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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.
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sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
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Is there someone else?

nope! Creepy people in my orbit but no!,maybe im just bored and need some excitement ,for a person who has many fire in her she doesnt go exploring and she has a sag,she is so cautious she doesnt want to try new things with me,she trust me but the she doesnt trust the circumstances(accident) according to her


Well in that case, you don't want to be single again, that would entail actually statying single for awhile.

You just dont want to be with your girlfriend anymore.



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ugh thats why i hate and love fire signs at the same time,you can drag them anywhere,for someone whos earth dominant and wants stability im not living it up
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
When you start off with "is it because I'm an Aquarius"....you sort of are trying to blame it on astrology.



But anyway, I gave you some input. Leave the relationship before you hurt her. It's not as hard as it sounds.



If you choose to keep the relationship then you two need to sit down and have a serious talk about where you're at mentally and emotionally in this relationship. That is the only way you two are ever going to be able to repair anything. You have to get on the same page.



If you choose to stay but not put in the effort to salvage your relationship, you're just being selfish because you know that you're going to end up hurting her.
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didnt think of it that way,thanks!
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just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.
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maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
When you start off with "is it because I'm an Aquarius"....you sort of are trying to blame it on astrology.



But anyway, I gave you some input. Leave the relationship before you hurt her. It's not as hard as it sounds.



If you choose to keep the relationship then you two need to sit down and have a serious talk about where you're at mentally and emotionally in this relationship. That is the only way you two are ever going to be able to repair anything. You have to get on the same page.



If you choose to stay but not put in the effort to salvage your relationship, you're just being selfish because you know that you're going to end up hurting her.
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anyone can say... is it because i'm a ______ insert all 12 sunsigns.

OP, you bad bad person. picking on aqua sun.
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Is there someone else?

nope! Creepy people in my orbit but no!,maybe im just bored and need some excitement ,for a person who has many fire in her she doesnt go exploring and she has a sag,she is so cautious she doesnt want to try new things with me,she trust me but the she doesnt trust the circumstances(accident) according to her


Well in that case, you don't want to be single again, that would entail actually statying single for awhile.

You just dont want to be with your girlfriend anymore.





ugh thats why i hate and love fire signs at the same time,you can drag them anywhere,for someone whos earth dominant and wants stability im not living it up
because you are still an aquarius

also 11 years is a very long time, that is normal in every relationship when the infatuation and 'butterfly in the stomach feeling' has died down. most people nowadays don't make it past even 2 years



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yes the butterfly is gone,i dont feel the thumping of the heart anymore,now that i think about it she can make my heart feel swell and amazing but the thumping of the heart and the mind going blank i have only experience it with one person,but i know thats just the chemical in our body so i dont really listen to it most of the time,i dont let my heart completely rule me there is a reason why the brain is on top😄
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
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I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too

thats the problem im not even distant i communicate with her consistently,im not a flaky aqua(earth dominant)
Hmmm are you in love with her?
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yes!!!! One time when im alone When i think that i would lose her forever i got crazy and cried,i know i dont want to lose her
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
When you start off with "is it because I'm an Aquarius"....you sort of are trying to blame it on astrology.



But anyway, I gave you some input. Leave the relationship before you hurt her. It's not as hard as it sounds.



If you choose to keep the relationship then you two need to sit down and have a serious talk about where you're at mentally and emotionally in this relationship. That is the only way you two are ever going to be able to repair anything. You have to get on the same page.



If you choose to stay but not put in the effort to salvage your relationship, you're just being selfish because you know that you're going to end up hurting her.


😆 😆



anyone can say... is it because i'm a ______ insert all 12 sunsigns.

OP, you bad bad person. picking on aqua sun.

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i am very sorry please dont hate me for it😭,imma switch to my scorp moon is that better?😆
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
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If your feeling bored tell her that. Sometimes our daily routine kills the excitement and romance. After 11 years together your communication should be solid. Tell her.
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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
When you start off with "is it because I'm an Aquarius"....you sort of are trying to blame it on astrology.



But anyway, I gave you some input. Leave the relationship before you hurt her. It's not as hard as it sounds.



If you choose to keep the relationship then you two need to sit down and have a serious talk about where you're at mentally and emotionally in this relationship. That is the only way you two are ever going to be able to repair anything. You have to get on the same page.



If you choose to stay but not put in the effort to salvage your relationship, you're just being selfish because you know that you're going to end up hurting her.


😆 😆



anyone can say... is it because i'm a ______ insert all 12 sunsigns.

OP, you bad bad person. picking on aqua sun.



i am very sorry please dont hate me for it😭,imma switch to my scorp moon is that better?😆
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lol just teasing ya.. its really your taurus mars!!

you and @bittercupcake. 😛
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just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.

maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last

I agree with that.



You should always fight if it's worth fighting for, but you yourself don't even sound sure of that.



I've read that Aquarians are quite the contrarians (people who have to go against what other people say or do) and you seemed done until we started telling you that you should be done.

Now you're switching up and saying you should fight.



The question is, are these your real feelings or are you just trying to go against what people are saying now? We'll never know.





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im completely being honest here because i dont know either,im not switching up its just really what i feel,let me make it clear coz i dont want aquas to be blamed again😂i know i should fight i have been fighting for us for 6 yrs now i dont cheat even if theres so many that i can cheat her with coz i do believe that even though the butterfly is gone we still need to work our love thats why im still courting her even if we are already together and yes im not sure if i should still be fighting,i want her to make me fall inlove with her again,she is passive im the one wearing the pants im always the one who should lit the fire,maybe im getting tired of it always be me
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.



Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
When you start off with "is it because I'm an Aquarius"....you sort of are trying to blame it on astrology.



But anyway, I gave you some input. Leave the relationship before you hurt her. It's not as hard as it sounds.



If you choose to keep the relationship then you two need to sit down and have a serious talk about where you're at mentally and emotionally in this relationship. That is the only way you two are ever going to be able to repair anything. You have to get on the same page.



If you choose to stay but not put in the effort to salvage your relationship, you're just being selfish because you know that you're going to end up hurting her.


😆 😆



anyone can say... is it because i'm a ______ insert all 12 sunsigns.

OP, you bad bad person. picking on aqua sun.



i am very sorry please dont hate me for it😭,imma switch to my scorp moon is that better?😆
lol just teasing ya.. its really your taurus mars!!

you and @bittercupcake. 😛
What? That I blame it on boredom? Lol
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you need a mighty good man... someone that makes you SING! and dance...



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Posted by bittercupcake
I think it’s interesting how everyone says move on when people hit a rough patch. It happens in every long term relationship. There are times where you’ll go through hardships, things will remain stagnant, and other times things will be blissful. You just have to make the effort to create that spark again.

see people?he/she understand sorry mam/sir i dont know your gender😂,but im getting tired to keep the spark going its always been me😯
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Posted by nightowl
just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.

maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last

I agree with that.



You should always fight if it's worth fighting for, but you yourself don't even sound sure of that.



I've read that Aquarians are quite the contrarians (people who have to go against what other people say or do) and you seemed done until we started telling you that you should be done.

Now you're switching up and saying you should fight.



The question is, are these your real feelings or are you just trying to go against what people are saying now? We'll never know.







im completely being honest here because i dont know either,im not switching up its just really what i feel,let me make it clear coz i dont want aquas to be blamed again😂i know i should fight i have been fighting for us for 6 yrs now i dont cheat even if theres so many that i can cheat her with coz i do believe that even though the butterfly is gone we still need to work our love thats why im still courting her even if we are already together and yes im not sure if i should still be fighting,i want her to make me fall inlove with her again,she is passive im the one wearing the pants im always the one who should lit the fire,maybe im getting tired of it always be me

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oh you're the man in the relationship? then gooooooo gurllllll do something romancy.

go out and do something fun!

me and my man have a double date tomorrow till the evening, with his cousin and her man. i may invite my sis and her man too. triple date... movies and a nice dinner. I need a break from cooking and cleaning. lol
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.
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sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕
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Posted by nightowl
just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.

maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last

I agree with that.



You should always fight if it's worth fighting for, but you yourself don't even sound sure of that.



I've read that Aquarians are quite the contrarians (people who have to go against what other people say or do) and you seemed done until we started telling you that you should be done.

Now you're switching up and saying you should fight.



The question is, are these your real feelings or are you just trying to go against what people are saying now? We'll never know.







im completely being honest here because i dont know either,im not switching up its just really what i feel,let me make it clear coz i dont want aquas to be blamed again😂i know i should fight i have been fighting for us for 6 yrs now i dont cheat even if theres so many that i can cheat her with coz i do believe that even though the butterfly is gone we still need to work our love thats why im still courting her even if we are already together and yes im not sure if i should still be fighting,i want her to make me fall inlove with her again,she is passive im the one wearing the pants im always the one who should lit the fire,maybe im getting tired of it always be me


oh you're the man in the relationship? then gooooooo gurllllll do something romancy.

go out and do something fun!

me and my man have a double date tomorrow till the evening, with his cousin and her man. i may invite my sis and her man too. triple date... movies and a nice dinner. I need a break from cooking and cleaning. lol
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yes i am and she shoot me for it when i do something out of nowhere😑shes like"no i dont want too you should have told me beforehand" yup my effort goes down the gutter sometimes that i feel discourage to do it again,lucky for you she doesnt want to be around someone she hardly knew and i will hear about it later but then when i tell her that someone will be joining us she would say no most of the time
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Posted by nightowl
just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.

maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last

I agree with that.



You should always fight if it's worth fighting for, but you yourself don't even sound sure of that.



I've read that Aquarians are quite the contrarians (people who have to go against what other people say or do) and you seemed done until we started telling you that you should be done.

Now you're switching up and saying you should fight.



The question is, are these your real feelings or are you just trying to go against what people are saying now? We'll never know.







im completely being honest here because i dont know either,im not switching up its just really what i feel,let me make it clear coz i dont want aquas to be blamed again😂i know i should fight i have been fighting for us for 6 yrs now i dont cheat even if theres so many that i can cheat her with coz i do believe that even though the butterfly is gone we still need to work our love thats why im still courting her even if we are already together and yes im not sure if i should still be fighting,i want her to make me fall inlove with her again,she is passive im the one wearing the pants im always the one who should lit the fire,maybe im getting tired of it always be me



Like LadyNeptune said, after 11 years you should be able to communicate these feelings to her.



Everything you're telling us right now, you should be telling to your girlfriend. I understand that it's not easy stuff to express, but keeping it to yourself or only sharing these feelings with online strangers is not going to fix the relationship. You have to communicate with the source of the issue, her.



She might not even have any idea that you feel this way.

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im not good with communicating my feelings but i'll try😥
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too

thats the problem im not even distant i communicate with her consistently,im not a flaky aqua(earth dominant)
Hmmm are you in love with her?

yes!!!! One time when im alone When i think that i would lose her forever i got crazy and cried,i know i dont want to lose her
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Aww then suck it up and stop being funny
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too

thats the problem im not even distant i communicate with her consistently,im not a flaky aqua(earth dominant)
Hmmm are you in love with her?

yes!!!! One time when im alone When i think that i would lose her forever i got crazy and cried,i know i dont want to lose her
Aww then suck it up and stop being funny
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awwww you find me funny😆but i will i need to clear my mind first to not blabber her head off saying something like "¥×;×₩-,,'(@)+(!(+^+^(@@;@((++pwjdozhqgqkalowhqz@¥!;@¥@(@,@((@,-(
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Posted by nightowl
just break up with her. then cry about it later.
I second this.



Sounds like she fears letting go of the relationship because it's been 11 years and she's comfortable, but emotionally she's already moved on.

maybe because i already invested so much and i wont find someone better than her,pros and cons always on my mind,and it seems i cant do it to her the 2nd time around it will break her she already made up her mind that im her forever and i do believe that everyone can experience this because love is work,if you want to stay inlove you gotta work it out,you cant fall in and out of love everytime your in a relationship otherwise you wont settle for anyone no matter how long you two last

I agree with that.



You should always fight if it's worth fighting for, but you yourself don't even sound sure of that.



I've read that Aquarians are quite the contrarians (people who have to go against what other people say or do) and you seemed done until we started telling you that you should be done.

Now you're switching up and saying you should fight.



The question is, are these your real feelings or are you just trying to go against what people are saying now? We'll never know.







im completely being honest here because i dont know either,im not switching up its just really what i feel,let me make it clear coz i dont want aquas to be blamed again😂i know i should fight i have been fighting for us for 6 yrs now i dont cheat even if theres so many that i can cheat her with coz i do believe that even though the butterfly is gone we still need to work our love thats why im still courting her even if we are already together and yes im not sure if i should still be fighting,i want her to make me fall inlove with her again,she is passive im the one wearing the pants im always the one who should lit the fire,maybe im getting tired of it always be me

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Tell her.

Who knows? Maybe she's tired of being the passive role this whole time but is following your lead...

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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕
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What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.
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I think it’s interesting how everyone says move on when people hit a rough patch. It happens in every long term relationship. There are times where you’ll go through hardships, things will remain stagnant, and other times things will be blissful. You just have to make the effort to create that spark again.
I agree. 11 years is a long time and a lot invested. It would take something more drastic than boredom for me to walk away.
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I think it’s interesting how everyone says move on when people hit a rough patch. It happens in every long term relationship. There are times where you’ll go through hardships, things will remain stagnant, and other times things will be blissful. You just have to make the effort to create that spark again.
I agree. 11 years is a long time and a lot invested. It would take something more drastic than boredom for me to walk away.
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if you can't be bored by yourself...how are you any use to yourself..that's the motto. lol
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆
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what? what? 🙂 what Virgo? what kissing the neck? 🙂

Seriously, as Libraloveshim said, dont do anything harsh, dont rush to anything (but I guess you are not going to, being double fixed - sun and moon)

if your girl is away now, why dont you go out and seek excitement for yourself? if you charge your batteries, it can be a new impulse to your relationship as well.... (I dont mean cheating or flirting, but some activity with interesting people)

I just did this today, and I can tell you, that something is definitely in the air for a change.... maybe the universum is telling us something 🙂 like: do something with your life, dont wait for somebody spice it up.... maybe you are bored with your life, not only with your relationship.... ?

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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.

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its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆
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oh god pls dont bring that up😂im so glad i havent seen her lately
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb

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I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆
what? what? 🙂 what Virgo? what kissing the neck? 🙂

Seriously, as Libraloveshim said, dont do anything harsh, dont rush to anything (but I guess you are not going to, being double fixed - sun and moon)

if your girl is away now, why dont you go out and seek excitement for yourself? if you charge your batteries, it can be a new impulse to your relationship as well.... (I dont mean cheating or flirting, but some activity with interesting people)

I just did this today, and I can tell you, that something is definitely in the air for a change.... maybe the universum is telling us something 🙂 like: do something with your life, dont wait for somebody spice it up.... maybe you are bored with your life, not only with your relationship.... ?

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a virgo girl and a leo man creeping me up literally with my body,im not even sexy lmao,oh now theres someone new on the picture,i blame it on my 8th house it attracts people like this

You gave me something to think about,i've been working nonstop for a year now maybe thats why im so bored and stressed,gotta do something about it,fun time here i come😁
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb


I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?
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she wasnt when we started then all of the blue she copies me and reciprocate the surprise thing,i do the romantic surprise thing every monthsary for 11yrs but the problem is now we already now when something is up we cant surprise each other now😄,its 2months with your aqua so your like a friend he expects you to be there whenever his not busy so keep doing what your doing be patient with him but let him feel your there whenever he needs you
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆

oh god pls dont bring that up😂im so glad i havent seen her lately
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Lmao. From the looks of it, you're about to! 😆
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb


I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?

she wasnt when we started then all of the blue she copies me and reciprocate the surprise thing,i do the romantic surprise thing every monthsary for 11yrs but the problem is now we already now when something is up we cant surprise each other now😄,its 2months with your aqua so your like a friend he expects you to be there whenever his not busy so keep doing what your doing be patient with him but let him feel your there whenever he needs you
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Hmm think outside of the box. There’s other ways to surprise each other. Would it be a good idea to mail him a surprise gift? I have no idea what. Just something to make him happy. He’d have no idea it’s coming. Thank you for your advice I will continue to be patient.
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
No. It's because that Virgo keeps kissing your neck 😆

oh god pls dont bring that up😂im so glad i havent seen her lately


Lmao. From the looks of it, you're about to! 😆

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yes and im dreading for that day😅wish me luck!but remember my reflex is faster than her mouth😂
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I think it’s interesting how everyone says move on when people hit a rough patch. It happens in every long term relationship. There are times where you’ll go through hardships, things will remain stagnant, and other times things will be blissful. You just have to make the effort to create that spark again.

see people?he/she understand sorry mam/sir i dont know your gender😂,but im getting tired to keep the spark going its always been me😯
I’m a woman? Lol

Yeah I remember you telling me about your Scorpio woman. I’d say communicate and if not, then consider the possibility of moving on.
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Thank you mam!😄
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb


I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?

she wasnt when we started then all of the blue she copies me and reciprocate the surprise thing,i do the romantic surprise thing every monthsary for 11yrs but the problem is now we already now when something is up we cant surprise each other now😄,its 2months with your aqua so your like a friend he expects you to be there whenever his not busy so keep doing what your doing be patient with him but let him feel your there whenever he needs you
Hmm think outside of the box. There’s other ways to surprise each other. Would it be a good idea to mail him a surprise gift? I have no idea what. Just something to make him happy. He’d have no idea it’s coming. Thank you for your advice I will continue to be patient.
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when i got a book its like christmas but i do love to read,honestly anything that you give will be appreciated makes us feel special you know him better but if your going to give him something do it personally
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