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dejaVwe
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13 Years

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Posted by P-Angel
"I usually make up random ages in every post so that the guys aren't easily identifiable."

Of course, because it matters in here, since we are all completely identifiable ....





"I often post things and screw with the dates and facts and ages to make it less identifiable."


I'm really glad you said that twice ... otherwise, I might not have been convinced of it.


Posted by P-Angel
Poor Pisces people .... they are so fucked up.


Posted by P-Angel
Shall we start a pity party on their behalf?


Don't worry, we can change our ages so nobody will be able to identify us?

I'm picking 29 for the party.
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I don't care what anyone says, P-angel.
I love you.

I'll pick 29, too.
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P-Angel
@P-Angel
20 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

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Really awesomely good, dry sarcasm is wasted on most ... I'm glad you are able to get me ... only a few on dxp can distinguish the difference.

However, I'm not really perturbed by that ... because it's those who can't get it, and get their panties wadded up their butts that make this place enjoyable.

I forgot about this post ... lol, it's threads like this that makes being a member here worth it.
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Whimsy
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15 Years1,000+ Posts

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A few things:

Is polyamory allowed within the confines of his tribal marriage, or would sex with you be considered cheating? If extracurricular activities are not allowed, it's simply not ok for you to be a part of causing chaos in the lives of his wife and (eventually) children. He has a responsibility to other people now.

If it is allowed, then you have to ask yourself if you're willing to live life as an afterthought. You have indicated that you are, so:

How long are you willing to put yourself in this position? You know this situation is going to end in heartbreak, so you just need to figure out how much time you're willing to give it. If you don't need a committed relationship or a family of your own anytime soon, then you could throw several years or so away. But, if you would rather invest those years in what you really want out of your future, it might make sense to make other choices.