FiercestFire
@FiercestFire
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Aries female/Leo male: HELP! I am LOSING IT! Questions for Leo males or ANYONE with experience!
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Stay the course and keep your cool.
Posted by TheLibraMudraThanks! 🙂 I appreciate that! I spent the better part of my day writing it, so I'm glad SOMEONE enjoyed it! Lol. I do wonder that too. Like if we met outside of our circumstances would it have been different...?! Probably. He has sweet moments with me when his guard is down, but he catches it and I can almost physically SEE him throw it back up! I think that's why he's so mean all the time.. Guarding himself. 😢 Because I know he likes me.. At least the way we are for sure..! I just can't believe in all the years I was with my husband I didn't notice him. Ever! Since I was 17! But maybe that's because he was pretty wild and all over the place back then. He's a grown man now. VERY grown! Hahaha
lol I liked reading this.
You'll be the one to call it quits. That'll get old fast. A bit strange he's not on it like white on rice. I think the guilt is a big factor. They have big hearts.
I've no advice but love the way you write 😛
Just enjoy the sexy fun while it lasts
🙂
Just enjoy the sexy fun while it lasts
🙂
Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
Posted by MyStarsShineHaha! 😉 Will do!
I've no advice but love the way you write 😛
Just enjoy the sexy fun while it lasts
🙂
Posted by FiercestFire🙂Posted by MyStarsShineHaha! 😉 Will do!
I've no advice but love the way you write 😛
Just enjoy the sexy fun while it lasts
🙂click to expand
Was your Scorp ex the Leo's roommate ?
Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.click to expand
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
First looooong post ive ever read on dxp lol! That says something. I think you should stop fucking this guy a put pen to paper when you start to get horny now THAT would be some read!
Anyway, to the point. Is it unhealthy? It very much could end up unhealthy and you already seem to be showing traits of possibly feeling attached. Yes lustful relationships can feel better, but its usually a short term fix for a deep seeded possibly long term (maybe your marriage) problem. That was a pretty long marriage and i'm assuming you married young too-get it out your system. Fuck away. Dont get attached because YOU KNOW he doesnt want anything else. And yes, continue to see other guys if/when you are ready for commitment. This guy is only offering you sex. Its shallow, but if its all thats missing form your life right now go for it!
Anyway, to the point. Is it unhealthy? It very much could end up unhealthy and you already seem to be showing traits of possibly feeling attached. Yes lustful relationships can feel better, but its usually a short term fix for a deep seeded possibly long term (maybe your marriage) problem. That was a pretty long marriage and i'm assuming you married young too-get it out your system. Fuck away. Dont get attached because YOU KNOW he doesnt want anything else. And yes, continue to see other guys if/when you are ready for commitment. This guy is only offering you sex. Its shallow, but if its all thats missing form your life right now go for it!
I see only sex here and very little attention from the Leo man. Usually women engaged in fwb catch feelings first. Beware. It will end when the Leo wants, because he is in control. He stated clearly you were being used only for sex, also he was unresponsive when you tried to suggest exclusivity.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingOh shut up please!
OMG, I couldn't read all this. It's very easy for Aries woman to get a Leo man, you made a mistake by sleeping with him without a relationship. At age 34 you have to understand this! Get yourself a new Leo and follow the rules!
Posted by MyStarsShineThe Leo is who my yes, Scorpio ex moved in with for a bit when we first split.. He got my ex husband a job making great money and so they were working together already. That's why it was him he moved in with when he needed a place to go. So the Leo was around my kids and everything.. I'm sure my ex talked about me.. And being that I was the one who ended the marriage I'm SURE my ex did not bad mouth me. He was desperately trying to come back home at that time. So I'm pretty sure he made me look good. LolPosted by FiercestFire🙂Posted by MyStarsShineHaha! 😉 Will do!
I've no advice but love the way you write 😛
Just enjoy the sexy fun while it lasts
🙂
Was your Scorp ex the Leo's roommate ?click to expand
oh man someone caught the LEOve bug! hehe but i enjoyed reading this too haha
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...
Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.click to expand
Ok! Why is this frigginh man wouldn't want her if sex is so awesome and everything else is great—
WHY—
WHY—
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingThanks for the advice, but by not reading it (I did post a warning right?! MmKay) you missed the point. I don't want a relationship with the guy. I WANT the sex. ONLY the sex. Until I don't anymore. I'm an ARIES. Duh! 😛 So the "rules" your talking about are null and void. At 34 your right.. I do understand. But I'm not playing the "good goat" right now! So there ARE no rules. Just questions! 🙂
OMG, I couldn't read all this. It's very easy for Aries woman to get a Leo man, you made a mistake by sleeping with him without a relationship. At age 34 you have to understand this! Get yourself a new Leo and follow the rules!
Posted by FiercestFireThen it's already doomedPosted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimRight?! I should write! The next 50 shades! Haha! Awesome advice! Thank you! I go back and forth wanting and not wanting a relationship. I think I want commitment and then I don't. But I ALWAYS want sex. And exclusively from HIM at this point! I just want it when I want it too! Not just him. I'm totally good with just that.. when I think of him it's never in a cute "boyfriend" way. Oh no! I could write NOVELS of the things I think about after we are together! Wow! Which is actually a FANTASTIC idea. You are so awesome! Thanks again!! 🙂
First looooong post ive ever read on dxp lol! That says something. I think you should stop fucking this guy a put pen to paper when you start to get horny now THAT would be some read!
Anyway, to the point. Is it unhealthy? It very much could end up unhealthy and you already seem to be showing traits of possibly feeling attached. Yes lustful relationships can feel better, but its usually a short term fix for a deep seeded possibly long term (maybe your marriage) problem. That was a pretty long marriage and i'm assuming you married young too-get it out your system. Fuck away. Dont get attached because YOU KNOW he doesnt want anything else. And yes, continue to see other guys if/when you are ready for commitment. This guy is only offering you sex. Its shallow, but if its all thats missing form your life right now go for it!
Posted by compyIt is only sex.. But why does HE act so funny about it?! And I understand the fwb thing for most woman. But as I stated, Im never really happy when the "relationship" starts. I LIKE the lust we share!
I see only sex here and very little attention from the Leo man. Usually women engaged in fwb catch feelings first. Beware. It will end when the Leo wants, because he is in control. He stated clearly you were being used only for sex, also he was unresponsive when you tried to suggest exclusivity.
And whoa whoa whoa! Double standards! Lol. We are EQUALLY using each other for sex! He's using me cause I'm the girl?! Not fair.
He claims he's too busy with work and his daughter for ANY relationship right now. Not just with me persay. I asked for exclusivity to "pull the condom off" so to speak. Not to put a ring on it!
Posted by MoonshineLeoIt is a very interesting and strange situation! And I could find answers, NO WHERE! That's why I posted this book! Lol. Thanks for the advice! 🙂
oh man someone caught the LEOve bug! hehe but i enjoyed reading this too haha
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...
Posted by FiercestFireSo it isn't love?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
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Posted by FiercestFirePosted by MoonshineLeoIt is a very interesting and strange situation! And I could not find answers, ANYWHERE! That's why I posted this book! Lol. Thanks for the advice! 🙂
oh man someone caught the LEOve bug! hehe but i enjoyed reading this too haha
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoMore like bro code violation. He will come around eventually but the real question is.......does this Aries have the patience
oh man someone caught the LEOve bug! hehe but i enjoyed reading this too haha
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...
Posted by GemitatiNo! No love!! It's "Omg, can't stop thinking about those hands, That mouth!, you turn me out, please don't ever go away, I need it, eyes rolling back, dry mouth, leg cramps, yes pleeease, touch me THERE, I'll do what you want, body shaking, convulsion" type of LUST!! But no, definitely not vanilla walk through the park, picnic type stuff. Nope. Never. Lol I love sex. And that LEO has turned me OUT at 34! HahahaPosted by FiercestFireSo it isn't love?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
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Posted by SsupermanBro codes. Humph... When I was done with my ex, I was done! My sister could have him for all I care! Lol.. We'll see though! And if I don't.. it sure was fun while it lasted! I just wanted to know if how I feel and what we're doing is OK! For now.. but it probably wouldn't stop me anyway! 🙂Posted by MoonshineLeoMore like bro code violation. He will come around eventually but the real question is.......does this Aries have the patience
oh man someone caught the LEOve bug! hehe but i enjoyed reading this too haha
I agree with libramurda, he feels guilty for what he is doing behind your ex and it doesn't seem like he is going to change his mind (fixed sign). I think you should enjoy this while it lasts, who knows where it could lead to? very interesting situation...click to expand
Posted by infiresThanks! 🙂
Do what you feel like doing in all honesty
a thing about leos and ? signs is general is all about risk taking. So what if I dating my ex friend's fwb. Makes me sound like a bad person? Sure. But she was more of an acquaintance fucking ten diff guys..who also really bad-mouthed by bff.
LEOs once you have their loyalty and their love, anything is possible..even this possibility
Posted by FiercestFireHappened to me at 42 but grew into love.Posted by GemitatiNo! No love!! It's "Omg, can't stop thinking about those hands, That mouth!, you turn me out, please don't ever go away, I need it, eyes rolling back, dry mouth, leg cramps, yes pleeease, touch me THERE, I'll do what you want, body shaking, convulsion" type of LUST!! But no, definitely not vanilla walk through the park, picnic type stuff. Nope. Never. Lol I love sex. And that LEO has turned me OUT at 34! HahahaPosted by FiercestFireSo it isn't love?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
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Be careful! ?
Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
click to expand
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..
Posted by eighty_8Omg! I know! 😢 Good LORD what some good D can do to you! I never knew before now I guess! Hahaha "I'm sprung!" Lol
He got you whipped. Lol.
Posted by GemitatiIf we were serious. He would be raising his FRIENDS kids. Just sounds weird!Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..click to expand
Posted by FiercestFireI am aware you were talking only about exclusivity between sheets. Enjoy it, since this is what you want, when HE wants it, though 🙂Posted by compyIt is only sex.. But why does HE act so funny about it?! And I understand the fwb thing for most woman. But as I stated, Im never really happy when the "relationship" starts. I LIKE the lust we share!
I see only sex here and very little attention from the Leo man. Usually women engaged in fwb catch feelings first. Beware. It will end when the Leo wants, because he is in control. He stated clearly you were being used only for sex, also he was unresponsive when you tried to suggest exclusivity.
And whoa whoa whoa! Double standards! Lol. We are EQUALLY using each other for sex! He's using me cause I'm the girl?! Not fair.
He claims he's too busy with work and his daughter for ANY relationship right now. Not just with me persay. I asked for exclusivity to "pull the condom off" so to speak. Not to put a ring on it!click to expand
Posted by eighty_8Dickmatized
He got you whipped. Lol.
Posted by FiercestFireAre they still friends?Posted by GemitatiIf we were serious. He would be raising his FRIENDS kids. Just sounds weird!Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..click to expand
My question stands. How come man has sex that is so fascinating and doesn't want the woman?
What's wrong—
He's sleeping with his roommate, co-worker's, ex wife whom his roomate shared all the pains and longing of his desire to save the marriage and his love.... yes, serious guilt. He sees your ex more than he sees you.
So unfortunate. You've got to feel a little bit sorry for the Leo.
It takes big balls to move forward with you. He can and men do. He has to resist as much as possible, then he would have to come to terms. The reason he can is because, as you stated, and I believe, your ex has been saying wonderful things about you inadvertently to this Leo. Secondly, you're "fresh meat" for being married so long and so young.
I believe that just as you move on, he will come around, and it will be too late. You will have found another.
So enjoy it, and when you feel fustrated, try to empathize with his situation. Empathy will calm you...
Do not try to solve this problem. It is his.
So unfortunate. You've got to feel a little bit sorry for the Leo.
It takes big balls to move forward with you. He can and men do. He has to resist as much as possible, then he would have to come to terms. The reason he can is because, as you stated, and I believe, your ex has been saying wonderful things about you inadvertently to this Leo. Secondly, you're "fresh meat" for being married so long and so young.
I believe that just as you move on, he will come around, and it will be too late. You will have found another.
So enjoy it, and when you feel fustrated, try to empathize with his situation. Empathy will calm you...
Do not try to solve this problem. It is his.
Posted by SsupermanThis Leo man is about to be engaged to an Aries woman. I'd value his advice if I were you, OP. ☺️
Stay the course and keep your cool.
Posted by compyWell, to MY defense, I wanted it last night (point of the sexy pics) and GOT IT! 😉 He wanted it last week and DIDN'T! So how do you like them apples! Lol.. 😛Posted by FiercestFireI am aware you were talking only about exclusivity between sheets. Enjoy it, since this is what you want, when HE wants it, though 🙂Posted by compyIt is only sex.. But why does HE act so funny about it?! And I understand the fwb thing for most woman. But as I stated, Im never really happy when the "relationship" starts. I LIKE the lust we share!
I see only sex here and very little attention from the Leo man. Usually women engaged in fwb catch feelings first. Beware. It will end when the Leo wants, because he is in control. He stated clearly you were being used only for sex, also he was unresponsive when you tried to suggest exclusivity.
And whoa whoa whoa! Double standards! Lol. We are EQUALLY using each other for sex! He's using me cause I'm the girl?! Not fair.
He claims he's too busy with work and his daughter for ANY relationship right now. Not just with me persay. I asked for exclusivity to "pull the condom off" so to speak. Not to put a ring on it!
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Posted by SsupermanHahaha! I love it! 🙂Posted by eighty_8Dickmatized
He got you whipped. Lol.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiNo, my ex moved out on BAD terms so they are not talking right now. However, we grew up together, in the same area, know the same people and him and my ex share the same circle of friends. Besides him not wanting to "invest" in a relationship, I'm sure that's another BIG reason.. I KNOW he is just as entrapped over the sex as I am! It's obvious! Especially in the beginning when we'd keep stopping and he'd throw his clothes back on over guilt just to get undressed again a second later! For hours we'd go through that! So glad THAT part is OVER. I would tell him he was CRAZY! Now he's more loose, let's stressed and open. He's FINALLY getting comfortable with US. It seems almost guilt free now.. Perfect! Lol..Posted by FiercestFireAre they still friends?Posted by GemitatiIf we were serious. He would be raising his FRIENDS kids. Just sounds weird!Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..
My question stands. How come man has sex that is so fascinating and doesn't want the woman?
What's wrong—
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The first time in HIS house he asked me "isn't it so much better now? here? where we can be ourselves and be comfortable??" I was fine in my house, but I guess he really wasn't! Even my husbands nickname on my chest he doesn't try to cover up anymore! Haha.. Baby steps! Lol
Posted by VenusAquariusThank you! Great insight! As I stated to Gemitati, he IS finally starting to show less guilt since we started going to his place. I wish I had your insight back then when I would get SO FRUSTRATED with him! I would say "What's done is done! We've already started now!" But he would continue to go back and forth. Just telling me "I'm sorry baby, I'm so sorry. I don't know what's wrong with me!" 😢 Poor guy.. I didn't care! So I figured why should he?! But your right about everything you said! I didn't look at it that way! Thanks! He's SO much better now though.. I'm glad. Because I REALLY like US. But I would have tired of that mess quick! It actually got better shortly after I sent him a quote that said
He's sleeping with his roommate, co-worker's, ex wife whom his roomate shared all the pains and longing of his desire to save the marriage and his love.... yes, serious guilt. He sees your ex more than he sees you.
So unfortunate. You've got to feel a little bit sorry for the Leo.
It takes big balls to move forward with you. He can and men do. He has to resist as much as possible, then he would have to come to terms. The reason he can is because, as you stated, and I believe, your ex has been saying wonderful things about you inadvertently to this Leo. Secondly, you're "fresh meat" for being married so long and so young.
I believe that just as you move on, he will come around, and it will be too late. You will have found another.
So enjoy it, and when you feel fustrated, try to empathize with his situation. Empathy will calm you...
Do not try to solve this problem. It is his.
LEO
Best at keeping your secrets: Aries
😉 Maybe THAT did the trick! Lol
Posted by LillyPetalLol..Posted by SsupermanThis Leo man is about to be engaged to an Aries woman. I'd value his advice if I were you, OP. ☺️
Stay the course and keep your cool.click to expand
Posted by youngaliLol.. the vagina wants what the vagina wants... 😛
THIS is EXACTLY why i don't trust a muthafucker... ?
To answer your questions:
"First, why act so guilt stricken when we both know we are FANTASTIC together?! I don't care who we know or whether or not we should be doing what we are! So why should he??! Is it guy code or something?! Because my ex and I are over...! DONE!"
Leos have a strong sense of loyalty to our friends. Sounds like his lust has taken over, but he's thoroughly aware of the situation and isn't proud about it. He's fighting his own moral code. It's one of the reasons he's keeping you at bay.
"Secondly, he hardly ever responds to my texts. He will eventually contact me, but it is RARE for him to respond back when I 'NEED' him.. (he claimed he would stop doing that, so we'll see!) But why?! Could his guilt have something to do with it?! Because he still calls.. Eventually! It just drives me INSANE when he does not answer MY pleas for his attention!"
Leos tend to be both busy people and not fans of texting. Leos guard our hearts adamantly. You've already stated numerous times that you're not in love with him and don't want a relationship. He is probably aware of this too and is keeping you at arm's length. A simple sexual relationship with you suits him just fine it seems.
Leo men however are looking for a queen, someone we can truly invest our time into fully. Since it sounds like you're only interested in sex (or at least that's the only thing you're allowing yourself to admit), he's taking his time with you.
"Third, (I'll get to my last question in a sec)
Why is he so hot and cold?!
When we are in the bed he'll go between harsh and bossy, to sensual and SO romantic. He's yanking my hair to the side one second and softly kissing my face the next and I LOVE IT!!! While we're in the act that is.. Outside of that it drives me CRAZY! One second he's making me laugh and gently kissing me and the next hes 'matter of fact,' so mean and bossy! I find myself constantly telling him to "stop being mean to me" (playfully of course) but it's like he THRIVES on that!"
He can't fully trust you with anything other than the physical relationship. Again as you've stated, you just want sex. He's going to run hot and cold because emotionally he must remain detached from you. Leos stop running hot and cold when you gain our trust.
To gain our trust, you must show your loyalty. This Leo guys is well aware that you moved on from your ex to him. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering how easy is it for you to move on from people when you become "bored".
"Anyways, so here's the LAST questions within the question!
How long can this go on??! Really. How long??!"
Well it will go on either until he finds someone he can fully trust with his heart, you get bored of the sex, or you stop lying to yourself and admit you have feelings for him. A woman who can't admit her own feelings is such a turn off (it looks like weakness to a Leo man). Fortunately you seem to have his attention with your physical relationship for the time being.
"But should I stop??
Is it unhealthy??
And if it's OK to let things play out:
Should I stop seeing other people in the meantime?? I am not sleeping with the other guys.. Just dates.. See where things go... Maybe find someone I want MORE??! Idk.."
That all depends on what you want. Sounds like you are unsure of your intentions and we Leos like decisiveness. If you want just sex, then there's no reason to question anything. Just enjoy it while it lasts. It's only unhealthy if you want something more and are repressing your real intent.
Sounds like you have an open relationship, so there's no point in not seeing other guys. The problem though is, if you know you're only going to be thinking about the Leo the whole time, then there's no point in dating anyone else. Why waste anyone else's time when you're clearly spoken for already emotionally? It doesn't sound like you are emotionally available for any other guys to make an impact.
"There are no Leo's and Aries out there that are JUST happily sleeping together??!"
I'm cool having Aries Sun women as friends and will date Aries Moon people. I tend to keep my distance from Aries Sun women though when it comes to romantic/sexual situations. I'm not one for dramatic situations and find that Aries Sun women can be too demanding/bossy.
"First, why act so guilt stricken when we both know we are FANTASTIC together?! I don't care who we know or whether or not we should be doing what we are! So why should he??! Is it guy code or something?! Because my ex and I are over...! DONE!"
Leos have a strong sense of loyalty to our friends. Sounds like his lust has taken over, but he's thoroughly aware of the situation and isn't proud about it. He's fighting his own moral code. It's one of the reasons he's keeping you at bay.
"Secondly, he hardly ever responds to my texts. He will eventually contact me, but it is RARE for him to respond back when I 'NEED' him.. (he claimed he would stop doing that, so we'll see!) But why?! Could his guilt have something to do with it?! Because he still calls.. Eventually! It just drives me INSANE when he does not answer MY pleas for his attention!"
Leos tend to be both busy people and not fans of texting. Leos guard our hearts adamantly. You've already stated numerous times that you're not in love with him and don't want a relationship. He is probably aware of this too and is keeping you at arm's length. A simple sexual relationship with you suits him just fine it seems.
Leo men however are looking for a queen, someone we can truly invest our time into fully. Since it sounds like you're only interested in sex (or at least that's the only thing you're allowing yourself to admit), he's taking his time with you.
"Third, (I'll get to my last question in a sec)
Why is he so hot and cold?!
When we are in the bed he'll go between harsh and bossy, to sensual and SO romantic. He's yanking my hair to the side one second and softly kissing my face the next and I LOVE IT!!! While we're in the act that is.. Outside of that it drives me CRAZY! One second he's making me laugh and gently kissing me and the next hes 'matter of fact,' so mean and bossy! I find myself constantly telling him to "stop being mean to me" (playfully of course) but it's like he THRIVES on that!"
He can't fully trust you with anything other than the physical relationship. Again as you've stated, you just want sex. He's going to run hot and cold because emotionally he must remain detached from you. Leos stop running hot and cold when you gain our trust.
To gain our trust, you must show your loyalty. This Leo guys is well aware that you moved on from your ex to him. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering how easy is it for you to move on from people when you become "bored".
"Anyways, so here's the LAST questions within the question!
How long can this go on??! Really. How long??!"
Well it will go on either until he finds someone he can fully trust with his heart, you get bored of the sex, or you stop lying to yourself and admit you have feelings for him. A woman who can't admit her own feelings is such a turn off (it looks like weakness to a Leo man). Fortunately you seem to have his attention with your physical relationship for the time being.
"But should I stop??
Is it unhealthy??
And if it's OK to let things play out:
Should I stop seeing other people in the meantime?? I am not sleeping with the other guys.. Just dates.. See where things go... Maybe find someone I want MORE??! Idk.."
That all depends on what you want. Sounds like you are unsure of your intentions and we Leos like decisiveness. If you want just sex, then there's no reason to question anything. Just enjoy it while it lasts. It's only unhealthy if you want something more and are repressing your real intent.
Sounds like you have an open relationship, so there's no point in not seeing other guys. The problem though is, if you know you're only going to be thinking about the Leo the whole time, then there's no point in dating anyone else. Why waste anyone else's time when you're clearly spoken for already emotionally? It doesn't sound like you are emotionally available for any other guys to make an impact.
"There are no Leo's and Aries out there that are JUST happily sleeping together??!"
I'm cool having Aries Sun women as friends and will date Aries Moon people. I tend to keep my distance from Aries Sun women though when it comes to romantic/sexual situations. I'm not one for dramatic situations and find that Aries Sun women can be too demanding/bossy.
Posted by FiercestFireI want to talk to you. Have you got my pm? Last night.Posted by GemitatiNo, my ex moved out on BAD terms so they are not talking right now. However, we grew up together, in the same area, know the same people and him and my ex share the same circle of friends. Besides him not wanting to "invest" in a relationship, I'm sure that's another BIG reason.. I KNOW he is just as entrapped over the sex as I am! It's obvious! Especially in the beginning when we'd keep stopping and he'd throw his clothes back on over guilt just to get undressed again a second later! For hours we'd go through that! So glad THAT part is OVER. I would tell him he was CRAZY! Now he's more loose, let's stressed and open. He's FINALLY getting comfortable with US. It seems almost guilt free now.. Perfect! Lol..Posted by FiercestFireAre they still friends?Posted by GemitatiIf we were serious. He would be raising his FRIENDS kids. Just sounds weird!Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..
My question stands. How come man has sex that is so fascinating and doesn't want the woman?
What's wrong—
The first time in HIS house he asked me "isn't it so much better now? here? where we can be ourselves and be comfortable??" I was fine in my house, but I guess he really wasn't! Even my husbands nickname on my chest he doesn't try to cover up anymore! Haha.. Baby steps! Lolclick to expand
It's just seems like we have such similar thing going and I have a few questions.
Posted by GemitatiI will look.. 🙂Posted by FiercestFireI want to talk to you. Have you got my pm? Last night.Posted by GemitatiNo, my ex moved out on BAD terms so they are not talking right now. However, we grew up together, in the same area, know the same people and him and my ex share the same circle of friends. Besides him not wanting to "invest" in a relationship, I'm sure that's another BIG reason.. I KNOW he is just as entrapped over the sex as I am! It's obvious! Especially in the beginning when we'd keep stopping and he'd throw his clothes back on over guilt just to get undressed again a second later! For hours we'd go through that! So glad THAT part is OVER. I would tell him he was CRAZY! Now he's more loose, let's stressed and open. He's FINALLY getting comfortable with US. It seems almost guilt free now.. Perfect! Lol..Posted by FiercestFireAre they still friends?Posted by GemitatiIf we were serious. He would be raising his FRIENDS kids. Just sounds weird!Posted by FiercestFireWhat's that means?Posted by SsupermanI'm good with option 2 right now! But like Mundra said, I'm sure I'll eventually grow tired and then I'll just move on. In our situation putting my foot down would be kind of crazy. Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..Posted by FiercestFireYou have 2 options.Posted by SsupermanI try! Every minute, every day! For at least a week he is all I think about. That's what makes me ask if it's unhealthy.. It gets better after a week. But no where near gone.. AND THEN he comes back again! *sigh*
Stay the course and keep your cool.
1. You can put your foot down and make him decide what he's gonna do
Or
2. You can relax, enjoy what he has to offer and just love him for what he is.
Him potentially raising his friends ex wife's kids..?! Ah.. No way..
My question stands. How come man has sex that is so fascinating and doesn't want the woman?
What's wrong—
The first time in HIS house he asked me "isn't it so much better now? here? where we can be ourselves and be comfortable??" I was fine in my house, but I guess he really wasn't! Even my husbands nickname on my chest he doesn't try to cover up anymore! Haha.. Baby steps! Lol
It's just seems like we have such similar thing going and I have a few questions.
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Posted by ChuckcemAwesome! Thank you! This is the kind of insight I was definitely looking for! I have received tons of good advice from many of you on here!
To answer your questions:
"First, why act so guilt stricken when we both know we are FANTASTIC together?! I don't care who we know or whether or not we should be doing what we are! So why should he??! Is it guy code or something?! Because my ex and I are over...! DONE!"
Leos have a strong sense of loyalty to our friends. Sounds like his lust has taken over, but he's thoroughly aware of the situation and isn't proud about it. He's fighting his own moral code. It's one of the reasons he's keeping you at bay.
"Secondly, he hardly ever responds to my texts. He will eventually contact me, but it is RARE for him to respond back when I 'NEED' him.. (he claimed he would stop doing that, so we'll see!) But why?! Could his guilt have something to do with it?! Because he still calls.. Eventually! It just drives me INSANE when he does not answer MY pleas for his attention!"
Leos tend to be both busy people and not fans of texting. Leos guard our hearts adamantly. You've already stated numerous times that you're not in love with him and don't want a relationship. He is probably aware of this too and is keeping you at arm's length. A simple sexual relationship with you suits him just fine it seems.
Leo men however are looking for a queen, someone we can truly invest our time into fully. Since it sounds like you're only interested in sex (or at least that's the only thing you're allowing yourself to admit), he's taking his time with you.
"Third, (I'll get to my last question in a sec)
Why is he so hot and cold?!
When we are in the bed he'll go between harsh and bossy, to sensual and SO romantic. He's yanking my hair to the side one second and softly kissing my face the next and I LOVE IT!!! While we're in the act that is.. Outside of that it drives me CRAZY! One second he's making me laugh and gently kissing me and the next hes 'matter of fact,' so mean and bossy! I find myself constantly telling him to "stop being mean to me" (playfully of course) but it's like he THRIVES on that!"
He can't fully trust you with anything other than the physical relationship. Again as you've stated, you just want sex. He's going to run hot and cold because emotionally he must remain detached from you. Leos stop running hot and cold when you gain our trust.
To gain our trust, you must show your loyalty. This Leo guys is well aware that you moved on from your ex to him. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering how easy is it for you to move on from people when you become "bored".
"Anyways, so here's the LAST questions within the question!
How long can this go on??! Really. How long??!"
Well it will go on either until he finds someone he can fully trust with his heart, you get bored of the sex, or you stop lying to yourself and admit you have feelings for him. A woman who can't admit her own feelings is such a turn off (it looks like weakness to a Leo man). Fortunately you seem to have his attention with your physical relationship for the time being.
"But should I stop??
Is it unhealthy??
And if it's OK to let things play out:
Should I stop seeing other people in the meantime?? I am not sleeping with the other guys.. Just dates.. See where things go... Maybe find someone I want MORE??! Idk.."
That all depends on what you want. Sounds like you are unsure of your intentions and we Leos like decisiveness. If you want just sex, then there's no reason to question anything. Just enjoy it while it lasts. It's only unhealthy if you want something more and are repressing your real intent.
Sounds like you have an open relationship, so there's no point in not seeing other guys. The problem though is, if you know you're only going to be thinking about the Leo the whole time, then there's no point in dating anyone else. Why waste anyone else's time when you're clearly spoken for already emotionally? It doesn't sound like you are emotionally available for any other guys to make an impact.
"There are no Leo's and Aries out there that are JUST happily sleeping together??!"
I'm cool having Aries Sun women as friends and will date Aries Moon people. I tend to keep my distance from Aries Sun women though when it comes to romantic/sexual situations. I'm not one for dramatic situations and find that Aries Sun women can be too demanding/bossy.
To respond:
"Leos have a strong sense of loyalty to our friends."
They were never really "friends" just very long time associates who shared the same circles. They were friends with each other's friends, but never really each other. Like in 16 years I never saw him come around is what I'm saying. So they weren't close by any means.
"He is probably aware of this too and is keeping you at arm's length."
I just want him to respond and come see me on MY terms sometimes too! Not always just when he wants to. He DOES understand this for sure! Because when I asked him to please just STOP ignoring my messages, he conceded and AGREED he would do better with that. If he can't meet, he can't. But don't ignore me. Answer me. He gets that. But then again, I'd want him everyday if I could. And that's not practical either. I know! Lol.
"Leo men however are looking for a queen, someone we can truly invest our time into fully."
He is SUPER busy. He works A LOT and he made it clear he didn't want a relationship. We had a spark before we started sleeping together, we spent hours talking about nothing and he was pleasant and respectful. Even now when his guard is down he will do or say things to make me laugh. But he catches himself and turns it off.. I don't know why.. And it's one of the reasons for my questions. He is very likable and fun! When HE wants to be.
I understand unfortunately, that with our circumstances it would be awkward to pursue anything more anyway! So I get that. But I love our time together so much that I am willing to do it ANY way he wants to right now..
"In the back of his mind he's probably wondering how easy is it for you to move on from people when you become "bored".
I don't think this is the case at all though.. My ex would use his conversations with the Leo to make points when he was trying to come back home. For instance "So and so said I need to stop acting the way I do because I have a family and a good wife at home!" There is no way I'd be moving on out of boredom. I was with my ex for 16 years. I met him at 17 with only a couple of breakups in between. The Leo KNOWS the loyalty I had to my ex. He knew ALL the ways I TRIED to fix my marriage to no avail. One thing I can guarantee is he KNOWS I stick around. Through thick and thin. Without a doubt. So I do not think he thinks I bounce around when I'm "bored."
"A woman who can't admit her own feelings is such a turn off"
He knows I am willing to chose him and no one else no matter WHAT the "relationship" we have consists of. He knows I only want to spend my time with him. And he knows I'm willing to do things his way. No matter how it "looks" he knows I am crazy about him! Sexually yes! But to MY defense, that's all he's given me so far! So what else can I go off of??
"if you know you're only going to be thinking about the Leo the whole time, then there's no point in dating anyone else."
Exactly what I was asking! Thank you..! Because yes. I cannot even consentrate on anyone else!
But.. Big BUT...!
I also don't want to put "all my eggs in one basket" so to speak, either! I don't know what he's doing when he's not with me. I don't ask and I really don't want to know! He made it clear he didn't want a relationship. And I believe TOO many woman hear that, think they can change a mans mind and end up hurt in the end because they couldn't. That's not me. Nope. I guard my heart. Not an Aries trait at all usually, but I've learned to because we are an extremely emotional sign. When we fall in love we give it 100% completely. No holding back. And if I completely pour myself into the "hope" of it being anything more and it's not....? honestly, I would be devastated..! So I would NEVER set myself up to be in that situation.. He says there will never be a relationship? I believe him.. but I'll take what he's willing to give any day. Omg....
Posted by FiercestFire
Exactly what I was asking! Thank you..! Because yes. I cannot even consentrate on anyone else!
But.. Big BUT...!
I also don't want to put "all my eggs in one basket" so to speak, either! I don't know what he's doing when he's not with me. I don't ask and I really don't want to know! He made it clear he didn't want a relationship. And I believe TOO many woman hear that, think they can change a mans mind and end up hurt in the end because they couldn't. That's not me. Nope. I guard my heart. Not an Aries trait at all usually, but I've learned to because we are an extremely emotional sign. When we fall in love we give it 100% completely. No holding back. And if I completely pour myself into the "hope" of it being anything more and it's not....? honestly, I would be devastated..! So I would NEVER set myself up to be in that situation.. He says there will never be a relationship? I believe him.. but I'll take what he's willing to give any day. Omg....
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by FiercestFire
Exactly what I was asking! Thank you..! Because yes. I cannot even consentrate on anyone else!
But.. Big BUT...!
I also don't want to put "all my eggs in one basket" so to speak, either! I don't know what he's doing when he's not with me. I don't ask and I really don't want to know! He made it clear he didn't want a relationship. And I believe TOO many woman hear that, think they can change a mans mind and end up hurt in the end because they couldn't. That's not me. Nope. I guard my heart. Not an Aries trait at all usually, but I've learned to because we are an extremely emotional sign. When we fall in love we give it 100% completely. No holding back. And if I completely pour myself into the "hope" of it being anything more and it's not....? honestly, I would be devastated..! So I would NEVER set myself up to be in that situation.. He says there will never be a relationship? I believe him.. but I'll take what he's willing to give any day. Omg....
Posted by FiercestFireRight in which case, then just enjoy it while it lasts. If you've already told him to treat you better and he refuses to do so, that's on him.
Thanks. No, I definitely won't expect anything more from him. And I'm ok with remaining exclusively fwb right now. When I'm ready for a REAL meaningful relationship, I'll tell him and move on.. But if he doesn't stop being so mean to me pretty soon, that later will come much sooner then I would have liked.
I don't need emotions or deep conversations, I don't need to be his girlfriend, don't need dates or fancy things or to be spoiled, I don't even need ALL his time.. But I DO need for him to treat me nicely when we are together and stop acting like a super dick... ON PURPOSE! That is going to push me away more then anything else will.. And yes, like you said.. The sex will stop..
Posted by Astrology101I'm sorry. I don't understand 2 things.
You say you are doing this on his terms... but as far as I see... he's playing by your terms. He knows he doesn't want a relationship (maybe not with anyone at the moment).. He probably knows how much your ex likes you.... And he knows you said its just sex... and he's sticking around... so yes, he is indeed playing by your rules
You sound like someone who is a prick teaser.. You say you like him.. but you might also get bored of him? Dafuq. And if he doesn't give you attention.. you make a deal about it? It's an fwb ... that's how it works...
You need to grow up.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe you were not prepared for an fwb.. with your separation and all. I don't know what sort of person he is... and maybe he is doing some things otherwise which is making you think you might have a chance...
If you genuinely like him, if you want more.. you can do better.
If not, grow up.
First, a prick teaser doesn't give away the pussy. So that's me, how?
Secondly, and aparently in relation to the first statement, what about what I'm doing requires "growing up??" Clarification please.. Because the "bored with him statement CLEARLY comes from the fact that we are only sexual and forming no sort of relationship to grow on. Yes. Eventually I or he will tire of that. Correct?
Posted by ChuckcemKeep in mind she married young and was married for 16 years. She's a new divorcee. That's also what the Leo is scared of "the rebound." Add to that the possibility of getting in a fight with her ex.
To answer your questions:
"First, why act so guilt stricken when we both know we are FANTASTIC together?! I don't care who we know or whether or not we should be doing what we are! So why should he??! Is it guy code or something?! Because my ex and I are over...! DONE!"
Leos have a strong sense of loyalty to our friends. Sounds like his lust has taken over, but he's thoroughly aware of the situation and isn't proud about it. He's fighting his own moral code. It's one of the reasons he's keeping you at bay.
"Secondly, he hardly ever responds to my texts. He will eventually contact me, but it is RARE for him to respond back when I 'NEED' him.. (he claimed he would stop doing that, so we'll see!) But why?! Could his guilt have something to do with it?! Because he still calls.. Eventually! It just drives me INSANE when he does not answer MY pleas for his attention!"
Leos tend to be both busy people and not fans of texting. Leos guard our hearts adamantly. You've already stated numerous times that you're not in love with him and don't want a relationship. He is probably aware of this too and is keeping you at arm's length. A simple sexual relationship with you suits him just fine it seems.
Leo men however are looking for a queen, someone we can truly invest our time into fully. Since it sounds like you're only interested in sex (or at least that's the only thing you're allowing yourself to admit), he's taking his time with you.
"Third, (I'll get to my last question in a sec)
Why is he so hot and cold?!
When we are in the bed he'll go between harsh and bossy, to sensual and SO romantic. He's yanking my hair to the side one second and softly kissing my face the next and I LOVE IT!!! While we're in the act that is.. Outside of that it drives me CRAZY! One second he's making me laugh and gently kissing me and the next hes 'matter of fact,' so mean and bossy! I find myself constantly telling him to "stop being mean to me" (playfully of course) but it's like he THRIVES on that!"
He can't fully trust you with anything other than the physical relationship. Again as you've stated, you just want sex. He's going to run hot and cold because emotionally he must remain detached from you. Leos stop running hot and cold when you gain our trust.
To gain our trust, you must show your loyalty. This Leo guys is well aware that you moved on from your ex to him. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering how easy is it for you to move on from people when you become "bored".
"Anyways, so here's the LAST questions within the question!
How long can this go on??! Really. How long??!"
Well it will go on either until he finds someone he can fully trust with his heart, you get bored of the sex, or you stop lying to yourself and admit you have feelings for him. A woman who can't admit her own feelings is such a turn off (it looks like weakness to a Leo man). Fortunately you seem to have his attention with your physical relationship for the time being.
"But should I stop??
Is it unhealthy??
And if it's OK to let things play out:
Should I stop seeing other people in the meantime?? I am not sleeping with the other guys.. Just dates.. See where things go... Maybe find someone I want MORE??! Idk.."
That all depends on what you want. Sounds like you are unsure of your intentions and we Leos like decisiveness. If you want just sex, then there's no reason to question anything. Just enjoy it while it lasts. It's only unhealthy if you want something more and are repressing your real intent.
Sounds like you have an open relationship, so there's no point in not seeing other guys. The problem though is, if you know you're only going to be thinking about the Leo the whole time, then there's no point in dating anyone else. Why waste anyone else's time when you're clearly spoken for already emotionally? It doesn't sound like you are emotionally available for any other guys to make an impact.
"There are no Leo's and Aries out there that are JUST happily sleeping together??!"
I'm cool having Aries Sun women as friends and will date Aries Moon people. I tend to keep my distance from Aries Sun women though when it comes to romantic/sexual situations. I'm not one for dramatic situations and find that Aries Sun women can be too demanding/bossy.
Let's be real.
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Reminds me of this quote:
Connection doesn’t care about the laws of the land. Your soul will be pulled to the place it belongs.”
Letting go has been so challenging. But I’ll never regret what we had. I’ve learned so much about myself and what I WANT in the process.. He is broken and not ready. And it’s not my responsibility to fix that.
Omg Yes! Finally! I am SO GLAD I found this forum! I need answers PLEASE!!
**WARNING** I have been jotting down details a little at a time ALL afternoon! So this is a very long post! 🙂
Let me start with... I am a TRUE Aries female, through and through... And I have a Leo man that I have been ONLY intimate with for a few months now. No dates. No relationship. Just sex.
We are in a tricky situation because he is a LONG time associate and old roommate (after we separated) of my ex husband. I have "known of" and seen this man around for YEARS and never paid attention to him. It wasn't until we had to meet up a few times for me to gather some of my kids items from his place that my ex left behind, that I REALLY started paying attention. He was funny, quirky and sweet. I spent quite a number of hours just chatting with him at first and would think of any excuse I could to see him again. The conversations were always funny and playful and there was an immediate attraction on both ends from our very first conversation.
The magnatism between us was instant and pretty obvious. So it only took him to make ONE move and we were in bed. OMG! It was AMAZING!! Everything I like, everything I want, he does. We are completely in tune with each other, down to the tiniest detail. His hands, his lips... absolutely perfect, in the exact spot I like, every single time...! And honestly, it only seems to get better every time we are together!
Now, because of our situation with my ex, he has had very uncomfortable "guilty" moments in the past while we're in the middle of 'things' where he just stops and questions what the hell he's doing. (which has gotten better since I started going to his place instead!) But it never seems to stop him from coming back either! He has made it VERY clear that he does NOT want a relationship with me. Which is FINE because frankly, with our situation, that would be weird, CRAZY and awkward!! But please, PLEASE don't take the sex away!! Hehe.. This is what leads me to the questions I have..
First, why act so guilt stricken when we both know we are FANTASTIC together?! I don't care who we know or whether or not we should be doing what we are! So why should he??! Is it guy code or something?! Because my ex and I are over...! DONE!
Secondly, he hardly ever responds to my texts. He will eventually contact me, but it is RARE for him to respond back when I 'NEED' him.. (he claimed he would stop doing that, so we'll see!) But why?! Could his guilt have something to do with it?! Because he still calls.. Eventually! It just drives me INSANE when he does not answer MY pleas for his attention!
Third, (I'll get to my last question in a sec)
Why is he so hot and cold?!
When we are in the bed he'll go between harsh and bossy, to sensual and SO romantic. He's yanking my hair to the side one second and softly kissing my face the next and I LOVE IT!!! While we're in the act that is.. Outside of that it drives me CRAZY! One second he's making me laugh and gently kissing me and the next hes 'matter of fact,' so mean and bossy! I find myself constantly telling him to "stop being mean to me" (playfully of course) but it's like he THRIVES on that!
As an ARIES woman, it is very difficult for me to play submissive. Especially since when we're not in bed, I want to punch him in the FACE most of the time! But for him, I grit my TEETH and swallow it! As HARD as it is, I don't mind letting him be the boss. For the first time in my Arian life! EVEN after being with a Scorpio for 16 years.
Since we've been sleeping together, we obviously don't converse like we did at first, which I kind of miss in a way.. but it is understandable because when we're together it's not long before our hands are all over each other! HOWEVER, and this brings me to my last question, when we're DEEP in the act, he says things to me he just would NOT say if we had our clothes on.. For instance:
OK, back story first.. So he knows I'm openly willing to date other men with the potential of becoming serious with someone someday..
The other day he called me after almost 3 weeks to 'get together.' He met me in the parking lot of the store I was at (even though I told him I was leaving soon!) to "talk" and made it clear he was ready for my time again. Well, I had a date that night with a NON fling and told him we could not. He was very nochalant about it, and I really wasn't trying to make him jealous, but it was just a fact. I couldn't do it that night.. (although he was all I thought about the entire night and the next 3 days anyways! Smh..)
So going back to the "things he would NOT say" thing.. We were together last night.. 3 days after my "date." I hadn't talked to him at all, but I messaged him some sexy photos thinking he was out of town for the weekend. He responded that he did not go and was home. I went! Especially since he was ALL I was thinking about since the last time I saw him..!
During one particular pause in our CRAZY love making (😛) he says "I don't care who your with, or who your f******, you better come give me this p**** when I want it!" "Only I can do (this) and only I make you (that)!" Going on and on about all the amazing things he does to me.. Sooo...
Wtf was that?! So random, it caught me off guard because, like I said, he always acts so nonchalant about me dating.. I tell him over and over he's the best I've EVER had (and I'm 34 btw so that's saying something, but he's also my very first LEO too!) No kidding, he KNOWS how I feel about him..
So after that suddenly here I am, on top, butt naked and super vulnerable.. I impulsively declare "I don't WANT to sleep with anyone else!! Just BE THERE when I call you!" He says nothing.. we just keep going... faster.. He heard me..! Then the SUPER possessive and EXTREMELY jealous Aries in me slides my hands up his arms, holds down his wrists and sternly but gently PLEAD "I don't want you f****** anyone else.."
Oh yeah... it sounded desperate indeed! (Didn't care!)
Again, he says nothing. (Which is SO rare for him because he usually has an answer for EVERYTHING!) Speechless, but so LOUD in the way he started moving his body.. Done. Conversation over. And we're lost in each other again..! Omg! Yes. Please! Haha
Anyways, so here's the LAST questions within the question!
How long can this go on??! Really. How long??!
I'm at the point now where he is ALL I think about! After we are together, the details of our time spent play in my head over and OVER again..! For DAYS he is ALL I think about..!
And it drives me crazy because I really am ready for a meaningful relationship! BUT I am also perfectly content, at least right now, to keep him and what we have going for however long it will last! I LOVE IT! Lol.
I am such a sucker for LUST! Lustful relationships are sometimes so much better (to ME at least), then a same thing everyday, BLAH relationship.. I had to BEG my ex for intimacy.. Constantly. I knew he loved me! But it just wasn't enough.. I really feel like regular relationships can be so BORING sometimes! This guy makes me feel desired and WANTED! And that is SO MUCH better then KNOWING I'm loved but not FEELING wanted...!
I understand even with THIS GUY, a relationship could change the passion. So I'm NOT eager for that! And it would be a lost cause I believe anyway, to ever even THINK about or ATTEMPT to start a relationship with him because of both our situation AND him being adamant about wanting nothing of the sort with me.. Ever. PERIOD. (Even though waking up every morning to THOSE hands on me would be LIFE!!)
As an Aries, I am TOO proud and FAR too sensitive to get hurt trying anyways! So I'm willing to take what we have now and rock with it..
But should I stop??
Is it unhealthy??
And if it's OK to let things play out:
Should I stop seeing other people in the meantime?? I am not sleeping with the other guys.. Just dates.. See where things go... Maybe find someone I want MORE??! Idk..
And lastly, when it ends, cause I know it will eventually!
Who do you think will end it first?? Him, the Leo. Or I, the Aries??!
Thanks for reading guys! There are so many resources on Leo and Aries, but nothing even remotely close to my situation. Which is surprising! There are no Leo's and Aries out there that are JUST happily sleeping together??!
I look forward to some insight on this subject!