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I want my Tauras man to forgive me!
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We grew an attachment from conversing...Posted by style andgrace26What do you mean you were attached to him so very early on?
I met my Taurus man 8 months ago and I have been attached every since. Although he was stationed over seas, we communicated everyday all day. I even helped find him a place to stay, looked at furniture and made sure that his transition back to the states was easy as possible! By the way, I didn't assist in a financial way!
We were on the same page emotionally and I know he cares for me. He was very grateful for everything I did for him and definitely showed his thankfulness.
He finally came home to the states and we were super excited to see each other. Within the first week of him being here, he was very busy getting his new place together and visiting family so although we still communicated all day, I did notice a small change in our communication.
Obviously, he noticed the change too and said that he would work on it and we'd go for lunch.
Up until that moment came for us to have lunch, I hadn't heard from him back from him. I was concerned because this was VERY out of character for him. I went in to a frenzy after not speaking to him for the rest of the day and went to check on him and called with no response.
Fast forward...
I ended up reaching out to one of his family members who said he "was fine". The family member obviously relayed the message to him because he TEXT me upset that I had reached out to his family member out of CONCERN. He said that I disrespected him and basically cut me off...
I'm completely confused and hurt by this because I never seen this coming and the only reason I reached out to the family member was to make sure of his well being.
He is someone I don't want to let go and I know that Taurus men are stubborn! I've reached out to him and apologized but haven't heard back, as expected. I know food is the way to a Taurus' heart. What should be my next course of action?
I really miss him and want him to know that I'm sorry.
2. He just got home from overseas, was he in the military and was he single?
3. Don't go calling family you don't even know him that well-known person.
4. I would be upset because he said we will do lunch and chill sometime, but he said he had to do something about his business that takes time.
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We shared a lot of things about one another.
Yes he was single and yes he was in the military.
I knew him well enough for him to make me POA :-)
I only called because he randomly stopped answering phone calls and my text after TWO days. I thought something happened to him which is why I reached out to a family member out of concern...
You have to realize that he was overseas and came home. He hasn't seen his family for a while, then he has a new apartment to get situated and then get used to be a civilian on top of all of that.
He is going through A LOT of change at this time. You have to realize what he used to do, will be altered because he's busy. If a Taurus is busy, you're not on the priority list, honestly you shouldn't be. He has things to take care of. Let him handle his own and when he's ready, he will talk to you.
You made a bad move by contacting a family member that you don't know. Regardless of the reasons that was a major no-no! I would have lost my mind. Patience is the key with Taurus'. Things come up, especially with all that is going on. Chill out.
Your next course of action should be radio silence. Let him do him, get this stuff done. If he forgives your actions, he will contact you. If you keep bothering, you WILL force his hand, and he cut you off permanently. I think all the stuff you done for him, probably makes him feel some since of loyalty to you and may reach out, but if you text him, call him or reach out whatever...that goes out the window.
Take a breath, leave him be and focus on you.
He is going through A LOT of change at this time. You have to realize what he used to do, will be altered because he's busy. If a Taurus is busy, you're not on the priority list, honestly you shouldn't be. He has things to take care of. Let him handle his own and when he's ready, he will talk to you.
You made a bad move by contacting a family member that you don't know. Regardless of the reasons that was a major no-no! I would have lost my mind. Patience is the key with Taurus'. Things come up, especially with all that is going on. Chill out.
Your next course of action should be radio silence. Let him do him, get this stuff done. If he forgives your actions, he will contact you. If you keep bothering, you WILL force his hand, and he cut you off permanently. I think all the stuff you done for him, probably makes him feel some since of loyalty to you and may reach out, but if you text him, call him or reach out whatever...that goes out the window.
Take a breath, leave him be and focus on you.
Posted by tbirdI agree, give it a break and see what happens ...
You have to realize that he was overseas and came home. He hasn't seen his family for a while, then he has a new apartment to get situated and then get used to be a civilian on top of all of that.
He is going through A LOT of change at this time. You have to realize what he used to do, will be altered because he's busy. If a Taurus is busy, you're not on the priority list, honestly you shouldn't be. He has things to take care of. Let him handle his own and when he's ready, he will talk to you.
You made a bad move by contacting a family member that you don't know. Regardless of the reasons that was a major no-no! I would have lost my mind. Patience is the key with Taurus'. Things come up, especially with all that is going on. Chill out.
You're next course of action should be radio silence. Let him do him, get this stuff done. If he forgives you're actions, he will contact you. If you keep bothering, you WILL force his hand and cut you off permanently. I think all the stuff you done for him, probably makes him feel some since of loyalty to you and may reach out, but if you text him, call him or reach out whatever...that goes out the window.
Take a breath, leave him be and focus on you.
I'm not sure I would get over this but continuing to reach out, would make sure I never did. You need to let him come to you.
Yeah just let him come to you .. You reaching out to his family without ever really meeting him makes you look and sound crazy even tho it was for a reason that you were concern with his well being . If you never met his family before and all of a sudden started calling them than that just sounds crazy and maybe he feels like uh oh I gotta get away she crazy
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