Attracting the same element but not the same sign as you in dating, anyone else?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by TheLizWiz on Friday, August 27, 2021 and has 14 replies.

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@TheLizWiz
5 Years

Leo guy here, love Leo women and am so happy finally dating one but before her and even now, here is what I noticed.

Aries and Sagittarius women came on the strongest and I ended up dating a few.

It was Sagittarius women for one night stands and casual sex, Aries women for casual sex and relationships, and I even did better with water sign women than I did with Leo women!

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I attract Aries, then Sagittarius, then leos

Aries are funny people. They chase and come on all strong and then accuse you of making them feel trapped. Caused a lot of issues and friction. Most of all, wasted time

Leo are way to stubborn for me and I’m too impatient to wait for them to act.

I do enjoy Sagittarius men. As mutable signs, the give and take is very appealing. Cardinal and fixed signs are exhausting

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@PuzzlePieces
7 Years1,000+ Posts

I do well with Aries & Leo. Sags never go anywhere. So ya same element not sign.

But Water for some reason is attracted to me, but then usually I’m not emotional enough for them. Some earth, Virgo & Cap. But Cap is a bit to homey for me. Air.. only Libra it seems.

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

told the Cap I have a new bf (LIE) so he needs to stop contact and return my keys but I still have access to his fb and see him search my name in his logs 😲😲 feels like I'm 14 all over again tbh

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@allrounder
5 Years500+ Posts

Good luck with your Leo gal but I heard Leo x Leo is such a passionate yet incredibly stubborn power struggle battle over the spotlight lol then again, if you're both emotionally mature, that might not be the case!

And honestly, being a Virgo, Virgos just seem to attract whoever.. for some reason. I guess cause we give off a naturally "innocent" vibe. But I attract a large amount of Fire sign people, at least in the past anyway, because I have a Leo Mars, it gives me a streak of strength, passion, loving performing and confidence. I also get an influx of Pisces guys though, being the opposite sign and all.

I do want to get to know more Earth sign people though. Taurus specifically.

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@TheLizWiz
5 Years

Posted by allrounder

Good luck with your Leo gal but I heard Leo x Leo is such a passionate yet incredibly stubborn power struggle battle over the spotlight lol then again, if you're both emotionally mature, that might not be the case!

And honestly, being a Virgo, Virgos just seem to attract whoever.. for some reason. I guess cause we give off a naturally "innocent" vibe. But I attract a large amount of Fire sign people, at least in the past anyway, because I have a Leo Mars, it gives me a streak of strength, passion, loving performing and confidence. I also get an influx of Pisces guys though, being the opposite sign and all.

I do want to get to know more Earth sign people though. Taurus specifically.

With a Leo girl and cannot be happier

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@pisceanloves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally it's heavy earth for me, I like Virgo and cap energy, have done exceptionally well with aquas as well, I wouldn't go for water.

As for the same sign I attract Pisces men a lot but it's not mutual, too feminine for me