pisces rising and tend to forgive people very easily, or just ignore the ways they’ve wronged me.

I’m tryna figure out if that’s a Pisces rising thing or just my Sagittarius moon being optimistic and seeing the best in people.

Whatchu think? Are you ever like that?

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One thing I’ve realized about Pisces is that we tend to be so stuck within our own imaginary worlds and trying to survive without having an emotional break down that we take longer to realize when things start or end ? Like I can date someone for 4-5months a swear I feel nothing than bam one day I get jealous and it ALL hits me or I can get broken up with and it never really resonates until I see them with someone else . Why DO WE DO THIS ? Is it like a coping mechanism? I’m starting to get better with this problem but I’ve been doing it for a very long time , like almost as if my life is a movie 🤦🏽‍♀️😭I only want to believe what I want to

I have Pisces rising and tend to forgive people very easily, or just ignore the ways they’ve wronged me.

I’m tryna figure out if that’s a Pisces rising thing or just my Sagittarius moon being optimistic and seeing the best in people.

Whatchu think? Are you ever like that?

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I tend to do that easily I forgive them so I don’t over think on the pain nd fall into self depression. I think it’s a Pisces rising thing but not because we’re weak but because we don’t wanna care deeply about things that get done everyday . We understand people are stupid nd it’s not our faults for their actions so we forgive them , we won’t run back to them but we’ll deff forgive so next time we face them anything they hit us with we’ll just laugh nd walk off .

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

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Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

oh see i do this thing where i try to be an actress, kinda like the “fake it till u make it” phrase. but i’ve never thought of being the director too?? meaning u can change the other characters?? so fake everyone else too... then i can ignore. LOL idk which is better

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😂 It does sound crazy 😂

As the director you can change anything you want.

In a way is choosing what do I want to focus on and play that part. The part that will make the final cut I want.

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

i mean actually i have done this. it’s basically being emotionless so like.. something may not have turned out as u imagined but u just pretend it didn’t happen

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No, I don’t pretend it didn’t happen. I just detach myself from the emotions and play different “takes” from the same scene.

Like that I can process everything better and deal with it.

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

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Makes sense, like providing yourself an outside perspective. It's a great idea.

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

Makes sense, like providing yourself an outside perspective. It's a great idea.

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Exactly 👌 Thank’s!

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avoiding emotion to not feel too much. i feel like im too much in my emotions, and this can create false images in my head. so i get stuck in my imagination. im reading a book atm ‘psychic healing’ and this kind of mental process is unhealthy. to stay grounded u need to keep ur mind in the present, the real. but i feel like when i train myself to be like this i’m wiling out my emotion. it chases u then suddenly u have a breakdown. we have to find healthy ways to deal with it. idk what that is yet. maybe we have to allow ourselves to have our breakdowns. kinda like releasing pressure from the mind

I completely understand you because that’s what I do I hate to live in the NOW because then it’s like realizing shit is really horrible . I feel like a blessing/curse cause my imagination protects me , but some times my mind over thinks what I should be seeing

yes exactly. the imagination is great for creativity but it should be limited for that. next thing u imagine situations that don’t exist so much that they seem real, and idk about u but i get very emotionally connected to my imagination it will literally ruin my day

Something that used to help me it’s seeing everything like if it was a movie that I was in. I was the actor and director. I could detach myself but control the situation too.

Probably this doesn’t make much sense to anyone but I am sure you know what I mean 😂

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OMG , I totally resonate what you’re saying . I feel exactly what you’re saying . Sometimes I say it to myself like “ I feel like my life is a movie” what I do now , is try to clarify myself . Like I’ll be very imaginative towards a situation then I step back and think O K real life , and I try to view from a less Rosey perspective. I really wanna work on concealing my imagination for the things I wanna do creatively

I honestly feel like we ARE all one , because I do exactly the same things that we’ve discussed. I love being a Pisces

there are two different personalities within me (I assume it's the pisces thing)

one that doesn't gaf and can watch everything clinically like it's a movie

another that is extremely movable and can get energized or broken by strong emotions

the two are equally legit and it's generally a matter of establishing treaties and borders between the two kingdoms

there is a third part of you that you need to grow, the one that decides which one will live and which one will die in every situation

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One thing I’ve realized about Pisces is that we tend to be so stuck within our own imaginary worlds and trying to survive without having an emotional break down that we take longer to realize when things start or end ? Like I can date someone for 4-5months a swear I feel nothing than bam one day I get jealous and it ALL hits me or I can get broken up with and it never really resonates until I see them with someone else . Why DO WE DO THIS ? Is it like a coping mechanism? I’m starting to get better with this problem but I’ve been doing it for a very long time , like almost as if my life is a movie 🤦🏽‍♀️😭I only want to believe what I want to

I have a Pisces cousin and I cannot stand her exaggerated emotions based off her imagination. She seems to forget that she imagined and exaggerated things so she acts on them as if they were real situations for her. She lines herself up in situations she knows have no way of turning out how she wants it to then turns around and treats ppl like they victimized her in some way playing dumb to the choices that her grown behind made. I say all this to say to say don't be a her okay she is that grown 30 plus y/o Pisces that never seemed to recognize about herself what you are recognizing about yourself.

Sorry if I came off hard but this reminded me of her way of thinking and I legit can't stand her because of it shit a lot of ppl can't.

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I tend to do that easily I forgive them so I don’t over think on the pain nd fall into self depression. I think it’s a Pisces rising thing but not because we’re weak but because we don’t wanna care deeply about things that get done everyday . We understand people are stupid nd it’s not our faults for their actions so we forgive them , we won’t run back to them but we’ll deff forgive so next time we face them anything they hit us with we’ll just laugh nd walk off .

Oh lord, I don’t even cut people out if they wrong me. I just keep giving chances. That is, if they don’t assisinate my character. People who assassinate my character definitely get cut out. I’m like bye biiiiitch

I do this. It usually takes me a particularly long time to move on from something. Like, I either avoid my emotions or lie to myself about the situation and do anything I can to pretend like whatever happened didn't really happen.