I'm a Sag Woman and my Man is A Cancer.. will it work?

Hi, I'm new here. Please take time to read. I badly need help. My name is Natalie. I'm a Sagittarius inlove with a Cancer man, I mean, who wouldn't fall in love with someone as sweet and cute as them? So we've been together since 12th Of October 2018. Friday to be exact. We've been talking since September and I fell in love with him because he was so Kind and sweet to me. He gave me all of his time. But later then I found out that he just split with his ex on September. I don't know when but hopefully it wasn't before we got into a relationship. I do not want to think that I'm his rebound. Let me add this. Someone told me, they just lasted for a week. And we are past a week now (which actually makes me happy LoL). We're gonna celebrate our monthsary this November 12. (I hope we make it lol) I've already bought him a gift actually. It is a silver watch. I told him I already have a gift for him but I didn't tell him what it is. He lives 7 zones away from me. (I'm not sure what it is in English but it is like 7

neighborhoods away from me) and after atleast 2-5 days he told me he wants me to meet his family. Which I did. He told me that I was the first one to meet his family among his 31 EXES. YEP. 31. I couldn't believe it tho. I read that cancer men are loyal. But this one had a lot of exes. He told me that his longest one lasted for a year. And the least ones lasted for months only. And days. Ikr. For a cancer man? I can't imagine someone like that. I only had 7 exes. Now I don't know if he's just playing with me. Because I'm down to commit to him. I even let my mother know about him. So that he knows that I'm serious as he is. Or is he? I've experienced his mood swings but I've handled them well. We don't talk too much because he broke his phone last September. So we talk to each other at least today then the day after tomorrow. I've also been to his house several times and his parents and siblings liked me. We express how much we love each other. We kiss, cuddle, watch movies together. And it is our usual set up. I also met his circle and they like me too. But he doesnt let me interact with them alot. I think because he is jealous? But today, I just feel like he's gotten cold. Like, he replies short. And I'm the one who keeps the conversation going. He was sending me long sweet messages when we were on the first days of our relationship. He calls me through his friend's pc. Then after some days he just became dull. And I'm starting to get bored. And my Sagittarius urges me to cheat on him. But I never do because I really loved him. He knows that I talk to a lot of guys. But he knows ALL OF MY ACCOUNTS and I always make him feel that I'll never be interested in another guy than him. I assure him this because I want to gain his trust. But why does it feel like it doesn't work? And he doesn't open up a lot to me when I ask him about how his day went yadda yadda. He just replies. "It was okay. How about you?" Then suddenly he doesn't call anymore. Saying that I don't have the headphone, yadda yadda. I believed him once but this already became a routine. I'm feeling like it's just an excuse anymore. But I don't want to confront him because I don't want him to think that he's lying to me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I just keep the doubt to myself. It is still like this till now. But I can't help but feel insecure. Like, he's not giving me much of his time anymore. He doesn't always tell me he loves me nor misses me. Last time it was when we were together that he doesn't always tells me that. And I didn't make a big deal about it. Because he says he loves me on his MESSAGES. ALWAYS. But now not much. Not until I force him to say it. Not directly tho. Is he tired of me or anything. Because I don't want to get hurt and I don't want all my efforts to become a waste. 😪 I love him with all my heart. But why has he become like this? And we don't meet too much. And they say that Cancer men are clingy but why do I not feel that? He doesn't atleast try to drop a message to me time after time. Of course I'm happy because it's giving me a lot of space but still, it doesn't feel right to me. 💔😪 I'm getting sad of how it has become. Is this just one of his Moods again?

Im a Sagittarius with a Leo ascendant and my Moon is in Taurus.

He is a Cancer with a Libra ascendant and his moon is in Aries. HELP ME. BECAUSE I'M ALREADY GETTING HURT. MY HEART IS BREAKING SLOWLY. 💔

The answer is no.



Don’t waste your time on something will never work.

I just needed advice and you're all laughing at me. That's so rude. Btw. I'm already 18.

Posted by Im_Natalie

I just needed advice and you're all laughing at me. That's so rude. Btw. I'm already 18.

Don’t take it personally honey

Some people just wanna look funny and cool by laughing at other peoole.

You still young and naive, but don’t continue this relationship, just cut him off out of your life, he is not good for you.



Good luck

Posted by Im_Natalie

I just needed advice and you're all laughing at me. That's so rude. Btw. I'm already 18.

The guy has 31 exes. Be careful and stop being silly with this whole “celebrated our monthsary.” That means absolutely nothing. Also, you are a rebound and I have a good feeling that the previous ones were also. This dude is a serial monogamist/player. Get your feelings in check and don’t invest a single moment in this loser.

You Taurus moons go down swinging don't ya?

Thanks everyone. I appreciate it. I'll just be going with the flow, see what will happen.

He is 20

Posted by Sag898

You Taurus moons go down swinging don't ya?

Yep. And I'm not usually like this. Because if ever I feel something wrong I cut them off easily. But this time I don't know why I just can't let go

And btw he told me that he'll be serious about me because he loves me. He told me that before it turned into this. That's why I'm not sure if he actually meant it. Because I don't feel him

Sag sun Taurus moon here. Never dated a cancer but always mesh well with them.

You low key sound like your looking for excuses to end it. If your not feeling the vibe anymore no need to try and pin it on him. We are allowed to change our minds.

"I love him with all my heart" monthsary you say? 😆

ahhhh I'm still loving venus retrograde.... 😂😂😂

Posted by Im_Natalie

And btw he told me that he'll be serious about me because he loves me. He told me that before it turned into this. That's why I'm not sure if he actually meant it. Because I don't feel him

When a man is lonely and horny, he will tell you anything. What you need to do is look at his actions, which obviously aren’t consistent because you’re sitting on DXP asking a bunch of strangers what his intentions are.

Everything is working out so far. Looool

I am a Sag lady married to a Cancer man for 5 years. Cancer men will retreat into their "shells" at times and be quiet and distant. I always give him time. In your case though, your Cancer guy seems to still be inmature and likes playing around. I would "ghost" him. No contact at all until he starts to make more of an effort. If he doesn't, then you have your answer and can move on. Good Luck!!