@Artemis
14 Years
Astrological placements like your houses and planets influence your love life. Your Mars shows how you pursue relationships, while Venus indicates your attraction. The signs on your seventh, eighth, and twelfth houses reveal the types of partners you're drawn to and how relationships unfold. Understanding these can help predict your love luck and compatibility.
But does this mean that you'll NEVER find someone? No, not at all. If your houses and your planets are out of sync, it'll just mean that you might have a tricky time finding someone and might have to work on tweaking your expectations, including the sort of energy you emit if that energy doesn't represent who you naturally are.
For example, my 8th and 12th houses are in Gemini and Libra and my Mars and Venus are in Leo. Yet my Sun, Moon and Rising are in Cancer, my 7th house is in Taurus and my Juno and Vesta are in Capricorn and Cancer. So that basically means that the sort of person some guys THINK I am and try to pursue isn't who I actually am.
Lol. So over time, I've had to tweak my energy and be very cut throat and honest about who I am to guys so they have a clear view of who I am.
🙂
I've been questioning this very thing about myself lately. Do I put an energy out there that doesn't ring true to who I am behind all of my "walls" for lack of a better term...
Curious if I'm synced or un-synced... as per your personal research. Any thoughts Artemis?
A Pisces with a Leo Rising,
> A Leo Mars and Taurus Venus
> Aquarius in 7th and 8th House
> Cancer in 12th House
> Juno in Cancer / Taurus in Vesta
Posted by deezie
I've been questioning this very thing about myself lately. Do I put an energy out there that doesn't ring true to who I am behind all of my "walls" for lack of a better term...Curious if I'm synced or un-synced... as per your personal research. Any thoughts Artemis?
A Pisces with a Leo Rising,
> A Leo Mars and Taurus Venus
> Aquarius in 7th and 8th House
> Cancer in 12th House
> Juno in Cancer / Taurus in Vesta
From what I can see, you consciously desire someone who might be a bit eccentric, yet reads as stable in some way or is intelligent and easy to predict because that's comforting to you. What's interesting about that is that your 7th house suggests that you might want a loose, noncommittal or purely platonic and mentally stimulating connection with someone who's free thinking and you may tend to attract those types. But the people who see straight through your assertive Leo persona and see you for you may conveniently be the sort of men that could be best suited for you -- Sensitive and practical types that embody Cancer men.
I believe that you are synched just fine 🙂 I'm not entirely sure if you feel as if Aquarian types are best suited for you regardless of what the rest of your chart suggests, but from what I can see, those that see through you without having to try very hard should be perfect for you because your Juno and Vesta bear the qualities they need for in a person.
i would love if you could interpret for me please
Capricorn Asc Aries
Taurus Mars (1st house ) and Capricorn Venus (9th house)
2nd house in Taurus
7th house libra
8th house scorpio pluto scoprio 7th house
12th house pisces neptune capricorn 9th house
juno virgo 5th house Vesta Sagittarius 8th house
fortune virgo 6th house
@Artemis - very interesting, and also super cool that you pieced this together!
I'd have to say it's spot on for me. I totally attract what you said - and I crave what you said as well. I just have to learn how to fend off the first types - and place them in the non-romantic category. Le sigh - stillllll learning hahaha.
Me, please? I need help!!!
Aries with a Aries Rising, (Scorpio Moon)
Mars in Cancer and Venus in Aries
Libra in the 7th House, Scorpio in 8th, and Pisces in 12th House
Oh my Juno is in Capricorn in house 10 and Vesta in Sag in house 9
Libra Sun w/Libra Ascendant
Mars-Sag/Venus-Scorpio
7th house aries, 8th house Aries
12th house virgo
Juno-Virgo/Vesta-virgo
:-)
Sun Aries
Asc Leo
Mars Capricorn
Venus Taurus
7th Aquarius
8th Pisces
12th cancer
Juno Sagittarius
Vesta Pisces
Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Oooh oooh oooh!!
Do me! Do me!!😛
A Libra with an Aries Rising,
> A Leo Mars and Sag Venus
> Libra in 6th and 7th House
> Aries in 12th House
> Juno in Scorpio / Vesta in Scorpio
From what I can see, you shouldn't really have any quarrels or hiccups with attracting the sort of people you want. You embody someone that's very independent, good spirited and free thinking, so the sort of image you project doesn't clash with who you actually are. However, since your Juno and Vesta are each in Scorpio, you MAY have a tendency to attract people that are a tad more sensitive than you'd like for them to be. Or in relationships, you may appear to have a bit of a wall up to protect yourself emotionally that might surprise someone that you're getting to know.
Posted by Ligeia
I'm game to be astrologically dissected.Sagittarius Sun w/Virgo Ascendant
Mars-Gemini/Venus-Scorpio
7th house Pisces, 8th house Aries
12th house Leo
Juno-Virgo/Vesta-Pisces
Oh, now THIS is interesting. To the outside world, you appear to be someone who's very stable, in control of their actions and might even appear to be somewhat demure and passive because everything that makes up your chart HEAVILY plays down the fact that you're a Sagittarius. But this could be beneficial to you because your Venus, 7th House and Juno suggest that you find yourself most attracted to "tortured" individuals that are beautifully chaotic, unpredictable, passionate and appear to be somewhat dream-like. The only issues that arise here could be that you might find yourself gravitating toward "passionate" fire signs opposed to the Scorpio and Pisces-esque individuals that you actually crave. Unless you see yourself as a person who'd serve as the stable one in a relationship who'll try to pull your partner out of trouble, I think that you should be very careful NOT to fall for someone that's purely a fire sign unless their Venus / 7th House / 12th House and Juno and Vesta are in more sensitive signs that are either water or earth based.
Posted by Jhene
Capricorn Asc Aries
Taurus Mars (1st house ) and Capricorn Venus (9th house)
2nd house in Taurus7th house libra
8th house scorpio pluto scoprio 7th house12th house pisces neptune capricorn 9th house
juno virgo 5th house Vesta Sagittarius 8th house
fortune virgo 6th house
You are definitely an interesting toss and turn of elements. From what I see here, the way that others may perceive you to be might NOT pose as a problem for you because your Aries persona exemplifies the energy you'll give to a relationship. You're IMMENSELY attracted to practicality, but you want a relationship with a partner who'll still woo you and will throw in a couple of surprises to keep the fire going. What's very good about your combination is that the signs you attract could be well suited for you if you're willing to put in a bit of work here and there. A lot of sensitive types are naturally drawn to you and while you like that, you MAY sometimes feel as if their emotions are so intense that they run a risk of not being predictable or safe enough for you. You want someone that's independent and can clean up after themselves that you don't have to chaperone around or baby them. You also want someone who'll be very in control over their emotions. Even though you might have a clear idea of what you want in someone, you run a risk of having to choose between relationships in which there's a bit TOO much of emotional investment vs. relationships that are perfect EXCEPT for their lack of genuine emotional intimacy.
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
Me, please? I need help!!!Aries with a Aries Rising, (Scorpio Moon)
Mars in Cancer and Venus in Aries
Libra in the 7th House, Scorpio in 8th, and Pisces in 12th House
It's easy for me to cut to the heart of matter with this one -
You MAY have a tendency to attract people that you're VERY sexually compatible with, but are emotionally out of touch with. You may even have an internal battle with yourself about whether or not you should let them stick around because they satisfy the sensitivity in your Scorpio Moon and sensual Cancer Mars, but the core of who you are may perceive them as being a bit too clingy for your taste. At the same time, that also sort of scares you because your Scorpio Moon suggests that you HATE showing any sort of vulnerability to the point where you might fear having a partner that serves as a reflection to the world how sensitive you actually are. I think that running into someone who has a lot of fire or air dominating their chart, but has a Pisces, Cancer or Virgo Moon will be ideal because they'll basically be as sensitive as you want them to be with you emotionally...but behind closed doors.
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
Me, please? I need help!!!Aries with a Aries Rising, (Scorpio Moon)
Mars in Cancer and Venus in Aries
Libra in the 7th House, Scorpio in 8th, and Pisces in 12th HouseIt's easy for me to cut to the heart of matter with this one -
You MAY have a tendency to attract people that you're VERY sexually compatible with, but are emotionally out of touch with. You may even have an internal battle with yourself about whether or not you should let them stick around because they satisfy the sensitivity in your Scorpio Moon and sensual Cancer Mars, but the core of who you are may perceive them as being a bit too clingy for your taste. At the same time, that also sort of scares you because your Scorpio Moon suggests that you HATE showing any sort of vulnerability to the point where you might fear having a partner that serves as a reflection to the world how sensitive you actually are. I think that running into someone who has a lot of fire or air dominating their chart, but has a Pisces, Cancer or Virgo Moon will be ideal because they'll basically be as sensitive as you want them to be with you emotionally...but behind closed doors.
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AHHH! that's so true to the point of being scary, thank you so much for that. I'll have to go in search of Mr Fire, I suppose.
Posted by Jhene
Capricorn Asc Aries
Taurus Mars (1st house ) and Capricorn Venus (9th house)
2nd house in Taurus7th house libra
8th house scorpio pluto scoprio 7th house12th house pisces neptune capricorn 9th house
juno virgo 5th house Vesta Sagittarius 8th house
fortune virgo 6th house
You are definitely an interesting toss and turn of elements. From what I see here, the way that others may perceive you to be might NOT pose as a problem for you because your Aries persona exemplifies the energy you'll give to a relationship. You're IMMENSELY attracted to practicality, but you want a relationship with a partner who'll still woo you and will throw in a couple of surprises to keep the fire going. What's very good about your combination is that the signs you attract could be well suited for you if you're willing to put in a bit of work here and there. A lot of sensitive types are naturally drawn to you and while you like that, you MAY sometimes feel as if their emotions are so intense that they run a risk of not being predictable or safe enough for you. You want someone that's independent and can clean up after themselves that you don't have to chaperone around or baby them. You also want someone who'll be very in control over their emotions. Even though you might have a clear idea of what you want in someone, you run a risk of having to choose between relationships in which there's a bit TOO much of emotional investment vs. relationships that are perfect EXCEPT for their lack of genuine emotional intimacy.
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first thank you 🙂
lol yea my elements all over the place
yup i want to be woo like we just met and i will do the same
makes note * put in more work*
i tend to attact aquarius effortlessly i date two but there chronic liers so im trying to avoid them
i might have attracted other water signs in the passed but never notice. pray more swim my way that are assertive
that choose part right there seems to be the rut of my life right now .
what would u say are the best signs? based on what ur seeing for me
and my moon is in cancer ? does that change anything based on what u said or add to it ?
> Pisces, Taurus Rising
> A cancer Mars and aries venus
> Scorpio in 7th House
> Sag in 8th and
> Pisces in 12th House
> Juno in Cancer / Cap in Vesta
Sorry to adding to your workload.
Oooh. Interesting. Understandable if you're overwhelmed and cannot interpret this, but if you can..
> Leo with Leo rising
> Virgo Venus and Mars
> Aquarius in 7th house
> Pisces in 8th house
> Cancer in 12th house
> Juno in Capricorn/Vesta in Leo
Just reading your interpretations is awesome!
Posted by virgochick827
I know everyone is asking you, but I want to jump on the bandwagon lol.Mars-Virgo
Venus- Virgo
7th house- Capricorn
8th house- Capricorn
12th house- Taurus
Juno- Pisces
Vesta- CancerDang! look at all that earth in my chart haha.
I am a Virgo sun/ Libra moon, and cancer asc.
Libra Sun w/Libra Ascendant
Mars-Sag/Venus-Scorpio
7th house aries, 8th house Aries
12th house virgo
Juno-Virgo/Vesta-virgo
:-)
For the most part, you don't have a problem building long lasting relationships with the people that you're attracted to because your relationship houses are in sync with who's naturally drawn to you. You loathe predictability and crave a partner who's independent and passionate and who's in complete control over their own actions. You want someone who's responsible and clean cut. Yet at the same time, you also want a sense of structure to your relationships. You don't want a structure that's rigid or unchangeable, but you want the impression that there's a slight sense of something stable to fall back on. In relationships, you watch over its progression like a hawk and are eager to make improvements in order to avoid facing conflict. The sort of people that see through you are the people that are ironically as anxious to achieve perfection as you are. Since your Juno AND Vesta are in Virgo and you're most prone to bringing in demanding, fiery types, I'd recommend that you tread carefully when you try to mother them about perfecting some aspects about themselves or things to tweak in your relationship. I think that you should frame it as a challenge for them to overcome. If you do it that way, they won't see it as overbearing or that you're trying to impose a structure onto them.
Posted by Ariess
Sun Aries
Asc Leo
Mars Capricorn
Venus Taurus
7th Aquarius
8th Pisces
12th cancer
Juno Sagittarius
Vesta Pisces
To be frank -
You're naturally the sort of person that's very fiery, uninhibited and in your face about many of your desires, but you actually crave someone who can bring you down and stabilize your personality. An issue arises here because your Mars and Venus in stable signs COMBINED with your Aquarian desire for a lack of structure gives me the impression that you're constantly at odds about what sort of person or nature of relationship you want. You may even have a tendency to go through periods where the sort of person/relationship you want changes with your mood and you confuse yourself. To be perfectly safe, I'd recommend that you seek a partner who offers you stability, but who's still the sort of eccentric, otherwordly intellectual that you want for them to be on the surface. On the other hand, you might ALSO be able to just ride on your Juno and 7th House placements and seek someone who's as adventurous and wild as your Sun and Rising signs are. If you decide to seek someone who's an eccentric person who'll stabilize you, you're going to have to put in a bit of work, depending on what your synastry with them is like. The key here is to find a way to find a way to let your potential partner know up front that you actually have a need to be grounded and that you're not just someone who appears to be all over the place. If you do that, then it'll be easier for them to appreciate the combination of fire that you have in you. Your 12th house is in Cancer, so attracting a mate with these qualities shouldn't be too difficult.
To be frank -
You're naturally the sort of person that's very fiery, uninhibited and in your face about many of your desires, but you actually crave someone who can bring you down and stabilize your personality. An issue arises here because your Mars and Venus in stable signs COMBINED with your Aquarian desire for a lack of structure gives me the impression that you're constantly at odds about what sort of person or nature of relationship you want. You may even have a tendency to go through periods where the sort of person/relationship you want changes with your mood and you confuse yourself. To be perfectly safe, I'd recommend that you seek a partner who offers you stability, but who's still the sort of eccentric, otherwordly intellectual that you want for them to be on the surface. On the other hand, you might ALSO be able to just ride on your Juno and 7th House placements and seek someone who's as adventurous and wild as your Sun and Rising signs are. If you decide to seek someone who's an eccentric person who'll stabilize you, you're going to have to put in a bit of work, depending on what your synastry with them is like. The key here is to find a way to find a way to let your potential partner know up front that you actually have a need to be grounded and that you're not just someone who appears to be all over the place. If you do that, then it'll be easier for them to appreciate the combination of fire that you have in you. Your 12th house is in Cancer, so attracting a mate with these qualities shouldn't be too difficult.
Thank you! Don't know what I think of this!
Posted by aurora
This is really interesting, I tried to analyze this by myself, but for a beginner in astrology I'm kinda lost 🙂. So here it is:Cancer Sun, Ascendant and Vesta
Virgo Mars
Gemini Venus, Moon
VII and VIII Capricorn
XII Taurus
Juno Leo
Do you ever have a problem with attracting someone that seems perfect, but they're too clingy for you emotionally and who are too sexually predictable? Your natal chart is filled with feminine signs, but what may throw a wrench into things could be a habit out of you feeling smothered by someone you're with because everything's in sync except for your moons and overall sexual compatibility. You're basically the epitome of a Cancer, except for the fact that you don't lose control and drown in a maelstrom of emotions when they can't handle something emotionally. There's definitely hope though because your tendency to attract Capricorns will remedy that. My personal recommendation is that you find or stumble into someone who's sensitive, but who isn't overbearing or controlling with their need for structure. Even though you love stability, you need a bit of variety to keep you from being bored with someone.
@Artemis! (* Waves *) Can you please explain this:
Scop-Sag rising
Cap-mars
Ven-Virg
Gem- 6th & 7th house
Juno-Libra
Vesta-Cap
Please help me understand myself better
Thanks
Piggy 😛
Posted by piggytoo240
@Artemis! (* Waves *) Can you please explain this:Scop-Sag rising
Cap-mars
Ven-Virg
Gem- 6th & 7th house
Juno-Libra
Vesta-CapPlease help me understand myself better
Thanks
Piggy 😛
^^^^ sorry 😢 should be Scorp sun and also i have a Cap-moon
Thx
Let me give this a try, because honestly, I truly believe I'm cursed.
Libra Sun
Sag Rising
Mars in Cap
Venus in Scorpio
Gem in My 7th
Cancer in My 8th
Scorpio in My 12th
Virgo in Juno
Virgo in Vesta.
I would really like it. Thank you very much.
Oh me too! pretty please !?
Sun- Aries
Asc- Scorpio
Mars- Taurus
Venus- Aries
Mercury-Aries
7th- Taurus
8th- Gemini
12th- Libra
Posted by Chance11
>Cap Sun with Aqua Rising
>Aqua Venus, Sag Mars
>Leo in 7th House
>Libra in 8th House
>Capricorn in 12th House
>Aries Juno, Capricorn Vesta
You may consider yourself to be very observant and even a tidbit analytical. I'm not sure what your Mercury is, but your Aquarian rising implies that you may seem sort of ambiguous or tricky to understand to some people because you can appear to act a certain way one day and the complete opposite in another. Sexually speaking, you consider yourself to be quite kinky and you're always (or have the desire to) explore a variety of fetishes and need a lot of variety and changes of environment in the bedroom. An issue arises here because you may have a tendency to occasionally attract people that have a Capricornian air to them --- meaning that they'll approach you and you'll like them, except for the fact that they prefer too much structure for you and appear to be too "safe" for your liking. You need someone who's constantly going to keep you on edge and who's changeable and even perhaps has a bit of an ego. What's interesting about you is that even though you want someone who's independent, you yourself naturally offer security in a relationship -- and this will work to your benefit.
🙂
Posted by Scenic
> Pisces, Taurus Rising
> A cancer Mars and aries venus
> Scorpio in 7th House
> Sag in 8th and
> Pisces in 12th House
> Juno in Cancer / Cap in VestaSorry to adding to your workload.
You definitely have a tendency to live inside of your own head. You're very emotionally in tune with yourself and I strongly doubt that you have issues with attempting to sort your emotions out or keep them in check. Your Taurus Rising ensures that the dreamy nature of your Pisces-Sun is staunchly brought back to reality. In love, you're someone who wants to be so in tune with your partner that emotional investment is a MUST, or else you crumble. You may even have a tendency to be attracted to people that have a parental quality to them because you're turned on by the security they bring you. But as nice as this is, you DO have a tendency to attract wild, adventurous types that drive you crazy because you THINK that you can keep up with them, but come crashing back to reality with your heart broken when the ride's over, the passion's spent and you're left to pick up the pieces. There is hope, however, because the people that can offer you the most emotional support are unsurprisingly people that share your sun sign. You naturally gravitate to people that are smoldering, deep and passionate. I just advice that you find yourself a Scorpio, Pisces or Taurus that are made of mostly water with a sign or two in a fire sign to keep you interested.
Posted by Ellybean
Oh Lord, I know you're doing tons of people already. If you can manage the time to take a peak though...> Scorpio with Sagittarius Rising
> Gemini Mars and Scorpio Venus
> Cancer 7th House
> Leo 8th House
> Sagittarius 12th (Rising is late degree Sag)
> Juno in Sag / Vesta in Taurus
You're basically like a ram that frolics freely in a field, but secretly craves to have a barn to come home to. You consider yourself to be admittedly intense and passionate and much of what you dedicate yourself to has an obsessive quality to it. You feel things so passionately that you literally create scorch marks when you're done with them. In this sense, you definitely need someone who can not only handle you, but can keep up with the amount of fire you release. Even though your chart is dominated by intensely felt and independent signs, your Cancer in your 7th house implies that you DO need a sense of emotional attachment and a tidbit of security. You're like someone who travels the world constantly, but invests in a good home to finally crash in when you're ready to collapse. If you truly feel as though you need a partner to stabilize you, then you MAY have to compromise with someone who might not be as adventurous and forthcoming as you'd like for them to be. In the end, it depends on what you feel is going to help you feel the most whole - A fiery person who doesn't offer you security or a more grounded person who you can teach TO be as advanced sexually.
Really nice of you to take the time to do the interpretations for everyone! If you don't mind, I'd love it if you could do mine. Understandable of course if you're not up to it 🙂
Sun = Aries
Rising = Libra
Mars = Taurus
Venus = Aries
7th House = Virgo
8th House = Taurus
12th House = Virgo
Juno = Pisces
Vesta = Leo
Can you do mine?
Aries with Aries Rising
Libra in 7th
Sag in 8th
Venus in Taurs
Mars in Cap
Juno-Sag/Vesta Pisces
O and Aqua in my 12th
Coooollllll.....
do me too...🙂
Cap/Aqua Sun (29.08 degrees), Cancer Asc, Pisces Moon
Taurus/Gem (29.43 degrees) Mars
Capricorn in 7th House
Capricorn in 8th House
Capricorn in 12th House
Venus in Aquarius
Juno in Capricorn
Vesta in Taurus
Wait...got me houses wrong!
Cap/Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cancer Ascendant
7th house Cap
8th House Aquarius
12th House Gemini
Taurus/Gem Mars
Venus Aquarius
Juno Cap
Vesta In Taurus
Please do me. Will I be lucky in love as well?
Pisces Sun with Leo rising
>Aires Mars & Aires Venus
>Aquarius in the 7th House
>Pisces in the 8th House
>Cancer in the 12th House
>Juno in Libra & Vesta in Scorpio
Will I be lucky in love in this lifetime or will I be one that will end up alone?
Asc - Leo
Sun - Pisces (Sun in 8th house?)
Moon - Cancer (12th house)
Venus - Aries (10th house)
Mars - Capricorn (6th house)
Aquarius in 7th and 8th houses
Juno - Aries
Vesta - Cancer
Interpretation would be appreciated, but is not necessary.
could you 'do me'? i dont really get how to read this type of stuff. . .if its from the description of your placements than i dont think its very accurate.
gemini with taurus rising
taurus mars with venus cancer
i have capricorn in my 8th house
and, taurus in my 12th(i think im reading this correctly,. . .im loooking at astrotheme and it says that my mars in taurus is in my 12th. . .)
juno is in libra, in house 4
my vesta is in taurus, in the first house
lol @ everyone yelling: dooo meeee!!!
That being said, do me? 😛
Sun & Venus - Pisces
Asc - Taurus
Moon - Aries
Mars - Taurus
7th house - Scorpio
8th house - Sagittarius
12th house - Pisces
Juno - Leo
Vesta - Sagittarius
talk about disappearing act...getting us all excited :-/
Lol maybe they got overwhelmed
I feel like mine is ALL OVER THE PLACE
Aqua sun Cancer asc
Venus and mars in pisces
7th cap
8th aqua
12th gemini
Juno in libra
Vesta scorp
Soo although i have unemotional tendencies i present myself in that way and my approach to love is purely emotional yet i crave a stable cap structure, i attract ppl that are more mental than emotional and the duality of gemini sees me for who i am(this is true yet geminis turn me off cause they can be flaky...probably the stability im attracted to is missing) i crave a libra like partner i can unload all my emotions on in an erratic scorp way lmao
I say erratic cause i know i have,these tendencies to get angry and vengeful in relationships, when scorned my emotions go haywire...this is so confusing for me. I feel like i have astrological bipolar disorder
I'll repost mine again. I've posted mine before the site went down for a few days. Will I be lucky in love or will I be unlucky & end up alone?
Pisces Sun with Leo rising
>Aires Mars & Aires Venus
>Aquarius in the 7th House
>Pisces in the 8th House
>Cancer in the 12th House
>Juno in Libra & Vesta in Scorpio
What's my future? Spouse or spinster?
When you get a moment I'd be interested in your interpretation please. Many thanks!
Rising - Sag
Sun - Scorpio (in 10th house)
Moon - Pisces (in 2nd house)
Merc - Sag (in 11th house)
Venus - Scorpio (in 11th house)
Mars - Leo (in 8th house)
7th house - Gemini
8th house - Leo
12th house - Sag
Juno - Cancer
Vesta - Taurus (retrograde)
hi artemis!
sun: gemini
rising: leo
moon: leo
venus: gemini
mars: taurus
juno: pisces 8th house
vesta: scorpio
pallas: libra
7th house: aquarius
12th house: cancer, lilith and moon
I'm attracted to sensitive, free-thinking spiritual men
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Hey, Everyone! It's been a while. I've been browsing around the internet for a few months and I've learned a few things through examining one of my best friend's chart along with my own. We've learned through reading articles on Sasstrology/Rubyslipper.ca/MysticMedusa and other online-astrological sites that the synastry between your houses and your planets dictate whether or not you'll be lucky in love.
I'll use my friend's chart as an example :
> She's an Aries with a Pisces Rising,
> A Pisces Mars and Venus
> Virgo in her 7th House
> Scorpio in her 8th and
> Pisces in her 12th House
> Juno in Aries / Virgo in her Vesta
Your Mars represents how you manifest your goals and manifests as your sex drive in relationships. It also determines whether or not you'll pursue your partner and what sort of approach you'll take. Your Venus represents what sort of men and women you're consciously attracted to. Relationship wise, the sign that's on the cusp (or is basically IN) your 7th house is what you perceive to be the ideal relationship structure. Your 8th house is who's attracted to you without you having to try whatsoever. Your 12th house in the area of relationships is which sign will be able to see through your facade and will shatter through your barriers as a person. Your Juno is who you perceive to be your ideal partner, or ideal energy as a partner. Your Vesta is what sort of energy you'll BRING to a relationship as a partner.
We've noticed that over the course of her life, she's had a very...rabid tendency to attract very intense men. When I say "intense," I'm talking about the sort of men who most women are afraid of and who some read as very hard to understand and are often perceived as social outcasts. The reason they're often drawn to her is because every single one of the placements I've mentioned for her are constantly in sync with one another. Scorpions and Rams tend to be drawn to her quite easily -- It's because she appears to be very dream like and mystical, but she's very hard to win over and will constantly put up a fight. She's a very difficult person to understand fully because she's very changeable.
Now, if you're like me, you might be someone who's relationship-centric placements are NOT in sync with one another. For example, if your 8th house doesn't have a stable relationship with your mars or venus or juno, then you might have a very difficult time finding someone who you'll connect well with.