Cancer Man Distant (advice?)

Hello everyone!

I'm seeking advice since this is actually the first time I'm romantically involved with a cancer. Since the day we met we had a crazy connection to the extent that he introduced me to his parents and friends. Although it was going perfect for a month where I would wake up to good morning text messages, he has given me a very thoughtful gift (best gift I've ever received), we share all the same interests and even his parents mentioned to him how great we are together and his response would always be that he agrees and feels lucky to have met me and he feels like I'm the female version of him. From one day to another, he wouldn't text me as much and since we aren't officially bf/gf i understand that people need space sometimes. Problem is that I don't know if it's space that he's seeking or he's just uninterested. I don't know if I should reassure him of my interest in a non-overwhelming way or if I should just give it time. Since I am a Capricorn i do tend to be an over thinker and can't help but feel that I should just get over it and look for someone else. However I really do like him a lot and want to have him back in my life. Should I confront him on his behavioral changes or just let it be?

Whats his Moon and Venus?

@heliumfiasco I'm not sure. I don't know what time he was born. Is there another way to find out his moon and Venus?

Posted by LadyCapri92
Hello everyone!

I'm seeking advice since this is actually the first time I'm romantically involved with a cancer. Since the day we met we had a crazy connection to the extent that he introduced me to his parents and friends. Although it was going perfect for a month where I would wake up to good morning text messages, he has given me a very thoughtful gift (best gift I've ever received), we share all the same interests and even his parents mentioned to him how great we are together and his response would always be that he agrees and feels lucky to have met me and he feels like I'm the female version of him. From one day to another, he wouldn't text me as much and since we aren't officially bf/gf i understand that people need space sometimes. Problem is that I don't know if it's space that he's seeking or he's just uninterested. I don't know if I should reassure him of my interest in a non-overwhelming way or if I should just give it time. Since I am a Capricorn i do tend to be an over thinker and can't help but feel that I should just get over it and look for someone else. However I really do like him a lot and want to have him back in my life. Should I confront him on his behavioral changes or just let it be?

It's in the beginning stages that guys go hard so that they can lock you down. After your bf/gf things tend to cool off with familiarity. It's beginning stages and he's not initiating that much contact?

He's not that into you.

Whenever I get distant with anyone I tend to be in a bad mood or just don't feel like talking. Most of the time its because I want to see how the person I'm trying to get attention from will act. If you think they are feeling distant then don't ignore them completely but make casual contact with them, text or call and see how their day is but don't come off as really clingy. He may be interested or he may not, just have to test the waters because Cancers are moody and our moods change all the time. I would give him some space, see if he comes back to you and if he doesn't go to him in a very casual way and see what they are up to. Sometimes we seem uninterested but we are just getting a feel for what you really have in mind 😆 We want to make sure your intentions are not going to hurt us because we put faith in people and end up getting hurt a lot.

Good luck!