French women trying to seduce my man in public (Page 2)

Posted by Neshama

Or tell them he has herpes.

hahahah

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

He looked twice. That means he wanted to check her out.

That means you are right to be mad about it and he's right to get shit about it from you. He's a grown man, no highschool boy anymore so he has no excuses.

Hummmm

That's what my mother says. I told her this morning. She says, once is curiousity.

Twice is looking for trouble.

Soooo hmmm I dunno anymore;

Either way, I guess it's a non issue now as we have discussed it and I told him how i felt.

He doesn't like me even TALKING to other men at the shop just to buy food. Lol

So he understood.

Is he very young?

Listen to your mother!👍

Have you read his chart.......any Gemini placements lol? Sorry I couldn't resist 😀

He is 29.

Yes he is the first love Gemini.

Gemini sun, Cap rising, Cancer moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Cancer, Mercury Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio. Midheaven in Scorpio

He is water dominant! Needs a nurturing woman............you! ❤️

Yes. I'm emotionally nurturing and he nurtures me every other + spoils me rotten.

He's really reserved so I often ask him lots of questions to fund out what he's thinking. I'm always surprised by his answers.

I love that! He sounds perfect!

I love the kind of guy i can ask a billion questions too and he still has me curious

When curiosity dies , i get sad

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He's not perfect and neither am I but yeah he is very interesting. Always keeping me guessing.

Also his brain is like a machine. Paying attention to every single little detail.

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What does he look like? Give me an idea

Like a french manly man rocker with sexy hands, a few sexy silver rings and a man bun.

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Raakac

To be honest he might be really good looking and so on, but the thing is, it's your insecurities that surface, you said that woman was prettier than you, that way you're already saying you're comparing her to yourself, she might be more beautiful, but guess what, he's with you not only because of your looks. It's normal for people to look at something that looks pretty, a girl, a guy, whoever, but that's all there is, it's eye candy.... i think people who feel threatened need to work on self confidence, because they prob. have low self esteem , rather than looking at this from negative point of view and fear that your partner might be taken and get insecure about it, be happy and proud that he's with you, fear and insecurity and posessive jelly can easily ruin a relationship. You should have always have clear communication with your partner as you go thru this struggle, he might help you reflect and understand things more clearly. best of luck with the relationship. When you feel anger, jelly, sad or whatever, always try to reflect why is that, because most of the time it's our own fault rather than partner's.

Well, looking once, is one thing, he looked twice then turned around a third time to look for her because she'd dissapeared.

I may feel insecure in the sense that he's physically a 10 and I'm a 6 at best so every now and then I feel as though someone cuter may be more appealing to him than me, but then I remind myself that he fell in love with ME and not them.

However, I did tell him that I didn't really like seeing him look at her and look FOR her. It's like they had a little moment or sexy staring match that I wasn't included in.

I told him how and why I didn't like that; It's the first time I've ever seen him respond to a girl staring him down like that. It Before, he'd just ignore them or look discretely then ignore them but this time it's like they had a moment.

So... yeah. I'm glad he and I talked about it though. He knows MY boundaries. I however do not know his.

That's very disrespectful

I feel angry for you

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i think I didn't explain the scene very well.

That's what happened. They were kind looking at each other. He thought I couldnt see him because i was standing in front of him.

I could see AND feel him.

I felt rage inside but acted normal.

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I wonder if men know that, like when a man is with his woman and is looking at me, I think "what a douche-nozzle."

I give them a dirty look/stare.

Like wtf you looking at ?!

But french men are so ruthless that they often miss the hint or don't care or are even more turned on by my "caractère" because they love annoying women haha

lol

It doesn't actually make me mad. It's more of an eyeroll moment. "Welp, I did think you were cute before I saw you're a cad..."

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Yeah but here, it happens pretty much all the time. Everyday of the week.

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

The only time I think looking would bother me is if it's blatantly disrespectful from my boyfriend's end.

The women are none of my concern. They're just doing what bitches do.

If my guy made no effort in trying to remain respectful by staring back (hard), intentionally sending subtle hints to the girl with his body language, things like that, then that would be a problem.

Other than that, some looking here and there is expected. Doesn't bother me at all.

I look too. It's human nature.

Agreed. Consigned. Sealed. Delivered

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Yeah his effort to be respectful was the fact that is was short looks but that's because i was there I guess.

But then he followed me immediately as i approached the stage. THAT'S when he looked AGAIN to see if she was there or for i dunno what.

Didn't like it at all. Ruined my vibe to be honest.

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Posted by Raakac

To be honest he might be really good looking and so on, but the thing is, it's your insecurities that surface, you said that woman was prettier than you, that way you're already saying you're comparing her to yourself, she might be more beautiful, but guess what, he's with you not only because of your looks. It's normal for people to look at something that looks pretty, a girl, a guy, whoever, but that's all there is, it's eye candy.... i think people who feel threatened need to work on self confidence, because they prob. have low self esteem , rather than looking at this from negative point of view and fear that your partner might be taken and get insecure about it, be happy and proud that he's with you, fear and insecurity and posessive jelly can easily ruin a relationship. You should have always have clear communication with your partner as you go thru this struggle, he might help you reflect and understand things more clearly. best of luck with the relationship. When you feel anger, jelly, sad or whatever, always try to reflect why is that, because most of the time it's our own fault rather than partner's.

Well, looking once, is one thing, he looked twice then turned around a third time to look for her because she'd dissapeared.

I may feel insecure in the sense that he's physically a 10 and I'm a 6 at best so every now and then I feel as though someone cuter may be more appealing to him than me, but then I remind myself that he fell in love with ME and not them.

However, I did tell him that I didn't really like seeing him look at her and look FOR her. It's like they had a little moment or sexy staring match that I wasn't included in.

I told him how and why I didn't like that; It's the first time I've ever seen him respond to a girl staring him down like that. It Before, he'd just ignore them or look discretely then ignore them but this time it's like they had a moment.

So... yeah. I'm glad he and I talked about it though. He knows MY boundaries. I however do not know his.

Well you might view yourself as 6/10 he might see you 10/10 . You have to realise it's a natural thing and there is nothing wrong with that. The worst problem people have these days is placing shame on people and making them feel guilty just because they are insecure , they are reflecting their insecurities and projecting them on other people without even realising that and people get fucked up like that. People think the other person is guilty that they made them angry, while it reality the person did that to himself without even being aware . They want to do shit, but they feel shame and guilt for doing thing that's completely normal. People love to deflect and project shit on others just so they don't have to feel the ego bruised, feel the pain and sadness and that's the part that's fucked up, people would rather blame other, get angry on them and lash out just because they couldn't be more aware and understand that that's deflecting and prjoecting your own shit and trauma, insecurities into the other person. He didn't touch her, he didn't even talk to her, and you're already overthinking and assuming all those things. Also the fact that you're in relationship and don't know hi's boundaries means you should talk about it. best of luck and stay positive

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Thank you so much 🙂



Hahah i don't wanna know his boundaries. They would be "Get rid of your best guy friend. Don't talk to other men in my presence. Don't smile at other men. Even if they're just serving you popcorn at the movies. No eye contact with ANY man. Etc etc etc. 🙄 I don't think he's changed that much actually. We just spoke over the phone. He told me that it pissed him off when I left him for no more than 3 MINUTES to go and say something to my guy bestie."

UGH

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I was wild when young, mad women wanted my cap boyfriend at that time!

Oh yeah wild nights at clubs fighting , pushing, and getting in ppl face

Aye🤣🤣🤣 he egged me on

Purposefully triggered me

Good times

You're no longer young ?

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Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I wonder if men know that, like when a man is with his woman and is looking at me, I think "what a douche-nozzle."

I give them a dirty look/stare.

Like wtf you looking at ?!

But french men are so ruthless that they often miss the hint or don't care or are even more turned on by my "caractère" because they love annoying women haha

lol

It doesn't actually make me mad. It's more of an eyeroll moment. "Welp, I did think you were cute before I saw you're a cad..."

Yeah but here, it happens pretty much all the time. Everyday of the week.

There are two truths going on here, right? I mean, there are people saying this is biology, and as long as he has a lid on it, there is no reason to try to police his behavior and drive yourself crazy. That's true. But then there's another truth I've noticed, and that's that men who really care about you and are loyal know your insecurities and don't trip them. They intentionally steer away from those to keep you feeling safe and happy. It's harder for guys to do that the younger they are, I think. It doesn't mean your guy is a complete write-off, but I understand your fears.

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Thank you for understanding.

Well he now knows what i DON'T like. i never used to set boundaries when we were younger.

I think i came across as TOOO non chalent even though i wasn't feeling non-chalent. I was just really good at hiding it when we were younger so he maybe thought i didn't care.

It's not about setting boundaries on your partner. Everybody is free to do whatever the hell they want.

It's about defining your own boundaries first, and then communicating them to your partner. If your partner can live with them, then that's a conscious and individual choice, not one that was imposed on him/her. If he/she cant live with them then it's better to walk away.

You need rules that every team agrees with to play football professionally.

You need boundaries that both partners agree with to have a healthy relationship

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What does he look like? Give me an idea

Like a french manly man rocker with sexy hands, a few sexy silver rings and a man bun.

Does he have a similar looking cousin, brother, friend who is single?

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Hahaha

He actually does.

A cousin who is his twin. VERY hot.

But mixed race (black white).

There's a catch though.

His cousin is batshit crazy.

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge

What does he look like? Give me an idea

Like a french manly man rocker with sexy hands, a few sexy silver rings and a man bun.

Does he have a similar looking cousin, brother, friend who is single?

Hahaha

He actually does.

A cousin who is his twin. VERY hot.

But mixed race (black white).

There's a catch though.

His cousin is batshit crazy.

:-/ how tall is he?

What are his sun moon rising?

Does he have anyone else?

What kind of crazy?

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Like in and out of psychiatric hospital crazy.

Posted by 7s

Lol it's funny when women see an attractive woman and look at you to see if you're gonna look. Even while driving!

hahahahah 😂

Posted by Prince_Pisces

Aren't most french women ugly? I wouldn't worry about it.

Hahaha

NO.

French women are often naturally very pretty !

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

It's not about setting boundaries on your partner. Everybody is free to do whatever the hell they want.

It's about defining your own boundaries first, and then communicating them to your partner. If your partner can live with them, then that's a conscious and individual choice, not one that was imposed on him/her. If he/she cant live with them then it's better to walk away.

You need rules that every team agrees with to play football professionally.

You need boundaries that both partners agree with to have a healthy relationship

Very well said.



Thank you for this message.

I'm just happy that we're comfortable enough to talk about that openly.

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Posted by Raakac

To be honest he might be really good looking and so on, but the thing is, it's your insecurities that surface, you said that woman was prettier than you, that way you're already saying you're comparing her to yourself, she might be more beautiful, but guess what, he's with you not only because of your looks. It's normal for people to look at something that looks pretty, a girl, a guy, whoever, but that's all there is, it's eye candy.... i think people who feel threatened need to work on self confidence, because they prob. have low self esteem , rather than looking at this from negative point of view and fear that your partner might be taken and get insecure about it, be happy and proud that he's with you, fear and insecurity and posessive jelly can easily ruin a relationship. You should have always have clear communication with your partner as you go thru this struggle, he might help you reflect and understand things more clearly. best of luck with the relationship. When you feel anger, jelly, sad or whatever, always try to reflect why is that, because most of the time it's our own fault rather than partner's.

Well, looking once, is one thing, he looked twice then turned around a third time to look for her because she'd dissapeared.

I may feel insecure in the sense that he's physically a 10 and I'm a 6 at best so every now and then I feel as though someone cuter may be more appealing to him than me, but then I remind myself that he fell in love with ME and not them.

However, I did tell him that I didn't really like seeing him look at her and look FOR her. It's like they had a little moment or sexy staring match that I wasn't included in.

I told him how and why I didn't like that; It's the first time I've ever seen him respond to a girl staring him down like that. It Before, he'd just ignore them or look discretely then ignore them but this time it's like they had a moment.

So... yeah. I'm glad he and I talked about it though. He knows MY boundaries. I however do not know his.

Well you might view yourself as 6/10 he might see you 10/10 . You have to realise it's a natural thing and there is nothing wrong with that. The worst problem people have these days is placing shame on people and making them feel guilty just because they are insecure , they are reflecting their insecurities and projecting them on other people without even realising that and people get fucked up like that. People think the other person is guilty that they made them angry, while it reality the person did that to himself without even being aware . They want to do shit, but they feel shame and guilt for doing thing that's completely normal. People love to deflect and project shit on others just so they don't have to feel the ego bruised, feel the pain and sadness and that's the part that's fucked up, people would rather blame other, get angry on them and lash out just because they couldn't be more aware and understand that that's deflecting and prjoecting your own shit and trauma, insecurities into the other person. He didn't touch her, he didn't even talk to her, and you're already overthinking and assuming all those things. Also the fact that you're in relationship and don't know hi's boundaries means you should talk about it. best of luck and stay positive

Thank you so much 🙂



Hahah i don't wanna know his boundaries. They would be "Get rid of your best guy friend. Don't talk to other men in my presence. Don't smile at other men. Even if they're just serving you popcorn at the movies. No eye contact with ANY man. Etc etc etc. 🙄 I don't think he's changed that much actually. We just spoke over the phone. He told me that it pissed him off when I left him for no more than 3 MINUTES to go and say something to my guy bestie."

UGH

wow, that sounds hard for a long term relationship, couldn't imagine living my life with restrictions like they, but hey, to each hi's own, some people adore that people get so jelly and possesive and find that hot, i hope you 2 are bringing the best out of each other! 🙂

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Oh I remember him thinking I was flirting with his 15 year old family friend.

I WAS FUCKING EIGHTEEN !!!!!!

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Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Raakac

To be honest he might be really good looking and so on, but the thing is, it's your insecurities that surface, you said that woman was prettier than you, that way you're already saying you're comparing her to yourself, she might be more beautiful, but guess what, he's with you not only because of your looks. It's normal for people to look at something that looks pretty, a girl, a guy, whoever, but that's all there is, it's eye candy.... i think people who feel threatened need to work on self confidence, because they prob. have low self esteem , rather than looking at this from negative point of view and fear that your partner might be taken and get insecure about it, be happy and proud that he's with you, fear and insecurity and posessive jelly can easily ruin a relationship. You should have always have clear communication with your partner as you go thru this struggle, he might help you reflect and understand things more clearly. best of luck with the relationship. When you feel anger, jelly, sad or whatever, always try to reflect why is that, because most of the time it's our own fault rather than partner's.

Well, looking once, is one thing, he looked twice then turned around a third time to look for her because she'd dissapeared.

I may feel insecure in the sense that he's physically a 10 and I'm a 6 at best so every now and then I feel as though someone cuter may be more appealing to him than me, but then I remind myself that he fell in love with ME and not them.

However, I did tell him that I didn't really like seeing him look at her and look FOR her. It's like they had a little moment or sexy staring match that I wasn't included in.

I told him how and why I didn't like that; It's the first time I've ever seen him respond to a girl staring him down like that. It Before, he'd just ignore them or look discretely then ignore them but this time it's like they had a moment.

So... yeah. I'm glad he and I talked about it though. He knows MY boundaries. I however do not know his.

Well you might view yourself as 6/10 he might see you 10/10 . You have to realise it's a natural thing and there is nothing wrong with that. The worst problem people have these days is placing shame on people and making them feel guilty just because they are insecure , they are reflecting their insecurities and projecting them on other people without even realising that and people get fucked up like that. People think the other person is guilty that they made them angry, while it reality the person did that to himself without even being aware . They want to do shit, but they feel shame and guilt for doing thing that's completely normal. People love to deflect and project shit on others just so they don't have to feel the ego bruised, feel the pain and sadness and that's the part that's fucked up, people would rather blame other, get angry on them and lash out just because they couldn't be more aware and understand that that's deflecting and prjoecting your own shit and trauma, insecurities into the other person. He didn't touch her, he didn't even talk to her, and you're already overthinking and assuming all those things. Also the fact that you're in relationship and don't know hi's boundaries means you should talk about it. best of luck and stay positive

Damn. This 👆 is truthful awareness for both males and females. Not everyone wants what you want, like, have or need. It's pure foolishness to think looks are everything.

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Looks aren't everything but if you're with your significant other supposed to be having fun and you're eye banging another girl multiple times then maybe looks are a bit TOO important

Posted by MissKrabs

is she hot?

The girl he was totally eye banging?

Yes. She was absolutely stunning.

Posted by LalasReturn

Erm yeah.

So everything is great between us.

My bf just so happens to be EXTREMELY good-looking.

I'd forgotten what we used to go through when we were younger and how annoying that was.

Sometimes, we're just minding our business and some girls just can't help but stare and try to catch his attention.

It rages me inside but I hide it on the outside and act liie i don't see it.

Yesterday, some gorgeous (much much prettier than me) mixed race girl was checking out my bf and then she kinda discreetly got closer. I saw her face when she first noticed him. She even nudged her girlfriend to tell her to look at my bf.

For the first time ever(i'd never caught him checking girls out), I saw my bf extremely discreetly check her out. He turned around and looked at her TWICE. He was very respectful about it but then I feel as though that kind of gave her validation.

So she got a little closer and then started REALLY staring.

Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.

Anyway, he pretty much follows me(in a bodyguardish kinda way) so, I walked towards the stage and he followed me and that got rid of the girl.

She disappeared after that but then I did see him turn around almost as if he were looking for her but that could just be me paranoid.

He took me home and then we spoke about the night. I told him that i saw him checking that girl out and that I didn't like it very much.

After that we had a little chat about jealousy. I asked him who he thinks is most jealous in our relationship.

He very firmly said "Me !"

I was like "Huh ?! After what I jut told you ?!" "Are you sure ?!"

He said,"Yes. Definitely."

It doesn't show...

But anyway, how can I get over these girls trying to seduce my love?

Was this other girl young and hot?

If so, then that's the nature of all of mankind.

So I have to make a confession.

Many, many years ago, I was in a serious and stable LTR with a Cancer girl.

Yes, I loved her very much, so don't even start.

Anyway, we were out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.

Evidently, one of the nearby universities was having a formal, so all the chicks in the area were dressed in these super sexy evening gowns.

One of them was wearing a little black dress, low-cut, and it didn't have a back on it!!

So this chick walks past our table and makes eye contact with me, and I just happened to glance at her.

My Cancer noticed immediately, and got super pissed at me.

She quips, "SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE!?!!?!"

I didn't entertain a response other than to scoff.

It's not my fault for glancing!

The chick was half-naked, and she looked smoking hot.

Damn, women gotta get angry about everything men cannot control.

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Posted by LalasReturn

Erm yeah.

So everything is great between us.

My bf just so happens to be EXTREMELY good-looking.

I'd forgotten what we used to go through when we were younger and how annoying that was.

Sometimes, we're just minding our business and some girls just can't help but stare and try to catch his attention.

It rages me inside but I hide it on the outside and act liie i don't see it.

Yesterday, some gorgeous (much much prettier than me) mixed race girl was checking out my bf and then she kinda discreetly got closer. I saw her face when she first noticed him. She even nudged her girlfriend to tell her to look at my bf.

For the first time ever(i'd never caught him checking girls out), I saw my bf extremely discreetly check her out. He turned around and looked at her TWICE. He was very respectful about it but then I feel as though that kind of gave her validation.

So she got a little closer and then started REALLY staring.

Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.

Anyway, he pretty much follows me(in a bodyguardish kinda way) so, I walked towards the stage and he followed me and that got rid of the girl.

She disappeared after that but then I did see him turn around almost as if he were looking for her but that could just be me paranoid.

He took me home and then we spoke about the night. I told him that i saw him checking that girl out and that I didn't like it very much.

After that we had a little chat about jealousy. I asked him who he thinks is most jealous in our relationship.

He very firmly said "Me !"

I was like "Huh ?! After what I jut told you ?!" "Are you sure ?!"

He said,"Yes. Definitely."

It doesn't show...

But anyway, how can I get over these girls trying to seduce my love?

Was this other girl young and hot?

If so, then that's the nature of all of mankind.

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She was young. Fresh looking and gorgeous.

Posted by Effortless

So I have to make a confession.

Many, many years ago, I was in a serious and stable LTR with a Cancer girl.

Yes, I loved her very much, so don't even start.

Anyway, we were out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.

Evidently, one of the nearby universities was having a formal, so all the chicks in the area were dressed in these super sexy evening gowns.

One of them was wearing a little black dress, low-cut, and it didn't have a back on it!!

So this chick walks past our table and makes eye contact with me, and I just happened to glance at her.

My Cancer noticed immediately, and got super pissed at me.

She quips, "SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE!?!!?!"

I didn't entertain a response other than to scoff.

It's not my fault for glancing!

The chick was half-naked, and she looked smoking hot.

Damn, women gotta get angry about everything men cannot control.

But you looked once.

My gem looked mutiple times.

Posted by Arielle83

I think it’s rude.

I’d move closer to the chick to watch who crosses the boundary first.

That’s how you going to know who you’re really with.

What makes me think is if I hadn't been there, what would he have done ?

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Effortless

So I have to make a confession.

Many, many years ago, I was in a serious and stable LTR with a Cancer girl.

Yes, I loved her very much, so don't even start.

Anyway, we were out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.

Evidently, one of the nearby universities was having a formal, so all the chicks in the area were dressed in these super sexy evening gowns.

One of them was wearing a little black dress, low-cut, and it didn't have a back on it!!

So this chick walks past our table and makes eye contact with me, and I just happened to glance at her.

My Cancer noticed immediately, and got super pissed at me.

She quips, "SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE!?!!?!"

I didn't entertain a response other than to scoff.

It's not my fault for glancing!

The chick was half-naked, and she looked smoking hot.

Damn, women gotta get angry about everything men cannot control.

But you looked once.

My gem looked mutiple times.

Oh a Gemini.

I’d be gone.

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A VERY watery Gemini

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Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by MissKrabs

is she hot?

The girl he was totally eye banging?

Yes. She was absolutely stunning.

Id eye bang her too if she's stunning

Id stare at her

Tell him how gorgeous she is

But im weird

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I do like checking women out but not this one. She was trying to compete with me.

It wasn't one of those moments.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Arielle83

I think it’s rude.

I’d move closer to the chick to watch who crosses the boundary first.

That’s how you going to know who you’re really with.

What makes me think is if I hadn't been there, what would he have done ?

She would of talked to him

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She would have walked right up to him for sure.

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Effortless

Posted by LalasReturn

Erm yeah.

So everything is great between us.

My bf just so happens to be EXTREMELY good-looking.

I'd forgotten what we used to go through when we were younger and how annoying that was.

Sometimes, we're just minding our business and some girls just can't help but stare and try to catch his attention.

It rages me inside but I hide it on the outside and act liie i don't see it.

Yesterday, some gorgeous (much much prettier than me) mixed race girl was checking out my bf and then she kinda discreetly got closer. I saw her face when she first noticed him. She even nudged her girlfriend to tell her to look at my bf.

For the first time ever(i'd never caught him checking girls out), I saw my bf extremely discreetly check her out. He turned around and looked at her TWICE. He was very respectful about it but then I feel as though that kind of gave her validation.

So she got a little closer and then started REALLY staring.

Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.

Anyway, he pretty much follows me(in a bodyguardish kinda way) so, I walked towards the stage and he followed me and that got rid of the girl.

She disappeared after that but then I did see him turn around almost as if he were looking for her but that could just be me paranoid.

He took me home and then we spoke about the night. I told him that i saw him checking that girl out and that I didn't like it very much.

After that we had a little chat about jealousy. I asked him who he thinks is most jealous in our relationship.

He very firmly said "Me !"

I was like "Huh ?! After what I jut told you ?!" "Are you sure ?!"

He said,"Yes. Definitely."

It doesn't show...

But anyway, how can I get over these girls trying to seduce my love?

Was this other girl young and hot?

If so, then that's the nature of all of mankind.

She was young. Fresh looking and gorgeous.

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Men are naturally inclined toward younger women.

It's instinctive to want a solid and fertile field to plant our seeds.

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Effortless

So I have to make a confession.

Many, many years ago, I was in a serious and stable LTR with a Cancer girl.

Yes, I loved her very much, so don't even start.

Anyway, we were out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.

Evidently, one of the nearby universities was having a formal, so all the chicks in the area were dressed in these super sexy evening gowns.

One of them was wearing a little black dress, low-cut, and it didn't have a back on it!!

So this chick walks past our table and makes eye contact with me, and I just happened to glance at her.

My Cancer noticed immediately, and got super pissed at me.

She quips, "SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE!?!!?!"

I didn't entertain a response other than to scoff.

It's not my fault for glancing!

The chick was half-naked, and she looked smoking hot.

Damn, women gotta get angry about everything men cannot control.

But you looked once.

My gem looked mutiple times.

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Was the chick half-naked and wearing a sexy evening gown?

Yep, that's what got my glance.

Posted by Effortless

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Effortless

Posted by LalasReturn

Erm yeah.

So everything is great between us.

My bf just so happens to be EXTREMELY good-looking.

I'd forgotten what we used to go through when we were younger and how annoying that was.

Sometimes, we're just minding our business and some girls just can't help but stare and try to catch his attention.

It rages me inside but I hide it on the outside and act liie i don't see it.

Yesterday, some gorgeous (much much prettier than me) mixed race girl was checking out my bf and then she kinda discreetly got closer. I saw her face when she first noticed him. She even nudged her girlfriend to tell her to look at my bf.

For the first time ever(i'd never caught him checking girls out), I saw my bf extremely discreetly check her out. He turned around and looked at her TWICE. He was very respectful about it but then I feel as though that kind of gave her validation.

So she got a little closer and then started REALLY staring.

Ugh, it made me want to drag him by his long sexy hair and sit on his face to teach him a lesson.

Anyway, he pretty much follows me(in a bodyguardish kinda way) so, I walked towards the stage and he followed me and that got rid of the girl.

She disappeared after that but then I did see him turn around almost as if he were looking for her but that could just be me paranoid.

He took me home and then we spoke about the night. I told him that i saw him checking that girl out and that I didn't like it very much.

After that we had a little chat about jealousy. I asked him who he thinks is most jealous in our relationship.

He very firmly said "Me !"

I was like "Huh ?! After what I jut told you ?!" "Are you sure ?!"

He said,"Yes. Definitely."

It doesn't show...

But anyway, how can I get over these girls trying to seduce my love?

Was this other girl young and hot?

If so, then that's the nature of all of mankind.

She was young. Fresh looking and gorgeous.

Men are naturally inclined toward younger women.

It's instinctive to want a solid and fertile field to plant our seeds.

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Tbh, I'm pretty young myself.

So that's not a reason.

Posted by Effortless

Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Effortless

So I have to make a confession.

Many, many years ago, I was in a serious and stable LTR with a Cancer girl.

Yes, I loved her very much, so don't even start.

Anyway, we were out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.

Evidently, one of the nearby universities was having a formal, so all the chicks in the area were dressed in these super sexy evening gowns.

One of them was wearing a little black dress, low-cut, and it didn't have a back on it!!

So this chick walks past our table and makes eye contact with me, and I just happened to glance at her.

My Cancer noticed immediately, and got super pissed at me.

She quips, "SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE!?!!?!"

I didn't entertain a response other than to scoff.

It's not my fault for glancing!

The chick was half-naked, and she looked smoking hot.

Damn, women gotta get angry about everything men cannot control.

But you looked once.

My gem looked mutiple times.

Was the chick half-naked and wearing a sexy evening gown?

Yep, that's what got my glance.

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Nope nope.

Dressed pretty subtly

With white jeans I think

I would have looked for the second best looking guy in the room and nudged closer to him and made damn sure I gave the cold shoulder. How fucking rude. I also hate these situation comparisons "would you react like that of it was someone on tv?"..totally different situation. It's just bloody rude...hope he didn't get sex that night 😂

Posted by Sola

I would have looked for the second best looking guy in the room and nudged closer to him and made damn sure I gave the cold shoulder. How fucking rude. I also hate these situation comparisons "would you react like that of it was someone on tv?"..totally different situation. It's just bloody rude...hope he didn't get sex that night 😂

Barely got a kiss

Posted by Sagicorn

Idk I had these situations countless times in life that I feel nothing abput it. Been on either ends too lol when it's my bf in question, when it's other girl's bf...you get the point. Means nothing in the end. Who he goes home with is what counts. I'm pretty sure you had it way much more worked out in your head than he actually had in his. And guys do that shit all the time. You can be most stunning you can be and he will still check out others too.

After much thought and discussion I think it's rude and disrespectful to be out with your girl and insistingly check out someone else.

Checking out once is one thing but doing what he did is looking for trouble.

I won't settle for the "oh you're going home with me so I should be grateful" rhetoric when he just publicly disrespected me and potentially sent out signals to another girl to indicate that he was interested in her.



Nope.

I would never dream of doing that to him because I know he would feel uncomfortable. So I don't see why I should be fine with it.

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Posted by LalasReturn

Posted by Sagicorn

Idk I had these situations countless times in life that I feel nothing abput it. Been on either ends too lol when it's my bf in question, when it's other girl's bf...you get the point. Means nothing in the end. Who he goes home with is what counts. I'm pretty sure you had it way much more worked out in your head than he actually had in his. And guys do that shit all the time. You can be most stunning you can be and he will still check out others too.

After much thought and discussion I think it's rude and disrespectful to be out with your girl and insistingly check out someone else.

Checking out once is one thing but doing what he did is looking for trouble.

I won't settle for the "oh you're going home with me so I should be grateful" rhetoric when he just publicly disrespected me and potentially sent out signals to another girl to indicate that he was interested in her.



Nope.

I would never dream of doing that to him because I know he would feel uncomfortable. So I don't see why I should be fine with it.

That's not settling, that's knowing how men function. But sure, you can always chose to be one of the delusional women who believe their guy would never check out other women, not to mention God forbid think about any other women then them ever again. That's simply deluding yourself, but good luck to you in finding one like that. You will miss a bunch of probably great men while you wait for that to happen.

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Your comment is waaaaaaay besides the point. Both of them are in fact.

I don't mind that he looks at other women.

We're human, we both look at the other sex.

That is not what I was saying. Like...at all.



I'm back with my first love who is pretty much the love of my life. I have no desires to be with "a bunch of great men".

Ok if you're ok with you bf responding to female signals right underneath your nose, then you do you. To each their own.

Either way. As I said before, we discussed it and we're now fine about it.

Again, it wasn't the checking out I had an issue with. We all check out the opposite sex.

It's not just a "man thing".