Gemitati
@Gemitati
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Internet love/hate
are you high or something
Are you drunk?
Posted by Gemitati
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
Yes, I think it is the same as in real life. In fact in real life just because of the vibe we sometimes are more free and open with some people while with others we cannot hold any conversation. On the internet maybe we respond to thoughts/pics first, in real life it is mostly the vibe. It is funny some people you hardly know can tease you chat with you instantly like they know you from ages, and yet some people you know from ages but never know what to say.
Here we focus on personality more than other factors, that makes us judge more basing in "real" compatibility, as we can't see (normally) a face, clothes, ethnicity/place ppl are from, culture, religion...
These things usually divide ppl.
Here you realize you can have more in common with sb of a totally different culture than with your neighbour.
and if things don't work out we still can blame scorpios and leo moons.
These things usually divide ppl.
Here you realize you can have more in common with sb of a totally different culture than with your neighbour.
and if things don't work out we still can blame scorpios and leo moons.
Posted by PootyButtsometimes I blurt things out that I don't like...my lack of boundaries....my man doesn't mind, of course...Posted by GemitatiWe wouldn't be as mean to people in person. We wouldn't be as nice either. We'd share a lot more small talk and a lot less in depth sharing and judgement of one another's personal lives. 😆
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
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but can you imagine in real life..i hear the neighbors yelling, and I go up to their door, knock and say
'I don't like how you guys fight. you need to tone it down."
lol
I mean how awful!!!!
Posted by SecretI am always drunk! Get on with program!
Are you drunk?
Posted by PootyButtLMAOPosted by lisabethur8LOLPosted by PootyButtsometimes I blurt things out that I don't like...my lack of boundaries....my man doesn't mind, of course...Posted by GemitatiWe wouldn't be as mean to people in person. We wouldn't be as nice either. We'd share a lot more small talk and a lot less in depth sharing and judgement of one another's personal lives. 😆
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
but can you imagine in real life..i hear the neighbors yelling, and I go up to their door, knock and say
'I don't like how you guys fight. you need to tone it down."
lol
I mean how awful!!!!
"Hey, you fuckers! You're a Leo, and he's a Taurus, why don't you just break up!?"
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Posted by SeraphlightDon't be nice to me!Posted by GemitatiAh well you are a nice drunk then.Posted by SecretI am always drunk! Get on with program!
Are you drunk?
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I come here for an opposite!
I have enough people slobbering all over me in real life. I need mean stuff!
Can you manage?
Lol
Posted by Blackburn
Here we focus on personality more than other factors, that makes us judge more basing in "real" compatibility, as we can't see (normally) a face, clothes, ethnicity/place ppl are from, culture, religion...
These things usually divide ppl.
Here you realize you can have more in common with sb of a totally different culture than with your neighbour.
and if things don't work out we still can blame scorpios and leo moons.
I like this.
Posted by PootyButtI broke in sweat thinking you talking to me!Posted by SeraphlightDamn it. I was thinking about publicly apologizing to you again, and this seals it. If you haven't noticed, because I've mentioned it here and there, my other account was Gem_from_Venus. I got all pissed at you one night and called you every name in the book. I'm sorry.
I'd suicide without the internet. It's always there for me.click to expand
Thanks goodness it's not!
Posted by PootyButtI would want though to see the list of all the names in a book so I can use properlyPosted by SeraphlightDamn it. I was thinking about publicly apologizing to you again, and this seals it. If you haven't noticed, because I've mentioned it here and there, my other account was Gem_from_Venus. I got all pissed at you one night and called you every name in the book. I'm sorry.
I'd suicide without the internet. It's always there for me.click to expand
Posted by PootyButtMe mad?Posted by GemitatiI can't stay mad at you either. You're too damn funny. You can stay mad at me if you want to.Posted by PootyButtI would want though to see the list of all the names in a book so I can use properlyPosted by SeraphlightDamn it. I was thinking about publicly apologizing to you again, and this seals it. If you haven't noticed, because I've mentioned it here and there, my other account was Gem_from_Venus. I got all pissed at you one night and called you every name in the book. I'm sorry.
I'd suicide without the internet. It's always there for me.
I've only been here about a month, and this is only my second account. There won't be another. I changed my mind about how much of my personal life I felt like divulging. Yes, I'm an asshole. 😉click to expand
Never!
I am too preoccupied with my extramarital affair I can't even keep up with anything else! Call me names - I will probably just get drunk and forget it!
If I remember it - I would never remember who said it as long as he says 'you tell me when and I'll be there'
That's how not works babe!
Smootch?
Posted by SeraphlightI don't like most people.
In truth ....the internet beats people. Be honest.
so that's true.
I can deal with you all on a detached level here. lol
we ALL are detaching. every single one of us when we leave the internet. lol 😆
Posted by PootyButtnooo....he's got mental illness.Posted by lisabethur8LOLPosted by PootyButtsometimes I blurt things out that I don't like...my lack of boundaries....my man doesn't mind, of course...Posted by GemitatiWe wouldn't be as mean to people in person. We wouldn't be as nice either. We'd share a lot more small talk and a lot less in depth sharing and judgement of one another's personal lives. 😆
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
but can you imagine in real life..i hear the neighbors yelling, and I go up to their door, knock and say
'I don't like how you guys fight. you need to tone it down."
lol
I mean how awful!!!!
"Hey, you fuckers! You're a Leo, and he's a Taurus, why don't you just break up!?"
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that's why.
she loves him a lot. and is by his side to the end.
mental illness or not.
I get the feeling my neighbors are very watery.
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but that doesn't meant we (the rest of the neighbors) can handle it!! at 7am or late at night.
Posted by lisabethur8Watery? Like he wets himself?Posted by PootyButtnooo....he's got mental illness.Posted by lisabethur8LOLPosted by PootyButtsometimes I blurt things out that I don't like...my lack of boundaries....my man doesn't mind, of course...Posted by GemitatiWe wouldn't be as mean to people in person. We wouldn't be as nice either. We'd share a lot more small talk and a lot less in depth sharing and judgement of one another's personal lives. 😆
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
but can you imagine in real life..i hear the neighbors yelling, and I go up to their door, knock and say
'I don't like how you guys fight. you need to tone it down."
lol
I mean how awful!!!!
"Hey, you fuckers! You're a Leo, and he's a Taurus, why don't you just break up!?"
that's why.
she loves him a lot. and is by his side to the end.
mental illness or not.
I get the feeling my neighbors are very watery.
edit
but that doesn't meant we (the rest of the neighbors) can handle it!! at 7am or late at night.
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8Watery? Like he wets himself?Posted by PootyButtnooo....he's got mental illness.Posted by lisabethur8LOLPosted by PootyButtsometimes I blurt things out that I don't like...my lack of boundaries....my man doesn't mind, of course...Posted by GemitatiWe wouldn't be as mean to people in person. We wouldn't be as nice either. We'd share a lot more small talk and a lot less in depth sharing and judgement of one another's personal lives. 😆
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
but can you imagine in real life..i hear the neighbors yelling, and I go up to their door, knock and say
'I don't like how you guys fight. you need to tone it down."
lol
I mean how awful!!!!
"Hey, you fuckers! You're a Leo, and he's a Taurus, why don't you just break up!?"
that's why.
she loves him a lot. and is by his side to the end.
mental illness or not.
I get the feeling my neighbors are very watery.
edit
but that doesn't meant we (the rest of the neighbors) can handle it!! at 7am or late at night.
click to expand
lol
yeah that.
Posted by everlynnI said friends not relatives!Posted by GemitatiI for one cannot relate to connecting with nobody here. I just posts. I try staying on topic of each and every threads and leave it at that. I very seldom if at all pm anybody here nor make conversations with anyone. Of course I will ONLY if the other party is willing to converse with me first. And how can you be friends with strangers online anyway? If something bad happens to you you think these folks here will travel to your residence to look after you?
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
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You need to drink something to relax.
Seriously
Posted by everlynnBtw...sometimes your own parents will not come to your residence to take care of you. Never mind bros and sis...Posted by GemitatiI for one cannot relate to connecting with nobody here. I just posts. I try staying on topic of each and every threads and leave it at that. I very seldom if at all pm anybody here nor make conversations with anyone. Of course I will ONLY if the other party is willing to converse with me first. And how can you be friends with strangers online anyway? If something bad happens to you you think these folks here will travel to your residence to look after you?
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
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So RELAX!
Posted by everlynnEasy!Posted by GemitatiOh ok my bad. I thought I was reading you said relatives not friends. But still how can anyone be friends here with complete strangers.Posted by everlynnI said friends not relatives!Posted by GemitatiI for one cannot relate to connecting with nobody here. I just posts. I try staying on topic of each and every threads and leave it at that. I very seldom if at all pm anybody here nor make conversations with anyone. Of course I will ONLY if the other party is willing to converse with me first. And how can you be friends with strangers online anyway? If something bad happens to you you think these folks here will travel to your residence to look after you?
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
You need to drink something to relax.
Seriously
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Just connecting on all levels and talking about all of you non-friends behind your back! Silly!
Posted by everlynnI can grow big!
Gemitati you know you starting to grow on me. I'm beginning to like having fun playing with you. You remind me of tirano and idgaf2. And in my book that's a good thing.
Hope you can walk with me ON you! Lol
Posted by PootyButtHonesty is my policy! LolPosted by GemitatiDamn girl! Bad Twin Icon!Posted by everlynnEasy!Posted by GemitatiOh ok my bad. I thought I was reading you said relatives not friends. But still how can anyone be friends here with complete strangers.Posted by everlynnI said friends not relatives!Posted by GemitatiI for one cannot relate to connecting with nobody here. I just posts. I try staying on topic of each and every threads and leave it at that. I very seldom if at all pm anybody here nor make conversations with anyone. Of course I will ONLY if the other party is willing to converse with me first. And how can you be friends with strangers online anyway? If something bad happens to you you think these folks here will travel to your residence to look after you?
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
You need to drink something to relax.
Seriously
Just connecting on all levels and talking about all of you non-friends behind your back! Silly!click to expand
I think I would feel the same in real life, but text being lost in translation is real, and I think there would be less misunderstandings in that sense.
Posted by LillyPetalI just felt English is my third language for the first time!
I think I would feel the same in real life, but text being lost in translation is real, and I think there would be less misunderstandings in that sense.
Posted by GemitatiBAHAHAHA! It wasn't the best worded sentence. Long dayPosted by LillyPetalI just felt English is my third language for the first time!
I think I would feel the same in real life, but text being lost in translation is real, and I think there would be less misunderstandings in that sense.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiNot for everyone. Here (discussion forums), communication is filtered based on topics. Offline communication has a different filter.
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
The best relationships that seem to work online-offline are the ones who share similar interests and/or start off with light conversation. Too upclose and personal burns the candle pretty quickly.
Most of us want to belong. So we mold and create blindspots for certain people who we wish to have/keep in our circle. Except for mama P-, she keeps it authentic.
Posted by GemitatiInstant gratification. Facing each other is equal but since is not centralized as a site, can be more dispersed.
How is it happening that some of us without ever seeing each other connect immediately and pm and exchanged emails and becoming some kind of friends and totally on sync...
when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?
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when with others we just don't care or fight or hate each other dearly without even knowing who is who?
And rarely but happens we hate each other but later we mild up and start being see/saw people?
HOW and WHY is it happening?
Do you think if we faced each other it would be the same?