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Shania The Artist
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I honestly have no issues with my man going to the strip club,.. hell I'll join him or go alone too at times... that's when I was in a relationship.

I'd rather him not to hide and do it than for me to know and just deal with it. They gonna do it whether you like it or not.

Also women insinuating females who strip are dirty or off limits or something to that effect boggles my mind... why is she deemed inferior because of her profession which makes her probably more money than the criticizer themself?
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Shania The Artist
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I honestly have no issues with my man going to the strip club,.. hell I'll join him or go alone too at times... that's when I was in a relationship.

I'd rather him not to hide and do it than for me to know and just deal with it. They gonna do it whether you like it or not.

Also women insinuating females who strip are dirty or off limits or something to that effect boggles my mind... why is she deemed inferior because of her profession which makes her probably more money than the criticizer themself?
You nailed it.
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Thank you boo ?
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Shania The Artist
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I honestly have no issues with my man going to the strip club,.. hell I'll join him or go alone too at times... that's when I was in a relationship.

I'd rather him not to hide and do it than for me to know and just deal with it. They gonna do it whether you like it or not.

Also women insinuating females who strip are dirty or off limits or something to that effect boggles my mind... why is she deemed inferior because of her profession which makes her probably more money than the criticizer themself?
You nailed it.
Thank you boo ?
Most people will always judge just cause.
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Exactly. Just learned to deal with it. That same stripper can be going to school trying to better herself. Never judge a book by the cover. I was once a stripper and it paved the way to a lot of things for me. I'll never down the next. It's life experiences and being humble that teaches you these things.
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Shania The Artist
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I honestly have no issues with my man going to the strip club,.. hell I'll join him or go alone too at times... that's when I was in a relationship.

I'd rather him not to hide and do it than for me to know and just deal with it. They gonna do it whether you like it or not.

Also women insinuating females who strip are dirty or off limits or something to that effect boggles my mind... why is she deemed inferior because of her profession which makes her probably more money than the criticizer themself?
You nailed it.
Thank you boo ?
Most people will always judge just cause.
Exactly. Just learned to deal with it. That same stripper can be going to school trying to better herself. Never judge a book by the cover. I was once a stripper and it paved the way to a lot of things for me. I'll never down the next. It's life experiences and being humble that teaches you these things.


lol people think just cause she's a stripper it means she's not capable or smart enough to get educated. A lot of these mofos think just cause it's a stripper she's automatically a prostitute. I know quite a few and know them in n out of the club don't get me wrong there are some who will do shit for money but there are real ones who are getting real degrees to better themselves just like you said.
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Now you nailed it as well... I second this message.
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This is just my opinion, but I think if you have a girlfriend that you love and value dearly, you shouldn't feel the need to go somewhere and check out other women's naked bodies, when you have one that's all yours for the taken at home.If my boyfriend ever did that I would feel as if he doesn't appreciate me enough and that it's strange that he feels the need to do that when he's got me.(scorpio and all, I'm not afraid to give him a personal little show if he asked)

But that's just me 🙂
Too possessive.
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Looool how is that possessive? It's just a value, that he shares too. We both rather give each other fun than seeking it in a strip club. Don't assume just because I'm a scorpio I'm "possessive" that's stereotyping, I'm a gemini moon so I've actually got a pretty loose leash on him, it's just few things like this we've agreed we don't wanna see each other do.
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Btw, I've got no issues with other couples being ok with it, I was just expressing something based on my own relationship, and we don't feel the need for things like that, we're perfectly happy exploring things on our own, that's just us. There's nothing wrong in only having your eyes for your partner in case of "visuals", if two people can find that it's more than enough - I think that's awesome 🙂
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I honestly have no issues with my man going to the strip club,.. hell I'll join him or go alone too at times... that's when I was in a relationship.

I'd rather him not to hide and do it than for me to know and just deal with it. They gonna do it whether you like it or not.

Also women insinuating females who strip are dirty or off limits or something to that effect boggles my mind... why is she deemed inferior because of her profession which makes her probably more money than the criticizer themself?
You nailed it.
Thank you boo ?
Most people will always judge just cause.
Exactly. Just learned to deal with it. That same stripper can be going to school trying to better herself. Never judge a book by the cover. I was once a stripper and it paved the way to a lot of things for me. I'll never down the next. It's life experiences and being humble that teaches you these things.


lol people think just cause she's a stripper it means she's not capable or smart enough to get educated. A lot of these mofos think just cause it's a stripper she's automatically a prostitute. I know quite a few and know them in n out of the club don't get me wrong there are some who will do shit for money but there are real ones who are getting real degrees to better themselves just like you said.
Now you nailed it as well... I second this message.

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yeah but there's alot of people in this world that are too "rigid" and too "judgemental" and downright cruel....

and they are these super religiouis freaks sometimes, and they will look down on you if you are that type of girl.

so it's better to be quiet then receive negative energies if they are that type.

cause the crazy evil negative energies that are spewing out of their vibration is too much and it's not good to be around that.

lol

yeah some people have issues, but that's how it is. *shrug*

that's life and you gotta see that people are gonna be hating no matter what.



you say you dont want your man to hide it, but what if he has religious parents and grandparents?

that kind of thing?

sometimes it's family that is terrible and he has no way of getting out of that.

and doesn't want to lose his family.

just giving many scenerios.