Stensco21
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Is it ever okay to let your significant other call you names in a relationship? (Page 2)
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Posted by FknNerdShe confronts him about the evidence and he calls her bitch, liar, evil, etc. and starts to become violent breaking things and shit. Sounds like the actions of someone whose guilty. Js.Posted by LadyNeptuneSo he was caught cheating? If so then definitely leave him. You'll move on faster than you think.Posted by FknNerdFucking other girls.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?click to expand
Posted by Stensco21He always try's to get back with me. I don't doubt he's Tried to call me. But I'm over it.Posted by FknNerdPosted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
And I blocked him on everything
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Posted by LadyNeptuneWhen I get accused of something that I'm innocent of I don't get mad and call the other person names. I don't understand his reaction. He knows I have trust issues he does nothing to make me feel better or reassure me. He literally goes on the attack and starts avoiding mePosted by FknNerdShe confronts him about the evidence and he calls her bitch, liar, evil, etc. and starts to become violent breaking things and shit. Sounds like the actions of someone whose guilty. Js.Posted by LadyNeptuneSo he was caught cheating? If so then definitely leave him. You'll move on faster than you think.Posted by FknNerdFucking other girls.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?click to expand
Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with him two days ago. And yea he's shady and sneaky. I don't and won't ever trust him.Posted by Stensco21Who knows. Either youre paranoid or he's done so many shady things that you cant give him the benefit of the doubt. You should definitely aim to date someone you can trust wouldnt cheat on you. Have you tried talking with him about it since you broke up with him? Does he still deny cheating?Posted by FknNerdIf he did find them somewhere else why wouldn't he just say that? Instead just trying to make me believe they have always been there when I know they haven't.Posted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
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Posted by Stensco21I was with one like that. He used to buy me flowers when i broke up with himPosted by Stensco21He always try's to get back with me. I don't doubt he's Tried to call me. But I'm over it.Posted by FknNerdPosted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
And I blocked him on everything
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What is it with some men....when it's too late, they try and behave well ?
Posted by FknNerdSpoken like a cheater.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by FknNerdShe confronts him about the evidence and he calls her bitch, liar, evil, etc. and starts to become violent breaking things and shit. Sounds like the actions of someone whose guilty. Js.Posted by LadyNeptuneSo he was caught cheating? If so then definitely leave him. You'll move on faster than you think.Posted by FknNerdFucking other girls.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
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And not necessarily. Some men get angry when they arent lying and you dont believe them.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Stensco21I was with one like that. He used to buy me flowers when i broke up with himPosted by Stensco21He always try's to get back with me. I don't doubt he's Tried to call me. But I'm over it.Posted by FknNerdPosted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
And I blocked him on everything
What is it with some men....when it's too late, they try and behave well ?
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I don't know. They truly don't know what they have until its gone. It's cliche but true in all my relationships
Posted by MyStarsShineIf I might disagree with Master Zig - I would. But this discussion for pm only! 😉Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand
Posted by Stensco21it is very true, for sure....happened to me a few times and i have heard other women say this tooPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Stensco21I was with one like that. He used to buy me flowers when i broke up with himPosted by Stensco21He always try's to get back with me. I don't doubt he's Tried to call me. But I'm over it.Posted by FknNerdPosted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
And I blocked him on everything
What is it with some men....when it's too late, they try and behave well ?
I don't know. They truly don't know what they have until its gone. It's cliche but true in all my relationships
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i think in part, it is laziness
Posted by GemitatiI have an aversion to pm's 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineIf I might disagree with Master Zig - I would. But this discussion for pm only! 😉Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineI know! LolPosted by GemitatiI have an aversion to pm's 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineIf I might disagree with Master Zig - I would. But this discussion for pm only! 😉Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineYea the thrill is gonePosted by Stensco21it is very true, for sure....happened to me a few times and i have heard other women say this tooPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Stensco21I was with one like that. He used to buy me flowers when i broke up with himPosted by Stensco21He always try's to get back with me. I don't doubt he's Tried to call me. But I'm over it.Posted by FknNerdPosted by Stensco21Posted by FknNerdNo I broke up with himPosted by Stensco21Okay so like did you just let that go? Kick him out til he tells the truth.Posted by FknNerdHe said they were old and that they had been in there for years. But I had never seen them before and I stayed home for a year and didn't work. I dug all throughout that drawer for a year. Never once saw them.
What did he say about the condoms? Breaking your stuff isnt cool, but youre not really saying enough for me to tell you that youre not in the wrong here. Like, what does he lie about?
Does he want to get back together? Maybe he found the condoms somewhere else and just put them in there. If you're sure he's lying, have you gone about trying to get the truth somehow? If you dont want to be with him, then just be done with it. But if you do, breaking up with him for a long period of time gives him a lot of space to actually sleep with other people so if that's what he wanted to do, he's done it by now.
Someone breaking up with me over something I didnt do and then them not believing me would make me angry too lol.
And I blocked him on everything
What is it with some men....when it's too late, they try and behave well ?
I don't know. They truly don't know what they have until its gone. It's cliche but true in all my relationships
i think in part, it is laziness
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShineI know! LolPosted by GemitatiI have an aversion to pm's 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineIf I might disagree with Master Zig - I would. But this discussion for pm only! 😉Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...click to expand
Sorry 😛
Posted by MyStarsShineYou don't have to be. ❤️Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShineI know! LolPosted by GemitatiI have an aversion to pm's 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineIf I might disagree with Master Zig - I would. But this discussion for pm only! 😉Posted by GemitatiNot sure, Gem but Freud would have a field day with this stuff....some of it comes from childhood patterns, I guess...learned behavior and conditioning in part ?Posted by MyStarsShineI once had tried. Next day I've told him off because that's not me. However anlota of women into this. How do you think bdsm works?Posted by GemitatiI've no patience with peoples' low standardsPosted by MyStarsShineShe apparently likes to be put down. However she knows that's not ok.Posted by Stensco21Why do you even have to ask this ? 😐
Lazy, bitch, liar, evil and then he breaks stuff just don't know it it's normal
Asking is just 'let's talk about it'...
Sorry 😛
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To put it in perspective: Breaking property and insulting is fucking illegal in Germany. Nothing is okay when
it violates your boundaries. smashing stuff would result in instant dumping, because that is a line that is only
crossed by potential criminals and makes me question the mental stability.
Posted by ParkourlerYea it's crazy and made to shut me up
To put it in perspective: Breaking property and insulting is fucking illegal in Germany. Nothing is okay when
it violates your boundaries. smashing stuff would result in instant dumping, because that is a line that is only
crossed by potential criminals and makes me question the mental stability.
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And I blocked him on everything