AriesAngel92
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Posted by AriesAngel92I don't know what this guy's deal is but my intuition says danger.
Hey everyone. This is kind of a long story but here goes nothin. So a few years ago, I saw this scorpio man at a bar. From that moment I just knew I had to know his name. We started talking and instant fireworks— we spent nearly every night together the rest of that week. He told me I was his puzzle piece.
I was so sure he was the one that I ended up getting WAY too clingy extremely fast and totally pushed him away. We stayed in touch as friends and talked here and there but I started losing interest when the few times he ever did come back it was very temporary. I learned to live my life without him and pretty much forget he existed for the most part.
Last year was a nightmare and I ended up in some really abusive situations. I became lesbian and only dated women. When he found out all the sudden he cared again and I have no idea why. His comments were like nothing I had ever heard- “wow!! Couldn’t text me back till this morning? Did you two have fun clam jousting last night?!” Which, tbh I found hilarious😂 but I was also very confused by his obvious jealousy because since when does he care.
Me and my last gf eventually broke up and he called me right away even though I was definitely over it months before that even happened. We started to rekindle our friendship.. then I wrote “happy birthday love!” On his wall and thought nothing of it. A few days later he deleted me on fb which made me want zilcho to do with him ever, ever again. I told him it made me sick to my stomach and that I cried about it because I genuinely thought he was good, and finally two weeks later he told me he did it because he was now dating someone and she was jealous. Jealous of a lesbian? There had to be more to that than what he was telling me but I let it go.
One day I decided that being in Cali was extremely toxic for me so I moved to NYC on a whim. My family is from there so it felt right coming back, even though my roommate is an evil rotten manipulative Pisces.
Anyway! Lots of extra details in this story that aren’t relevant but I have adhd so I’m trying to put it all together. Now ever since I moved he’s been hitting me up almost every day and will not leave me the hell alone. I’m trying to move on with my life 3,000 miles away because there was nothing left in Cali and I realized how unhealthy and unhappy it was to stay.
He constantly looks for reasons to hit me up on Snapchat. At first I acted like I didn’t give a treetrunk but I really wasn’t acting, I had no interest in maintaining my friendship with him- especially not every day. As an introvert most of my friends I don’t even talk to for several days. But he just wouldn’t give up. So now I’m just confused as to wtf he wants and why all of the sudden I’m so important to him. He’s been consistently on my dick ever since I moved here 5 months ago, and I almost never hit him up first.
He constantly does really cute butter that feels like we’re more than friends.. when I first moved here he got a poster of ny and took a selfie with it captioned “it’s your home next to mine.” Which I thought was interesting cuz he’s never even been to New York. But of course I still wasn’t letting my guard down. I continued to be polite and friendly, but I was still very skeptical. The fact that he’s secretive made me want very little to do with him/ I figured he was just playing more games which I wasn’t into at all. Plus now he’s got a girlfriend- who literally looks like the girl from superstar. She’s a Taurus and he never talks about her or posts anything with her whatsoever.. I don’t even think HE finds her attractive!
Anyways. He knows I struggle with depression and for the past 5 months has made a consistent effort to see how I’m doing, how my day was etc. Still not buying it. Still acting like I don’t care because for all I know he’s saying this to 5 other girls, and I want no part of that. Plus I’m not interested in being anyone’s side chick. But by now it’s starting to get pretty clear he likes me as more than a friend..
He asked for my address to send me a letter when I was sad, and has told me many times im beautiful and that he misses me. He’s even started DRESSING like me- he used to dress real preppy with the button downs and now he’s wearing sports T-shirt’s and snap backs. When I pointed this out he blatantly admitted it. I told him he pulls it off well and he asked if I was flirting with him. I just told him I flirt with everybody 😂
Finally I’m like alright.. clearly he’s not going anywhere anytime soon and obviously I have his attention seeing as he won’t leave me alone. So I texted him one night and told him basically I really appreciated him and the more I get to know him the more I see he’s actually a very caring friend. And that even tho he’s a private person I respect that, and my friends become family to me and I’m extremely protective of them.
I guess opening up to him worked well because he asked me if he could come stay with me in ny. I’m thinking there’s no way in hell his gf would allow that but let’s make believe this is actually gonna happen 🙄
And he told me again he was really looking forward to coming to see me. So at this point I’m thinking oh butter.. maybe he’s actually serious. So I told him if he was that I’d plan a thorough itinerary because if this was his first time coming here I wanted to make it unforgettable. He doesn’t know that I spent hours that night planning the itinerary- and it came out great.
Another interesting thing- whenever we talk on SC if I send him a pic of me- never anything inappropriate he just asks to see my face sometimes cuz he misses me- he saves it in the chat. That, and anything I say that’s really nice.
But yea so the other night he kept snapchatting me a bunch of times but I didn’t see it till I got home. Sometimes if I don’t respond for a few hours he asks if I died😂. So then were talking and we were both very drunk.. and he told me to send him a picture cuz he really missed me and I said no because I looked ugly. Then all of the sudden he starts asking me really deep, invasive personal questions. And because I was drunk I answered them and opened up WAY more than I ever would’ve. He told me he couldn’t picture me in high school and asked what I was like when I was a kid and growing up.. how I was with dating, if I was introverted and what my friends were like and yadda yadda etc.
I didn’t get into the dating question. But I told him I was basically a loner and shy, and that I hated my high school. And he told me that he really loves that he can totally be himself with me, and doesn’t care if he offends me, and that even though I isolate myself he doesn’t mind and loves that I’m honest and real with him and I don’t hold back.
I thought that was incredibly nice. So I told him that from the moment I saw him I had to know his name, and once we started talking it was like I had known him for years.. and that i don’t mean to have an isolating attitude or push people away, and that deep inside I truly care. And he told me again how much he can’t wait to visit.
I woke up that morning regretting being so honest.. I felt embarrassed letting him know how deeply I cared. Especially because he doesn’t ever call me on the phone. Not that I’ve told him I wanted to hear his voice.. but I do.
So now I’m just totally confused. I feel like if he was playing me he wouldn’t put in this much effort to earn my trust. We never discuss anything sexual either which I really appreciate, it’s all innocent, which I think is good because it shows me he’s not a cheater. But there’s clearly more than friendship here.
I feel like if he does come visit he’ll inevitably fall in love with me- not cuz it’s me, just cuz ny tends to have that effect on people. I tried to fight my feelings for him for a very long time. But now I’m questioning if he might secretly be in love with me too.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingThat he’s never once asked about or met? 😂🖕🏼 Okay
He wants your Pisces roommate.
Posted by VenusAquariusYea I definitely see what you mean. It makes me uncomfortable answering all this personal shit about myself when he barely tells me anything. Yesterday he told me he was really depressed about having a hard Time finding a job. But he still didn’t call me and I asked him to. He just sent me a voice message on Snapchat. It’s not the same. I’m gonna keep my distance. He needs to tell me wtf is going on w his relationshipPosted by AriesAngel92I don't know what this guy's deal is but my intuition says danger.
Hey everyone. This is kind of a long story but here goes nothin. So a few years ago, I saw this scorpio man at a bar. From that moment I just knew I had to know his name. We started talking and instant fireworks— we spent nearly every night together the rest of that week. He told me I was his puzzle piece.
I was so sure he was the one that I ended up getting WAY too clingy extremely fast and totally pushed him away. We stayed in touch as friends and talked here and there but I started losing interest when the few times he ever did come back it was very temporary. I learned to live my life without him and pretty much forget he existed for the most part.
Last year was a nightmare and I ended up in some really abusive situations. I became lesbian and only dated women. When he found out all the sudden he cared again and I have no idea why. His comments were like nothing I had ever heard- “wow!! Couldn’t text me back till this morning? Did you two have fun clam jousting last night?!” Which, tbh I found hilarious😂 but I was also very confused by his obvious jealousy because since when does he care.
Me and my last gf eventually broke up and he called me right away even though I was definitely over it months before that even happened. We started to rekindle our friendship.. then I wrote “happy birthday love!” On his wall and thought nothing of it. A few days later he deleted me on fb which made me want zilcho to do with him ever, ever again. I told him it made me sick to my stomach and that I cried about it because I genuinely thought he was good, and finally two weeks later he told me he did it because he was now dating someone and she was jealous. Jealous of a lesbian? There had to be more to that than what he was telling me but I let it go.
One day I decided that being in Cali was extremely toxic for me so I moved to NYC on a whim. My family is from there so it felt right coming back, even though my roommate is an evil rotten manipulative Pisces.
Anyway! Lots of extra details in this story that aren’t relevant but I have adhd so I’m trying to put it all together. Now ever since I moved he’s been hitting me up almost every day and will not leave me the hell alone. I’m trying to move on with my life 3,000 miles away because there was nothing left in Cali and I realized how unhealthy and unhappy it was to stay.
He constantly looks for reasons to hit me up on Snapchat. At first I acted like I didn’t give a treetrunk but I really wasn’t acting, I had no interest in maintaining my friendship with him- especially not every day. As an introvert most of my friends I don’t even talk to for several days. But he just wouldn’t give up. So now I’m just confused as to wtf he wants and why all of the sudden I’m so important to him. He’s been consistently on my dick ever since I moved here 5 months ago, and I almost never hit him up first.
He constantly does really cute butter that feels like we’re more than friends.. when I first moved here he got a poster of ny and took a selfie with it captioned “it’s your home next to mine.” Which I thought was interesting cuz he’s never even been to New York. But of course I still wasn’t letting my guard down. I continued to be polite and friendly, but I was still very skeptical. The fact that he’s secretive made me want very little to do with him/ I figured he was just playing more games which I wasn’t into at all. Plus now he’s got a girlfriend- who literally looks like the girl from superstar. She’s a Taurus and he never talks about her or posts anything with her whatsoever.. I don’t even think HE finds her attractive!
Anyways. He knows I struggle with depression and for the past 5 months has made a consistent effort to see how I’m doing, how my day was etc. Still not buying it. Still acting like I don’t care because for all I know he’s saying this to 5 other girls, and I want no part of that. Plus I’m not interested in being anyone’s side chick. But by now it’s starting to get pretty clear he likes me as more than a friend..
He asked for my address to send me a letter when I was sad, and has told me many times im beautiful and that he misses me. He’s even started DRESSING like me- he used to dress real preppy with the button downs and now he’s wearing sports T-shirt’s and snap backs. When I pointed this out he blatantly admitted it. I told him he pulls it off well and he asked if I was flirting with him. I just told him I flirt with everybody 😂
Finally I’m like alright.. clearly he’s not going anywhere anytime soon and obviously I have his attention seeing as he won’t leave me alone. So I texted him one night and told him basically I really appreciated him and the more I get to know him the more I see he’s actually a very caring friend. And that even tho he’s a private person I respect that, and my friends become family to me and I’m extremely protective of them.
I guess opening up to him worked well because he asked me if he could come stay with me in ny. I’m thinking there’s no way in hell his gf would allow that but let’s make believe this is actually gonna happen 🙄
And he told me again he was really looking forward to coming to see me. So at this point I’m thinking oh butter.. maybe he’s actually serious. So I told him if he was that I’d plan a thorough itinerary because if this was his first time coming here I wanted to make it unforgettable. He doesn’t know that I spent hours that night planning the itinerary- and it came out great.
Another interesting thing- whenever we talk on SC if I send him a pic of me- never anything inappropriate he just asks to see my face sometimes cuz he misses me- he saves it in the chat. That, and anything I say that’s really nice.
But yea so the other night he kept snapchatting me a bunch of times but I didn’t see it till I got home. Sometimes if I don’t respond for a few hours he asks if I died😂. So then were talking and we were both very drunk.. and he told me to send him a picture cuz he really missed me and I said no because I looked ugly. Then all of the sudden he starts asking me really deep, invasive personal questions. And because I was drunk I answered them and opened up WAY more than I ever would’ve. He told me he couldn’t picture me in high school and asked what I was like when I was a kid and growing up.. how I was with dating, if I was introverted and what my friends were like and yadda yadda etc.
I didn’t get into the dating question. But I told him I was basically a loner and shy, and that I hated my high school. And he told me that he really loves that he can totally be himself with me, and doesn’t care if he offends me, and that even though I isolate myself he doesn’t mind and loves that I’m honest and real with him and I don’t hold back.
I thought that was incredibly nice. So I told him that from the moment I saw him I had to know his name, and once we started talking it was like I had known him for years.. and that i don’t mean to have an isolating attitude or push people away, and that deep inside I truly care. And he told me again how much he can’t wait to visit.
I woke up that morning regretting being so honest.. I felt embarrassed letting him know how deeply I cared. Especially because he doesn’t ever call me on the phone. Not that I’ve told him I wanted to hear his voice.. but I do.
So now I’m just totally confused. I feel like if he was playing me he wouldn’t put in this much effort to earn my trust. We never discuss anything sexual either which I really appreciate, it’s all innocent, which I think is good because it shows me he’s not a cheater. But there’s clearly more than friendship here.
I feel like if he does come visit he’ll inevitably fall in love with me- not cuz it’s me, just cuz ny tends to have that effect on people. I tried to fight my feelings for him for a very long time. But now I’m questioning if he might secretly be in love with me too.
Use your intuition Aries...
You know very little about him. He knows 100x's more about you. That right there makes my hair rise as an Aries. And, this was your 1st instinct, remember?
You put this much detail because you know something is not right... fighting between Aries intuition and niaveté.
I'm afraid that the things you said about yourself is very much like a profile of the perfect victim. This guy is deeep.click to expand
Posted by WarAngel1Posted by AriesAngel92Yeah, but I needed some clarification on who was crazier at this point. That wall of text doesn't shine a flattering light on your own issues.
sure thing, troll. She’s a manipulative drug addict who’s gone to prison for falsifying perscriptions for controlled substances and taking them to the pharmacy ( on multiple occasions.) she’s envious of me because I’m a nursing student and she’s pushing 40 waiting tables. And she’s also as irrelevant to this story as you are.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by WarAngel1Posted by AriesAngel92Yeah, but I needed some clarification on who was crazier at this point. That wall of text doesn't shine a flattering light on your own issues.
sure thing, troll. She’s a manipulative drug addict who’s gone to prison for falsifying perscriptions for controlled substances and taking them to the pharmacy ( on multiple occasions.) she’s envious of me because I’m a nursing student and she’s pushing 40 waiting tables. And she’s also as irrelevant to this story as you are.
This triggered fake lesbian making mad threads like a desperate cunt.
Watch her unstable ass on her other thread.
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Posted by Arielle83You continue to harass me on both of my posts for no reason. I haven’t replied to you for at least 5 more of your responses. I’m blocking you now, you’ve interrupted enough of my inner peace. I’m sorry you feel the need to hide behind a computer and bully others. It’s a not an attractive quality at all, but clearly there’s something deeper going on with you and I hope you’re able to recover from it. Wish you all the best.Posted by AriesAngel92It’s 11am on a SaturdayPosted by Arielle83Posted by WarAngel1Posted by AriesAngel92Yeah, but I needed some clarification on who was crazier at this point. That wall of text doesn't shine a flattering light on your own issues.
sure thing, troll. She’s a manipulative drug addict who’s gone to prison for falsifying perscriptions for controlled substances and taking them to the pharmacy ( on multiple occasions.) she’s envious of me because I’m a nursing student and she’s pushing 40 waiting tables. And she’s also as irrelevant to this story as you are.
This triggered fake lesbian making mad threads like a desperate cunt.
Watch her unstable ass on her other thread.![]()
Lmao this what you do every night? You must’ve just learned that word because you used it in the entirely wrong context. If anyone’s triggered it’s you. Clearly I ruined your evening. Get some friends in real life. No more attention for you, loser. Bye bye
You’re the one asking strangers, on the internet, advice on a guy with a gf! Talk about not having friends!! HAHAHAAAAA
A guy that started dressing like you because you’re bros.
HAHAAAA
You prob got a bigger dick than Scorpio anyways!!
He’s looking for a Pisces or a cancer.
You know a Feminine chick.click to expand
Posted by vixen14Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by Arielle83You continue to harass me on both of my posts for no reason. I haven’t replied to you for at least 5 more of your responses. I’m blocking you now, you’ve interrupted enough of my inner peace. I’m sorry you feel the need to hide behind a computer and bully others. It’s a not an attractive quality at all, but clearly there’s something deeper going on with you and I hope you’re able to recover from it. Wish you all the best.Posted by AriesAngel92It’s 11am on a SaturdayPosted by Arielle83Posted by WarAngel1Posted by AriesAngel92Yeah, but I needed some clarification on who was crazier at this point. That wall of text doesn't shine a flattering light on your own issues.
sure thing, troll. She’s a manipulative drug addict who’s gone to prison for falsifying perscriptions for controlled substances and taking them to the pharmacy ( on multiple occasions.) she’s envious of me because I’m a nursing student and she’s pushing 40 waiting tables. And she’s also as irrelevant to this story as you are.
This triggered fake lesbian making mad threads like a desperate cunt.
Watch her unstable ass on her other thread.![]()
Lmao this what you do every night? You must’ve just learned that word because you used it in the entirely wrong context. If anyone’s triggered it’s you. Clearly I ruined your evening. Get some friends in real life. No more attention for you, loser. Bye bye
You’re the one asking strangers, on the internet, advice on a guy with a gf! Talk about not having friends!! HAHAHAAAAA
A guy that started dressing like you because you’re bros.
HAHAAAA
You prob got a bigger dick than Scorpio anyways!!
He’s looking for a Pisces or a cancer.
You know a Feminine chick.
We’re you a previous user here? Because you seem pretty knowledgeable in the blocking and quoting feature on this site for a newb.click to expand

Posted by AriesAngel92Seriously? Insulting someone's looks?Just for this, I hope the Scorp goes for your Pisces roommate instead, to bring you down a peg or 2.Posted by FortunaPretty sure the jokes gotten old.
Tell us about the Pisces roommate.
Also, you’re mad ugly. Please don’t subject us to looking at your hideous face. Do like a cupcake or a puppy or something. Kthxclick to expand
Posted by Ram416Lmao damn you must be ugly. And it wouldn’t surprise me, his girlfriends just as repulsive as my roommate. Glad you know his girlfriend personally and feel the need to defend her. Go eat your feelingsPosted by AriesAngel92Seriously? Insulting someone's looks?Just for this, I hope the Scorp goes for your Pisces roommate instead, to bring you down a peg or 2.Posted by FortunaPretty sure the jokes gotten old.
Tell us about the Pisces roommate.
Also, you’re mad ugly. Please don’t subject us to looking at your hideous face. Do like a cupcake or a puppy or something. Kthx
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Posted by ArkansassyPosted by AriesAngel92Y'all have not had sex, is that correct?Posted by VenusAquariusYea I definitely see what you mean. It makes me uncomfortable answering all this personal shit about myself when he barely tells me anything. Yesterday he told me he was really depressed about having a hard Time finding a job. But he still didn’t call me and I asked him to. He just sent me a voice message on Snapchat. It’s not the same. I’m gonna keep my distance. He needs to tell me wtf is going on w his relationshipPosted by AriesAngel92I don't know what this guy's deal is but my intuition says danger.
Hey everyone. This is kind of a long story but here goes nothin. So a few years ago, I saw this scorpio man at a bar. From that moment I just knew I had to know his name. We started talking and instant fireworks— we spent nearly every night together the rest of that week. He told me I was his puzzle piece.
I was so sure he was the one that I ended up getting WAY too clingy extremely fast and totally pushed him away. We stayed in touch as friends and talked here and there but I started losing interest when the few times he ever did come back it was very temporary. I learned to live my life without him and pretty much forget he existed for the most part.
Last year was a nightmare and I ended up in some really abusive situations. I became lesbian and only dated women. When he found out all the sudden he cared again and I have no idea why. His comments were like nothing I had ever heard- “wow!! Couldn’t text me back till this morning? Did you two have fun clam jousting last night?!” Which, tbh I found hilarious😂 but I was also very confused by his obvious jealousy because since when does he care.
Me and my last gf eventually broke up and he called me right away even though I was definitely over it months before that even happened. We started to rekindle our friendship.. then I wrote “happy birthday love!” On his wall and thought nothing of it. A few days later he deleted me on fb which made me want zilcho to do with him ever, ever again. I told him it made me sick to my stomach and that I cried about it because I genuinely thought he was good, and finally two weeks later he told me he did it because he was now dating someone and she was jealous. Jealous of a lesbian? There had to be more to that than what he was telling me but I let it go.
One day I decided that being in Cali was extremely toxic for me so I moved to NYC on a whim. My family is from there so it felt right coming back, even though my roommate is an evil rotten manipulative Pisces.
Anyway! Lots of extra details in this story that aren’t relevant but I have adhd so I’m trying to put it all together. Now ever since I moved he’s been hitting me up almost every day and will not leave me the hell alone. I’m trying to move on with my life 3,000 miles away because there was nothing left in Cali and I realized how unhealthy and unhappy it was to stay.
He constantly looks for reasons to hit me up on Snapchat. At first I acted like I didn’t give a treetrunk but I really wasn’t acting, I had no interest in maintaining my friendship with him- especially not every day. As an introvert most of my friends I don’t even talk to for several days. But he just wouldn’t give up. So now I’m just confused as to wtf he wants and why all of the sudden I’m so important to him. He’s been consistently on my dick ever since I moved here 5 months ago, and I almost never hit him up first.
He constantly does really cute butter that feels like we’re more than friends.. when I first moved here he got a poster of ny and took a selfie with it captioned “it’s your home next to mine.” Which I thought was interesting cuz he’s never even been to New York. But of course I still wasn’t letting my guard down. I continued to be polite and friendly, but I was still very skeptical. The fact that he’s secretive made me want very little to do with him/ I figured he was just playing more games which I wasn’t into at all. Plus now he’s got a girlfriend- who literally looks like the girl from superstar. She’s a Taurus and he never talks about her or posts anything with her whatsoever.. I don’t even think HE finds her attractive!
Anyways. He knows I struggle with depression and for the past 5 months has made a consistent effort to see how I’m doing, how my day was etc. Still not buying it. Still acting like I don’t care because for all I know he’s saying this to 5 other girls, and I want no part of that. Plus I’m not interested in being anyone’s side chick. But by now it’s starting to get pretty clear he likes me as more than a friend..
He asked for my address to send me a letter when I was sad, and has told me many times im beautiful and that he misses me. He’s even started DRESSING like me- he used to dress real preppy with the button downs and now he’s wearing sports T-shirt’s and snap backs. When I pointed this out he blatantly admitted it. I told him he pulls it off well and he asked if I was flirting with him. I just told him I flirt with everybody 😂
Finally I’m like alright.. clearly he’s not going anywhere anytime soon and obviously I have his attention seeing as he won’t leave me alone. So I texted him one night and told him basically I really appreciated him and the more I get to know him the more I see he’s actually a very caring friend. And that even tho he’s a private person I respect that, and my friends become family to me and I’m extremely protective of them.
I guess opening up to him worked well because he asked me if he could come stay with me in ny. I’m thinking there’s no way in hell his gf would allow that but let’s make believe this is actually gonna happen 🙄
And he told me again he was really looking forward to coming to see me. So at this point I’m thinking oh butter.. maybe he’s actually serious. So I told him if he was that I’d plan a thorough itinerary because if this was his first time coming here I wanted to make it unforgettable. He doesn’t know that I spent hours that night planning the itinerary- and it came out great.
Another interesting thing- whenever we talk on SC if I send him a pic of me- never anything inappropriate he just asks to see my face sometimes cuz he misses me- he saves it in the chat. That, and anything I say that’s really nice.
But yea so the other night he kept snapchatting me a bunch of times but I didn’t see it till I got home. Sometimes if I don’t respond for a few hours he asks if I died😂. So then were talking and we were both very drunk.. and he told me to send him a picture cuz he really missed me and I said no because I looked ugly. Then all of the sudden he starts asking me really deep, invasive personal questions. And because I was drunk I answered them and opened up WAY more than I ever would’ve. He told me he couldn’t picture me in high school and asked what I was like when I was a kid and growing up.. how I was with dating, if I was introverted and what my friends were like and yadda yadda etc.
I didn’t get into the dating question. But I told him I was basically a loner and shy, and that I hated my high school. And he told me that he really loves that he can totally be himself with me, and doesn’t care if he offends me, and that even though I isolate myself he doesn’t mind and loves that I’m honest and real with him and I don’t hold back.
I thought that was incredibly nice. So I told him that from the moment I saw him I had to know his name, and once we started talking it was like I had known him for years.. and that i don’t mean to have an isolating attitude or push people away, and that deep inside I truly care. And he told me again how much he can’t wait to visit.
I woke up that morning regretting being so honest.. I felt embarrassed letting him know how deeply I cared. Especially because he doesn’t ever call me on the phone. Not that I’ve told him I wanted to hear his voice.. but I do.
So now I’m just totally confused. I feel like if he was playing me he wouldn’t put in this much effort to earn my trust. We never discuss anything sexual either which I really appreciate, it’s all innocent, which I think is good because it shows me he’s not a cheater. But there’s clearly more than friendship here.
I feel like if he does come visit he’ll inevitably fall in love with me- not cuz it’s me, just cuz ny tends to have that effect on people. I tried to fight my feelings for him for a very long time. But now I’m questioning if he might secretly be in love with me too.
Use your intuition Aries...
You know very little about him. He knows 100x's more about you. That right there makes my hair rise as an Aries. And, this was your 1st instinct, remember?
You put this much detail because you know something is not right... fighting between Aries intuition and niaveté.
I'm afraid that the things you said about yourself is very much like a profile of the perfect victim. This guy is deeep.click to expand
Posted by NevamoreI wasn’t insulting them love, I was describing them. I’m far from full of myself. These are really just the facts. But please, continue to defend people you’ve never met before online. Great way to spend your weekend 😂Posted by AriesAngel92So thats who you really are?Posted by Ram416Lmao damn you must be ugly. And it wouldn’t surprise me, his girlfriends just as repulsive as my roommate. Glad you know his girlfriend personally and feel the need to defend her. Go eat your feelingsPosted by AriesAngel92Seriously? Insulting someone's looks?Just for this, I hope the Scorp goes for your Pisces roommate instead, to bring you down a peg or 2.Posted by FortunaPretty sure the jokes gotten old.
Tell us about the Pisces roommate.
Also, you’re mad ugly. Please don’t subject us to looking at your hideous face. Do like a cupcake or a puppy or something. Kthx
- easily offended
- full of yourself after you called his gf and roomate repulsive
- insulting like a high school girl who has a popular-syndrome
- I wonder if you really are over 21.click to expand
Posted by Awesomeyo
Tell us about the Pisces roommate.

Posted by Pandora101
OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP
and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂
the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem
and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂
after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂

Posted by AriesAngel92you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂Posted by Pandora101
OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP
and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂
the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem
and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂
after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂
Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:click to expand

Posted by AriesAngel92If this verbal vomit helps you, then okey 🙂 kiss 🙂Posted by Pandora101Posted by AriesAngel92you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂Posted by Pandora101
OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP
and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂
the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem
and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂
after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂
Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:
PS. No need to insult anybody again from Ohio, I am from Europe
No one gives a rats ass where you’re from you ugly freak. There’s the attention you so desperately wanted. Hope you enjoyed it because you won’t be getting any more from me. Lets hope you take my advice and blow your brains out. Clearly it’ll be your biggest accomplishment yet.click to expand


Posted by AriesAngel92So what is better?Posted by Pandora101
OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP
and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot
the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally money is no problem
and she is really quick in catching up on things
after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually I start to enjoy this nonsense
Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (: click to expandclick to expand

Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by Ram416Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by Fortuna
Tell us about the Pisces roommate.
Pretty sure the jokes gotten old.
Also, you’re mad ugly. Please don’t subject us to looking at your hideous face. Do like a cupcake or a puppy or something. Kthx
Seriously? Insulting someone's looks?Just for this, I hope the Scorp goes for your Pisces roommate instead, to bring you down a peg or 2.
Lmao damn you must be ugly. And it wouldn’t surprise me, his girlfriends just as repulsive as my roommate. Glad you know his girlfriend personally and feel the need to defend her. Go eat your feelings click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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I was so sure he was the one that I ended up getting WAY too clingy extremely fast and totally pushed him away. We stayed in touch as friends and talked here and there but I started losing interest when the few times he ever did come back it was very temporary. I learned to live my life without him and pretty much forget he existed for the most part.
Last year was a nightmare and I ended up in some really abusive situations. I became lesbian and only dated women. When he found out all the sudden he cared again and I have no idea why. His comments were like nothing I had ever heard- “wow!! Couldn’t text me back till this morning? Did you two have fun clam jousting last night?!” Which, tbh I found hilarious😂 but I was also very confused by his obvious jealousy because since when does he care.
Me and my last gf eventually broke up and he called me right away even though I was definitely over it months before that even happened. We started to rekindle our friendship.. then I wrote “happy birthday love!” On his wall and thought nothing of it. A few days later he deleted me on fb which made me want zilcho to do with him ever, ever again. I told him it made me sick to my stomach and that I cried about it because I genuinely thought he was good, and finally two weeks later he told me he did it because he was now dating someone and she was jealous. Jealous of a lesbian? There had to be more to that than what he was telling me but I let it go.
One day I decided that being in Cali was extremely toxic for me so I moved to NYC on a whim. My family is from there so it felt right coming back, even though my roommate is an evil rotten manipulative Pisces.
Anyway! Lots of extra details in this story that aren’t relevant but I have adhd so I’m trying to put it all together. Now ever since I moved he’s been hitting me up almost every day and will not leave me the hell alone. I’m trying to move on with my life 3,000 miles away because there was nothing left in Cali and I realized how unhealthy and unhappy it was to stay.
He constantly looks for reasons to hit me up on Snapchat. At first I acted like I didn’t give a treetrunk but I really wasn’t acting, I had no interest in maintaining my friendship with him- especially not every day. As an introvert most of my friends I don’t even talk to for several days. But he just wouldn’t give up. So now I’m just confused as to wtf he wants and why all of the sudden I’m so important to him. He’s been consistently on my dick ever since I moved here 5 months ago, and I almost never hit him up first.
He constantly does really cute butter that feels like we’re more than friends.. when I first moved here he got a poster of ny and took a selfie with it captioned “it’s your home next to mine.” Which I thought was interesting cuz he’s never even been to New York. But of course I still wasn’t letting my guard down. I continued to be polite and friendly, but I was still very skeptical. The fact that he’s secretive made me want very little to do with him/ I figured he was just playing more games which I wasn’t into at all. Plus now he’s got a girlfriend- who literally looks like the girl from superstar. She’s a Taurus and he never talks about her or posts anything with her whatsoever.. I don’t even think HE finds her attractive!
Anyways. He knows I struggle with depression and for the past 5 months has made a consistent effort to see how I’m doing, how my day was etc. Still not buying it. Still acting like I don’t care because for all I know he’s saying this to 5 other girls, and I want no part of that. Plus I’m not interested in being anyone’s side chick. But by now it’s starting to get pretty clear he likes me as more than a friend..
He asked for my address to send me a letter when I was sad, and has told me many times im beautiful and that he misses me. He’s even started DRESSING like me- he used to dress real preppy with the button downs and now he’s wearing sports T-shirt’s and snap backs. When I pointed this out he blatantly admitted it. I told him he pulls it off well and he asked if I was flirting with him. I just told him I flirt with everybody 😂
Finally I’m like alright.. clearly he’s not going anywhere anytime soon and obviously I have his attention seeing as he won’t leave me alone. So I texted him one night and told him basically I really appreciated him and the more I get to know him the more I see he’s actually a very caring friend. And that even tho he’s a private person I respect that, and my friends become family to me and I’m extremely protective of them.
I guess opening up to him worked well because he asked me if he could come stay with me in ny. I’m thinking there’s no way in hell his gf would allow that but let’s make believe this is actually gonna happen 🙄
And he told me again he was really looking forward to coming to see me. So at this point I’m thinking oh butter.. maybe he’s actually serious. So I told him if he was that I’d plan a thorough itinerary because if this was his first time coming here I wanted to make it unforgettable. He doesn’t know that I spent hours that night planning the itinerary- and it came out great.
Another interesting thing- whenever we talk on SC if I send him a pic of me- never anything inappropriate he just asks to see my face sometimes cuz he misses me- he saves it in the chat. That, and anything I say that’s really nice.
But yea so the other night he kept snapchatting me a bunch of times but I didn’t see it till I got home. Sometimes if I don’t respond for a few hours he asks if I died😂. So then were talking and we were both very drunk.. and he told me to send him a picture cuz he really missed me and I said no because I looked ugly. Then all of the sudden he starts asking me really deep, invasive personal questions. And because I was drunk I answered them and opened up WAY more than I ever would’ve. He told me he couldn’t picture me in high school and asked what I was like when I was a kid and growing up.. how I was with dating, if I was introverted and what my friends were like and yadda yadda etc.
I didn’t get into the dating question. But I told him I was basically a loner and shy, and that I hated my high school. And he told me that he really loves that he can totally be himself with me, and doesn’t care if he offends me, and that even though I isolate myself he doesn’t mind and loves that I’m honest and real with him and I don’t hold back.
I thought that was incredibly nice. So I told him that from the moment I saw him I had to know his name, and once we started talking it was like I had known him for years.. and that i don’t mean to have an isolating attitude or push people away, and that deep inside I truly care. And he told me again how much he can’t wait to visit.
I woke up that morning regretting being so honest.. I felt embarrassed letting him know how deeply I cared. Especially because he doesn’t ever call me on the phone. Not that I’ve told him I wanted to hear his voice.. but I do.
So now I’m just totally confused. I feel like if he was playing me he wouldn’t put in this much effort to earn my trust. We never discuss anything sexual either which I really appreciate, it’s all innocent, which I think is good because it shows me he’s not a cheater. But there’s clearly more than friendship here.
I feel like if he does come visit he’ll inevitably fall in love with me- not cuz it’s me, just cuz ny tends to have that effect on people. I tried to fight my feelings for him for a very long time. But now I’m questioning if he might secretly be in love with me too.