If you had met your significant other when you bother were younger

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Adreamuponwaking on Tuesday, November 21, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@Adreamuponwaking
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do you think you would have been as attracted to them as the first time you actually met?

e.g- say you met the current person you are dating now in your late twenties

do you think if you would have met in HS or college you would have met , liked each other and dated?

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Depends on both our age.

Thinking back to my first-ever boy crush, I was 12 and he was 11. Ash-blond hair and blue-green eyes, a little taller than me, with a broad forehead and built like a soccer player, handsome.....sound familiar?

My second major boy crush was the same age as me, dark blond hair and blue eyes, heart-shaped face with a killer smirk and nice tone......sound familiar? Seems like I've always had a Jed type.

He was 20 when we met, I was a couple months away from my 28th. So if we had met when I was 20, he would've been 13. Not happening. But I do believe we would've been drawn to each other in a big brother-little brother way.

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Fun story, I did meet my dude when we were both younger. I worked at an hoa starting when I was 16 teaching lessons and life guarding at his community pool.

I remember seeing him and thinking he was fine af but too young for me and I tried to hook him up with my younger coworker.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
do you think you would have been as attracted to them as the first time you actually met?

e.g- say you met the current person you are dating now in your late twenties

do you think if you would have met in HS or college you would have met , liked each other and dated?

Totally

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@Adreamuponwaking
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Fun story, I did meet my dude when we were both younger. I worked at an hoa starting when I was 16 teaching lessons and life guarding at his community pool.

I remember seeing him and thinking he was fine af but too young for me and I tried to hook him up with my younger coworker.

it's all about that long term game.

a decade later and he snagged you lol