
Is it ever okay to let your significant other call you names in a relationship?



Posted by aquarius_manReally? Never thought of thatPosted by Stensco21when they call you love or babe is coz they no longer love you enough to call you by your name
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Posted by EnochtheWiseYes I called him out on everything and he's been breaking stuff and calling me names
this the dude with the burner phone? lol...you're scorp moon so attracted to violent criminally insane types maybe?


Posted by pisceanlovesYea I have to walk ok eggshells and every time we fight he kicks me out
For me the relationship is based on respect. If there's no respect there can't be anything else.

Posted by Stensco21Time to leave my friend. I'm sorryPosted by pisceanlovesYea I have to walk ok eggshells and every time we fight he kicks me out
For me the relationship is based on respect. If there's no respect there can't be anything else.click to expand

Posted by Stensco21If you are unsure whether being verbally abused is normal or not you have bigger problems then this angry douch bag cheater.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal


Posted by xghyEven if he was hitting it good?
I would feel a strong urge to punch my invisible partner if he called me the following
Sweetie
Honey
Bae
Bitch


Posted by Stensco21No.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal


Posted by xghyCause dirty talk is fun sometimesPosted by LadyNeptuneNo.Posted by xghyEven if he was hitting it good?
I would feel a strong urge to punch my invisible partner if he called me the following
Sweetie
Honey
Bae
Bitch
If he did call me bitch, I might overanalyze as to why he would feel the need to say anything if he was hitting it that good.
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Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
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Posted by GC02Pissed said they were old and had been there but they hadn'tPosted by Stensco21Did he at least give you an explanation? What was your approach when your brought it up?Posted by EnochtheWiseYes I called him out on everything and he's been breaking stuff and calling me names
this the dude with the burner phone? lol...you're scorp moon so attracted to violent criminally insane types maybe?click to expand

Posted by CrimsonGirlI don't know he's always been angry but now it's directed at me. He needs helpPosted by Stensco21It's still not acceptable. And if you make him that angry then why is he with you? I know you probably love him, but if that doesn't stop I would definitely leave. That or give him the choice of working on his anger issues in a way that doesn't involve you or saying goodbye to each otherPosted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
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Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal

Posted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by Stensco21So you think you deserve being abused ?Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by Stensco21That's sounds like great relationship!
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal

Posted by MyStarsShineI know I'm not perfect and he said I push him until he snapsPosted by Stensco21So you think you deserve being abused ?Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by Stensco21Sounds like you are not good for each otherPosted by MyStarsShineI know I'm not perfect and he said I push him until he snapsPosted by Stensco21So you think you deserve being abused ?Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by MyStarsShineBut don't most couples fight?Posted by Stensco21Sounds like you are not good for each otherPosted by MyStarsShineI know I'm not perfect and he said I push him until he snapsPosted by Stensco21So you think you deserve being abused ?Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand

Posted by Stensco21If he can't handle you then he's not right for you 🤷♀️Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand


Posted by Stensco21LolPosted by MyStarsShineBut don't most couples fight?Posted by Stensco21Sounds like you are not good for each otherPosted by MyStarsShineI know I'm not perfect and he said I push him until he snapsPosted by Stensco21So you think you deserve being abused ?Posted by MyStarsShineBecause I can be a lot to handlePosted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
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Posted by nikkistarYes....
If any action by a significant other, provokes you to ask "Is it okay?", it probably isn't.

Posted by RindarooI have very high standards. Will fight back tooth and nail over things he doesn't see as an issue. Very ambitious and always living life at the highest level. I think I stress him out. And I'm a smarter than him so he is getting caught easier then he would like. He's pretty sneaky but I def shock him things I find out. He asked me if I was psychic before because I can intuively tell when he is lying. To him that's psychicPosted by Stensco21Well it's still not okay to act like this. Certainly not a healthy situation. There is a thing called respect in a relationship. why do you say you are a lot to handle?Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneTrue he was just so perfect in the beginningPosted by Stensco21If he can't handle you then he's not right for you 🤷♀️Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand

Posted by Stensco21How do you have high standards if you let him lie to you and abuse you...that sounds like a huge contradiction ..Posted by RindarooI have very high standards. Will fight back tooth and nail over things he doesn't see as an issue. Very ambitious and always living life at the highest level. I think I stress him out. And I'm a smarter than him so he is getting caught easier then he would like. He's pretty sneaky but I def shock him things I find out. He asked me if I was psychic before because I can intuively tell when he is lying. To him that's psychicPosted by Stensco21Well it's still not okay to act like this. Certainly not a healthy situation. There is a thing called respect in a relationship. why do you say you are a lot to handle?Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand


Posted by Stensco21That's true of everyone and every relationship. It's perfect in the beginning because it's a facade. You show your best side.Posted by LadyNeptuneTrue he was just so perfect in the beginningPosted by Stensco21If he can't handle you then he's not right for you 🤷♀️Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand

Posted by RindarooPosted by Stensco21Ummmm it just sounds unhealthy. Lying is not okay & you shouldn't have to snoop on someone to see if they are lying or not. My advice is to get out. Find someone who is honest with you.Posted by RindarooI have very high standards. Will fight back tooth and nail over things he doesn't see as an issue. Very ambitious and always living life at the highest level. I think I stress him out. And I'm a smarter than him so he is getting caught easier then he would like. He's pretty sneaky but I def shock him things I find out. He asked me if I was psychic before because I can intuively tell when he is lying. To him that's psychicPosted by Stensco21Well it's still not okay to act like this. Certainly not a healthy situation. There is a thing called respect in a relationship. why do you say you are a lot to handle?Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normalclick to expand

Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, for surePosted by Stensco21That's true of everyone and every relationship. It's perfect in the beginning because it's a facade. You show your best side.Posted by LadyNeptuneTrue he was just so perfect in the beginningPosted by Stensco21If he can't handle you then he's not right for you 🤷♀️Posted by LadyNeptuneI think the same Just know I can be a lot to handle mePosted by Stensco21But not when it counts.Posted by LadyNeptuneBecause he is nice in other ways. Just not sure if I'm overreactingPosted by Stensco21But look at how he treats you when he gets angry. His first instinct is to be abusive.Posted by CrimsonGirlI know but he says it's because I make him so angryPosted by Stensco21Nope nope nope nope and nope. Tell that fucker to go to hell and leave him. Seriously. That's not okay.
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you?
A real man would walk away when he gets heated, not hurl insults and objects at his gf. It's very telling that he reacts this way when you confront him about his shady behavior (burner phone and condoms). A cheater will always flip the script when confronted with his fuck up. He hurls insults to keep you off balance and shift the attention off him.
Blaming you for his anger issues is also textbook wife beater.
Then once things get comfortable the real person comes out.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand


Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand

Posted by FknNerdFucking other girls.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?

Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?

Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?click to expand

Posted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?click to expand

Posted by FknNerdIf he did find them somewhere else why wouldn't he just say that? Instead just trying to make me believe they have always been there when I know they haven't.Posted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
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