Revenge

Have you ever been so hurt by someone you were in a relationship with or dating (whether it was intentional or not) and you acted as if you forgave them just to hurt them as much as they hurt you? What's your sign and theirs? What did they do and what was your revenge? Why did you decide to seek revenge instead of just moving on (which in my opinion is the best revenge ever)?

Posted by Leobaby89
Have you ever been so hurt by someone you were in a relationship with or dating (whether it was intentional or not) and you acted as if you forgave them just to hurt them as much as they hurt you? What's your sign and theirs? What did they do and what was your revenge? Why did you decide to seek revenge instead of just moving on (which in my opinion is the best revenge ever)?

Leo Baby— Lmao

I cant even respond seriously to post made by baby Leo! Lmao

What are you? 12?

Posted by hollyhock
No. I don't seek revenge. Ever. I think is it psycho and if anyone does it to me they are out of my life for good because that shit is a vicious cycle. You think they are going to just do it once if they are hurt? Nope. Psycho revengers forever. I like mature people who can talk about their feelings or know when to walk away.

I couldn't agree more! I think those who seek revenge are never satisfied and it does become a cycle. I like those who speak about their feeling too but let's admit a lot of people want to be adults until it's time to communicate.

Posted by crazysioux
Before embarking on a path of revenge, dig two graves ...

--Confucius

Ok Daddy...lmao

Posted by crazysioux
Before embarking on a path of revenge, dig two graves ...

--Confucius

good one !

I think that my ex friend was up to something like this - let me try to explain

I caught her and my ex husband emailing together and saying negative shit about me. When I confronted her about it she said yeah, sorry, but blah blah blah. Now I will accept a sincere apology but an apology not once, or twice but many many times she would say "I said I was sorry, but ... blah blah blah" and to me that was a nothing.

But the strange thing was that when I wanted to get together and discuss and try to find a way out of this in order to better our friendship for the future, she didn't want to meet me halfway, she insisted that she didn't do anything wrong and that I should come to her house as usual. What ? Yes, most of the time I did go to her place because that is what she always wanted. But I think she wanted her husband to stand there and agree with her so she had back up. That's how she was.

Now to my point. She began telling me how mean I had been to her for the last 6 -8 years - she went back that far and was naming off instances which I was not even aware of after all this time. OMG. How can someone keep some sort of a list for that long and still act like they are your best friend.

Well she no longer is. I divorced her when I divorced my ex-husband.

No. My "revenge" is to leave and leave 'em cold. I cut all contact and move on. It bothered my exes that they didn't have my warm attention anymore, and they didn't know what I was doing. Moving on and living well, is the best "revenge".

In particular my two Scorpio exes tried really hard to salvage their pride when I left, and one of my Aquarius exes in particular was begging for contact for a whole year after I left.

But I'm ice-cold when it's over.

I'm Libra.

Posted by clownloyal
only revenge I seek is revenge bod and getting my shit together and then rejecting foo's who have shallow values

i'm virgo

Preach! 😉

I echo the other sentiments in here. Revenge is hurting yourself. I just got done dealing with someone I was involved with and they were obsessed with hurting every single person that had hurt them. All that energy is keeping you in the same spot you want to get out of.

Posted by Plutonian
I echo the other sentiments in here. Revenge is hurting yourself. I just got done dealing with someone I was involved with and they were obsessed with hurting every single person that had hurt them. All that energy is keeping you in the same spot you want to get out of.

What's your ex's sign?

Posted by Leobaby89

Posted by Plutonian
I echo the other sentiments in here. Revenge is hurting yourself. I just got done dealing with someone I was involved with and they were obsessed with hurting every single person that had hurt them. All that energy is keeping you in the same spot you want to get out of.

What's your ex's sign?

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not my ex but virgo

Never intentionally, but it has happened naturally

Posted by pisceswoman123
Never intentionally, but it has happened naturally

Mind explaining?

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Leobaby89
Have you ever been so hurt by someone you were in a relationship with or dating (whether it was intentional or not) and you acted as if you forgave them just to hurt them as much as they hurt you? What's your sign and theirs? What did they do and what was your revenge? Why did you decide to seek revenge instead of just moving on (which in my opinion is the best revenge ever)?

I thought about doing this way back with an Aries ex, but I think somehow this is even beyond my limits of petty. I admire people who can pull it off though. Or at least I'd like to hear the story of whether it was worth it.

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I'm waiting on a story too, lol. Seems like everyone does the right thing by moving on and walking away. I've never been in a situation where I sought revenge but I think someone tried to get revenge on me.

NO- I'll keep it moving and let you see me shine!

Where have all the scorpios gone?

Posted by Leobaby89

Posted by pisceswoman123
Never intentionally, but it has happened naturally

Mind explaining?

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Someone hurt me. I tried to forgive. But being hurt makes me to distance my self slowly while I try not to. The person feels guilty for hurting me and compensated but for me is too late. Revenge without meaning to. I move on he didn’t.

Posted by Ikyfl
Yes, yes I have. Once. It felt great. No regrets.

Explain and what's your sign and the sign of the person you got revenge on?