
MyStarsShine
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Posted by MyStarsShineIf a woman is insecure for marrying a man like that, she very well should be for making this stupid decision. A leopard doesn’t lose its spots. However, I do feel that people can change, but only if they really want to and make an effort to.
So I heard about this guy that had slept with 40 woman and was due to get married. He had cheated on every one of them. He admitted to his fiancé about his serial infidelities (at least he was honest)
Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off



Posted by OneKnightWho keeps doing something after it makes them physically ill to the point of throwing up?!?!
She should marry him. She will only attract those anyway.
Most my Aries male friends told me this: When I did it the first time, I came home, took a shower and threw up. But once I was over that hump, there was no stopping me. It was like a limitation that was lifted.

Posted by OneKnightHow many of them did you experience ?
I also think men that cheat are horrible in bed.

Posted by AbbyNormalExactlyPosted by OneKnightWho keeps doing something after it makes them physically ill to the point of throwing up?!?!
She should marry him. She will only attract those anyway.
Most my Aries male friends told me this: When I did it the first time, I came home, took a shower and threw up. But once I was over that hump, there was no stopping me. It was like a limitation that was lifted.click to expand

Posted by EllygantSadly, lots don't
People do change. I’ve seen a handful of marriages survive cheating. I’ve seen way more break up because of it. But those that stayed together actually became stronger and better, as individuals and a couple.
Not knocking people who leave. Because they probably wouldn’t grownif they had. Everyone has a different level of tolerance and priorities and situation is the same. I just think the beauty of what can come out of a couple choosing to continue commitment gets overlooked sometimes because of stigma.
You can tell the difference though in people when they have or haven’t changed. It’s obvious in the way they treat their partner on the daily.

Posted by WittyGem88Good to hear that you gained the confidence and self esteem to realise your are worth much betterPosted by MyStarsShineI think in the aspect if cheating, I have never met anyone who actually changed. The tendency to do it again is so high that it is bound to happen again. And women who let that pass... well I was one of those women before. And it has something to do with insecurity and thinking you can never meet any other better men out there. Its sad when i remember it. But glad that I learned my lesson. Took me years to gain my confidence back after that experience.
So I heard about this guy that had slept with 40 woman and was due to get married. He had cheated on every one of them. He admitted to his fiancé about his serial infidelities (at least he was honest)
Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off
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Posted by OneKnightPlease don't say you. Say them. The only way I relate is the one time I cheated and threw up right after it happened and when I told my now ex. Never can think of putting myself or anyone else thru that. I was not myself then... I can't imagine the kind of men who throw up then repeat and feel good about it. Geezus....Posted by AbbyNormalYou did not read my full reply. It only feels ill the first time. Every after is a thrill and you do not feel bad or feel anything at all.
Who keeps doing something after it makes them physically ill to the point of throwing up?!?!
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Posted by OneKnightSo you are horrible in bed thenPosted by MyStarsShineI lost the count, I'm a cheater.
How many of them did you experience ?
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Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?

Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?

Posted by AbbyNormalDamaged onesPosted by OneKnightPlease don't say you. Say them. The only way I relate is the one time I cheated and threw up right after it happened and when I told my now ex. Never can think of putting myself or anyone else thru that. I was not myself then... I can't imagine the kind of men who throw up then repeat and feel good about it. Geezus....Posted by AbbyNormalYou did not read my full reply. It only feels ill the first time. Every after is a thrill and you do not feel bad or feel anything at all.
Who keeps doing something after it makes them physically ill to the point of throwing up?!?!
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Posted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
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Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
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Posted by nanoI've heard plenty of men say they are "happily married" but still cheatPosted by MyStarsShineDo you think that men who cheated will always cheat, or do you think some men can "grow out" of this behaivor?Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
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Posted by MyStarsShineI mean... My situation I was HEAVILY involved with drugs, riddled with grief, and targeted by a much more damaged person who exploited me, so I made very damaging decisions out of confusion. Now that I've cleared myself of those issues, I see it even more clearly than the day I told him which is hard to swallow but necessary for improvement. I have been in an unhappy relationship for 3years now and can't think of cheating on him. I'll leave before I hurt someone like that ever again... idk how anyone with a soul or conscience can serial cheat... smhPosted by AbbyNormalDamaged onesPosted by OneKnightPlease don't say you. Say them. The only way I relate is the one time I cheated and threw up right after it happened and when I told my now ex. Never can think of putting myself or anyone else thru that. I was not myself then... I can't imagine the kind of men who throw up then repeat and feel good about it. Geezus....Posted by AbbyNormalYou did not read my full reply. It only feels ill the first time. Every after is a thrill and you do not feel bad or feel anything at all.
Who keeps doing something after it makes them physically ill to the point of throwing up?!?!
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Posted by nanoYes delusional romantics (great name for a band) they arePosted by AbbyNormalWow Abby that sucks... he really played into the whole secretary thing? You hear about that in pop culture a lot, but probably because it really happens so much lol.Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?
What I wonder about these men - why do they recklessly seek marriage? Marriage after marriage sometimes. Do they think that is going to end well for them? I think these cheaters are somehow delusional romantics.click to expand

Posted by nanoWow. I never really put it together like that but really!! Why the multiple marriages if you know what will happen!! In my dad's case, he shorted my mom child support while he was remarried the 1st time but he got his when she left him and took EVERYTHING just about lol. This one seems to be hanging in there til he dies. She wants that money... I truly believe that's the sole reason she is still with him. It's clear she doesn't love him. I wonder if she loves anything but herself tho 😝Posted by AbbyNormalWow Abby that sucks... he really played into the whole secretary thing? You hear about that in pop culture a lot, but probably because it really happens so much lol.Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?
What I wonder about these men - why do they recklessly seek marriage? Marriage after marriage sometimes. Do they think that is going to end well for them? I think these cheaters are somehow delusional romantics.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineYawn 💤💤💤💤Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by OneKnightShe knowsPosted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
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Posted by AerialViewSo that's a yes thenPosted by MyStarsShineYawn 💤💤💤💤Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by TimonLike I said earlier, I do wonder about some women at times ?Posted by nanoWhy would anyone even want to marry a person that's been divorced 6-7 times. It's probably so bad he doesn't even know if he has been married 6 or 7 times. 😆Posted by AbbyNormalYa exactly, you and @mystarsshine are right. My dad has been married 6 or 7 times. What the fuck? Do you think you will succeed now? Lmao. That's why I called them delusional romantics. He must really believe he is going the succeed, because what man willfully wants to go through divorce that many times? And it's always "welp hope this is my last one." This was a man with a good amount of money, nice house, stable, great credit. And he lost everything for these women, like your dad did. And whats the price of it all? Some sex?Posted by nanoWow. I never really put it together like that but really!! Why the multiple marriages if you know what will happen!! In my dad's case, he shorted my mom child support while he was remarried the 1st time but he got his when she left him and took EVERYTHING just about lol. This one seems to be hanging in there til he dies. She wants that money... I truly believe that's the sole reason she is still with him. It's clear she doesn't love him. I wonder if she loves anything but herself tho 😝Posted by AbbyNormalWow Abby that sucks... he really played into the whole secretary thing? You hear about that in pop culture a lot, but probably because it really happens so much lol.Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?
What I wonder about these men - why do they recklessly seek marriage? Marriage after marriage sometimes. Do they think that is going to end well for them? I think these cheaters are somehow delusional romantics.
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Posted by TimonIt makes a mockery of the word, doesn't it ?Posted by OneKnightThat's not love.Posted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
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Posted by TimonSure isPosted by MyStarsShineIt's hard to take a person like that serious.Posted by TimonLike I said earlier, I do wonder about some women at times ?Posted by nanoWhy would anyone even want to marry a person that's been divorced 6-7 times. It's probably so bad he doesn't even know if he has been married 6 or 7 times. 😆Posted by AbbyNormalYa exactly, you and @mystarsshine are right. My dad has been married 6 or 7 times. What the fuck? Do you think you will succeed now? Lmao. That's why I called them delusional romantics. He must really believe he is going the succeed, because what man willfully wants to go through divorce that many times? And it's always "welp hope this is my last one." This was a man with a good amount of money, nice house, stable, great credit. And he lost everything for these women, like your dad did. And whats the price of it all? Some sex?Posted by nanoWow. I never really put it together like that but really!! Why the multiple marriages if you know what will happen!! In my dad's case, he shorted my mom child support while he was remarried the 1st time but he got his when she left him and took EVERYTHING just about lol. This one seems to be hanging in there til he dies. She wants that money... I truly believe that's the sole reason she is still with him. It's clear she doesn't love him. I wonder if she loves anything but herself tho 😝Posted by AbbyNormalWow Abby that sucks... he really played into the whole secretary thing? You hear about that in pop culture a lot, but probably because it really happens so much lol.Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?
What I wonder about these men - why do they recklessly seek marriage? Marriage after marriage sometimes. Do they think that is going to end well for them? I think these cheaters are somehow delusional romantics.
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Posted by OneKnight🤣🤣🤣🤣Good one!
I also think men that cheat are horrible in bed.

Posted by Fantuma man who has a strong self worth and cheats on his aries wife, is this....harvey weinstein knock off?Posted by WittyGem88Oh, I agree. I wouldn't marry a man if I could tell this was a problem for him. I'm way too jealous to help a man with that problem get over it, and I certainly couldn't live with it.Posted by FantumThats so disappointing. See, if my husband loves me he should not cheat on me. Its not fair. And if he did, does that allow me to cheat on him as well? How low should their self-esteem be for them to cheat?! Ugh. Sorry. I just dont get men who cheat 😢Posted by WittyGem88I think some men get a lot of their self worth from how successful they are with women. They crave female attention and the ability to "get" women as much as the sex itself. If a guy is getting his self-esteem from that, he's not going to stop doing it. It's the cheating, not the number of partners, that is the red flag.Posted by OneKnightI dont get that. Loves the wife but does things that might hurt the wife. Hes getting it from his wife and another woman. How much energy does this man have? And I wonder too what goes in his mind why he did it.Posted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
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Posted by lisabethur8...hopefully the wife and kidsPosted by Fantuma man who has a strong self worth and cheats on his aries wife, is this....harvey weinstein knock off?Posted by WittyGem88Oh, I agree. I wouldn't marry a man if I could tell this was a problem for him. I'm way too jealous to help a man with that problem get over it, and I certainly couldn't live with it.Posted by FantumThats so disappointing. See, if my husband loves me he should not cheat on me. Its not fair. And if he did, does that allow me to cheat on him as well? How low should their self-esteem be for them to cheat?! Ugh. Sorry. I just dont get men who cheat 😢Posted by WittyGem88I think some men get a lot of their self worth from how successful they are with women. They crave female attention and the ability to "get" women as much as the sex itself. If a guy is getting his self-esteem from that, he's not going to stop doing it. It's the cheating, not the number of partners, that is the red flag.Posted by OneKnightI dont get that. Loves the wife but does things that might hurt the wife. Hes getting it from his wife and another woman. How much energy does this man have? And I wonder too what goes in his mind why he did it.Posted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
oh never mind.... the man is an aries male, and cheats on his wife while having sex with her...
well, some peeps are getting something out of it.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinejfc no - and how could she ... reminds me of several of my past relationships - once I said it was over because I had asked more than once for them to do/not do something that was detrimental to the relationship but they didn't or kept it up - they have the audacity after we parted ways to tell me they had finally overcome that "issue" lol - ok, well good for you is what I said - like I was supposed to believe them and take them back at that point ? hell no
So I heard about this guy that had slept with 40 woman and was due to get married. He had cheated on every one of them. He admitted to his fiancé about his serial infidelities (at least he was honest)
Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off

Posted by tctao😆Posted by MyStarsShinejfc no - and how could she ... reminds me of several of my past relationships - once I said it was over because I had asked more than once for them to do/not do something that was detrimental to the relationship but they didn't or kept it up - they have the audacity after we parted ways to tell me they had finally overcome that "issue" lol - ok, well good for you is what I said - like I was supposed to believe them and take them back at that point ? hell no
So I heard about this guy that had slept with 40 woman and was due to get married. He had cheated on every one of them. He admitted to his fiancé about his serial infidelities (at least he was honest)
Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off
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Posted by MyStarsShineIKR - I mean WTFPosted by tctao😆Posted by MyStarsShinejfc no - and how could she ... reminds me of several of my past relationships - once I said it was over because I had asked more than once for them to do/not do something that was detrimental to the relationship but they didn't or kept it up - they have the audacity after we parted ways to tell me they had finally overcome that "issue" lol - ok, well good for you is what I said - like I was supposed to believe them and take them back at that point ? hell no
So I heard about this guy that had slept with 40 woman and was due to get married. He had cheated on every one of them. He admitted to his fiancé about his serial infidelities (at least he was honest)
Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off
Isn't that known as "after the event"
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Posted by GemitatiThis is sad, but true
My husband once said you can be one woman man but not the same woman...

Posted by nanoYeah my dads is a lot about that I'm sure, image and general companionship too. I don't think my dad could be on his own at this point and I think he knows that too. That or he just really doesn't like being alone. Either one is not good to a degree. It's a lot of speculation for me bc we are super distant in my adult years. What I do know is that he likes appearance to be kept up, which so does his current wife so perfect. And I believe he doesn't want to be alone. I can respect that to some degree but forcing it won't give the results they are looking for. Only true self awareness and healing is the answer.Posted by AbbyNormalYa exactly, you and @mystarsshine are right. My dad has been married 6 or 7 times. What the fuck? Do you think you will succeed now? Lmao. That's why I called them delusional romantics. He must really believe he is going the succeed, because what man willfully wants to go through divorce that many times? And it's always "welp hope this is my last one." This was a man with a good amount of money, nice house, stable, great credit. And he lost everything for these women, like your dad did. And whats the price of it all? Some sex?Posted by nanoWow. I never really put it together like that but really!! Why the multiple marriages if you know what will happen!! In my dad's case, he shorted my mom child support while he was remarried the 1st time but he got his when she left him and took EVERYTHING just about lol. This one seems to be hanging in there til he dies. She wants that money... I truly believe that's the sole reason she is still with him. It's clear she doesn't love him. I wonder if she loves anything but herself tho 😝Posted by AbbyNormalWow Abby that sucks... he really played into the whole secretary thing? You hear about that in pop culture a lot, but probably because it really happens so much lol.Posted by nanoYeah luckily I can say my dad was never a womanizer per say but definitely has issues. I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for leaving my mom for his secretary... although he paid more on his own from that one 🤣 and now he's in a loveless marriage with a younger wife who's not really young anymore... I wonder how long it will last...Posted by AbbyNormalLol that's his life story 😂😂Posted by nanoOH! Buddum TISSSSSS!!
You heard about my father?
What I wonder about these men - why do they recklessly seek marriage? Marriage after marriage sometimes. Do they think that is going to end well for them? I think these cheaters are somehow delusional romantics.click to expand

Posted by JadeAlexanderWhat's the betting not many of those guys go for help ?
I think he has sex addiction
My Taurus friend is like this... he’s married but separated by now. He wants emotionally support and connection but freedom to fuck anything he wants.

Posted by JadeAlexanderAbsolutelyPosted by MyStarsShineProbably similar as anyone else with an addiction.Posted by JadeAlexanderWhat's the betting not many of those guys go for help ?
I think he has sex addiction
My Taurus friend is like this... he’s married but separated by now. He wants emotionally support and connection but freedom to fuck anything he wants.
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Posted by OneKnightit sure is evil - it happened to me and I feel like it was twice but the first time it wasn't porn - it was a guy who played games on the computer and couldn't even spend time with me - I left him and then got married to a man who was addicted to porn and totally ignored me - go figure - I divorced himPosted by ImpulsvYes, that is the pure evil.
Porn addicts start to chose the computer over the naked woman in front of them
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Posted by tctaoThat is becoming very commonPosted by OneKnightit sure is evil - it happened to me and I feel like it was twice but the first time it wasn't porn - it was a guy who played games on the computer and couldn't even spend time with me - I left him and then got married to a man who was addicted to porn and totally ignored me - go figure - I divorced himPosted by ImpulsvYes, that is the pure evil.
Porn addicts start to chose the computer over the naked woman in front of them
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Posted by OneKnightThats not love.Posted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneRight on, missPosted by OneKnightThats not love.Posted by WittyGem88Why leave? They love their wifes.
Thats horrible... no guilt... why dont they just leave their partners?
One of my lawyer Aries friend, cheats on his wife literary every other day in the office. He comes home and fucks his Aries wife every night. She does not know anything. He loves her a lot as well.
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Posted by AerialViewHating on a behavior doesn't mean you hate all men everywhere. Don't be dramatic.Posted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
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Posted by LadyNeptuneExactly my thoughtPosted by AerialViewHating on a behavior doesn't mean you hate all men everywhere. Don't be dramatic.Posted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
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Posted by WittyGem88😐Posted by MyStarsShineI know he wont read my response coz he prolly blocked me when I called him out once. But im gonna say this. We all know the answer to your question 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by WittyGem88....some married menPosted by MyStarsShineOh well. Some men. :/Posted by WittyGem88😐Posted by MyStarsShineI know he wont read my response coz he prolly blocked me when I called him out once. But im gonna say this. We all know the answer to your question 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by HaruukaWhen did you start?
I start to believe.. that once a cheater always cheater

Posted by WittyGem88I would also be very careful who you choose to have kids with ......Posted by MyStarsShineMy mum told me the other day maybe I should not consider marriage. Just be in a stable relationship with kids. Marriage now is becoming nothing. Plus divorce is expensive if you make a mistake :/Posted by WittyGem88....some married menPosted by MyStarsShineOh well. Some men. :/Posted by WittyGem88😐Posted by MyStarsShineI know he wont read my response coz he prolly blocked me when I called him out once. But im gonna say this. We all know the answer to your question 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by WittyGem88LDR?Posted by MyStarsShineSomething I am definitely trying to be careful about too. Since I am almost 30, i thought might as well really pick a better one. Theres no need to rush. I just hope my man is nothing like the ones I read here on dxp. We do have a strong bond and I hope I will be enough. This LDR is a test.Posted by WittyGem88I would also be very careful who you choose to have kids with ......Posted by MyStarsShineMy mum told me the other day maybe I should not consider marriage. Just be in a stable relationship with kids. Marriage now is becoming nothing. Plus divorce is expensive if you make a mistake :/Posted by WittyGem88....some married menPosted by MyStarsShineOh well. Some men. :/Posted by WittyGem88😐Posted by MyStarsShineI know he wont read my response coz he prolly blocked me when I called him out once. But im gonna say this. We all know the answer to your question 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
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Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Posted by WittyGem88How long have you been seeing him ?Posted by MyStarsShineYes. We are planning to do that. We wanna live in the same house soon. Its what we are both working towards. For now, while we cant, LDR is a true test for our faithfulness. Some days its hard. But i know we love each other. I just hope its enough.Posted by WittyGem88LDR?Posted by MyStarsShineSomething I am definitely trying to be careful about too. Since I am almost 30, i thought might as well really pick a better one. Theres no need to rush. I just hope my man is nothing like the ones I read here on dxp. We do have a strong bond and I hope I will be enough. This LDR is a test.Posted by WittyGem88I would also be very careful who you choose to have kids with ......Posted by MyStarsShineMy mum told me the other day maybe I should not consider marriage. Just be in a stable relationship with kids. Marriage now is becoming nothing. Plus divorce is expensive if you make a mistake :/Posted by WittyGem88....some married menPosted by MyStarsShineOh well. Some men. :/Posted by WittyGem88😐Posted by MyStarsShineI know he wont read my response coz he prolly blocked me when I called him out once. But im gonna say this. We all know the answer to your question 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewShe is a smart woman and I value her opinionPosted by MyStarsShineDon't encourage her please. It's already enough men bashing in this thread.Posted by nanoPlease feel free to vent
You heard about my father?
Did you ever cheat in your marriage @ArialView
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Anyway he starts to accuse his gf of "looking at other men in the street" lol and she becomes pissed of with it, as there is no truth in it. . So she puts 2 + 2 together and cops onto his game that he is guilty of doing the same thing ... and more
He had asked her to marry him saying he was cured of his past lol and would "never cheat on her"
So time rolls on, wedding getting closer and she starts to put the thumb screws on him, and guess what?......he confessed to cheating on her more than once
I wonder about some women at times......how secure would you be knowing the cheating past of your future husband ... Did she really think he had miraculously changed? I wonder about men that convince themselves that they have "changed".... and also that they will never get caught ?
At least she found out and needless to say, the wedding is off