Aries female/Leo male: HELP! I am LOSING IT! Questions for Leo males or ANYONE with experience! (Page 2)

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FiercestFire
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8 Years

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Posted by Astrology101
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Posted by Astrology101
You say you are doing this on his terms... but as far as I see... he's playing by your terms. He knows he doesn't want a relationship (maybe not with anyone at the moment).. He probably knows how much your ex likes you.... And he knows you said its just sex... and he's sticking around... so yes, he is indeed playing by your rules

You sound like someone who is a prick teaser.. You say you like him.. but you might also get bored of him? Dafuq. And if he doesn't give you attention.. you make a deal about it? It's an fwb ... that's how it works...

You need to grow up.

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe you were not prepared for an fwb.. with your separation and all. I don't know what sort of person he is... and maybe he is doing some things otherwise which is making you think you might have a chance...

If you genuinely like him, if you want more.. you can do better.

If not, grow up.
I'm sorry. I don't understand 2 things.

First, a prick teaser doesn't give away the pussy. So that's me, how?

Secondly, and aparently in relation to the first statement, what about what I'm doing requires "growing up??" Clarification please.. Because the "bored with him statement CLEARLY comes from the fact that we are only sexual and forming no sort of relationship to grow on. Yes. Eventually I or he will tire of that. Correct?
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"If he had your "kitty".. he wouldn't have been making statements that your kitty should be there for him whenever he wants."

He was referring to the ONE and ONLY time I said NO. Because I had a date that night.

"You made this arrangement... You decided you just wanted sex.. he made it clear it's gonna be only about the sex.. you knew this going in... hence grow up."

When did I say that wasn't clear?? Wait... Did you even read my post? Or just parts of it?? The point of this point of this post was to get a better understanding of why he does what he does and receive the options on whether we should stop. So again..... what is the "grow up" implying??

"I don't know... why you will get bored.... there is nothing there except sex.. there is no need to get bored.. there is no need for any thing in it..."

That was a ridiculous statement. You get "bored" when nothing changes. That's essentially what boredom is.. I'm not even sure you know what your saying right now.. but I am sure you REALLY like to use the words "Grown up" lol.. Ook..