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Understanding Why People Cheat According to Astrology
Astrology suggests that cheating can be influenced by an individual's sun sign, reflecting traits like boredom, dissatisfaction, or opportunity-seeking. Recognizing your sun sign can help identify underlying tendencies and guide personal growth or relationship improvement.
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Nobody cheat in here.
Posted by AerialView
Nobody cheat in here.
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I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sun
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunJeez yeah at least two relationships I'd been accused of cheating that I'd wished I'd actually had the sex to justify the stress.
Pretty much only a low libido meant I didn't do anything.
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Haha low libido .. he accused me for an entire year of cheating when I was being faithful.. after that I was like fk it lol
Haven't cheated physically but, after decades of denial and self-justification, I have now come to accept I am some form of emotional cheater. I really don't know how emotional unfaithfulness is supposed to be defined exactly, but I think focusing on that is part of what has helped me stay in denial about my problem. I just know I have felt like I've had a stronger emotional bond and even fallen in love with others, while I was in a committed relationship, usually one that lacked strong emotional connection, sexual passion, or good verbal communication/stimulation.
Yes I feel guilty. The guilt from it is really overwhelming and has turned towards self-hatred at times. I'm definitely very guilt-oriented to begin with, and I carry this guilt and think about it regularly as loyalty is so important to me as a core value. I find it almost impossible to forgive myself for the times its happened, as I could never accept it in someone else. It also makes me hesitant to get into any relationship, the older I get, as it tends to happen most with a partner who is the most stable and practical choice for me, e.g., best for raising a family. In a relationship that is emotionally volatile and chaotic, I don't have the issue. I have confessed it to a partner before. She still wanted to stay with me, but felt it was actually worse than physically cheating, which I guess, as a dude, is hard to understand.
Define 'cheating'
My libra ex thought I cheated on him with my big leo affaire lol I didn't - he even contacted him - what a weak pussy move. The leo told me so after it was over with the libra and we had contact again.
When I was with the libra I never got the leo out of my head but I didn't cheat with him.
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunJeez yeah at least two relationships I'd been accused of cheating that I'd wished I'd actually had the sex to justify the stress.
Pretty much only a low libido meant I didn't do anything.
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To justify the stress...lol !!! Why did she think you were cheating?
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'
you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
I cheated on the chanclas when I wore the loafers.
I did it for a day before I broke down and owned up
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
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So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sun
Well. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
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cheating is cheating but how we cheat depends on
the rules on the relationship which are different according to
what the couples 'usually' set in place. Youuu being off the hook
depends on his views and your views on the relationship itself and
how cheating is defined. You must talk to him about that not me lol im off the hook on that 😄
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
cheating is cheating but how we cheat depends on
the rules on the relationship which are different according to
what the couples 'usually' set in place. Youuu being off the hook
depends on his views and your views on the relationship itself and
how cheating is defined. You must talk to him about that not me lol im off the hook on that 😄
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No man will say 'I am ok with that. Go ahead'...though some claim having open marriages. Meaning both can do what they please. I am just not that 'adventurous' to discuss it openly because if he had someone it would be easier.
So far his mind into other things like making money. Nothing else gets him.
And I am trying not to stir the pot of shit!
Lol
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
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This happened 15 years ago lol
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
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Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
Emotionally... physically... both, yes. I have no conscience unless I choose to. Sitting down and actually thinking how the shoe would feel on the other foot changed that. Now I’d break up with someone before I cheated on them.
Guilt is a useless emotion. Cheat away...
Nah I am kidding. I haven't ever cheated. I know I would not feel guilty though.
Why would I not cheat?? I decide not to ....
It's risking hurting the other person. And you don't if you are in love....it's breaking the intimacy of the relationship.
It's making the relationship false. And I wouldn't want that. Who wants a fake relationship??
It's nothing to do with guilt. I would just prefer real love.
I think if you believe in real love. Then you don't cheat.
If you cheat ..and you think you believe in love. I think you are kidding yourself. Or you are emotionally unstable.
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.
Libra
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
Posted by hippiecrite
Emotionally... physically... both, yes. I have no conscience unless I choose to. Sitting down and actually thinking how the shoe would feel on the other foot changed that. Now I’d break up with someone before I cheated on them.
Why i actually left my last relationship. I did cheat prior but got to the point where i wasnt happy and wasnt gonna give a rats ass to find some strange.
Didnt want live a double life or hurt hee deeply that way.
Has anyone been in an open relationship ?
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
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Dont know the half. Any other guy would have been a serial cheater.
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
Dont know the half. Any other guy would have been a serial cheater.
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I was joking...
But jesus only a FUCKING man would try and turn around being a cheater into ...actually i am a hero ...
Gobshite. 😛
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
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Ain't nothing to tell , he's just an ex bf lol
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
Dont know the half. Any other guy would have been a serial cheater.
I was joking...
But jesus only a FUCKING man would try and turn around being a cheater into ...actually i am a hero ...
Gobshite. 😛
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Actually wait hang on ....you said you DID SERIAL CHEAT
Just leave.
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
Ain't nothing to tell , he's just an ex bf lol
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Still strange. Why did you? Just curious.
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
Dont know the half. Any other guy would have been a serial cheater.
I was joking...
But jesus only a FUCKING man would try and turn around being a cheater into ...actually i am a hero ...
Gobshite. 😛
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I get your point. I felt ashamed about it and never branged about it.
I don't think there would be anything satisfying in cheating for me....i can't be with that other person.
I was thinking ..i mean divorce in Ireland is hard ..so you could easily be trapped in a loveless marriage.
Lots of women are ....financially they are dependent or like the life. But you can't BE with the other person. So what would be the point?
If I love someone I would be true to them. If i didn't i would leave.
Plus if you have kids. You want them to have a loving environment.
Cheating is not part of the picture for me.
Posted by Breeze
I cheated. Always felt disgusted afterwards but did it again. Gf wasnt pleasing how she should have. Had our own place in our 20s and was like pulling teeth to have sex once a week.Libra
You dirty bitch.
Dont know the half. Any other guy would have been a serial cheater.
I was joking...
But jesus only a FUCKING man would try and turn around being a cheater into ...actually i am a hero ...
Gobshite. 😛
I get your point. I felt ashamed about it and never branged about it.
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I admire your candor.
Cheatig is not part of the fairytale.
I see some people saying emotionally cheat. What is it exactly?
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'
Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
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Why not tell him and find out?
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
Ain't nothing to tell , he's just an ex bf lol
Still strange. Why did you? Just curious.
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Cuz I was a teenager & allowed to get it out then lol
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
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What if you aren't married? Bet this thought never crossed your mind...
Because you have none!
You can't even make your man stop playing video games while you are naked!
I am sorry for you. Maybe you need another dog or start some charity?
Apparently sex is not any of your expertise honey bun...
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Why not tell him and find out?
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He is playing a possum...
I M such a good cook. And server. And partner as a friend. You wouldn't understand. Cross that bridge when you get there.
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
Ain't nothing to tell , he's just an ex bf lol
Still strange. Why did you? Just curious.
Cuz I was a teenager & allowed to get it out then lol
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Darn! I am too old to remember my teen years...or maybe I just don't want to...
God bless me...🙏
That was really bad!!! Lmao
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Why not tell him and find out?
He is playing a possum...
I M such a good cook. And server. And partner as a friend. You wouldn't understand. Cross that bridge when you get there.
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Nope I won't accept that.
You don't tell him cause you know he'd consider it a betrayal. Be real.
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
What if you aren't married? Bet this thought never crossed your mind...
Because you have none!
You can't even make your man stop playing video games while you are naked!
I am sorry for you. Maybe you need another dog or start some charity?
Apparently sex is not any of your expertise honey bun...
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If you cheat and your not married that's not cool either. But it's especially bad to promise fidelity to someone for life and then fuck them over.
My man doesn't play video games. Your dementia is kicking in again grams.
Posted by SofiaV87
I felt guilty when I cheated.. it was a long time ago .. I told him I cheated on him .. it was cuz I wasn't happy with him & he was always accusing me of cheating before I even cheated lol.. he wanted to stay with me after I told him .. Aries sunWell. People always chewing me up with 'DIVORCE' !!! and here you are not happy not married and cheating instead of walking away from unhappiness...and telling him about it!
And he forgives you...and then what?
This happened 15 years ago lol
Do tell! You worsenthan me...lol
Ain't nothing to tell , he's just an ex bf lol
Still strange. Why did you? Just curious.
Cuz I was a teenager & allowed to get it out then lol
Darn! I am too old to remember my teen years...or maybe I just don't want to...
God bless me...🙏
That was really bad!!! Lmao
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🤣🤣
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Why not tell him and find out?
He is playing a possum...
I M such a good cook. And server. And partner as a friend. You wouldn't understand. Cross that bridge when you get there.
Nope I won't accept that.
You don't tell him cause you know he'd consider it a betrayal. Be real.
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Of course! Where have you been wham I said he has a heart issue? Up god ass?
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Why not tell him and find out?
He is playing a possum...
I M such a good cook. And server. And partner as a friend. You wouldn't understand. Cross that bridge when you get there.
Nope I won't accept that.
You don't tell him cause you know he'd consider it a betrayal. Be real.
Of course! Where have you been wham I said he has a heart issue? Up god ass?
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So then we can safely label you fucking this scorp dude as 'cheating'. Since telling your husband will literally stop his heart.
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
What if you aren't married? Bet this thought never crossed your mind...
Because you have none!
You can't even make your man stop playing video games while you are naked!
I am sorry for you. Maybe you need another dog or start some charity?
Apparently sex is not any of your expertise honey bun...
If you cheat and your not married that's not cool either. But it's especially bad to promise fidelity to someone for life and then fuck them over.
My man doesn't play video games. Your dementia is kicking in again grams.
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Grams is your mother!
And you just made a while sheet about fucking your bf while he is playing video games as a great thing!
What are you sniffing?
That pooch farts must have some powers over you! Try to change his food to Ceasars!
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
What if you aren't married? Bet this thought never crossed your mind...
Because you have none!
You can't even make your man stop playing video games while you are naked!
I am sorry for you. Maybe you need another dog or start some charity?
Apparently sex is not any of your expertise honey bun...
If you cheat and your not married that's not cool either. But it's especially bad to promise fidelity to someone for life and then fuck them over.
My man doesn't play video games. Your dementia is kicking in again grams.
Grams is your mother!
And you just made a while sheet about fucking your bf while he is playing video games as a great thing!
What are you sniffing?
That pooch farts must have some powers over you! Try to change his food to Ceasars!
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Prove it.
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'you doing something without your partners knowledge that involves
breaking the rules of the relationship (that were supposedly set up or understood by you both)
that holds it together ***different rules for different couples
So me cheating would be different from you cheating because we set different rules? Or had not set any?
I told my husband at the beginning that him cheating means he is out! He was married previously 3 times and I wasn't.
He had agreed.
He didn't tell me anything about cheating.
So am I off the hook?
Why not tell him and find out?
He is playing a possum...
I M such a good cook. And server. And partner as a friend. You wouldn't understand. Cross that bridge when you get there.
Nope I won't accept that.
You don't tell him cause you know he'd consider it a betrayal. Be real.
Of course! Where have you been wham I said he has a heart issue? Up god ass?
So then we can safely label you fucking this scorp dude as 'cheating'. Since telling your husband will literally stop his heart.
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Not nesseserily.
If I will buy him bedroom games he might be as indifferent as your boyfriend...
'Ok honey...whatever...I am about to get to a third level...just bring me a sandwich'
Is that how your 'love' life goes?
Honestly!!!
Posted by Gemitati
Define 'cheating'Allowing another man (not your husband) to cum in you falls directly within its borders.
What if you aren't married? Bet this thought never crossed your mind...
Because you have none!
You can't even make your man stop playing video games while you are naked!
I am sorry for you. Maybe you need another dog or start some charity?
Apparently sex is not any of your expertise honey bun...
If you cheat and your not married that's not cool either. But it's especially bad to promise fidelity to someone for life and then fuck them over.
My man doesn't play video games. Your dementia is kicking in again grams.
Grams is your mother!
And you just made a while sheet about fucking your bf while he is playing video games as a great thing!
What are you sniffing?
That pooch farts must have some powers over you! Try to change his food to Ceasars!
Prove it.
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Idiot! How can I prove it? Except your post seems like a good prove of you shiffing...shit! Lol
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Do you ever feel guilty about cheating?
What is the longest time you’ve cheated on an individual for ( days, weeks, months, years) ?
Why do you think you cheat ( not happy with your partner, bored, opportunity etc ) ?
Have you ever been caught cheating by your partner and what was the outcome ( breakup, worked it out, do you still cheat? Ect)
What is your sun sign?