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does love conquer all?
Posted by jeaneYes. Timing and circumstances play a huge part.
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
I am a romantic at heart but I take this into account.
Posted by Damnatayou wouldn't wait for the love of your life?Posted by jeaneYes. Timing and circumstances play a huge part.
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
I am a romantic at heart but I take this into account.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnsonwell played dj, well played.
depends on their natal chart.
if venus is in gemini. l o l
No.
Stay grounded in reality always. See things for what they really are, not what you want them to be. If you've tried to make something work and it didn't, try a little harder. If it still doesn't work, accept what you cannot change. Reflect on the memories, the emotion, the joy, the sorrow, the growth. Appreciate and cherish all that you've learned and walk away a better person.
Let every ouce of hope you have teach you more and more about your emotional capacity as a human being. Never get stuck in learning. Remember to keep moving.
Stay grounded in reality always. See things for what they really are, not what you want them to be. If you've tried to make something work and it didn't, try a little harder. If it still doesn't work, accept what you cannot change. Reflect on the memories, the emotion, the joy, the sorrow, the growth. Appreciate and cherish all that you've learned and walk away a better person.
Let every ouce of hope you have teach you more and more about your emotional capacity as a human being. Never get stuck in learning. Remember to keep moving.
Posted by jeaneI only understand "waiting" under one scenario. There is constant contact between the two parties and both expressed picking things up in better circumstances. Basically both are looking in the same direction and know they want to build something with each other, so all they have to do is weather the inconveniences until then. And in this case, they are inconveniences and waiting makes sense.Posted by Damnatayou wouldn't wait for the love of your life?Posted by jeaneYes. Timing and circumstances play a huge part.
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
I am a romantic at heart but I take this into account.click to expand
But the other type of waiting I see people engage in is for someone who is not into contact with them. I'm not saying people shouldn't harbor hope but people actively put their lives on hold for others who really could care less, as they are actively enjoying theirs. I wouldn't want someone to put their life on hold for me either, so I can't do that type of waiting. It makes a mockery out of experiencing life and time is limited on this plane.
i'm talking about a situation where there are mutual feelings in a committed exclusive relationship.
is this true?
is this true?
Posted by jeaneIf you're morbidly obese, then yes to all three.
is there a mountain too high? a valley too low? a river too wide?
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
or is no obstacle too big to overcome where love is concerned?
Posted by queencancerromantic love
It depends on which type of love we're talking about here.
No. Love is not the end all be all. Life is made up of much more including love.
@RumiLove- Love is reality though. .. It's supposed just come when you least expect it. It's supposed to be shown in more ways through actions and words simultaneously. Some have had a hard childhood to believe love.. I grew up with loving but detached parents, and as I grew older my own placements make me realize romantic love is fairy tale and it's not that easy. It's hard to explain when I see the words love, hopeless romantic, heart on the sleeves, and romantic love. Blah blah. But I still keep my mind open to the possibility it is real..
Maybe certain placements forbid making love happen easy. Not for me anyways. Haha. It's like tough love which is what I grew up into as an adult. And still have that mentality..
Maybe certain placements forbid making love happen easy. Not for me anyways. Haha. It's like tough love which is what I grew up into as an adult. And still have that mentality..
@queencancer- Thank you.
@xoxoRain- Yeah true. Honesty is supposed to be valued and therefore I won't love you..
Forget it. You said real true honest love. I also stated that honesty plays apart in love. And if there's no honesty then I don't love you. Get it now?. I don't love them or the guy. Simply put.
Good luck asking that question here.
In the sea of love dxp members are like the dead jellyfish that washed up on the shore.
In the sea of love dxp members are like the dead jellyfish that washed up on the shore.
Posted by Soul😆
Good luck asking that question here.
In the sea of love dxp members are like the dead jellyfish that washed up on the shore.
Posted by jeanehmm only if I was the love of his life?Posted by Damnatayou wouldn't wait for the love of your life?Posted by jeaneYes. Timing and circumstances play a huge part.
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
I am a romantic at heart but I take this into account.click to expand
and yes love can overcome many things but it has to be mutual
sorry, I just read where you wrote "mutual feelings" but that almost has an uncertainty in tone... besides, if it was truly mutual you wouldn't be asking us
Posted by aquapiscescuspno it is mutual, sorry, was just having a low moment. interesting responses though!
sorry, I just read where you wrote "mutual feelings" but that almost has an uncertainty in tone... besides, if it was truly mutual you wouldn't be asking us
i guess it is that old libra dichotomy - do you listen to your head or your heart?
Posted by tizianito love isn't hard. it's everything that comes with it sometimes can be troublesome.
Love certainly isn't supposed to be hard. That's my view. It just is what it is.
Posted by jeaneahhh there it is, when we have something good, we question it to deathPosted by aquapiscescuspno it is mutual, sorry, was just having a low moment. interesting responses though!
sorry, I just read where you wrote "mutual feelings" but that almost has an uncertainty in tone... besides, if it was truly mutual you wouldn't be asking us
i guess it is that old libra dichotomy - do you listen to your head or your heart?click to expand
it's not easy to find -- give it a go
what kind of trouble?
Posted by aquapiscescuspnot jail or anything like that. just life - family, work, illness. transitory stuff that when it builds can make you question how strong is the love? how strong are you? what will you risk for it? what are you prepared to sacrifice? what would you suffer in the short term for a happy ending? is the love enough or will life's obstacles defeat you?
what kind of trouble?
Posted by jeaneno, not just love -- commitment, maturity and understandingPosted by aquapiscescuspnot jail or anything like that. just life - family, work, illness. transitory stuff that when it builds can make you question how strong is the love? how strong are you? what will you risk for it? what are you prepared to sacrifice? what would you suffer in the short term for a happy ending? is the love enough or will life's obstacles defeat you?
what kind of trouble?click to expand
you choose to make it work...
Posted by DonJohnsonWhat do you mean by this?
depends on their natal chart.
if venus is in gemini. l o l
Posted by Soul😆
Good luck asking that question here.
In the sea of love dxp members are like the dead jellyfish that washed up on the shore.
sad but somewhat true.
i read this the other day. it helped me with this question. thought it might be of interest to someone.
If You Have To Force It, You're Not In The Right Relationship
By Bob Alaburda
When it’s head versus heart, nobody wins.
Relationships are hard work. That's what they always tell us, right? But they never tell you what "work" is, and how much is reasonable before it's just a bad relationship. )Seems like a pretty important piece of information to leave out.)
When your relationship hits a rough patch, it makes you wonder if this is one of those moments you're supposed to "work" through, or a sign that it was never going to work in the first place.
When happy couples look back through the history of their relationship, there are inevitably obstacles along the way that could have ended them. Basically: How do you tell the difference between an obstacle and a red flag?
It's actually pretty easy, even if it isn't all that obvious: Just listen to your heart.
I know, I know. You're saying, "You just replaced one vague platitude with another!" The difference is, I'm going to explain mine.
The difference between an obstacle and a red flag is whether you feel that person is worth whatever struggle you're going through. And your heart will tell you in an instant.
The moment you have to "will" your way through a relationship challenge is the moment you should begin examining if you really want to be in that relationship. That's because when you have someone who's truly worth it, whether or not you're going to fight through that struggle is never truly in question.
It might suck for awhile, but you never doubt that it's worth it. You don't have to force it. In other words, your brain doesn't have to convince your heart.
Now reverse the hypothetical situation. You really want to fight for your relationship, but your head is telling you it's not the smart thing to do. Maybe it goes against relationship advice you've read or your friends are telling you to cut and run.
The truth is, the heart wants what it wants, and it doesn't always make logical sense.
So if you find yourself in this situation in the future, unsure if a relationship challenge is a temporary obstacle or a sign you should break it off, just ask yourself one question: Is it my head or my heart that isn't in it?
Let your heart lead the way.
http://www.yourtango.com/2015283183/if-you-have-to-force-it-youre-not-in-right-relationship
If You Have To Force It, You're Not In The Right Relationship
By Bob Alaburda
When it’s head versus heart, nobody wins.
Relationships are hard work. That's what they always tell us, right? But they never tell you what "work" is, and how much is reasonable before it's just a bad relationship. )Seems like a pretty important piece of information to leave out.)
When your relationship hits a rough patch, it makes you wonder if this is one of those moments you're supposed to "work" through, or a sign that it was never going to work in the first place.
When happy couples look back through the history of their relationship, there are inevitably obstacles along the way that could have ended them. Basically: How do you tell the difference between an obstacle and a red flag?
It's actually pretty easy, even if it isn't all that obvious: Just listen to your heart.
I know, I know. You're saying, "You just replaced one vague platitude with another!" The difference is, I'm going to explain mine.
The difference between an obstacle and a red flag is whether you feel that person is worth whatever struggle you're going through. And your heart will tell you in an instant.
The moment you have to "will" your way through a relationship challenge is the moment you should begin examining if you really want to be in that relationship. That's because when you have someone who's truly worth it, whether or not you're going to fight through that struggle is never truly in question.
It might suck for awhile, but you never doubt that it's worth it. You don't have to force it. In other words, your brain doesn't have to convince your heart.
Now reverse the hypothetical situation. You really want to fight for your relationship, but your head is telling you it's not the smart thing to do. Maybe it goes against relationship advice you've read or your friends are telling you to cut and run.
The truth is, the heart wants what it wants, and it doesn't always make logical sense.
So if you find yourself in this situation in the future, unsure if a relationship challenge is a temporary obstacle or a sign you should break it off, just ask yourself one question: Is it my head or my heart that isn't in it?
Let your heart lead the way.
http://www.yourtango.com/2015283183/if-you-have-to-force-it-youre-not-in-right-relationship
Posted by Damnata#SequoiaLyfeForeverPosted by jeaneYes. Timing and circumstances play a huge part.
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
I am a romantic at heart but I take this into account.click to expand
Posted by jeanegood stuff. thank you.
i read this the other day. it helped me with this question. thought it might be of interest to someone.
If You Have To Force It, You're Not In The Right Relationship
By Bob Alaburda
When it’s head versus heart, nobody wins.
Relationships are hard work. That's what they always tell us, right? But they never tell you what "work" is, and how much is reasonable before it's just a bad relationship. )Seems like a pretty important piece of information to leave out.)
When your relationship hits a rough patch, it makes you wonder if this is one of those moments you're supposed to "work" through, or a sign that it was never going to work in the first place.
When happy couples look back through the history of their relationship, there are inevitably obstacles along the way that could have ended them. Basically: How do you tell the difference between an obstacle and a red flag?
It's actually pretty easy, even if it isn't all that obvious: Just listen to your heart.
I know, I know. You're saying, "You just replaced one vague platitude with another!" The difference is, I'm going to explain mine.
The difference between an obstacle and a red flag is whether you feel that person is worth whatever struggle you're going through. And your heart will tell you in an instant.
The moment you have to "will" your way through a relationship challenge is the moment you should begin examining if you really want to be in that relationship. That's because when you have someone who's truly worth it, whether or not you're going to fight through that struggle is never truly in question.
It might suck for awhile, but you never doubt that it's worth it. You don't have to force it. In other words, your brain doesn't have to convince your heart.
Now reverse the hypothetical situation. You really want to fight for your relationship, but your head is telling you it's not the smart thing to do. Maybe it goes against relationship advice you've read or your friends are telling you to cut and run.
The truth is, the heart wants what it wants, and it doesn't always make logical sense.
So if you find yourself in this situation in the future, unsure if a relationship challenge is a temporary obstacle or a sign you should break it off, just ask yourself one question: Is it my head or my heart that isn't in it?
Let your heart lead the way.
http://www.yourtango.com/2015283183/if-you-have-to-force-it-youre-not-in-right-relationship
I tend to let me head talk me out of stuff.
Posted by justagirlon those occasions, was your heart in it?Posted by jeanegood stuff. thank you.
i read this the other day. it helped me with this question. thought it might be of interest to someone.
If You Have To Force It, You're Not In The Right Relationship
By Bob Alaburda
When it’s head versus heart, nobody wins.
Relationships are hard work. That's what they always tell us, right? But they never tell you what "work" is, and how much is reasonable before it's just a bad relationship. )Seems like a pretty important piece of information to leave out.)
When your relationship hits a rough patch, it makes you wonder if this is one of those moments you're supposed to "work" through, or a sign that it was never going to work in the first place.
When happy couples look back through the history of their relationship, there are inevitably obstacles along the way that could have ended them. Basically: How do you tell the difference between an obstacle and a red flag?
It's actually pretty easy, even if it isn't all that obvious: Just listen to your heart.
I know, I know. You're saying, "You just replaced one vague platitude with another!" The difference is, I'm going to explain mine.
The difference between an obstacle and a red flag is whether you feel that person is worth whatever struggle you're going through. And your heart will tell you in an instant.
The moment you have to "will" your way through a relationship challenge is the moment you should begin examining if you really want to be in that relationship. That's because when you have someone who's truly worth it, whether or not you're going to fight through that struggle is never truly in question.
It might suck for awhile, but you never doubt that it's worth it. You don't have to force it. In other words, your brain doesn't have to convince your heart.
Now reverse the hypothetical situation. You really want to fight for your relationship, but your head is telling you it's not the smart thing to do. Maybe it goes against relationship advice you've read or your friends are telling you to cut and run.
The truth is, the heart wants what it wants, and it doesn't always make logical sense.
So if you find yourself in this situation in the future, unsure if a relationship challenge is a temporary obstacle or a sign you should break it off, just ask yourself one question: Is it my head or my heart that isn't in it?
Let your heart lead the way.
http://www.yourtango.com/2015283183/if-you-have-to-force-it-youre-not-in-right-relationship
I tend to let me head talk me out of stuff.click to expand
@jeane
Yes, but i can talk myself out of stuff, if that makes sense.
I can convince myself that it's safer, easier, better, to ignore what my heart is telling me. I do not do this so much as i have gotten older, but when i was younger.. oh boy.
I am specifically speaking of relationships and taking the next step with them.
When it comes to if something doesn't feel right.. instinct, etc i do listen to that - usually.
Yes, but i can talk myself out of stuff, if that makes sense.
I can convince myself that it's safer, easier, better, to ignore what my heart is telling me. I do not do this so much as i have gotten older, but when i was younger.. oh boy.
I am specifically speaking of relationships and taking the next step with them.
When it comes to if something doesn't feel right.. instinct, etc i do listen to that - usually.
Posted by justagirlinteresting. i have a talent of doing that myself usually - until this last relationship.
@jeane
Yes, but i can talk myself out of stuff, if that makes sense.
I can convince myself that it's safer, easier, better, to ignore what my heart is telling me. I do not do this so much as i have gotten older, but when i was younger.. oh boy.
I am specifically speaking of relationships and taking the next step with them.
When it comes to if something doesn't feel right.. instinct, etc i do listen to that - usually.
on those times that your head won, was it the right decision?
Love doesn't conquer, it perseveres. Anyone in a long relationship will have doubts along the way if they're in it for the right reasons. If you don't then someone is due for a reality check.
The question is are the doubts worthy of consideration or are they based on fantasies of "what if".
I agree for the most part what jeane is saying. The heart wants what the heart wants, and in a long term relationship love is the final decider. But love has to be defined and separated from dependency, insecurity, convenience and comfort. Love in thoae contexts can lead someone to st8in a toxic relationship that can persevere but the individuals can't grow.
The question is are the doubts worthy of consideration or are they based on fantasies of "what if".
I agree for the most part what jeane is saying. The heart wants what the heart wants, and in a long term relationship love is the final decider. But love has to be defined and separated from dependency, insecurity, convenience and comfort. Love in thoae contexts can lead someone to st8in a toxic relationship that can persevere but the individuals can't grow.
Posted by jeanei honestly do not know. Since i talked myself out of things, it ended. No idea what the outcome would have been if i have followed my heart.Posted by justagirlinteresting. i have a talent of doing that myself usually - until this last relationship.
@jeane
Yes, but i can talk myself out of stuff, if that makes sense.
I can convince myself that it's safer, easier, better, to ignore what my heart is telling me. I do not do this so much as i have gotten older, but when i was younger.. oh boy.
I am specifically speaking of relationships and taking the next step with them.
When it comes to if something doesn't feel right.. instinct, etc i do listen to that - usually.
on those times that your head won, was it the right decision?click to expand
Let me think about this some more and get back to you.
Posted by jeaneWhen you think about that charming, good looking, erudite person next you/facing you in their 20s, can you see yourself in 50 years:
is there a mountain too high? a valley too low? a river too wide?
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
or is no obstacle too big to overcome where love is concerned?
1. Wiping/cleaning up their feces because they're incontinent
2..Wheeling them around / assisting them because through something not of their own, they have become handicapped
3..Sticking with them when the economy has you living out of a car
4. Willing to sacrifice your well being for theirs
That's when love truly is it. Not "being in love", but your concern for that other person exceeds concern for yourself.
Not as easy as it looks.
Posted by tizianimaybe but i'm such a natural cynic and pessimist, love is the only thing that gets me over the line! i wouldn't put a tenth of the effort or have the faith that i do if i didn't love him.
Honestly it seems this whole conversation is more about faith than love
Posted by loveydovex3being (getting) together is easy, it's the staying together that's hard i find.Posted by jeaneIf two people really love each other, I feel it's unlikely that they'll never be together.
is there a mountain too high? a valley too low? a river too wide?
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
or is no obstacle too big to overcome where love is concerned?click to expand
Posted by loveydovex3you're talking about feelings and i am talking about life. no one lives in a bubble and life takes a strain on relationships. my initial question is that at what point do you let life's obstacles get in the way of a great relationship?
Say that I love you and you love me. If the feeling is so strong and so mutual, despite how harshly we hurt each other, we won't think to leave each other. If we do think it, we won't act on it. If we do act on it, how much did we really love each other to begin with?
Plus, it's one thing if the feeling is mutual. Personally, I was rejected for three years, running my foolish errand into finding a deeper meaning to stay with the Taurus I mentioned earlier. I doubt if he felt the same way we'd be in this mess, mind you. But, yeah... Now you have more insight onto whether or not love really conquers all.
There will always be skepticism and people who see this version of love I'm describing to you as a naive one, but personally they're missing out. I'll stick to my foolish errands though because it was the most meaningful thing I ever did and made me wiser / much more capable of loving deeply. Love shouldn't be skin-deep that people give up the way they do in my generation. Sucks.
some people will say i would wait my entire life for the person i love. others may say, you know what? it's been great but this is too hard, it is too much, there are plenty of fish in the sea and although we have the love, there is too much against us, i'm out.
i've solved my own dilemma but i am still interested in what people have to say and where each person draws the line. there is no wrong answer.
(and just as an aside, you seem to have taken real issue with my term "fool's errand". i wasn't calling you foolish. i didn't call your relationship foolish. i didn't say that trying to keep a relationship was foolish. i've never suggested you were naive. i was saying that you're looking for things i think don't exist. you disagreed and said there was a hidden meaning. i capitulated.
in case you weren't aware, here is a definition
a fool's errand
noun
1.a fruitless undertaking)
Posted by loveydovex3and if the feelings are still there and very mutual? if there has been no real hurt? if the two parties still want to be together?
I'm talking about life, too. It's not living in a bubble. The drawing line is when feelings are no longer mutual; how else can people work around those issues if they no longer feel their passion/compassion for each other is worth life's tribulations.
And nope. Don't have an issue with anything. Nothing personal.
does love conquer all? or are there things that even love cannot overcome?
Posted by tizianiI don't get how you rationalize this.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspThat's the only thing I'd disagree on. I've never really understood equating love to sacrifice. They're two different things to me. Both inevitable along the way but very distinct.Posted by jeaneWhen you think about that charming, good looking, erudite person next you/facing you in their 20s, can you see yourself in 50 years:
is there a mountain too high? a valley too low? a river too wide?
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
or is no obstacle too big to overcome where love is concerned?
1. Wiping/cleaning up their feces because they're incontinent
2..Wheeling them around / assisting them because through something not of their own, they have become handicapped
3..Sticking with them when the economy has you living out of a car
4. Willing to sacrifice your well being for theirs
That's when love truly is it. Not "being in love", but your concern for that other person exceeds concern for yourself.
Not as easy as it looks.click to expand
Are you insinuating that love is unconditional?
Because in order to provide your partner with love they need/want, that may not be what you want/need ... so are you saying that you would keep to yourself what YOU need and to hell with them because you wouldn't sacrifice yourself FOR this love?
It doesn't make sense. To not have sacrifice for love means you get everything your way, all the time.
the answer to the OP is yes
Posted by loveydovex3no, the question wasn't should it conquer but does it conquer.Posted by jeaneif the feelings are still there and very mutual, if there has been no real hurt and if the two parties do still want to be together then yes love will conquer... but what I'm saying is love should conquer all despite those tribulations... wasn't that your question? I don't think anything should stop someone who loves someone else from being with them, except if the person receiving the love absolutely does not want it from that person. then it's mere obsession, I think...Posted by loveydovex3and if the feelings are still there and very mutual? if there has been no real hurt? if the two parties still want to be together?
I'm talking about life, too. It's not living in a bubble. The drawing line is when feelings are no longer mutual; how else can people work around those issues if they no longer feel their passion/compassion for each other is worth life's tribulations.
And nope. Don't have an issue with anything. Nothing personal.
does love conquer all? or are there things that even love cannot overcome?click to expand
Posted by P-Angelaww, P, you big softie 😄
the answer to the OP is yes
Posted by Sugarfootso can you choose to not be in love?
No I don't find this true at all. We can choose who we are going to love. Look at all the people who are in arranged marriages. Typically they say that even though they didn't even know their spouse when they got married, with time they came to love them. They were placed together because of practical aspects they had in common.
I also don't agree the love is the best thing that ever happens to people. Love has put me into some reallydumb situations that got me all fucked up.
Posted by Sugarfooti don't know sf. to me, love is not fleeting. when things get hard in my relationship, it doesn't make me love my partner less. that love is constant regardless of what is happening.Posted by Magenta_AzureI agree with this totally. I've seen what happens when two people who love each other try to get by only on that. Love isn't enough. It doesn't stand up to the hard realities of life. Love is too fleeting for that. It's better to accept the facts, accept your love for the other person, but keep it moving if the important factors don't line up. What good is loving somebody when you can't even enjoy life with them because being together is too hard.
No.
Stay grounded in reality always. See things for what they really are, not what you want them to be. If you've tried to make something work and it didn't, try a little harder. If it still doesn't work, accept what you cannot change. Reflect on the memories, the emotion, the joy, the sorrow, the growth. Appreciate and cherish all that you've learned and walk away a better person.
Let every ouce of hope you have teach you more and more about your emotional capacity as a human being. Never get stuck in learning. Remember to keep moving.click to expand
Posted by Sugarfootperhaps. i know my grandparents were together for 40 years and hated each other every minute. at no point was there love, just convenience.Posted by jeaneNo I don't think you can make yourself fall out of love like turning off a light switch. I think loving someone comes with time and falling out of love also comes with time.Posted by Sugarfootso can you choose to not be in love?
No I don't find this true at all. We can choose who we are going to love. Look at all the people who are in arranged marriages. Typically they say that even though they didn't even know their spouse when they got married, with time they came to love them. They were placed together because of practical aspects they had in common.
I also don't agree the love is the best thing that ever happens to people. Love has put me into some reallydumb situations that got me all fucked up.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
I'm saying just because I am willing to sacrifice for someone else it does not mean I have more love for them.
Oh, I see what you meant, and I would agree.
Thanks for clarifying.
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Wow let's just say that the beginning or our relationship was rocky. I was still seeing someone else and hadn't told him about it. He fell for me fast, after about two weeks and he found out about the other guy and told me I should break it off. I did bec
I have been sensing mixed signals to my crush lately. I have been avoiding him like the plague, not because I hate him, but ever since he reciprocated his interest, it has made me feel very nervous. Now he thinks he hates me. The thing is, we don'
I hate it fucking annoys me endlessly Idk what to make of texting behaviours especially if it's texting with a guy ... Opinions please what's acceptable what's not in terms of response time etc Yes I'm fucking clueless I'm not into 3 day rule
So i met this sag guy, he has a Scorp moon, scorp venus, pisces mars and i am a virgo with a scorp moon, scorp venus and cancer mars. He asked me for my number and we texted for a few weeks, he did most of the initiating, i was kind of giving him the
And what's your sign?
I met this guy on a dating site... we just zinged from day 1. i knew he was the one for me even before i could get his name. i kept giving him subtle hints and he would keep coxing me to say more. finally i started sharing my plans of have a family and ba
Scenario#1: Wife and Partner You are with someone whom you’re attracted to. There is caring and love but passion doesn’t come naturally. It’s rooted in security. Man has good status, lots of money, woman doesn’t have to work. (if she choos
is there a point where two people who truly love each other should face reality and accept they are beaten?
or is no obstacle too big to overcome where love is concerned?