Do Pisces men play head games

I met this guy who lives in Nyc. I live in Canada.
We met two weeks ago whan i was in nyc and had a wonderful time together (drinks and making out but no sex) we stayed out until 6am and we sadly said good bye. After getting back home he text messaged me almost on a daily basis. Last week he wrote "looking forward to seeing you again" and he remembered i had a big meeting on Saturday and he sent another Text wishing me good luck.

I'm writing this because i'm back in NYC. I sent him a text on monday but he didn't respond. Now what do i do? Call to say i'm town, text message or hope he contacts me before my Monday early morning departure.

If there are any Pisces men out there or anyone who has experience with fish, i hope you'll find the time to help.

Thanks

Text messages can get lost just like emails........so there's a possibility he didn't even receive the one you sent. Just a thought.

Yeah just call him and let him know your in town

He texted messaged me last night as i was deciding what to do. Then it turns out he thought i was coming in on Saturday. I called him after he sent a text saying "I hope you were planning on calling me during your visit." So i called him but didn't make plans.

watch out...most are huge liars!!!!

I'll be careful. Thanks for the tip Taurus.
He sent me text asking how my day was going, then wheni asked what he was up to he said he was working and not sure what time he would be done. At 10:20pm i sent a text asking how his day went and he didn't respond.That was over an hour ago. It looks as though i won't be seeing him tonight.

My question is should i ask him out or wait for him to make the first move?

Geminifox, have you ever been with a pisces man?

This Fish is driving me up the walls.
We haven't gotten together and i tried calling him and left a message earlier on but he hasn't called me back. I'm only here for 2more days. Should i just forget about him or hope he'll want to hang out before i leave?

Thanks Geminifox
I'm back in Canada and happy to be home. I was shocked at the fish's behaivor. First he insinuated that he wanted to see me then went MIA. Called me at 3am on Friday night but didn't say anything. I called back 5mins later but he didn't pick up. I didn't want to seem desperate so i didn't contact him after that. The ball is in his court and if he does ever contact me i don't think i'll be interestd in developing a romantic relationship with him. He is so trivial and i'm not a fan of uncertain relationships.

Maybe i'll just keep him as a friend...

LOL. I only he knew those were not my intentions.
Although i must say getting over the thought of him is a little tough. He made quite the impression when we first me. I must say secretly i hope he'll get in touch with me, but judging from everything that's been said about Pisces men, i'm not going to hole my breath. I don't want to fall for a man who sends mixed signals or who potentially cheat on me.

lol. Ive been with a virgo and he didn't act like the pisces guy.

""watch out...most are huge liars!!!!""

i have never met a pisces guy that was a huge liar!...one of my best and closest friends is a pisces, as a matter of fact we have the same birthday, just a 2yr difference...and as far as i know, most pisces men DO NOT play head games...he may be unsure of ur feelings for him, and maybe u might have come on a little strong, and if thats the case, he swam his little fishy tale away....as far as most being "huge liars" thats a crock of poo...sometimes a little emotional and flighty, but not liars....

fussyFishy. thanks for the heads up. I don't think i came on too strong.As for my feelings. Sigh. Do you think i should wait two more weeks and wish him holiday greetings on Roshashana? If you think it's a good idea should i call or text? (At least maybe he'll realize i do like him) I'm not sure if i should back off and let him swim to me again or swim further away from me.

I've been reading so much on pisces men and it seems like they are forgetful and tend to send mixed signals to a point of confusing the person on the recieving end.

Ive been thinking of the nyc fish. Can you fishes sense when someone thinks about you. From past experience i would say it's highly likely, because there were times when i would think of him and he would text msg me moments later.

I have been in love with a pisces for 6months now and let me asusre you they certainly do know when you are talking about them EVERYTIME i whinge about mr pisces lack of contact he rings right in the middle of it haha

the key with pisces men, is that they live in their own little world and you either have to tkae them for who they are and give them their space or walk

at least there is never a dull moment 😉

I think they just need alot of support

"Can you fishes sense when someone thinks about you."

Absolutely! 🙂 And, btw, Pisces men don't lie or cheat any more than any other sign. I know some very honest, faithful fish men in happy marriages. The key is...We have to LOVE you to feel committed. And if we do, you will know.

The thing with us is, we REFUSE to make the first move a lot of times out of fear of being hurt. We will wait for you to do it as confirmation that you are into us. This is precisely why relationships between two pisces often never even BEGIN! They're both waiting for the other to make a freakin' move.

""watch out...most are huge liars!!!!""



lol .. if you ever come back in here to read this, try to comprehend this, for it explains the quote above which escapes most people who aren't Fish because their awareness can only understand a single reality in which they formulate truths in life ....

... life, itself, along with everything in the universe is both ambiguous and infinite, in which Pisceans exist within the reality of acknowledging that there isn't one, rather, endless. So, if a person is "fixed" within certain beliefs of truth being an ultimate in the singular form .. then it would appear as though the Pisces lies .. where within the true reality of our existence, there are no certainties regarding anything .. even our existence.

mr pisces is confusing me though because he says he needs space but its got to the point where im giving him so much space, i never plan things and im always waiting for him to..

will he change you think? or is this just a man not being that intersted and nothing to do with pisces? 😉

taury, having just been with a pisces man for over 3 yrs .... i can safely say that trying to hold onto a slippery fish is hard ... they are just like that, slippery and squirmy and just want to be in the water freely swimming around in their own little world lol but they will still want you to be there watching them while they're doing that!

i think all signs have a tendency to lie in one way or antoher and with my experience mr pisces would lie out and out about things that i could clearly see he was lying about haha i used to pull him up for it all the time! even then he would still deny stuff that was obviously true lol .. i can laugh about it now but yes it was quite annoying at the time actually!

um if its any consolation sweetgem when we first got together (we worked at the same place but on different shifts so hardly saw each other) everyone around us was encouraging it so I made the first move i txted him to go out and all that but after 2 weeks never heard back from him. So when he was working his shift, i walked into work (with a low cut top on mind you lol) and asked why the hell he didnt get back to me. haha seemed to work, it still took another 2 weeks before we managed to go on a date though. He said some excuse about how his mobile phone had no credit on it (although he had my number and a landline phone, but really with pisces there's not point trying to point these logical things out to them).

with pisces you have to just push them into the right direction, without them knowing you are doing that otherwise they'll just swim away lol

also my bro is a gem and his gf is a pisces they have had an on-off r/ship (18 month break inbetween) since they were 18 but i can see they will prob get married lol so it can work!!!!

"they still want you to be there watching thrm while they are doing that"

hahaha so true!

"He said some excuse about how his mobile phone had no credit on it (although he had my number and a landline phone, but really with pisces there's not point trying to point these logical things out to them)."

oh my god the pisces i know is exactly the same!

"with pisces you have to just push them into the right direction, without them knowing you are doing that otherwise they'll just swim away lol"

that my prob im not good at being subtle 😉

i was immature tonight called him and it went to voicemail.. so i told him i was just ringing to say hi, and he could call me if he wanted to catch up

2 hrs later he stil hadnt called so i put my ph on private and he picks up straight away!

its his birthday on thursday so im gonna send him a card thanking him for his friendahip and for all his support and then whatever happens .. happens.. ive never had to work so hard to try make a relationship work!! i will always love him.. but maybe we just arent meant to be ( the 16 year age gap could be a problem and different life experiences.. my life is carefree and trouble free whereas he is stressed out.. we are just at different stages in life i guess ) 😢

i just dont get it how he says we only broke up coz he got guilty for lying to me about his age.. but when we were together the first time, we would talk a few times a day and see each other a few times a week and then breakup for 5 weeks and talk once a week and see each other the same day and thats it

why cant he be honest and just say it will never be the same and he doesnt want a relationship??

I've never in my life known a Pisces that qualifies as "a big fat liar" - confused and unsure, absolutely. Changeable, yes. Intentionally lying? Not even close. And NO, Pisces are NOT afraid to get hurt. We KNOW we'll get hurt; we jump in anyway. We're more afraid to hurt you, but that won't stop a Pisces that wants you.

If your Pisces seems not very interested, he's probably just.. not that interested. Pisces will pursue - but they have to truly WANT what you have, and get the initial feeling that you're worth the effort. Or he's just busy right now. Or he's going through a tough time (thanks, Saturn, for screwing up the last 2, 2.5 years for most Pisces!) in his personal/work/family life. Or maybe he's getting mixed signals from you (you ask if you should call or txt, holding back.. Pisces LIKE you to make effort for us too, that shows us that you're interested!) and isn't sure what to do next. He may be wondering if YOU like him, if YOU are playing the Dating Games, etc.

We don't like playing games, and don't like people who do. Pisces like upfront honesty, and LOVES you to share your thoughts and feelings. We share ours freely... or at least the surface ones. And deeper ones, once we're WITH you. The very deepest realms of a Pisces.. not so much. That's just our way, don't take it personally. It's our defense mechanism. Everyone's got them, including me and you... and you... and you. Don't hold on TOO tightly to a Pisces, they will balk quite often. Hold on loosely, but don't let go, especially in the beginning before they're committed to you and you alone!

Pisces are whack-job insane, difficult at best, and drive almost everyone absolutely crazy. We're worth it, though. A Pisces in love is 110% committed, and will stand by you through the tough times. Unless they're young and unevolved - those Pisces are especially nuts. But give them time to grow up and catch up. 😉

co-sign @ Nefer

When Pisces men send mixed signals, it's usually an indication of their own confusion, not a malicious attempt at manipulation (contrary to popular belief @ DXP).

I'll co-sign that.

My greatest fear is not poverty or accidents or dismemberment or death or anything most would be afraid of. I'm athazagoraphobic, as my profile here states. I fear being forgotten or ignored. I fear being ordinary or average (and therefore unmemorable and forgettable) and to be called boring would absolutely stroke me out on the spot, no lie.

I have been bored in relationships before. I HAVE self-sabotaged, unable to accept the huge difference between the fantasy and reality of that relationship, unable to reconcile the fact that not *everyone* is good, and savable, and actually better than they seem to be. Hell, I've self-destructed because I knew I was not stimulated enough, and perhaps unable to BE stimulating enough. And onward to the next, because I can see it there, just out of my reach.

Working on my challenges and weaknesses has come with age. I accept myself, flaws and all. I know I'm better now than I used to be. I've learned the difference between excitement and drama. I am more assertive, more direct. I am more compassionate and maybe a bit less naive. I've learned to show my anger instead of bottling it up until I blow and take out a city block in my rage and indignation.

But one thing that will likely never change about me: I won't be ordinary, and I won't leave anyone unaffected. I can't.

Liars in my experience

I love my Pisces man. 🙂

Posted by FLeo Lives On
can any of our fish co-sign with the Fish who made that post?

@ Fleo Lives On -

Ha ha, it's funny to find my words quoted on another message board, all the more as there were quite a few other users raising interesting issues among the hundreds of posts on that thread. 🙂
Heck, I guess using paragraphing helps.

Did you post there, as well?

@ Nefer -

You added some very valuable points.
Good to know there are others who can see the world through the same window.

Still, I believe the self-sabotaging issue is the one most misunderstood thing a pisces can do, as seen by others.
Well, a wise man once said: "You can't please them all, but you can surely make them all mad at the same time".

eh, i have a pisces guy that's on my tail (and he is VERY pisces from the literature i've read) and there is no head game with him at all. he is very direct and forward with me. he tells me exactly what is on his mind. he showers me with compliments and even says them in a matter-of-fact tone... as if my beauty has been scientifically proven or something. he definitely has his moments (which could take weeks) of being spaced out and that's when i leave him to his thoughts. then he comes back around and is all over me again.

i'd say don't invest ur emotions in this guy. who cares about the sign? just go do ur thing.

Posted by fussyfishy_grl83
""watch out...most are huge liars!!!!""

i have never met a pisces guy that was a huge liar!...one of my best and closest friends is a pisces, as a matter of fact we have the same birthday, just a 2yr difference...and as far as i know, most pisces men DO NOT play head games...he may be unsure of ur feelings for him, and maybe u might have come on a little strong, and if thats the case, he swam his little fishy tale away....as far as most being "huge liars" thats a crock of poo...sometimes a little emotional and flighty, but not liars....

Yeah...right

ANYways, to the threadmaker--sorry that you had to experience the essense of Pisces, but that is how it goes with them.

Hot...then cold.

They're HUGE commitmophobes, and will play head games (yes they do play headgames, I have known more Pisces than I care to, both male and female, as friends, lovers, boyfriends, so I'm not basing this on 1 or 2 encounters)

They like to be chased, it makes them feel loved

The second you stop chasing him, he'll come after you...to get you to chase him all over again.
I'd say move on.

To come to his state/town and have him not even find an hour or two to meet up with you for lunch?

Move on.

And anyone who says Pisces don't lie needs their heads checked. They lie all day EVERY day. So stop with YOUR lies.

Posted by DeityBull
taury, having just been with a pisces man for over 3 yrs .... i can safely say that trying to hold onto a slippery fish is hard ... they are just like that, slippery and squirmy and just want to be in the water freely swimming around in their own little world lol but they will still want you to be there watching them while they're doing that!

i think all signs have a tendency to lie in one way or antoher and with my experience mr pisces would lie out and out about things that i could clearly see he was lying about haha i used to pull him up for it all the time! even then he would still deny stuff that was obviously true lol .. i can laugh about it now but yes it was quite annoying at the time actually!

um if its any consolation sweetgem when we first got together (we worked at the same place but on different shifts so hardly saw each other) everyone around us was encouraging it so I made the first move i txted him to go out and all that but after 2 weeks never heard back from him. So when he was working his shift, i walked into work (with a low cut top on mind you lol) and asked why the hell he didnt get back to me. haha seemed to work, it still took another 2 weeks before we managed to go on a date though. He said some excuse about how his mobile phone had no credit on it (although he had my number and a landline phone, but really with pisces there's not point trying to point these logical things out to them).

with pisces you have to just push them into the right direction, without them knowing you are doing that otherwise they'll just swim away lol

also my bro is a gem and his gf is a pisces they have had an on-off r/ship (18 month break inbetween) since they were 18 but i can see they will prob get married lol so it can work!!!!

This person knows exactly what theyre talking about....

they do play head games, but the games are more in their head than yours. they're delusional and don't have a clue what they want (or they do and it immediately changes)

if you don't like them as they are, just avoid them.

Mine wasn't a commitmentphobe who wanted to be chased. It was hard to pry him off of a love interest with a crowbar.

He was a pathological liar, though. 100% . I'm not saying it's because he was a Pisces, because that wouldn't be fair.

Head games? No, he didn't play head games. He WAS the head game.