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Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He sounds like a SAGITTARIUS
eww
🤢🤢click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He sounds like a SAGITTARIUS
eww
🤢🤢
You say eeewww now but they are good for Virgo women, we put up with the headache of you all and give you space when you're psycho and need it 😛 Then let you cling and love us when you need it too, with no complaints. Balance!click to expand


Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He sounds like a SAGITTARIUS
eww
🤢🤢
You say eeewww now but they are good for Virgo women, we put up with the headache of you all and give you space when you're psycho and need it 😛 Then let you cling and love us when you need it too, with no complaints. Balance!
sag women are cool and virgo sun/sag moon females are even cooler
but the men are punchable i don't careclick to expand



Posted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.


Posted by brianafay
Moon-Pluto-Mars aspects

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He sounds like a SAGITTARIUS
eww
🤢🤢
You say eeewww now but they are good for Virgo women, we put up with the headache of you all and give you space when you're psycho and need it 😛 Then let you cling and love us when you need it too, with no complaints. Balance!
sag women are cool and virgo sun/sag moon females are even cooler
but the men are punchable i don't careclick to expand


Posted by HeartofIce
Moon-Pluto-Mars-BML aspects.

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by HeartofIce
Moon-Pluto-Mars-BML aspects.
wait what's a BML?
somehow i suspect he must be scorpionicclick to expand

Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.
well I know that feeling, I have it with a guy and my venus conjunct his mars, and his venus oppose my mars, also our venus square each other.
he's not taller than me, nor particularly cute or attractive or anything really, and because our venus square, we behave super differently, hes a jock and I'm a geek, yet there was this mutual attraction, like a dumb teenage movie, why? not sure but I actually enjoy his jackassery
I know it is a venus/mars thing because I really want to touch him, like hugs and kisses, any excuse to be touching each other is good, you cant keep your arms out of each other (in the case of the double whammy) and it was instant, in our case it was very messy because of uranus but better that way.
I also know of neptune/venus aspects, they are kinda what you describe too, where you see someone in rose colored glasses for a good chunk of time, as a crazy ideal lover and yada yada, but never get to know them, is more of a fantasy than anything really, the word "dreamy" comes to mind.
would be interesting to see if he got any aspect with you.click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.
well I know that feeling, I have it with a guy and my venus conjunct his mars, and his venus oppose my mars, also our venus square each other.
he's not taller than me, nor particularly cute or attractive or anything really, and because our venus square, we behave super differently, hes a jock and I'm a geek, yet there was this mutual attraction, like a dumb teenage movie, why? not sure but I actually enjoy his jackassery
I know it is a venus/mars thing because I really want to touch him, like hugs and kisses, any excuse to be touching each other is good, you cant keep your arms out of each other (in the case of the double whammy) and it was instant, in our case it was very messy because of uranus but better that way.
I also know of neptune/venus aspects, they are kinda what you describe too, where you see someone in rose colored glasses for a good chunk of time, as a crazy ideal lover and yada yada, but never get to know them, is more of a fantasy than anything really, the word "dreamy" comes to mind.
would be interesting to see if he got any aspect with you.
aries venus men and i can't really leave each other alone
whatever that guy has calls to me
it was POWERFUL
found myself in this trance state, trying to get physically close to him as much as possible
but she's THERE yet i'm not even jealous coz i felt so SURE that the whole thing's a universal blunder. whoever's in charge of the paperwork for that messed up their job that i found myself in that predicament lol that's how i rationalized the whole thing in my head. there must've been a mistake somewhere in the system.click to expand

Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.
well I know that feeling, I have it with a guy and my venus conjunct his mars, and his venus oppose my mars, also our venus square each other.
he's not taller than me, nor particularly cute or attractive or anything really, and because our venus square, we behave super differently, hes a jock and I'm a geek, yet there was this mutual attraction, like a dumb teenage movie, why? not sure but I actually enjoy his jackassery
I know it is a venus/mars thing because I really want to touch him, like hugs and kisses, any excuse to be touching each other is good, you cant keep your arms out of each other (in the case of the double whammy) and it was instant, in our case it was very messy because of uranus but better that way.
I also know of neptune/venus aspects, they are kinda what you describe too, where you see someone in rose colored glasses for a good chunk of time, as a crazy ideal lover and yada yada, but never get to know them, is more of a fantasy than anything really, the word "dreamy" comes to mind.
would be interesting to see if he got any aspect with you.
aries venus men and i can't really leave each other alone
whatever that guy has calls to me
it was POWERFUL
found myself in this trance state, trying to get physically close to him as much as possible
but she's THERE yet i'm not even jealous coz i felt so SURE that the whole thing's a universal blunder. whoever's in charge of the paperwork for that messed up their job that i found myself in that predicament lol that's how i rationalized the whole thing in my head. there must've been a mistake somewhere in the system.
you should stalk him on social media and take advantage of the retrograde, you know, what start in mercury retrograde stays in mercury retrograde LMAO.
what's the worst that could happen 👺click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.
well I know that feeling, I have it with a guy and my venus conjunct his mars, and his venus oppose my mars, also our venus square each other.
he's not taller than me, nor particularly cute or attractive or anything really, and because our venus square, we behave super differently, hes a jock and I'm a geek, yet there was this mutual attraction, like a dumb teenage movie, why? not sure but I actually enjoy his jackassery
I know it is a venus/mars thing because I really want to touch him, like hugs and kisses, any excuse to be touching each other is good, you cant keep your arms out of each other (in the case of the double whammy) and it was instant, in our case it was very messy because of uranus but better that way.
I also know of neptune/venus aspects, they are kinda what you describe too, where you see someone in rose colored glasses for a good chunk of time, as a crazy ideal lover and yada yada, but never get to know them, is more of a fantasy than anything really, the word "dreamy" comes to mind.
would be interesting to see if he got any aspect with you.
aries venus men and i can't really leave each other alone
whatever that guy has calls to me
it was POWERFUL
found myself in this trance state, trying to get physically close to him as much as possible
but she's THERE yet i'm not even jealous coz i felt so SURE that the whole thing's a universal blunder. whoever's in charge of the paperwork for that messed up their job that i found myself in that predicament lol that's how i rationalized the whole thing in my head. there must've been a mistake somewhere in the system.
you should stalk him on social media and take advantage of the retrograde, you know, what start in mercury retrograde stays in mercury retrograde LMAO.
what's the worst that could happen 👺
ahh shit i have a date with a scorpio sun/virgo moon but now maybe i have to re-think that
the thing is that friend suggestion is my only hope
unless he's in the yearbook and my friend can remember which girl i'm talking about that had that boyfriend
but we all went to the same university so i'm hoping that friend suggestion would pop up again
i'm so curious what his chart looks like to explain my.... insanity lolclick to expand

Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endless
well you saw him just being himself, so it can be any mars/venus combo or, the most obvious physical related aspect, his venus opposite your ascendant.... maybe the mars, cuz he's a guy, but anything hot aspecting your 7th house should melt you lmao.
he didn't look particularly special or anything. but i forgot that girl was even there and have completely disregarded her existence. he wasn't that much taller than me and he was very quiet. and yet, every little thing about him is fascinating to me.
whatever it was, may not have at all just been physical.
and i'm usually so picky and indecisive so that vibe when i first set foot on that rooftop, like the first 2 SECONDS wow.... strange feeling to be so SURE.
i KNEW how this affected me so much that i did everything i can to avoid this girl so i don't have to see HIM omg.
well I know that feeling, I have it with a guy and my venus conjunct his mars, and his venus oppose my mars, also our venus square each other.
he's not taller than me, nor particularly cute or attractive or anything really, and because our venus square, we behave super differently, hes a jock and I'm a geek, yet there was this mutual attraction, like a dumb teenage movie, why? not sure but I actually enjoy his jackassery
I know it is a venus/mars thing because I really want to touch him, like hugs and kisses, any excuse to be touching each other is good, you cant keep your arms out of each other (in the case of the double whammy) and it was instant, in our case it was very messy because of uranus but better that way.
I also know of neptune/venus aspects, they are kinda what you describe too, where you see someone in rose colored glasses for a good chunk of time, as a crazy ideal lover and yada yada, but never get to know them, is more of a fantasy than anything really, the word "dreamy" comes to mind.
would be interesting to see if he got any aspect with you.
aries venus men and i can't really leave each other alone
whatever that guy has calls to me
it was POWERFUL
found myself in this trance state, trying to get physically close to him as much as possible
but she's THERE yet i'm not even jealous coz i felt so SURE that the whole thing's a universal blunder. whoever's in charge of the paperwork for that messed up their job that i found myself in that predicament lol that's how i rationalized the whole thing in my head. there must've been a mistake somewhere in the system.
you should stalk him on social media and take advantage of the retrograde, you know, what start in mercury retrograde stays in mercury retrograde LMAO.
what's the worst that could happen 👺
ahh shit i have a date with a scorpio sun/virgo moon but now maybe i have to re-think that
the thing is that friend suggestion is my only hope
unless he's in the yearbook and my friend can remember which girl i'm talking about that had that boyfriend
but we all went to the same university so i'm hoping that friend suggestion would pop up again
i'm so curious what his chart looks like to explain my.... insanity lol
movie date? 😂 that way no one has to talk a lot hahaha
I have found people from years past, just take a little bit of scorpio energy hehe, like if you remember the name of one of his classmates, someone that got him on their friend list, anyone, is scorpio season, you're free to get freaky 🤣
you said he was older right? them he's probably not in your yearbook 😑click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPP
and it's scorpio season
wow no wonder the pining is FULL ON





Posted by tiziani
so it's Talented Mr. Ripley, except Ripley is the rich one in this story.
Single White Female is worth a shout, too.

Posted by tizianiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by tiziani
so it's Talented Mr. Ripley, except Ripley is the rich one in this story.
Single White Female is worth a shout, too.
Lol not gonna lie, just done watching 'all about eve' before writing this down.
thing is I've said this to her once before right after i was conned by a pisces sun/Libra moon which I consider as one of my rock bottom moments.. that she seemed to be my 'lucky charm.' but I've never mentioned the bad luck that I seem to give her in return after her accidental blessings on me.
but I had an epiphany just now. Light always follows whenever I connect with her in my rock bottom moments. I feel like I've objectified her now in the sense that I feel her loss is like losing gold-egg laying hen.
what's going to happen to me now is what I think about.
I haven't seen that film but it sounds good.
What i took from this is.... well you just said you find your best moments in her moments of weakness. That is parasitic to me, and now you're aware of it, it's not longer accidental.
Not a big deal though, as long as you own it then go make up with your friend, assuming you guys can start fresh. Like being able to pull your own weight and give back to her. Not giving her good fortune or anything, but just being there, good or bad moments regardless.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by tizianiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by tiziani
so it's Talented Mr. Ripley, except Ripley is the rich one in this story.
Single White Female is worth a shout, too.
Lol not gonna lie, just done watching 'all about eve' before writing this down.
thing is I've said this to her once before right after i was conned by a pisces sun/Libra moon which I consider as one of my rock bottom moments.. that she seemed to be my 'lucky charm.' but I've never mentioned the bad luck that I seem to give her in return after her accidental blessings on me.
but I had an epiphany just now. Light always follows whenever I connect with her in my rock bottom moments. I feel like I've objectified her now in the sense that I feel her loss is like losing gold-egg laying hen.
what's going to happen to me now is what I think about.
I haven't seen that film but it sounds good.
What i took from this is.... well you just said you find your best moments in her moments of weakness. That is parasitic to me, and now you're aware of it, it's not longer accidental.
Not a big deal though, as long as you own it then go make up with your friend, assuming you guys can start fresh. Like being able to pull your own weight and give back to her. Not giving her good fortune or anything, but just being there, good or bad moments regardless.
hmm I've never thought of it that way but I've only recently realized every major positive milestone in my life all started with an 'invitation' from her.
she's my accidental fairy godmother.
maybe that's why she was so upset coz the last time we met (before she blocked me on messenger) was me telling her about her being my 'lady luck' and half-joking that she at this point, should just point out a good match for me.
in my desperate bum moments, her 'invitations' saved me. my passive, no ambition self survived coz of her. things i never knew I wanted or could have or could become... she is the marker of each event.
but I'm the omen of the next plague to her.
does crying work on geminis? Lol
it has to be the true luck bringer of the axis.
"my passive, no ambition self survived coz of her."
I had a similar kind of dynamic with my Pisces best friend when we were just out of our teens, though we were always supportive of each other.
But I just didn't have that kind of "face rejection and keep going" that he did, so I cruised in his slipstream and he let me. But we both knew each other's roles, both played the part until we grew out of them.
Good fortune with no foundation = easy come, easy go.
The friend has the heart to go for what they want. They fall short, but more they learn, the more they don't need fortune to feel settled, win or lose. Do you envy them that?click to expand

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i won't call it a 'connection' due to absolute lack of knowledge about the other person.
had some drinks so... i've told this story maybe a billion times lol coz it remains the sole sample of its kind from personal experience. you know how people have to get to know each other, bond and build whatever? but that's not what i'm referring to. none of that.
there's a friend suggestion that popped up on my facebook that i HAD to ignore (with a heavy heart lol). it was an acquaintance like from back in college. but she's not really important
.....her boyfriend is. 😂😂
was minding my business, nothing particularly special that day. i wasn't going through any emotional/mental issue. but i really needed a ride home that day. my friend told me to hitch a ride with this girl from culinary class. again, she's not important.
she told me she just needs to grab her boyfriend (playing pool on a cafe rooftop).
and first time i saw him, she suddenly became important.... for me to get rid of 😂😂
for a short time, i used to smoke in sophomore year. so i lit a cigarette, sat on the armchair facing the pool table and
......just watched him. 😂😂
mobster vibes 💕
but he's not mine so i made up an excuse about finding another ride last minute.
years later, my friend would call me up to tell me that her friend and this guy finally broke up.
most fascinating/hypnotizing human 😂😂
now forever romanticized in my head 😂😂