Fav traits of your SO

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by LadyNeptune on Tuesday, February 5, 2019 and has 35 replies.

What Are Common Favorite Traits in a Partner

People often value traits like honesty, kindness, sense of humor, loyalty, and confidence in a partner. These qualities foster trust and emotional connection, making relationships more fulfilling. Preferences can vary but generally include traits that promote mutual respect and understanding.

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@nikkistar
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No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

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@nikkistar
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

Cancer men are momma bears

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These notifications aren't working again. Stupid.

But he is definitely a momma bear type.

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Isn't trying to change me / accepts me exactly as I am DESPITE that we are opposites . That is to say she accepts the things that don't directly effect or concern her but that most others would probably start bitching about eventually, and have been known to.

Is expressive and doesn't know how to play mindgames, literally doesn't have it in her. & bluntly honest.

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@HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by LadyNeptune

No social media ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฆ„

If that's his best trait you can think of.......no wonder you're so psychologically damaged & exhibiting obvious signs of schizophrenic delusion (and most likely sexually frustrated to hell and back). No romance, passion, or intensity. You might as well be siblings for all the good he does you.

You outta spend less time stalking & bullying me and Gemitati, and more time getting yourself done. Your parched coochie will thank you in the end.

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Physically: every inch of him. He's as if he was magically engineered especially for me.

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Non-physically: that he's much better at SHOW than "tell". He can say what he likes, but his actions speak far louder and so I trust his actions far more than his words.

Blowing off his mother to spend more time with me, or cancelling get togethers with our friends behind my back so he can have me to himself on the day......

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His jealous outbursts are the best, even when they REALLY hurt

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And those $ 200+ airpods as an early V-day present......oh my.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by LadyNeptune

No social media ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฆ„

If that's his best trait you can think of.......no wonder you're so psychologically damaged & exhibiting obvious signs of schizophrenic delusion (and most likely sexually frustrated to hell and back). No romance, passion, or intensity. You might as well be siblings for all the good he does you.

You outta spend less time stalking & bullying me and Gemitati, and more time getting yourself done. Your parched coochie will thank you in the end.

Back on topic:

Physically: every inch of him. He's as if he was magically engineered especially for me.

Non-physically: that he's much better at SHOW than "tell". He can say what he likes, but his actions speak far louder and so I trust his actions far more than his words.

Blowing off his mother to spend more time with me, or cancelling get togethers with our friends behind my back so he can have me to himself on the day......

His jealous outbursts are the best, even when they REALLY hurt

And those $ 200+ airpods as an early V-day present......oh my.

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1. Doesn't love you and not gay

2. Doesn't want to label the relationship

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Thats what you get when you trick a child into accepting your dick. Just a matter of time before he leaves you for a woman, if he hasn't been fucking pussy already.

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@themagnetoreborn
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Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

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@VenusAquarius
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- Protective

- He appeals to my imagination

- Intimidating

- He's heroic - my (super hero and villian)

- Devoted, faithful, loyal

- Grew up as a farmer; knows earth science;

so, I'll be ready for apocalyptic events.

- Wise

- Gets ridiculously goofey with me

- Loves shopping

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@nikkistar
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

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That's a dumb question. Sustaining any relationship, long term, requires give and take.

And a man, wouldn't uproot his life and move 2500 miles away for a women that demanded, and only took.

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@saggurl88
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She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

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Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by VenusAquarius

- Protective

- He appeals to my imagination

- Intimidating

- He's heroic - my (super hero and villian)

- Devoted, faithful, loyal

- Grew up as a farmer; knows earth science;

so, I'll be ready for apocalyptic events.

- Wise

- Gets ridiculously goofey with me

- Loves shopping

lol super important

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

That's a dumb question. Sustaining any relationship, long term, requires give and take.

And a man, wouldn't uproot his life and move 2500 miles away for a women that demanded, and only took.

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The tranny cock got em dickmatized lol

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@themagnetoreborn
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

That's a dumb question. Sustaining any relationship, long term, requires give and take.

And a man, wouldn't uproot his life and move 2500 miles away for a women that demanded, and only took.

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A simple question that required a simple yes or no answer.

Neither of which you provided, which can only make me wonder...

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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The arguments/fights are like foreplay. My aries moon loves.

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@nikkistar
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

That's a dumb question. Sustaining any relationship, long term, requires give and take.

And a man, wouldn't uproot his life and move 2500 miles away for a women that demanded, and only took.

A simple question that required a simple yes or no answer.

Neither of which you provided, which can only make me wonder...

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Again, a stupid question and statement.

One that doesn't require an answer, because common sense can be apply to answer that stupid question.

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@themagnetoreborn
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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by nikkistar

No matter what time it is, or how small or big of a request it is, he will do it for me.

Example, at 2 am this morning, I wanted nyquil, so he got up, went to the store, got it for me. When he got back home, he opened it, poured it out, and gave me a glass of water with it. He gave me a kiss, asked me if I needed anything else. Took the little cup, rinsed it off, and let me sleep.

He does that stuff for me all the time.

The real question is, would you ever do it for him in return?

That's a dumb question. Sustaining any relationship, long term, requires give and take.

And a man, wouldn't uproot his life and move 2500 miles away for a women that demanded, and only took.

A simple question that required a simple yes or no answer.

Neither of which you provided, which can only make me wonder...

Again, a stupid question and statement.

One that doesn't require an answer, because common sense can be apply to answer that stupid question.

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K.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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The arguments/fights are like foreplay. My aries moon loves.

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Yeah, you have a fighting moon. My cancer moon can fight but I'd rather try to understand where my so is coming from and fix it. But also, My Sag sun can only take so much fighting, then it isn't so fun. I'd rather run away and go to my happy place. It almost becomes a burden of "This shyt again"

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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The arguments/fights are like foreplay. My aries moon loves.

Yeah, you have a fighting moon. My cancer moon can fight but I'd rather try to understand where my so is coming from and fix it. But also, My Sag sun can only take so much fighting, then it isn't so fun. I'd rather run away and go to my happy place. It almost becomes a burden of "This shyt again"

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Its all done in a playful vibe tho. Not that serious.

And we he knows he's losing he'll tackle and tickle me into submission.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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The arguments/fights are like foreplay. My aries moon loves.

Yeah, you have a fighting moon. My cancer moon can fight but I'd rather try to understand where my so is coming from and fix it. But also, My Sag sun can only take so much fighting, then it isn't so fun. I'd rather run away and go to my happy place. It almost becomes a burden of "This shyt again"

Its all done in a playful vibe tho. Not that serious.

And we he knows he's losing he'll tackle and tickle me into submission.

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Oh yeah I get that. Thatโ€™s all in fun and you can tell itโ€™s teasing. Thatโ€™s cute, I all for it.

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@saggurl88
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Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Antiochus

She was a challenge.

Really? Do you even chase? I love a good challenge too, must be those Sag placements. I guess all the Cardinal Cap energy is cool too.

I do, as long as it is fun.

Yeah. I love a good chase when a guy plays hard to get ๐Ÿ˜† As you can see!

Well I guess I'll go cry in a corner now! ๐Ÿ˜›

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I'm just playing, I don't care ๐Ÿ˜„

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It's not the hard to get part. That's a different scenario but one that I also like because it allows me to vent everything that would I hold back up otherwise.

Maybe it was just the overall situation but in a way she scratched that one itch that sees love and romance as a duel of will and intellect similar to how cats/lions pretty much have a duel/fight in matters of love.

Well Geminis just love fighting and getting a reaction. That's actually what I was most annoyed about with my ex. Just arguing just to argue, to see if he could change my mind and get his way. If it's something that's actually necessary for me to do or for my safety, of course I would listen, but just to randomly fucc with me- NOPE I wasn't having it.

I don't mind fighting. I've been told I'm defensive,I just get like that when I feel attacked. Usually I'm pretty chill though. But it's different when a person messes with me just because, then the boxing gloves come out and I love winning ๐Ÿ˜†

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Geminis fights are pointless and rarely serve any purpose. Beyond their inital line of thought or argument there is more often than not absolutely nothing behind it. Add to that that they are pretty soft and start taking shit personally way too often, albeit they rarely admit it. It either that or they are never open about what drives them into those arguments which makes it annoying as it solves nothing, resulting in an overall lack of progress.

Then there is the fact that the kind of "fight" I have in mind is almost ritualistic, sensual etc. and not just a fight. In a way it's like a dance but that's something most people rarely, if ever, understand.

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Yes, I agree, there usually isn't any reasoning behind it at all. My ex used to even laugh out loud when I just used to blow up at him, he would wonder why I was getting so upset. It's hard because then I take it as games and lies and it just becomes uninteresting to me. I never say hurtful things, even in an argument so he never took offense to it. I don't say words that cut deep cause I wouldn't want anyone ever doing that to me.

As far as your other statement, I would need to fly over there and see in person what you're talking about because what you described was a huge turn on ๐Ÿ˜„ I'd like to see what the outcome of the fight would be.