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@Boots1313
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Creepy or thoughtful?
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
Posted by LadyNeptunelol elaborate
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingOn the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.Posted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expandclick to expand
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expandclick to expand
Lol I'm not that neat. Not even at my own home
Posted by LadyNeptuneNo lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expandclick to expand
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingIt’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expandclick to expand
Lol okay, majority rules. Nice thought but too early in the relationship for that. You can clean his own pig pen LOLOLOL.
Posted by ufoLMAO he cheated, she cheated - everyone sounds happy and satisfied 😄
my brother had a gf who would do his laundry, buy him gifts, cook food for him, clean his room, bake goods, and leave cute little notes
he cheated on her multiple times and she cheated on him as well
ask him before surprising him, that's his space, respect him and his space if permission is granted proceed
Posted by MademoiselleFiskCheck his amazon order history. Finds black lightPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
Srly. 3 months??
I would think he's lowkey looking for my SS#, bank statements, or proof that I'm fucking some dude and sniffing for jizz stains on the bed. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunehe did giver her the key / access code thoughPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange shit and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expandclick to expand
maybe if she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so that it shows she has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
in other words
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me
Posted by pisceanloveswas going to say that....Whats the issue then?Posted by ufo
my brother had a gf who would do his laundry, buy him gifts, cook food for him, clean his room, bake goods, and leave cute little notes
he cheated on her multiple times and she cheated on him as well
ask him before surprising him, that's his space, respect him and his space if permission is granted proceed
LMAO he cheated, she cheated - everyone sounds happy and satisfied click to expandclick to expand
he did say to me after giving me the access code "i like spontaneous, come by WHENEVER you want"
one time i came by unannounced ...for some umm...fun. He loved it. After i apologized for just "showing up" and he said ...i would'nt have given you the code if i "didnt want you just showing up"
but yes, most of the tim ei call or text ahead of time.
one time i came by unannounced ...for some umm...fun. He loved it. After i apologized for just "showing up" and he said ...i would'nt have given you the code if i "didnt want you just showing up"
but yes, most of the tim ei call or text ahead of time.
Posted by i-xywell, before me he was single for 2 years...i know hes capable, but he was very nice to me recently for my birthday and i thought since he's stressed right now it would be a nice gesture.
This a good time for you to see how he can manage/prioritize such tasks. Try not to discourage his ability to clean up after himself.
But, he got along without me, so he can do it on his own.
Posted by Adreamuponwakingi mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expandclick to expand
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for
Posted by MademoiselleFiskLOL he is a taurus
Wasn't @DeleterNerd just talking about this one Virgo chick who reorganized her Taurus bf's butter without his knowledge and it infuriated him? I'd reconsider the "surprise" part. That MFer is gonna think he got robbed.
but im a taurus too, and i would love to come home to someone doing my laundry 😄
(how come men don't surprise woman by cleaning their apartment? )
Posted by Boots1313is you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did itPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expandclick to expand
for sure you'd be in the running*
Posted by Adreamuponwakingyeah, we have plans to hangout tomorrow night...Posted by Boots1313Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expand
is you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did it
for sure you'd be in the running* click to expandclick to expand
if I end up staying, while he plays PuBg maybe ill just start folding some of his T-shirts nonchalantly.
Posted by Boots1313i'd ask first but preface it by acknowledging how hard he is working***Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Boots1313Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by LadyNeptune
Don’t do it!!
Now if you spend the night and he leaves you there alone cause he needs to go to work or whatever...well a little tidying up wouldn’t hurt.
Not a deep clean though. Light.
lol elaborate click to expand
On the light clean? Pick clothes up off the floor into the hamper. Wash dishes in sink and on counter. Etc. etc.
Deep clean to me is when you reorganize stuff and rearrange butter and start going below the surface and invading privacy and all that. click to expand
No lol
why do you think it's ill advised for her to do a deep cleaning of his apartment as a gift?
do you think he will come to expect it / enable him in the future to continue to be a slob? click to expand
It’s an invasion of privacy. Especially after only 3 months dating. click to expand
he did giver her the key / access code though
maybe is she just texted and asked
if a girl did this for me i'd definitely consider her wife material
(not because she's cleaning up after me , but more so shows sees has more of a teamwork attitude , also cares about me and my wellbeing)
i love it when girls do sweet stuff for me in short click to expand
i mean it is early, but i would hope i will be considered "wifey material" down the line...
i know ultimately that is what he is looking for click to expand
is you asked him ( and again acknlowedge how hard he is working / and how you admire it ) and did it
for sure you'd be in the running* click to expand
yeah, we have plans to hangout tomorrow night...
if I end up staying, while he plays PuBg maybe ill just start folding some of his T-shirts nonchalantly. click to expandclick to expand
the last part is the most crucial and clutch key
Posted by MadHatter*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans?
Posted by MadHatterI hear you, on this.Posted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expandclick to expand
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol
Posted by MadHatterI mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take"Posted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by MadHatterBAHAHAHAPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expandclick to expand
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
Posted by MadHatterlol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man egoPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expand
Surely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Lala1393HAHAHA...adorable, sounds like im a childPosted by Boots1313Aww you sound adorable 😍😘 click to expandPosted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expandclick to expand
thank you though 🙂
Posted by MadHatterI like the latterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expand
Surely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expandclick to expand
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit?
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽
Posted by MadHatterBINGOPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expand
Surely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expand
A real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expandclick to expand
you just won this thread..congratulations
Posted by justagirl
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽
...done
are you a cuddler though?
Posted by MadHatterLMAO now THAT is something i know hes particular on...HIS CARPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313
Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expand
Surely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expand
A real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expand
BINGO
you just won this thread..congratulations click to expand
What'd I win?!
I need my trucks washed? Jk I'm picky click to expandclick to expand
hes been opening the door for me lately and i thought it was such a nice and gentlemanly gesture.
NOPE he told me he noticed my fingernails were scratching the handles on his car... :/
Posted by Boots1313Posted by justagirl
My house needs a good cleaning, I will cook you a nice dinner 😏 🍽
...done
are you a cuddler though? click to expandclick to expand
Haha 😂 😂
Posted by MadHatterhis is black too.Posted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313
Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by MadHatter
No, that would piss me off. I can appreciate the intent, but just no.
If you ask, then yes. Tauri aren't real big on surprises
*Taurui men* aren't big on surprises....
I LOVE surprises...especially when it involves stocking my fridge, or doing my laundry/dishes...r
I decided against it though, and im going to take the advice above and say to him "If you need any help tidying up, i can always help"
BTW i thought taurus men like a woman who cleans? click to expand
I can't speak for all, but I'm a neat freak, and self sufficient.
I don't want my love interests to feel like an employee click to expand
I hear you, on this.
Do u think the fact that he has brought it up to on on several occassions and said stuff like "I just WISH this pile was gone" "i need a maid" "I dont have time to do this on my own" "hey can we tackle my clothes the weekend" and then the classic chauvinistic (in a joking manner) "i need a dishwasher i just haven't found her yet" ---could be him hinting that he WANTS me to?
thats the only reason i even thought of the idea, because he brings it up so damn much lol click to expand
I'd say he was. Don't just do it though. Establish something you want in return.... and get that before you do it lol. Establish a "give and take" early.. don't let him walk on you later. click to expand
I mean he did spend 400 $ on me for my birthday.....i think thats a "give/take" click to expand
treetrunk that! Hold out for more! Lol.
Tell him you want a massage or something. Have him paint your toes or some butter.
Bring him down a peg. click to expand
BAHAHAHA
im not that kind of person, i wear my heart on my sleeve, i dont know how to bring people down a "peg"
click to expand
Surely you can think of something emasculating he can do for you that takes 10-15 min. In return for you spending hours helping him with his chores. That's give and take. $ 400 was a birthday gift. click to expand
lol nope, I dont emasculate men...i build them up and inflate their man ego click to expand
Haha! Good! In all seriousness, I know if I was prepared for it... I wouldn't care at all... I'd try to talk you out of it.. but I'd secretly hope you would anyway.. just ask him. Or do it nonchalantly. Or just be chalant as treetrunk and come over with a haz-mat suit like "listem, we gonna do this or not?" click to expand
I like the latter
Okay amazon, how much for a Haz-Mat suit? click to expand
A real one is fairly expensive..
Better yet get you a sexy maid outfit and knock on his door... bowchicabowwow click to expand
BINGO
you just won this thread..congratulations click to expand
What'd I win?!
I need my trucks washed? Jk I'm picky click to expand
LMAO now THAT is something i know hes particular on...HIS CAR
hes been opening the door for me lately and i thought it was such a nice and gentlemanly gesture.
NOPE he told me he noticed my fingernails were scratching the handles on his car... :/ click to expand
Lol! I do that.. but to be fair all mine are black... and she has a lot of rings. click to expandclick to expand
I dont get offended i thinkt its hysterical.
Him and I have similar humor and a hilariously ridiculous relationship full of banter .
Posted by DeleterNerdif his fridge wasn't empty.Posted by MademoiselleFiskDamn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .click to expand
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robot
Posted by MadHatterhes health conscious, so i cant even cook for him because hes particular.,Posted by Boots1313I'm really not either.. I like to cook, but I rarely eat what I cook. Or I'll chew it and spit it out. click to expandPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by MademoiselleFisk
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .
Damn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
if his fridge wasn't empty.
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robot
click to expandclick to expand
are you a 1st decan by chance?
Posted by MadHatteryeah april 26thPosted by Boots1313I am. Is he? click to expandPosted by MadHatterPosted by Boots1313Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by MademoiselleFisk
Keep whatever you find in hi $ pant $ pocket $ .
Damn fisk! Are you gonna steal his lunch too? click to expand
if his fridge wasn't empty.
can you believe hes a taurus that ISNT into food...
he might be a robot
click to expand
I'm really not either.. I like to cook, but I rarely eat what I cook. Or I'll chew it and spit it out. click to expand
hes health conscious, so i cant even cook for him because hes particular.,
are you a 1st decan by chance? click to expandclick to expand
def more reclusive, and independent than im use to.
ANYWAY were all off subject now.
spoke to him about 30 minutes ago on his *lunch break* its midnight ha
we have plans to hangout and "tackle" his pile tomorrow.
He thanked me greatly for even offering to help, and said it will make his life so "much easier and he wont feel as stressed" with the pile gone.
So thanks all!
spoke to him about 30 minutes ago on his *lunch break* its midnight ha
we have plans to hangout and "tackle" his pile tomorrow.
He thanked me greatly for even offering to help, and said it will make his life so "much easier and he wont feel as stressed" with the pile gone.
So thanks all!
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