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I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
I know you aren't talking about me, you don't know me at all. I AM NOT A GRANDMOTHER FOR **** sake what is wrong with you people thinking a 50 yr old is a grandma, you must live in the damn ghetto or something! I'm in the prime of my life and enjoy sex and companionship Jesus!
You din't read what i said or maybe don't want to. I said i want to be grandma by that age not thatbu are already. I don't know you but looks like a woman ur age trying to get younger boys for pleasure is as perverted as old men wanting females their grand daughteter's age Don't you get men your own age— Or u r not respected by them to have a real relationship?? Or u have self esteem issues which you compensate throguh feeling wanted by young boys. Eithet ways ur ways r disturbing.
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Sorry, on the defense for sure... I apologize. Thanks for your kind words and insight
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Posted by lisabethur8
or basically this is the true love of NEPTUNE. Neptune is the highest form of /high octave of love.

and people just don't "get it". so well whatever..

Edit - also what is Neptune, also forgiveness, and the link to the universe/god. and sacrifice.
What should I look for in my chart? Is there a reason I'm attractive and attracted to younger men? But really it's funny I'm a Libra sun and all me serious relationships have either been younger or older. I have never been with anyone my own age! Weird, never really thought about that...I'm talking long term relationships..
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I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
I know you aren't talking about me, you don't know me at all. I AM NOT A GRANDMOTHER FOR **** sake what is wrong with you people thinking a 50 yr old is a grandma, you must live in the damn ghetto or something! I'm in the prime of my life and enjoy sex and companionship Jesus!
You din't read what i said or maybe don't want to. I said i want to be grandma by that age not thatbu are already. I don't know you but looks like a woman ur age trying to get younger boys for pleasure is as perverted as old men wanting females their grand daughteter's age Don't you get men your own age— Or u r not respected by them to have a real relationship?? Or u have self esteem issues which you compensate throguh feeling wanted by young boys. Eithet ways ur ways r disturbing.
I am not going after young boys Ick! This guy is almost 30 seriously when did that become a young boy,.

He has an old soul and we click.. I enjoy his company. Omg I'm attracted to men my age, I have never based who I like to societies standards, I follow my gut and go with whom I'm attracted to and who likes things I like etc.. Give me a break.. You make this sound like some predatory thing!
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or basically this is the true love of NEPTUNE. Neptune is the highest form of /high octave of love.

and people just don't "get it". so well whatever..

Edit - also what is Neptune, also forgiveness, and the link to the universe/god. and sacrifice.
What should I look for in my chart? Is there a reason I'm attractive and attracted to younger men? But really it's funny I'm a Libra sun and all me serious relationships have either been younger or older. I have never been with anyone my own age! Weird, never really thought about that...I'm talking long term relationships..
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hm where your sun/moon personal planets fall in houses.

also how Neptune is aspected. not really sure. i'd do a lot of WORK, meaning do a lot of reading and do it everyday for a couple hours of your time and over the years you'll understand.

plus, it sounds like you're at that age, the way Madonna is, where she doesn't care if they are going to stay or go, after you both have sex.

maybe it's to the point of..well, i'm not gonna be chaining him to my bed so he stays there forever, and he is free to go whenever he wants.

sounds, personally very sad. 😢

cause they could go anytime.
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I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
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I'm finding it irritating that everyone keeps telling OP "he won't stick around", as they protest from their 20 something voices of desperation to quickly find a man, to desperately marry their whiny ass and pop out children...

she isn't into making a lifelong mate....she's into S.E.X.

DUMB CUNTS....you know that thing you young bimbos use to think you can trap a man, only you've been dicktamatized and now you're on dxp making retarded threads called:


"DOES HE LIKE ME?!!! HE "LIKES" MY FB PICTURES!! GAHHHH I NEED TO BE VALIDATED!"


No bishes, she wants to work his pole...now shaddup...and go back to the ghetto to sucker some more baby daddies.
LoL exactly! You are an amazing person.
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or basically this is the true love of NEPTUNE. Neptune is the highest form of /high octave of love.

and people just don't "get it". so well whatever..

Edit - also what is Neptune, also forgiveness, and the link to the universe/god. and sacrifice.
What should I look for in my chart? Is there a reason I'm attractive and attracted to younger men? But really it's funny I'm a Libra sun and all me serious relationships have either been younger or older. I have never been with anyone my own age! Weird, never really thought about that...I'm talking long term relationships..
hm where your sun/moon personal planets fall in houses.

also how Neptune is aspected. not really sure. i'd do a lot of WORK, meaning do a lot of reading and do it everyday for a couple hours of your time and over the years you'll understand.

plus, it sounds like you're at that age, the way Madonna is, where she doesn't care if they are going to stay or go, after you both have sex.

maybe it's to the point of..well, i'm not gonna be chaining him to my bed so he stays there forever, and he is free to go whenever he wants.

sounds, personally very sad. 😢

cause they could go anytime.
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SAD, no far from it! I've had a few long term relationships in my time, blessed with some real deep loves over my life.. I'm not Loki g for that right now.. Sounds like heaven to me.. You can't chain anyone to you ever if you think you can you are mistaken.
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Posted by Shescomeundone
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Posted by lisabethur8
or basically this is the true love of NEPTUNE. Neptune is the highest form of /high octave of love.

and people just don't "get it". so well whatever..

Edit - also what is Neptune, also forgiveness, and the link to the universe/god. and sacrifice.
What should I look for in my chart? Is there a reason I'm attractive and attracted to younger men? But really it's funny I'm a Libra sun and all me serious relationships have either been younger or older. I have never been with anyone my own age! Weird, never really thought about that...I'm talking long term relationships..
hm where your sun/moon personal planets fall in houses.

also how Neptune is aspected. not really sure. i'd do a lot of WORK, meaning do a lot of reading and do it everyday for a couple hours of your time and over the years you'll understand.

plus, it sounds like you're at that age, the way Madonna is, where she doesn't care if they are going to stay or go, after you both have sex.

maybe it's to the point of..well, i'm not gonna be chaining him to my bed so he stays there forever, and he is free to go whenever he wants.

sounds, personally very sad. 😢

cause they could go anytime.
SAD, no far from it! I've had a few long term relationships in my time, blessed with some real deep loves over my life.. I'm not Loki g for that right now.. Sounds like heaven to me.. You can't chain anyone to you ever if you think you can you are mistaken.
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you and I just don't see eye to eye then. I would prefer to be with someone till the end, both BURIED in the same ground, or side by side. "Here lies mr. and mrs. _____" "Beloved father and mother, R.I.P"
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
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yeah, actually, I do

obviously there are men -- date for just sex at whatever age -- that is not exclusive to the older women

I have seen some great relationships with older women and younger men. The woman is settled, is not thinking about kids and the man never wanted kids... it is a win win.
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
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in the case of my ex's mother, YES.

he (the younger man who is 30 plus) hopes to live and be with her till she passes away. If she dies before him, it's fine, he will be with her to the end and take care of her.

that's the plan. she took care of him as long as she is able and strong, as long as she is still breathing and doesn't have ailments, and i'm sure he will continue to do the same to the end.

a lot of young men are OLD souls.
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
in the case of my ex's mother, YES.

he (the younger man who is 30 plus) hopes to live and be with her till she passes away. If she dies before him, it's fine, he will be with her to the end and take care of her.

that's the plan. she took care of him as long as she is able and strong, as long as she is still breathing and doesn't have ailments, and i'm sure he will continue to do the same to the end.

a lot of young men are OLD souls.
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LOL ok this is just weird
😆 heehee. I told my husband and he's like, mmmmkkkay. we're all gonna die anyway. lol he's so romantic.
hahahaha you kill me

have you guys bought a burial plot or whatever you call it?

next big anniversary, splurge!!!

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yes we already planned it. lol and we have funeral money that kind of thing.

so our family don't have to spend much on us if we die. We took care of it. We don't want to burden them with expenses, only to attend our funeral.
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
yeah, actually, I do

obviously there are men -- date for just sex at whatever age -- that is not exclusive to the older women

I have seen some great relationships with older women and younger men. The woman is settled, is not thinking about kids and the man never wanted kids... it is a win win.
...then your experience of dating them is different to mine and friends who have been through this

i have found younger men come to older women to either be nurtured (mothered) or to have great sex with an experienced woman. There is an imbalance in the energies. Any woman who holds onto a younger fella could be in for some heartache ...

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so you are saying men who date older women want a mother-- or sex because at the age of 30, a man hasn't had experience with women...

ok, got it

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LOL ok this is just weird
😆 heehee. I told my husband and he's like, mmmmkkkay. we're all gonna die anyway. lol he's so romantic.
hahahaha you kill me

have you guys bought a burial plot or whatever you call it?

next big anniversary, splurge!!!
yes we already planned it. lol and we have funeral money that kind of thing.

so our family don't have to spend much on us if we die. We took care of it. We don't want to burden them with expenses, only to attend our funeral.
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totally understandable......... buy my own shit cuz they gonna turn me into ashes 😄
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Posted by starlover
If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
yeah, actually, I do

obviously there are men -- date for just sex at whatever age -- that is not exclusive to the older women

I have seen some great relationships with older women and younger men. The woman is settled, is not thinking about kids and the man never wanted kids... it is a win win.
...then your experience of dating them is different to mine and friends who have been through this

i have found younger men come to older women to either be nurtured (mothered) or to have great sex with an experienced woman. There is an imbalance in the energies. Any woman who holds onto a younger fella could be in for some heartache ...
so you are saying men who date older women want a mother-- or sex because at the age of 30, a man hasn't had experience with women...

ok, got it
No i didnt say that at all. I said a lot of men want to experience sex with an older woman ~ and on some level some of them are looking for a mother figure, as are some women looking for a father figure with older men
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we are all looking for something in someone... age has nothing to do with it imo
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If there is a big gap like 20years, the differences, as time goes by can create problems....

A 35 year old woman, maybe who wants children, being with a man that is 55 or nearing 60 just wouldn't be practical, as the other way around with the woman being older.

To me, the only benefits of this kind of age gap is sexual...when the woman is the older one
really...?

not even companionship, just sex?

there are so many men dating older women...
do you think the majority of younger guys that date older women are looking for a *companion* ?
yeah, actually, I do

obviously there are men -- date for just sex at whatever age -- that is not exclusive to the older women

I have seen some great relationships with older women and younger men. The woman is settled, is not thinking about kids and the man never wanted kids... it is a win win.
...then your experience of dating them is different to mine and friends who have been through this

i have found younger men come to older women to either be nurtured (mothered) or to have great sex with an experienced woman. There is an imbalance in the energies. Any woman who holds onto a younger fella could be in for some heartache ...

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He told me the first day we met that he never clicked with woman his own age and always felt older then his peers..
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LOL ok this is just weird
😆 heehee. I told my husband and he's like, mmmmkkkay. we're all gonna die anyway. lol he's so romantic.
hahahaha you kill me

have you guys bought a burial plot or whatever you call it?

next big anniversary, splurge!!!
yes we already planned it. lol and we have funeral money that kind of thing.

so our family don't have to spend much on us if we die. We took care of it. We don't want to burden them with expenses, only to attend our funeral.
totally understandable......... buy my own shit cuz they gonna turn me into ashes 😄
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yeah it is the cheapest way. to burn your ashes. lol
and if your family can't afford it, that's what they're gonna do.
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I'm a 45 year old that looks barely 30.. I get hit on ALL the time by guys in their early/mid 20s' So fucking what? i dated someone that was 25 when i was 40.*shrug* only ones that knew.. me and him.

When i have dated older, i get weird looks because i look so young and they think the guys are creepos.. double standards are ridicules.

It's their life, let them live it.

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Posted by TerScor67
I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
Why does the end product of any relationship have to be having kids?? A lot of people these days don't want kids. They cost a lot of money, you stop having sex after they're born, they cause stress, teenagers are a real treat, they could inherit all the negative traits of your relatives, the list goes on.

Age doesn't matter. And even if it's just for sex, who cares. Does that mean relationships between people in their 20's are never about just sex? Please.

And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.

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Posted by TerScor67
I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
Why does the end product of any relationship have to be having kids?? A lot of people these days don't want kids. They cost a lot of money, you stop having sex after they're born, they cause stress, teenagers are a real treat, they could inherit all the negative traits of your relatives, the list goes on.

Age doesn't matter. And even if it's just for sex, who cares. Does that mean relationships between people in their 20's are never about just sex? Please.

And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.

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hEllO
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Posted by TerScor67
I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.

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Two questions. Why the hell is this thread still going on?
And why are women always leading with "well men do it," I mean can we think for ourselves instead of seeing ourselves as attachments to the male identity—!?
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I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.
Two questions. Why the hell is this thread still going on?
And why are women always leading with "well men do it," I mean can we think for ourselves instead of seeing ourselves as attachments to the male identity—!?
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threads can go as much as they want...

women do not always lead with that but it seems important to mention the double standards IMO
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Posted by TerScor67
I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.
Two questions. Why the hell is this thread still going on?
And why are women always leading with "well men do it," I mean can we think for ourselves instead of seeing ourselves as attachments to the male identity—!?
threads can go as much as they want...

women do not always lead with that but it seems important to mention the double standards IMO
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I don't know, it feels a bit counterintuitive to on one hand desire the independence of self while still comparing oneself to men. Who cares what men can do.
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Posted by TerScor67
I'm a 48 male and have become very close to a 29 yr old female. Both Scorpios and born 2 days apart. Age doesn't matter once you get past the initial "knowing" process. It's taken a couple of years to get her trust and it's still a work in progress, but age doesn't matter. You being 51 though how does it work if you do get together and want kids in the future? Down the road I know but still something to think about?
And men have been doing this for ages. It's the young women who are threatened by this.
Two questions. Why the hell is this thread still going on?
And why are women always leading with "well men do it," I mean can we think for ourselves instead of seeing ourselves as attachments to the male identity—!?
threads can go as much as they want...

women do not always lead with that but it seems important to mention the double standards IMO
I don't know, it feels a bit counterintuitive to on one hand desire the independence of self while still comparing oneself to men. Who cares what men can do.
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being independent as women means exactly that... comparing societal and cultural expectations of men and women... you can't have one without the other
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Society and media usually portray older women/younger men relationships as perverted and disgusting. There is a movie with Naomi Watts and Robin Wright where they engaged in such a relationship with each others' sons - and the reviews (mostly by men) were harsh to say the least. Honestly, wouldn't any guy be lucky though to get it on with either women?

I heard that "cougars" was actually coined by young women, threatened by the competition. "All these older women are having sex with with our young men!!"

I have friends who met when he was 25 (a Leo) and she was 45 (Taurus) and they have been together for 25 years. Still going strong.
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Society and media usually portray older women/younger men relationships as perverted and disgusting. There is a movie with Naomi Watts and Robin Wright where they engaged in such a relationship with each others' sons - and the reviews (mostly by men) were harsh to say the least. Honestly, wouldn't any guy be lucky though to get it on with either women?

I heard that "cougars" was actually coined by young women, threatened by the competition. "All these older women are having sex with with our young men!!"

I have friends who met when he was 25 (a Leo) and she was 45 (Taurus) and they have been together for 25 years. Still going strong.
have you seen the documentary, Codes of Gender? Very powerful and insightful how media contributes to enforce such ingrained stereotypes and how destructive it is to women. Sad part is it's so deep within our culture women believe it too.
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Society and media usually portray older women/younger men relationships as perverted and disgusting. There is a movie with Naomi Watts and Robin Wright where they engaged in such a relationship with each others' sons - and the reviews (mostly by men) were harsh to say the least. Honestly, wouldn't any guy be lucky though to get it on with either women?

I heard that "cougars" was actually coined by young women, threatened by the competition. "All these older women are having sex with with our young men!!"

I have friends who met when he was 25 (a Leo) and she was 45 (Taurus) and they have been together for 25 years. Still going strong.
have you seen the documentary, Codes of Gender? Very powerful and insightful how media contributes to enforce such ingrained stereotypes and how destructive it is to women. Sad part is it's so deep within our culture women believe it too.
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No I haven't but I found it online, so I'll have to take a look!
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Society and media usually portray older women/younger men relationships as perverted and disgusting. There is a movie with Naomi Watts and Robin Wright where they engaged in such a relationship with each others' sons - and the reviews (mostly by men) were harsh to say the least. Honestly, wouldn't any guy be lucky though to get it on with either women?

I heard that "cougars" was actually coined by young women, threatened by the competition. "All these older women are having sex with with our young men!!"

I have friends who met when he was 25 (a Leo) and she was 45 (Taurus) and they have been together for 25 years. Still going strong.
have you seen the documentary, Codes of Gender? Very powerful and insightful how media contributes to enforce such ingrained stereotypes and how destructive it is to women. Sad part is it's so deep within our culture women believe it too.
No I haven't but I found it online, so I'll have to take a look!
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yes, it is based on Erving Goffman's analysis of the body in print advertising, uncovering an astonishing pattern of regressive and destructive gender codes...