French women trying to seduce my man in public

Erm yeah.

So everything is great between us.

My bf just so happens to be EXTREMELY good-looking.

I'd forgotten what we used to go through when we were younger and how annoying that was.

Sometimes, we're just minding our business and some girls just can't help but stare and try to catch his attention.

It rages me inside but I hide it on the outside and act liie i don't see it.

Yesterday, some gorgeous (much much prettier than me) mixed race girl was checking out my bf and then she kinda discreetly got closer. I saw her face when she first noticed him. She even nudged her girlfriend to tell her to look at my bf.

For the first time ever(i'd never caught him checking girls out), I saw my bf extremely discreetly check her out. He turned around and looked at her TWICE. He was very respectful about it but then I feel as though that kind of gave her validation.

So she got a little closer and then started REALLY staring.

Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.

Anyway, he pretty much follows me(in a bodyguardish kinda way) so, I walked towards the stage and he followed me and that got rid of the girl.

She disappeared after that but then I did see him turn around almost as if he were looking for her but that could just be me paranoid.

He took me home and then we spoke about the night. I told him that i saw him checking that girl out and that I didn't like it very much.

After that we had a little chat about jealousy. I asked him who he thinks is most jealous in our relationship.

He very firmly said "Me !"

I was like "Huh ?! After what I jut told you ?!" "Are you sure ?!"

He said,"Yes. Definitely."

It doesn't show...

But anyway, how can I get over these girls trying to seduce my love?

Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

😂😂😂😂😂

Can you please tell all these married men to stop hitting on me

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They must feel trapped.

I see so many regulated to a minivan.

Only it happens to the both of us lol.

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Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

Hahahah

OK OK

I've been TOLD.



Thank you. I guess I needed that little slap in the face.

it's not like I don't look at handsome guys either.

Silly me.

Thank youu for your blunt honesty !

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Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.



You should just do this^^^

Lol on a serious note, just remember who he goes home to. In a perfect world, once two people are committed everyone else is unattractive and easier to not wander. But sadly, the world is full of attractive people but he chooses you and has after several years. That doesn't happen for a lot of people, plus you can just play with that fire by kissing him while eyeing her. That sense of, you can look but hes mine to touch and play with

OOooh nice idea.

Thank you you're right.

I think I'm overreacting.

I feel a little silly now haha

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

A person with options generally can be swayed if met at the right moment

Like in an office

Ppl are only as loyal as their options

Ugly ppl cheat too though

So enjoy your view

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Everyone has options. That’s the reality we live in.

Loyalty is a day by day choice.

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I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

Oh damn !

Haha he sounds quite entertaining.

No i'm going to try and give less fucks haha.

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Logical answer: As long as he's respectful, it's not a big deal. Everyone likes confirmation from cute strangers that they are attractive. It doesn't change how he feels about you or how attractive you are to him. Feel validated and amused by the girls wanting his attention.

Honest answer: If it happened all the time it would start to beat down on my self-esteem because I'm proud/insecure about that shit. I'd resent it, and I don't know how to stop it. I'm married to a man who never notices when other women look at him. Bless his soul.

Exactly

That can wear you down

Maybe the OP can grow and become a better person than me. lol All I know is that _to this very day_ if I get sloppy drunk when we're out I misinterpret innocent conversations between him and women and lose my shit. I avoid getting sloppy drunk.

What are your placements?

I'm pretty possessive as well

I wouldn't know if the relationship can last

My insecurities would cause lots of problems

Gemini sun, Pisces moon, Taurus Venus, Leo Mars (perceptive and irrational meets possessive and stubborn)

I was here about a year ago, and I left because I was depressed and everybody here made it worse. You were the last straw. We argued one day, and you called me weak and dared me to leave. LOL I'm just telling you this so it doesn't end up seeming like I'm hiding my identity.

Everyone should leave DXP. Take mental health breaks from this place.

Having a Pisces moon is rough

I didn't expect to be back, ever, but here I sit. I had to come back because apparently I need one forum to waste time on, and the last one I was on was crazy in a less enjoyable way.

I remember Lala too. I think jealousy is always a theme in your relationships, girl. Isn't it?

Welcome back!

Lala is a Scorpio's Scorpio

She's got lots of twists and turns in the emotional front

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= Lala is crazy AF

Hahaa I can read between those lines of yours😏 😘

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Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.



You should just do this^^^

Lol on a serious note, just remember who he goes home to. In a perfect world, once two people are committed everyone else is unattractive and easier to not wander. But sadly, the world is full of attractive people but he chooses you and has after several years. That doesn't happen for a lot of people, plus you can just play with that fire by kissing him while eyeing her. That sense of, you can look but hes mine to touch and play with

OOooh nice idea.

Thank you you're right.

I think I'm overreacting.

I feel a little silly now haha

It's ok, it's not the worst thing in the world to want your significant other to just focus on you.

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He does though.

He treats me like i'm god greatest gift on earth but yeah, I guess I just lost it a little yesterday.

These women are sometimes very aggressive.



but yeah.

I guess it's a human reaction.

So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

When I was with an Aries guy who was gorgeous, when a good looking woman was walking past us, I noticed he made a habit of looking down at the ground. When I asked him why, he said he wouldn't like me doing the same thing

Either he was very respectful or terrrrrifeid lol😳

Everyone looks lovely Lala.....don't worry ❤️

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Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.



You should just do this^^^

Lol on a serious note, just remember who he goes home to. In a perfect world, once two people are committed everyone else is unattractive and easier to not wander. But sadly, the world is full of attractive people but he chooses you and has after several years. That doesn't happen for a lot of people, plus you can just play with that fire by kissing him while eyeing her. That sense of, you can look but hes mine to touch and play with

OOooh nice idea.

Thank you you're right.

I think I'm overreacting.

I feel a little silly now haha

It's ok, it's not the worst thing in the world to want your significant other to just focus on you.

He does though.

He treats me like i'm god greatest gift on earth but yeah, I guess I just lost it a little yesterday.

These women are sometimes very aggressive.



but yeah.

I guess it's a human reaction.

It's ok, its natural to feel so. Plus its offensive of them to flirt with him while hes on your arm. I've always felt it was trashy to eye someone while they already have their loved one.

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I find it gross when men do it when their significant others are right there.

I always judge men for that lol.

I've been approached by men while their wife was in the next room. NASTY AF

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but you are french and you are living in france, so why put in the title "french" woman when it's obvious

Click bait lol

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@lalasreturn

Crazy=interesting

😘

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Posted by VenusAquarius

I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

😂😂😂😂😂

Can you please tell all these married men to stop hitting on me

They must feel trapped.

I see so many regulated to a minivan.

Lol, i think your way works best! Be free! Be easy!

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It happens to both of us. A man followed me home (I was walking) and later pulled a gun on my husband. I 've mentioned it before. I guess he felt like a dumbass for not believing me when I told him I was married.

Things are better now that we're older and less attractive, lol. We're not hassled as much.

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So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Hey ! I've responded to others above acknowledging that I have maybe perhaps overreacted a litte.

No need to be mean.

I got it.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

When I was with an Aries guy who was gorgeous, when a good looking woman was walking past us, I noticed he made a habit of looking down at the ground. When I asked him why, he said he wouldn't like me doing the same thing

Either he was very respectful or terrrrrifeid lol😳

Everyone looks lovely Lala.....don't worry ❤️

That's the kind of man I'd die for

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One day dear, one day ❤️

......the Virgo was like that too, I never saw him looking at other women, nobody perfect enough probably 😀

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Posted by stillstillwater

So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Yet you posted on said topic—

What is it with you and your insults?

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I thought it was going to be more interesting than it was. By the end I did have an opinion...

I think its such a waste of time to worry and cause issues over random peoples behavior.

So are you calling monopoly on the only one allowed to be insulting? I dont think mine was insulting anyways. Just not sugar coated because it's a shallow-ass post.

He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

.

This made me lol a little 😂

To be honest, I'd rather help my man outta jail for verbally-slaughtering a woman coming on to him, than take him to divorce court for advancing on it. The woman around here can get a little too loose. 🤪

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She had been messing with him for months. She moved in when I was a chubby mother of our 2 year old. So, I guess she thought she could take him.

She'd be washing her car in a bikini trying to get his attention. We would laugh at her. Then, she got soap opera hateful.

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Posted by stillstillwater

So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Hey ! I've responded to others above acknowledging that I have maybe perhaps overreacted a litte.

No need to be mean.

I got it.

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It was tough love. You deserve to enjoy your bfs good looks and enjoy your time together rather than be worried about random girls.

Good luck.

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Posted by Revenge

but you are french and you are living in france, so why put in the title "french" woman when it's obvious

Click bait lol

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I'm french and english actually.

Because French women seem to be waaaaay worse and sneaky than english women when they do this.

Posted by MyStarsShine

......the Virgo was like that too, I never saw him looking at other women, nobody perfect enough probably 😀

Hahah

to be honest, I think I was shocked because I've never seen him do it before.

Most times, it was him BEING looked at or US being stared at but never him.

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Posted by stillstillwater

So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Yet you posted on said topic—

What is it with you and your insults?

I thought it was going to be more interesting than it was. By the end I did have an opinion...

I think its such a waste of time to worry and cause issues over random peoples behavior.

So are you calling monopoly on the only one allowed to be insulting? I dont think mine was insulting anyways. Just not sugar coated because it's a shallow-ass post.

A long drawn out boring explanation

Next

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You're so useless lol

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......the Virgo was like that too, I never saw him looking at other women, nobody perfect enough probably 😀

Yep, lol.

My hubby finds alot of things and people gross.

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Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by stillstillwater

So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Hey ! I've responded to others above acknowledging that I have maybe perhaps overreacted a litte.

No need to be mean.

I got it.

It was tough love. You deserve to enjoy your bfs good looks and enjoy your time together rather than be worried about random girls.

Good luck.

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Okay.

Thank you then 🙂)))

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

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Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.



You should just do this^^^

Lol on a serious note, just remember who he goes home to. In a perfect world, once two people are committed everyone else is unattractive and easier to not wander. But sadly, the world is full of attractive people but he chooses you and has after several years. That doesn't happen for a lot of people, plus you can just play with that fire by kissing him while eyeing her. That sense of, you can look but hes mine to touch and play with

OOooh nice idea.

Thank you you're right.

I think I'm overreacting.

I feel a little silly now haha

It's ok, it's not the worst thing in the world to want your significant other to just focus on you.

He does though.

He treats me like i'm god greatest gift on earth but yeah, I guess I just lost it a little yesterday.

These women are sometimes very aggressive.



but yeah.

I guess it's a human reaction.

It's ok, its natural to feel so. Plus its offensive of them to flirt with him while hes on your arm. I've always felt it was trashy to eye someone while they already have their loved one.

I find it gross when men do it when their significant others are right there.

I always judge men for that lol.

I've been approached by men while their wife was in the next room. NASTY AF

Ugh that's disgusting and disrespectful, I have felt father's with their family eyeing me and it feels so awkward. Sadly, I always bring a jacket or shawl just because of this

Ewwwwww creepos

I've seen this, old men creeping on young women barely legal at events like weddings

That's someone daughter

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Nasty AF

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Posted by MyStarsShine

......the Virgo was like that too, I never saw him looking at other women, nobody perfect enough probably 😀

Yep, lol.

My hubby finds alot of things and people gross.

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Haahaa my ex and dominant Virgo son do this......so critical! Lol 😆

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

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Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

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Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

A person with options generally can be swayed if met at the right moment

Like in an office

Ppl are only as loyal as their options

Ugly ppl cheat too though

So enjoy your view

Everyone has options. That’s the reality we live in.

Loyalty is a day by day choice.

that's why i said enjoy your view

I wouldnt date an ugly man thinking he'd be loyal

I rather shoot my shot with the man i actually feel attracted too

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Yeah but her issue here isn’t his loyalty. It’s the stares he attracts because he’s fiiiiine.

I feel her pain.

But I be like, drink it in ladies...I’ll be riding that face tonight.

It can be annoying to have the wait staff come onto him and not hook up the bill. Sheesh

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I wonder if men know that, like when a man is with his woman and is looking at me, I think "what a douche-nozzle."

I give them a dirty look/stare.

Like wtf you looking at ?!

But french men are so ruthless that they often miss the hint or don't care or are even more turned on by my "caractère" because they love annoying women haha

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I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

😂😂😂😂😂

Can you please tell all these married men to stop hitting on me

They must feel trapped.

I see so many regulated to a minivan.

Lol, i think your way works best! Be free! Be easy!

It happens to both of us. A man followed me home (I was walking) and later pulled a gun on my husband. I 've mentioned it before. I guess he felt like a dumbass for not believing me when I told him I was married.

Things are better now that we're older and less attractive, lol. We're not hassled as much.

I've had men almost beat me up cause they got rejected

Scream insults at me

I used to think if i was jealous that meant i loved you! If i didn't get intense feelings than I'd move on

Weird

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I'm sorry that happened to you. I couldn't imagine a man hitting me... never someone I was in a relationship with.

After that man pulled a gun out on my hisband,, he called the brigade. It could have gotten out of control.

I really think that guy turned embarrassment to anger. Young black marriage? He couldn't believe it.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

Hahahah

OK OK

I've been TOLD.



Thank you. I guess I needed that little slap in the face.

it's not like I don't look at handsome guys either.

Silly me.

Thank youu for your blunt honesty !

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You’ll be fine. Your keeping the communication flowing so he knows where your heads at.

Full blown jealousy is icky. But a little possessiveness always feels nice from your partner imo. Just gotta walk the fine line.

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

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He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

Hahahah

OK OK

I've been TOLD.



Thank you. I guess I needed that little slap in the face.

it's not like I don't look at handsome guys either.

Silly me.

Thank youu for your blunt honesty !

You’ll be fine. Your keeping the communication flowing so he knows where your heads at.

Full blown jealousy is icky. But a little possessiveness always feels nice from your partner imo. Just gotta walk the fine line.

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Yes, the first time we were together when we were younger, the lack of honest communication was our downfall.

No. Tbh erm, i don't have jealous outbursts. He does though. Or he did when we were younger. Now he seems to have calmed down.

He did bite my hand though when I was talking to my best friend who is also a guy.

Very random bite. As if to tell me "Alright, I'm here, pay attention to me now."

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So what!

Lol looking and staring is neither a crime or immoral. You need to.rethink your own confidence and insecurities. Just because another girl is better looking than you doesn't mean she has a shot with your bf

If it makes you feel better when most men cheat it's with lesser attractive women than their partner.

Your topic bores me but I hope it will equally bore you and you find some better things to direct your attention to like having an amazing time/experience with your bf because that's what sustains a relationship not good looks or people not staring.

Yet you posted on said topic—

What is it with you and your insults?

I thought it was going to be more interesting than it was. By the end I did have an opinion...

I think its such a waste of time to worry and cause issues over random peoples behavior.

So are you calling monopoly on the only one allowed to be insulting? I dont think mine was insulting anyways. Just not sugar coated because it's a shallow-ass post.

A long drawn out boring explanation

Next

You're so useless lol

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My post upset you because you're encouraging this poor girls insecurities just so you feel better about your own. But the difference is that she's probably in her 20s needing to grow into her confidence while you're in your 30s with the emotional capacity of a toddler.

It's all so toxic and sad. You need to be contained so you don't contaminate young minds.

I'll pray for you.

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Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

A person with options generally can be swayed if met at the right moment

Like in an office

Ppl are only as loyal as their options

Ugly ppl cheat too though

So enjoy your view

Everyone has options. That’s the reality we live in.

Loyalty is a day by day choice.

that's why i said enjoy your view

I wouldnt date an ugly man thinking he'd be loyal

I rather shoot my shot with the man i actually feel attracted too

Yeah but her issue here isn’t his loyalty. It’s the stares he attracts because he’s fiiiiine.

I feel her pain.

But I be like, drink it in ladies...I’ll be riding that face tonight.

It can be annoying to have the wait staff come onto him and not hook up the bill. Sheesh

You got me confused! I've never dated anybody below an 8

Fine or not, it's about loyalty

Does he make you feel secure, no matter who checks him out

Thats my point

You just here gassing yoself

Bye

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Lol your talking in circles. Get some coffee in you!

It's crucial that you communicate to him very clearly where your boundaries lie and what behaviour you will and will not tolerate in your relationship. If he didn't get the message clearly, he could think to himself "well, if I got away with this I could probably get away with more.."

People who have not yet learned the importance of boundaries will forever keep crossing other people's.

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He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

Venus in cancer?

That dude ain't going nowhere

You won the lottery

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Hahah well, he is very much in love too. It shows, hence why I was pretty taken aback yesterday.

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I took it as fact that women find my husband very attractive. It doesn't bother me unless they are extremely rude.

However, my husband is strange and can be very rude to women that are agressive and find him attractive. So much so, that I kinda start acting like a manager trying to diffuse a bad PR moment. Many years ago he was arrested for verbally assualting the stripper who lived upstairs from us.

Ultimately, and you can probably tell, idgaf.

😂😂😂😂😂

Can you please tell all these married men to stop hitting on me

They must feel trapped.

I see so many regulated to a minivan.

Lol, i think your way works best! Be free! Be easy!

It happens to both of us. A man followed me home (I was walking) and later pulled a gun on my husband. I 've mentioned it before. I guess he felt like a dumbass for not believing me when I told him I was married.

Things are better now that we're older and less attractive, lol. We're not hassled as much.

I've had men almost beat me up cause they got rejected

Scream insults at me

I used to think if i was jealous that meant i loved you! If i didn't get intense feelings than I'd move on

Weird

I'm sorry that happened to you. I couldn't imagine a man hitting me... never someone I was in a relationship with.

After that man pulled a gun out on my hisband,, he called the brigade. It could have gotten out of control.

I really think that guy turned embarrassment to anger. Young black marriage? He couldn't believe it.

They never touched me

Lol they get shot up

My brother runs with goons

But there's been times guys got in my face and i felt threatened

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Even posturing that way is awful.

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He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

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He is water dominant! Needs a nurturing woman............you! ❤️

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He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

Venus in cancer?

That dude ain't going nowhere

You won the lottery

Hahah well, he is very much in love too. It shows, hence why I was pretty taken aback yesterday.

Venus in cancer are very attached type of ppl

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So i've heard 😉

He is adorable haha.

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He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

He is water dominant! Needs a nurturing woman............you! ❤️

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Yes. I'm emotionally nurturing and he nurtures me every other + spoils me rotten.

He's really reserved so I often ask him lots of questions to fund out what he's thinking. I'm always surprised by his answers.

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Looking means fuck all.

Do you also feel jealous when he checks out an actress in a movie/show? Do you feel jealousy when he jerks off to porn?

If he had struck up a conversation and gotten her digits then you’d have something to be mad about.

Or if you can’t hang dump his ass and date a short balding beer gut instead.

A person with options generally can be swayed if met at the right moment

Like in an office

Ppl are only as loyal as their options

Ugly ppl cheat too though

So enjoy your view

Everyone has options. That’s the reality we live in.

Loyalty is a day by day choice.

that's why i said enjoy your view

I wouldnt date an ugly man thinking he'd be loyal

I rather shoot my shot with the man i actually feel attracted too

Yeah but her issue here isn’t his loyalty. It’s the stares he attracts because he’s fiiiiine.

I feel her pain.

But I be like, drink it in ladies...I’ll be riding that face tonight.

It can be annoying to have the wait staff come onto him and not hook up the bill. Sheesh

You got me confused! I've never dated anybody below an 8

Fine or not, it's about loyalty

Does he make you feel secure, no matter who checks him out

Thats my point

You just here gassing yoself

Bye

Lol your talking in circles. Get some coffee in you!

Yes please

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The struggle is real 🙌

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He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

He is water dominant! Needs a nurturing woman............you! ❤️

Yes. I'm emotionally nurturing and he nurtures me every other + spoils me rotten.

He's really reserved so I often ask him lots of questions to fund out what he's thinking. I'm always surprised by his answers.

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No wonder he's attracted to you with all that water

❤️❤️

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To be honest he might be really good looking and so on, but the thing is, it's your insecurities that surface, you said that woman was prettier than you, that way you're already saying you're comparing her to yourself, she might be more beautiful, but guess what, he's with you not only because of your looks. It's normal for people to look at something that looks pretty, a girl, a guy, whoever, but that's all there is, it's eye candy.... i think people who feel threatened need to work on self confidence, because they prob. have low self esteem , rather than looking at this from negative point of view and fear that your partner might be taken and get insecure about it, be happy and proud that he's with you, fear and insecurity and posessive jelly can easily ruin a relationship. You should have always have clear communication with your partner as you go thru this struggle, he might help you reflect and understand things more clearly. best of luck with the relationship. When you feel anger, jelly, sad or whatever, always try to reflect why is that, because most of the time it's our own fault rather than partner's.

Well, looking once, is one thing, he looked twice then turned around a third time to look for her because she'd dissapeared.

I may feel insecure in the sense that he's physically a 10 and I'm a 6 at best so every now and then I feel as though someone cuter may be more appealing to him than me, but then I remind myself that he fell in love with ME and not them.

However, I did tell him that I didn't really like seeing him look at her and look FOR her. It's like they had a little moment or sexy staring match that I wasn't included in.

I told him how and why I didn't like that; It's the first time I've ever seen him respond to a girl staring him down like that. It Before, he'd just ignore them or look discretely then ignore them but this time it's like they had a moment.

So... yeah. I'm glad he and I talked about it though. He knows MY boundaries. I however do not know his.