Should i stop my attempt

To completely sabotage what my bff think of this guy that for me is obviously a liar and a user

1st of all his completely gay as in cock sucking,man horny gay

My bff liked him since last year being an aqua herself she likes it weird and out of the ordinary,this gay guy being nosy as hell opened my bff cellphone and read our convo in messenger about him so he already know she likes him after that he ignores me and my bff so i told her to move on which she think she did but then after months out of nowhere he chats her and courted her

ill make it short this guy acquired fame when he purchased a car because of the networking company that we all go for and there has been a gossip that he didnt bought it out of his money but he got it using his boyfriend at the time then they broke up because of it,after 2mos he chats my bff everyday then out of nowhere courted her,at first i dont want to judge him just because his gay so i encourage my bff to just go with the flow since i saw in her eyes how she is so happy then recently someone i trust proved of my theory that this gay man is just using my bff to get information to bring our group down so i told my bff that yes i wasnt against them at first but then this info proves that this gay man cant be trusted that his using my bff and i already told her that he sucks dick to gain money,i saw the anger in her eyes but what i dont understand is that even though many people already told her how this guy think and acts she still continue to talk to him and told me that she is just waiting for the guy to screw up and then she will leave him comepletely to NOT stir problem and drama to our team,i asked her would you still have a relationship with him knowing that he does those things behind your back?her answer dumbfounded me her response was "why not?if i love him i will accept who he is and if he loves me he will change,what if i dont find someone that will like me like him?" i told her the truth even though i know it will hurt and told her"ever since you loved him its like you lost respect to yourself agreeing to those terms that he can suck dick while your in a relationship with him,his not the only guy that will like or seem like he loves you,your delusional and desperate if you think he loves you while his having sex with some guy",its breaking my heart right now that she still talks to him and let herself fall knowing that this guy is a fcking user,i stopped talking about this gay man with her since she is too stubborn after that my bff seems distant with me,she doesnt tell me her problems anymore someone just told me so i know what she had been going through with her family right now,i dont know anymore any advice will be greatly appreciated😔

Wow! I'm dumbfounded. I can't relate. She doesn't sound aqua like at all. Sounds like you did the right thing. She's probably avoiding you because she's embarrassed. How old are you two?

Posted by STILL
Wow! I'm dumbfounded. I can't relate. She doesn't sound aqua like at all. Sounds like you did the right thing. She's probably avoiding you because she's embarrassed. How old are you two?

im 29 shes 21,this is the first time she experience this so maybe thats why,not many people like me coz i dont like to sugarcoat and i dont bullshit,she knows im like this and still kept me as a friend.

Her placements

Aqua sun

Cap moon

Venus in aqua

Mars in libra

Merc Cap

The gay guy is

Virgo Sun

Scorp Moon(i also have this placement but it seems he cant control the dark side of this placement-coz been there done that)

Venus in libra

Mars in Gemini

Merc in Leo

His quite full of himself,thinks lowly of me and my bff(he told her when they chat in the past so i know),respect and acknowledge only a few,he acts nice and respects everyone in the front but the people who smells him know better,she see all his rotten side and still choose to let him in(i want to smash my bff head to be honest😦)

Bump

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Yes stop sabotaging. It’s driving a wedge between the two of you. She’ll wise up eventually. All you can do is be there for the fallout.

i think it already did when she asked for my opinion and i told her the truth,so i just let her drown then not save her?😧,i just hope this gay dude does something stupid to make my friend realize what a trash she has been pinning on to