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You ever get the impression
People love to victim blame and shame.
And putting the actions of men on women’s shoulders is an age old tradition of the patriarchy.
And putting the actions of men on women’s shoulders is an age old tradition of the patriarchy.
Posted by Bumboklaat
Whats a cool girl?
chill i guess
i know amy is actually a psycho but hey she was lowkey about it
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Bumboklaat
Whats a cool girl?
chill i guess
Haha you quoted faster than I could delete.
I think lot of the girls go for the guys that just gonna use them.click to expand
maybe someone they feel bad for/think they can change or 'save' maybe
Posted by WarAngel
And this is why smart men do not stick their dick in crazy. Cool girl or not.
gone girl?
but he didn't know that, she was lowkey
Posted by kachi_cakePosted by virgoOPPP
that nobody likes cool girls coz (ironically enough) they're boring?
like how come whenever someone tells a story about cheating, people get mad at the woman not knowing instantly that their man is a hoe? like we're supposed to be checking phones 24/7 and tracking a man's location like he's some kinda doordash? god forbid i actually trust someone i thought i was in a loving relationship with.
Dude: "I might be home late, babe. Might stay overnight somewhere with all the extra work. Don't wait up."
Girl: "Alrighty." *does not stalk social media, no gps tracking his location, don't send walls of texts over the phone in order to drama queen, does her own thing, just chill
hence, no ego stroke occured.
is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.
Read this in female and male voice.
There's a quote I saw and it said along the lines that people overlook healthy relationships as boring and seek unhealthy relationships instead. Being use to fight or flight mode is unhealthy and familiarity breeds these type of situations.click to expand
people really miss their wars and being in survival mode?
Posted by kachi_cakePosted by kachi_cakePosted by virgoOPPP
that nobody likes cool girls coz (ironically enough) they're boring?
like how come whenever someone tells a story about cheating, people get mad at the woman not knowing instantly that their man is a hoe? like we're supposed to be checking phones 24/7 and tracking a man's location like he's some kinda doordash? god forbid i actually trust someone i thought i was in a loving relationship with.
Dude: "I might be home late, babe. Might stay overnight somewhere with all the extra work. Don't wait up."
Girl: "Alrighty." *does not stalk social media, no gps tracking his location, don't send walls of texts over the phone in order to drama queen, does her own thing, just chill
hence, no ego stroke occured.
is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.
Read this in female and male voice.
There's a quote I saw and it said along the lines that people overlook healthy relationships as boring and seek unhealthy relationships instead. Being use to fight or flight mode is unhealthy and familiarity breeds these type of situations.
Unhealthy thrill: What I mean by unhealthy is directly/indirectly seeking an argument such as the "I'm always right train", "let's argue that leads to hot sex" and "I just like messing with you bc I think it's hot".
Healthy thrill: Seeking an activity together such as camping or trying out available Groupon activities.
Recently, I had a disagreement with the Pisces and it actually made the both of us pause and leave the subject because it didn't feel good for either of us. He said that we didn't have to agree and he was right. We made an effort to smooth things out. That was a turn on. I respect the effort for diplomacy, that neither of us had to be right and actively drawing boundaries.
Pisces and I aren't dating but I appreciate our interaction but definitely not for each other. We're too much of the same person in so many ways, not complementary.
Recently, Taurus came back and wanted the "fireworks". Bro, I'm tired of so many things and I can't be emotionally and mentally bothered with what people consider as "passionate".
He disappeared and got upset with me so it was easier to push me away. Basically I was boring but now missed that. He got upset when I didn't reply to him when I was caught up with fam. He said, "just tell me if you're seeing someone" and that was an extreme turn off.
I know how it's going to go down with the Taurus. Once the first month pass, he'll be back to feeling unfulfilled with me and that's not my job. It's deeper.click to expand
sorry that you seem to be having a stressful time. my taurus cousin is really compatible with her gemini husband tho. but i feel like mutables can be really compatible with each other. i'm dating a pisces again now and it doesn't feel suffocating. maybe earth sign men are just suffocating.
Posted by kachi_cakePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by kachi_cakePosted by kachi_cakePosted by virgoOPPP
that nobody likes cool girls coz (ironically enough) they're boring?
like how come whenever someone tells a story about cheating, people get mad at the woman not knowing instantly that their man is a hoe? like we're supposed to be checking phones 24/7 and tracking a man's location like he's some kinda doordash? god forbid i actually trust someone i thought i was in a loving relationship with.
Dude: "I might be home late, babe. Might stay overnight somewhere with all the extra work. Don't wait up."
Girl: "Alrighty." *does not stalk social media, no gps tracking his location, don't send walls of texts over the phone in order to drama queen, does her own thing, just chill
hence, no ego stroke occured.
is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.
Read this in female and male voice.
There's a quote I saw and it said along the lines that people overlook healthy relationships as boring and seek unhealthy relationships instead. Being use to fight or flight mode is unhealthy and familiarity breeds these type of situations.
Unhealthy thrill: What I mean by unhealthy is directly/indirectly seeking an argument such as the "I'm always right train", "let's argue that leads to hot sex" and "I just like messing with you bc I think it's hot".
Healthy thrill: Seeking an activity together such as camping or trying out available Groupon activities.
Recently, I had a disagreement with the Pisces and it actually made the both of us pause and leave the subject because it didn't feel good for either of us. He said that we didn't have to agree and he was right. We made an effort to smooth things out. That was a turn on. I respect the effort for diplomacy, that neither of us had to be right and actively drawing boundaries.
Pisces and I aren't dating but I appreciate our interaction but definitely not for each other. We're too much of the same person in so many ways, not complementary.
Recently, Taurus came back and wanted the "fireworks". Bro, I'm tired of so many things and I can't be emotionally and mentally bothered with what people consider as "passionate".
He disappeared and got upset with me so it was easier to push me away. Basically I was boring but now missed that. He got upset when I didn't reply to him when I was caught up with fam. He said, "just tell me if you're seeing someone" and that was an extreme turn off.
I know how it's going to go down with the Taurus. Once the first month pass, he'll be back to feeling unfulfilled with me and that's not my job. It's deeper.
sorry that you seem to be having a stressful time. my taurus cousin is really compatible with her gemini husband tho. but i feel like mutables can be really compatible with each other. i'm dating a pisces again now and it doesn't feel suffocating. maybe earth sign men are just suffocating.
Thank you but not stressed. I just don't have time to date rn.
I have tick off some boxes again.
Were you the one who felt bad to break up with someone last year?click to expand
yeah with a cancer but it just felt off coz i felt obligated coz he just got out of jail
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by WarAngel
And this is why smart men do not stick their dick in crazy. Cool girl or not.
gone girl?
but he didn't know that, she was lowkeyclick to expand
I rewatched this movie a few months ago just to relive this monolog.
She was never a cool girl, she was always high maintenance af, and he always new it.
He put in a little effort in the beginning and didn't care to keep it up, and found a dumber younger girl to impress, and stroke his ego (but Emily Ratajkowski can stroke me too) He knew she wasn't any kind of cool girl, he felt like a failure to her. Which he used to continue justifying his patheticness.
If she was cool girl she was pretending to be, could he have felt more secure? Accepted? Loved and valued for who he was?
Nah he'd still fuck Emily Ratajkowski
Posted by AstrobynPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by WarAngel
And this is why smart men do not stick their dick in crazy. Cool girl or not.
gone girl?
but he didn't know that, she was lowkey
I rewatched this movie a few months ago just to relive this monolog.
She was never a cool girl, she was always high maintenance af, and he always new it.
He put in a little effort in the beginning and didn't care to keep it up, and found a dumber younger girl to impress, and stroke his ego (but Emily Ratajkowski can stroke me too) He knew she wasn't any kind of cool girl, he felt like a failure to her. Which he used to continue justifying his patheticness.
If she was cool girl she was pretending to be, could he have felt more secure? Accepted? Loved and valued for who he was?click to expand
yeah but she had the facade of one
Posted by virgoOPPP
that nobody likes cool girls coz (ironically enough) they're boring?
like how come whenever someone tells a story about cheating, people get mad at the woman not knowing instantly that their man is a hoe? like we're supposed to be checking phones 24/7 and tracking a man's location like he's some kinda doordash? god forbid i actually trust someone i thought i was in a loving relationship with.
Dude: "I might be home late, babe. Might stay overnight somewhere with all the extra work. Don't wait up."
Girl: "Alrighty." *does not stalk social media, no gps tracking his location, don't send walls of texts over the phone in order to drama queen, does her own thing, just chill
hence, no ego stroke occured.
is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.
I was thinking about it lately. The reflection about ego strokes is a spot on. I am like that girl and maybe it comes off as disinterested? I also feel like drama is a love language for lots of people.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by virgoOPPP
that nobody likes cool girls coz (ironically enough) they're boring?
like how come whenever someone tells a story about cheating, people get mad at the woman not knowing instantly that their man is a hoe? like we're supposed to be checking phones 24/7 and tracking a man's location like he's some kinda doordash? god forbid i actually trust someone i thought i was in a loving relationship with.
Dude: "I might be home late, babe. Might stay overnight somewhere with all the extra work. Don't wait up."
Girl: "Alrighty." *does not stalk social media, no gps tracking his location, don't send walls of texts over the phone in order to drama queen, does her own thing, just chill
hence, no ego stroke occured.
is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.
I was thinking about it lately. The reflection about ego strokes is a spot on. I am like that girl and maybe it comes off as disinterested? I also feel like drama is a love language for lots of people.click to expand
same.
they secretly want that snake-bitten, IG-stalking kinda gal 🐍🤳
@goldenfish
my cap ex at the aftermath of when i found out he was a cheating hoe told me that he always thought i must've cheated on him. IRONIC. coz it was apparently suspicious how he failed to show up a lot of times when we scheduled things yet i seem to always just forgive and offer words of assurance, that i don't check his phone (trusts him and respects his privacy), that i never seem jealous, that i don't even attempt to go through his stuff, that i don't question him being drunk all the time, that i like him despite him having zero resources to give me.
once he told me that 2 women at work tried to coax him into bed and my reaction was:
"well, i hope you said no?" *laughs lightly
lmfao this man who can't offer me a thing between the 2 of us was the more elitist one. IRONIC. i was confident he'd never want a woman from his line of work coz they are below the status he wants.
hell i post a pic of cake and i get messages from guys like: "dtf"
that's just a normal tuesday for a female. i suppose for a man that's an event worth mentioning to a significant other.
why would any breathing female who can schedule like 4 dudes in a day, has maybe 2 simps lying in orbit have to simp for a no resource guy just to stroke his ego?
us being together is already divine manifesation for HIM.
my cap ex at the aftermath of when i found out he was a cheating hoe told me that he always thought i must've cheated on him. IRONIC. coz it was apparently suspicious how he failed to show up a lot of times when we scheduled things yet i seem to always just forgive and offer words of assurance, that i don't check his phone (trusts him and respects his privacy), that i never seem jealous, that i don't even attempt to go through his stuff, that i don't question him being drunk all the time, that i like him despite him having zero resources to give me.
once he told me that 2 women at work tried to coax him into bed and my reaction was:
"well, i hope you said no?" *laughs lightly
lmfao this man who can't offer me a thing between the 2 of us was the more elitist one. IRONIC. i was confident he'd never want a woman from his line of work coz they are below the status he wants.
hell i post a pic of cake and i get messages from guys like: "dtf"
that's just a normal tuesday for a female. i suppose for a man that's an event worth mentioning to a significant other.
why would any breathing female who can schedule like 4 dudes in a day, has maybe 2 simps lying in orbit have to simp for a no resource guy just to stroke his ego?
us being together is already divine manifesation for HIM.
Posted by virgoOPPP
@goldenfish
my cap ex at the aftermath of when i found out he was a cheating hoe told me that he always thought i must've cheated on him. IRONIC. coz it was apparently suspicious how he failed to show up a lot of times when we scheduled things yet i seem to always just forgive and offer words of assurance, that i don't check his phone (trusts him and respects his privacy), that i never seem jealous, that i don't even attempt to go through his stuff, that i don't question him being drunk all the time, that i like him despite him having zero resources to give me.
once he told me that 2 women at work tried to coax him into bed and my reaction was:
"well, i hope you said no?" *laughs lightly
lmfao this man who can't offer me a thing between the 2 of us was the more elitist one. IRONIC. i was confident he'd never want a woman from his line of work coz they are below the status he wants.
hell i post a pic of cake and i get messages from guys like: "dtf"
that's just a normal tuesday for a female. i suppose for a man that's an event worth mentioning to a significant other.
Haha I had the same thing with Aries ex. I never questioned where was him. I mean, I had a general idea that he was out with friends, but I never was video calling to make sure it is a boys night. I do not feel like being the guardian of the dick.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by virgoOPPP
@goldenfish
my cap ex at the aftermath of when i found out he was a cheating hoe told me that he always thought i must've cheated on him. IRONIC. coz it was apparently suspicious how he failed to show up a lot of times when we scheduled things yet i seem to always just forgive and offer words of assurance, that i don't check his phone (trusts him and respects his privacy), that i never seem jealous, that i don't even attempt to go through his stuff, that i don't question him being drunk all the time, that i like him despite him having zero resources to give me.
once he told me that 2 women at work tried to coax him into bed and my reaction was:
"well, i hope you said no?" *laughs lightly
lmfao this man who can't offer me a thing between the 2 of us was the more elitist one. IRONIC. i was confident he'd never want a woman from his line of work coz they are below the status he wants.
hell i post a pic of cake and i get messages from guys like: "dtf"
that's just a normal tuesday for a female. i suppose for a man that's an event worth mentioning to a significant other.
guardian of the dick.click to expand
🤣🤣
did he cheat or complained how you're not psycho enough?
men who need the ego strokes have the strongest bored, unappreaciated housewife energy
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by goldenfishPosted by virgoOPPP
@goldenfish
my cap ex at the aftermath of when i found out he was a cheating hoe told me that he always thought i must've cheated on him. IRONIC. coz it was apparently suspicious how he failed to show up a lot of times when we scheduled things yet i seem to always just forgive and offer words of assurance, that i don't check his phone (trusts him and respects his privacy), that i never seem jealous, that i don't even attempt to go through his stuff, that i don't question him being drunk all the time, that i like him despite him having zero resources to give me.
once he told me that 2 women at work tried to coax him into bed and my reaction was:
"well, i hope you said no?" *laughs lightly
lmfao this man who can't offer me a thing between the 2 of us was the more elitist one. IRONIC. i was confident he'd never want a woman from his line of work coz they are below the status he wants.
hell i post a pic of cake and i get messages from guys like: "dtf"
that's just a normal tuesday for a female. i suppose for a man that's an event worth mentioning to a significant other.
guardian of the dick.
🤣🤣
did he cheat or complained how you're not psycho enough?
men who need the ego strokes have the strongest bored, unappreaciated housewife energyclick to expand
I do not really know. I never asked and he never told me. I ended things because I was tired of his jealousy and we had different life goals. The only thing I know he got with his colleague like 2 weeks after we broke up. He still creates new email accounts to shoot me a message from time to time (I block them anyway).
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by AstrobynPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by WarAngel
And this is why smart men do not stick their dick in crazy. Cool girl or not.
gone girl?
but he didn't know that, she was lowkey
I rewatched this movie a few months ago just to relive this monolog.
She was never a cool girl, she was always high maintenance af, and he always new it.
He put in a little effort in the beginning and didn't care to keep it up, and found a dumber younger girl to impress, and stroke his ego (but Emily Ratajkowski can stroke me too) He knew she wasn't any kind of cool girl, he felt like a failure to her. Which he used to continue justifying his patheticness.If she was cool girl she was pretending to be, could he have felt more secure? Accepted? Loved and valued for who he was?
If a man doesn’t feel secure/accepted that usually has very little to do with the woman, and he would feel that way regardless of the woman that he was with. That’s his own internal shit to hash out, not someone else’s responsibility to correct. Same with women with daddy issues.click to expand
Agreed.
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is it coz if Cleopatra lived in modern times, she's the kinda chick that would look at girls Mark Anthony clicks likes on IG? she's no cool girl. romantics are never cool. ego strokes all day yo. all that plutonian romance.
lookie gone girl author who was pisces. made that whole cool girl speech. what does she get? nothing but disrespect.