LadyTaurean585
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Long distance relationship with Pisces Man??!?
Yeah I ask him and he says he hates video calls and phone calls. He has said since we first met though and we’ve been together for a year and 9 mo so far, but I find it wierd too since it’s long distance
He had really bad depression from the military, he had a ankle surgery and two shoulder surgeries. They had him seriously drugged up.
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by LadyTaurean585
Yeah I ask him and he says he hates video calls and phone calls. He has said since we first met though and we’ve been together for a year and 9 mo so far, but I find it wierd too since it’s long distance
No phone calls is a no no...on this I would insist. Texts are too impersonal imo...to be used for quick communication when you can’t call....
Anyway, make plans to see each other for a quick visit in the near future. It would be something to look forward to. If he balks at that I would be suspicious....click to expand
Okay, I’ll be more insistent on the calls, and we’ve made plans to meet up in about 6 months, but are supposed to move back in together in a year.
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by LadyTaurean585
Yeah I ask him and he says he hates video calls and phone calls. He has said since we first met though and we’ve been together for a year and 9 mo so far, but I find it wierd too since it’s long distance
You said:
When we met he was recovering from surgery, and then once he got better, the pandemic hit, so we only went on dates for birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day
Are you saying that you’ve been together for a few dates after all? 🤷♀️click to expand
Yes those are the only dates we’ve gone on with the exception of our first date. So in a year and 8 months I wanna say 5 or 6 dates total
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by LadyTaurean585
Yeah I ask him and he says he hates video calls and phone calls. He has said since we first met though and we’ve been together for a year and 9 mo so far, but I find it wierd too since it’s long distance
You said:
When we met he was recovering from surgery, and then once he got better, the pandemic hit, so we only went on dates for birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day
Are you saying that you’ve been together for a few dates after all? 🤷♀️click to expand
Yes those are the only dates we’ve gone on with the exception of our first date. So in a year and 8 months I wanna say 5 or 6 dates total
Posted by Dreamy88
A little perspective from me, I'm a Pisces and I can never do long distance. It just won't work.
Why can't you do long distance?
It scares me when you say that.
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tbh i need sex
only friendships are fine as long distance
so
being clingy in a long distance is pointless
this is a huge thing i learned about relationships and love
you don't own someone, especially not at long distance
how can you be far apart for so long, yet stuck in this mental bondage? it's selfish on one side and masochistic on the other
only friendships are fine as long distance
so
being clingy in a long distance is pointless
this is a huge thing i learned about relationships and love
you don't own someone, especially not at long distance
how can you be far apart for so long, yet stuck in this mental bondage? it's selfish on one side and masochistic on the other
Posted by LadyTaurean585
I’m a Taurus female dating a Pisces and we been together for a year and 9 months, lived together, been long distance for about 3 weeks, and the plan is a year as he’s in NY for his school and I’m in Cali waiting to go to bootcamp until we can get married once I get stationed. I know how Pisces men get in their heads and get distant and want to recharge, so I get that. We work.
Now the first two weeks, we were very lovey dovey, I miss you, I love you 😘, we got into a lil fight bc he only wants to text and not call but we are good again. We text everyday.
When he left, we discussed the plan, he reassured me, we agreed on long distance, he told me that he was going to dedicate this year to getting in shape, finding his peace mentally, and going to art school.
Now since that little disagreement, he seems more distant, he was liking posts about giving him space bc being clingy ruins relationships when they could last a long time. So I’ve been trying to lay off a lil bc I have been clingy but only bc I have not gotten to fully experience him. (When we met he was recovering from surgery, and then once he got better, the pandemic hit, so we only went on dates for birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day)
Well we still text everyday, he replies pretty fast, but whenever I mention stuff like sending him letters while I’m at bootcamp or etc, he just says “lol just make sure you keep yourself focused on your goals” and I feel like he’s deflecting. I feel like he’s distancing himself from me, but I don’t know if that is just his personality. I guess I’m just overthinking bc I can’t be next to him to watch his response to things. But someone, tell me how I can make this LDR work, how to not come off clingy, and or if I’m just freaking out bc this is the first time we’re apart and w LDR, and I’m worried something so good could fail bc I’m not thinking like a Pisces.
Ummm.... Don't be a sap and don't be a sentimental. His actions are speaking for him and the ldr is already over with as far as he's concerned. I'm just being real. I'm not saying that other people don't have them, but it's not going to work. All the effort is one sided and he's not giving his energy to it. Pisces Men dedicate crazy amounts of energy to the things that interest them. Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I'm not going to waste your time like others who are asking questions. Just his response alone "lol just make sure you keep yourself focused on your goals" says it all. If you're going to bootcamp if he cared he'd give way more energy than that bs.
Posted by Dreamy88
A little perspective from me, I'm a Pisces and I can never do long distance. It just won't work.
Yeah, he just broke it off about an hour ago. He says I’m the perfect girl and I’ll always be his bestfriend but he’s fighting a personal battle and does not want to be in a relationship while he deals with it, and told me to move on. I told him to be as blunt as possible, and he said that there’s not another girl, he didn’t cheat, that it’s not me but that he’s stressed out and feels he’s not ready for a relationship right now. As a Pisces man, is there anything I can do to get him back? Do I give him space and check in from time to time? We had plans to move back in together in a year, but now that has changed. What can or should I do to win his heart back?
Yeah, he just broke it off about an hour ago. He says I’m the perfect girl and I’ll always be his bestfriend but he’s fighting a personal battle and does not want to be in a relationship while he deals with it, and told me to move on. I told him to be as blunt as possible, and he said that there’s not another girl, he didn’t cheat, that it’s not me but that he’s stressed out and feels he’s not ready for a relationship right now. As a Pisces man, is there anything I can do to get him back? Do I give him space and check in from time to time? We had plans to move back in together in a year, but now that has changed. What can or should I do to win his heart back?
Posted by BlueStarPosted by LadyTaurean585Posted by Dreamy88
A little perspective from me, I'm a Pisces and I can never do long distance. It just won't work.
Yeah, he just broke it off about an hour ago. He says I’m the perfect girl and I’ll always be his bestfriend but he’s fighting a personal battle and does not want to be in a relationship while he deals with it, and told me to move on. I told him to be as blunt as possible, and he said that there’s not another girl, he didn’t cheat, that it’s not me but that he’s stressed out and feels he’s not ready for a relationship right now. As a Pisces man, is there anything I can do to get him back? Do I give him space and check in from time to time? We had plans to move back in together in a year, but now that has changed. What can or should I do to win his heart back?
Do nothing. Live your life. He’ll reach out but you can’t stay frozen for this person that doesn’t want you.click to expand
Okay, I think I needed to hear that. He just told me if I ever need anything or just want to talk to not ever hesitate, bc I’ve never done anything to ruin his trust or hurt him, and I’m a dope ass person. I just wish there was a sign that maybe after some time that he will reach out. He was my first everything, my first relationship, my only sex partner, my first kiss, my first live in boyfriend, and He was literally making plans to reunite a 3 days ago, and then he spends 2 days Making up w his father who abandoned and abused him as a child, and then he calls me with wanting a breakup.
Posted by BlueStarPosted by LadyTaurean585Posted by BlueStarPosted by LadyTaurean585Posted by Dreamy88
A little perspective from me, I'm a Pisces and I can never do long distance. It just won't work.
Yeah, he just broke it off about an hour ago. He says I’m the perfect girl and I’ll always be his bestfriend but he’s fighting a personal battle and does not want to be in a relationship while he deals with it, and told me to move on. I told him to be as blunt as possible, and he said that there’s not another girl, he didn’t cheat, that it’s not me but that he’s stressed out and feels he’s not ready for a relationship right now. As a Pisces man, is there anything I can do to get him back? Do I give him space and check in from time to time? We had plans to move back in together in a year, but now that has changed. What can or should I do to win his heart back?
Do nothing. Live your life. He’ll reach out but you can’t stay frozen for this person that doesn’t want you.
Okay, I think I needed to hear that. He just told me if I ever need anything or just want to talk to not ever hesitate, bc I’ve never done anything to ruin his trust or hurt him, and I’m a dope ass person. I just wish there was a sign that maybe after some time that he will reach out. He was my first everything, my first relationship, my only sex partner, my first kiss, my first live in boyfriend, and He was literally making plans to reunite a 3 days ago, and then he spends 2 days Making up w his father who abandoned and abused him as a child, and then he calls me with wanting a breakup.
It’s hard when you share so much of your life with people and then they become strangers but unfortunately we can’t keep people when they don’t want to be kept. The best thing you can do for yourself is to live your life and be happy and know that this chapter has closed there are a lot of new chapters out there and new people and doors will be opening.
It’s okay to grieve your loss but don’t get stuck in it and forget to live. You only got one life girl. Don’t waste it on people that don’t value you.click to expand
I know your right and I know I will be fine in the long run but it just breaks my heart that by his words and my experience that I didn’t do a single thing wrong, I never lied, cheated, fought, destroyed anything, always cleaned, made his baths, cooked, made sure his games were on and everything was good for him when he got off of work, made sure he was always laughing, and constantly checked on his physical and mental health, I was his cheerleader and it hurts that even that wasn’t good enough. But I guess I have no choice in this matter anymore
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