Does the good girl ever become the front runner?

Say a guy is seeing three women. The first two ladies are considered priority on his list. One ghosted his ass and other burned him. When he realizes the 3rd lady is nice and finds comfort in her personality after the first two hurt him. At this point, is she considered a front runner now? Or does the girl who burned the guy still considered priority?

She night come to the front but she'll always be overshadowed.

Men dont choose women, women choose men.

Like the 1st two women in your story. They saw the red flags and bounced.

The question is, have you seen these same red flags and have you decided that you can deal with them?

What did these women see that you arent seeing?

Shit just got real!!

I’m curious to find out if a man prefers a b-word or would choose the good girl.

Posted by DMV

Men dont choose women, women choose men.

Like the 1st two women in your story. They saw the red flags and bounced.

The question is, have you seen these same red flags and have you decided that you can deal with them?

What did these women see that you arent seeing?

If a man makes you an option, then you have every right to make him your history.

Know your worth.

The minute you realise your worth, you shift your energy to attract new people who will respect your worth.

It begins with you.

You are not a consolation prize, you are 'the' prize. He must want you, as much as you want him.

Posted by Arachnophobia

Posted by DMV

Men dont choose women, women choose men.

Like the 1st two women in your story. They saw the red flags and bounced.

The question is, have you seen these same red flags and have you decided that you can deal with them?

What did these women see that you arent seeing?

Women choose who they fuck. Men choose who they marry.

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Women still have to say YES

Posted by Toastedtoast

Shit just got real!!

I’m curious to find out if a man prefers a b-word or would choose the good girl.

Posted by DMV

Men dont choose women, women choose men.

Like the 1st two women in your story. They saw the red flags and bounced.

The question is, have you seen these same red flags and have you decided that you can deal with them?

What did these women see that you arent seeing?

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I'm a true believer that there is a match for everyone.

Gotta find the level of crazy you can deal with.

Posted by Koni

Who would want a guy dating so many women?

women

Posted by inmercury

We tend to be delusional about dating - most people here are telling you that you shouldn't want to be the 3rd choice, but in reality no one is ever the first choice unless you met the guy in grade school or wherever the guy first fell in love. Think of the 1st or 2nd girl in that scenario. What if they decided to come back for him but he was now with the 3rd girl and grew attached to her. Now those 2 are pissed and they are worried about the same thing, which, when it comes down to it, is "does he or did he ever really love me?" He could choose any of the 3, but whoever is chosen is going to be dissatisfied knowing he messed around with another girl. OR whoever he chose can learn to be happy with the fact that in the end he has ended up with her and wants to start a life with her. It's not about the past. It's about the future. OR if she really wants to be the first choice, she can date a virgin who just got out of high school.

There are people who think of dating as finding the perfect soul mate, but come on. Those people generally end up alone with their prudish beliefs. Don't be one of them.

The most honest and respectable post!

This is a sad scenario to be in. And what’s a good girl?

Posted by Toastedtoast

Say a guy is seeing three women. The first two ladies are considered priority on his list. One ghosted his ass and other burned him. When he realizes the 3rd lady is nice and finds comfort in her personality after the first two hurt him. At this point, is she considered a front runner now? Or does the girl who burned the guy still considered priority?

Yeah that’s not how dating works. Dudes aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ girl. And even if they say they are, they want the physical attraction and it outranks everything else.

The girl who they want to fuck the most is the one who gets the dude. And with the fucked up way our minds our conditioned to think, the one that ghosted is prolly still up there. Cause we all want what we can’t have.

The nice girl sounds like a doormat. At least the chick who ghosted him is playing him at his own game. She’s got her own ho-tation to check on. He ain’t the only one.

Good means something different to everyone

hmmmm...the girl I want to have sex with the most and the girl I want to be with are not necessarily the same

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I would say yes and no.

In this terms it would be a either lesson learned or you're going to lose your chances with a good girl.

Even thou the girl who burned the guy was no longer in the picture, there is pieces of her that remains wishing to be with her or craving to see her.

However, to fill in the empty void the good girl is present, ignorant of the situation with no sense of acknowledgement of the ones before her.

It becomes a loss for the guy if he were too late to have a full realization that she was a full packaged.