LDM90
@LDM90
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FWB Called/Texted Me Drunk
Lol bit awkward...
I'd ignore and delete, if he brings it up himself then say what you gotta say and ask what you wanna ask.
No problemo
I'd ignore and delete, if he brings it up himself then say what you gotta say and ask what you wanna ask.
No problemo
I'd bring it up. It's better to find out whether you two are on the same page now rather than later. If you two aren't on the same page, it might be a good time to end it before one or both of you are in too deep.
Bring it up. Why not. All you lose is your fwb. Plenty more fish in the ocean
lay with him
Posted by HouseCleaning
lay with him
Omg...I just noticed your profile pic from the other thread...LMAO.
Posted by LDM90He was drunk and horny...forget it happened.
My FWB called me 4 times last night but I missed them all. Then he started shooting off texts saying how he missed me, wanted to take me to dinner, just to lay with him, and then saying he missed me again. Kind of weirded out by this.
Should I just pretend like nothing happened and save us both the embarrassment or ask what was up?
Posted by happyface1Yea that's what I planned on doing.Posted by HouseCleaning
lay with him
Omg...I just noticed your profile pic from the other thread...LMAO.click to expand
I tweeted "-___-" (my tire popped) and he just texted me saying he saw my tweet and wanted to know if I'm okay. Sigh I guess I can't avoid him forever.
Posted by LDM90Are you hoping he has feelings for you?
My FWB called me 4 times last night but I missed them all. Then he started shooting off texts saying how he missed me, wanted to take me to dinner, just to lay with him, and then saying he missed me again. Kind of weirded out by this.
Should I just pretend like nothing happened and save us both the embarrassment or ask what was up?
Posted by GobshiteNo but you can kiss my ass though 🙂Posted by LDM90
Should I just pretend like nothing happened and save us both the embarrassment or ask what was up?
And do you need someone to wipe your arse for you as well?
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Posted by truecapNo. I just don't want things to get messy or weird.Posted by LDM90Are you hoping he has feelings for you?
My FWB called me 4 times last night but I missed them all. Then he started shooting off texts saying how he missed me, wanted to take me to dinner, just to lay with him, and then saying he missed me again. Kind of weirded out by this.
Should I just pretend like nothing happened and save us both the embarrassment or ask what was up?click to expand
It's all let me fuck talk....
Once he realized you were not responding to his initial text message he then started to fish for a reaction by throwing anything out there to see if he'd hit the right sexual chord.
Now if he wasn't drunk then that would change the whole tone of the situation.
Once he realized you were not responding to his initial text message he then started to fish for a reaction by throwing anything out there to see if he'd hit the right sexual chord.
Now if he wasn't drunk then that would change the whole tone of the situation.
Posted by tiki33But why do that to get some? We've already done the deed lol.
It's all let me fuck talk....
Once he realized you were not responding to his initial text message he then started to fish for a reaction by throwing anything out there to see if he'd hit the right sexual chord.
Now if he wasn't drunk then that would change the whole tone of the situation.
His first text was I miss you then I want to take you to dinner then I miss you again.
FWB in itself doesn't make sense so why waste time making sense of it. I know you desire a specific answer that indicates he has feelings for you but drunk text messages are MEANINGLESS.
He was drunk....Then end
He was drunk....Then end
Posted by tiki33That's not necessarily true. Quite often people tell you how they feel when they're drunk. Unfortunately, I've sent a few text and called a few girls that I've been interested in and spilled my feelings or reiterated how I felt about them.
FWB in itself doesn't make sense so why waste time making sense of it. I know you desire a specific answer that indicates he has feelings for you but drunk text messages are MEANINGLESS.
He was drunk....Then end
You said that he saw a tweet and reached out to see if you're okay? He clearly cares. If I'm not interested in you in that way I'm not going to reach out and ask if you're okay because of a silly emoji.
Just because FWB doesn't quite make sense there's no harm in trying to figure things out. Human nature.
Men that choose FWB situations do not want real relationships which is why they opt for FWB situations.
Men that do FWB are not bad men for the most part, they have feelings, they care, they can show compassion and empathy, they can even demonstrate love to a woman but being single will always be priority #1. He's human, he can feel all types of things but do nothing about it, it's just something that will never make sense to most women.
If he meant what he said he will reaffirm what he said but I can almost guarantee you he'll get spooked if you bring it up or he'll disappear on you for awhile or forever.
Ignoring and showing a bit of apathy can actually passively force a confession out of a man but if his main priority is to not get tied down, no matter how he feels he will most likely not budge on the original agreement.
The friendzone type situations are confusing because sex has the ability to confuse people especially if both people are spending a significant amount of time with one another.
Women should expect confusion, flip flopping in FWB situations, it can't be avoided really, nothing is reliable.
Maybe you're the exception to the rule. Maybe you're the exceptional woman men throw away their single life for. Maybe you have a history of turning your fwb situations into real relationships but if you don't have a history of your fwb situations turning into real relationships then don't hold your breath on this one.
Men that do FWB are not bad men for the most part, they have feelings, they care, they can show compassion and empathy, they can even demonstrate love to a woman but being single will always be priority #1. He's human, he can feel all types of things but do nothing about it, it's just something that will never make sense to most women.
If he meant what he said he will reaffirm what he said but I can almost guarantee you he'll get spooked if you bring it up or he'll disappear on you for awhile or forever.
Ignoring and showing a bit of apathy can actually passively force a confession out of a man but if his main priority is to not get tied down, no matter how he feels he will most likely not budge on the original agreement.
The friendzone type situations are confusing because sex has the ability to confuse people especially if both people are spending a significant amount of time with one another.
Women should expect confusion, flip flopping in FWB situations, it can't be avoided really, nothing is reliable.
Maybe you're the exception to the rule. Maybe you're the exceptional woman men throw away their single life for. Maybe you have a history of turning your fwb situations into real relationships but if you don't have a history of your fwb situations turning into real relationships then don't hold your breath on this one.
Posted by tiki33I agree with you. I guess I should've clarified this but he never said FWB I did. He wanted to spend valentines day with me and after that I got spooked and told him I was just interested in FWB. He said okay
Men that choose FWB situations do not want real relationships which is why they opt for FWB situations.
Men that do FWB are not bad men for the most part, they have feelings, they care, they can show compassion and empathy, they can even demonstrate love to a woman but being single will always be priority #1. He's human, he can feel all types of things but do nothing about it, it's just something that will never make sense to most women.
If he meant what he said he will reaffirm what he said but I can almost guarantee you he'll get spooked if you bring it up or he'll disappear on you for awhile or forever.
Ignoring and showing a bit of apathy can actually passively force a confession out of a man but if his main priority is to not get tied down, no matter how he feels he will most likely not budge on the original agreement.
The friendzone type situations are confusing because sex has the ability to confuse people especially if both people are spending a significant amount of time with one another.
Women should expect confusion, flip flopping in FWB situations, it can't be avoided really, nothing is reliable.
Maybe you're the exception to the rule. Maybe you're the exceptional woman men throw away their single life for. Maybe you have a history of turning your fwb situations into real relationships but if you don't have a history of your fwb situations turning into real relationships then don't hold your breath on this one.
That's the thing though I'm not holding my breath. I don't want a relationship with him or anyone for that matter.
So you opted for the FWB situation and he didn't. Well that's different. He agreed with what you wanted because you got spooked and most likely really wanted more with you but backed off once he saw how you reacted to his interest in you.
His text messaging makes sense now. He settled for fwb but most likely wanted more from the start.
At this point If you don't want a real relationship with him and you now know he's feeling some heavy feelings for you and if it's not reciprocal it's time for you to move on.
His text messaging makes sense now. He settled for fwb but most likely wanted more from the start.
At this point If you don't want a real relationship with him and you now know he's feeling some heavy feelings for you and if it's not reciprocal it's time for you to move on.
Drunk texts should never be taken seriously.
Or, they should be taken VERY seriously.
Or, they should be taken VERY seriously.
Posted by tiki33Thanks for the advice. He sent me a text tonight saying come let me hold you. Could've been a booty call text but coupled with his messsges from this weekend I just need to cut things off.
So you opted for the FWB situation and he didn't. Well that's different. He agreed with what you wanted because you got spooked and most likely really wanted more with you but backed off once he saw how you reacted to his interest in you.
His text messaging makes sense now. He settled for fwb but most likely wanted more from the start.
At this point If you don't want a real relationship with him and you now know he's feeling some heavy feelings for you and if it's not reciprocal it's time for you to move on.
Find another fwb, it's cool to do that too ya know.
Posted by wagtailHi Wags,
@tiki33
GOD I've missed you, you never post woman! Where have you been
I am super busy these days but I still make time to come around but not as often as I'd like to. Thanks for missing me, sending love your way. Take it easy.
"This is bs.
It's not "human nature".. I have never drunk texted in my life.
He was drunk and probably wanted to get laid AGAIN at that moment...
It's an FWB why waste time "trying to figure out shit".. It is what it is.. Meaningless.. Just like his drunk text.. EO"
Lots of people spill there guts when they get a bit of liquid courage. Liquid courage does exist.
Read my prior statement. "He was drunk...The end"
We actually agree on this issue. I also see no reason to figure things out in FWB situations and yet if people come here for clarity I have no problem with assisting someone with gaining clarity on their situation.
It's not "human nature".. I have never drunk texted in my life.
He was drunk and probably wanted to get laid AGAIN at that moment...
It's an FWB why waste time "trying to figure out shit".. It is what it is.. Meaningless.. Just like his drunk text.. EO"
Lots of people spill there guts when they get a bit of liquid courage. Liquid courage does exist.
Read my prior statement. "He was drunk...The end"
We actually agree on this issue. I also see no reason to figure things out in FWB situations and yet if people come here for clarity I have no problem with assisting someone with gaining clarity on their situation.
Posted by busyeyes88Why are you always such a salty bitch to everyone on here. Loosen up a bit woman! Seriously UGH! So unattractive!
Why can't people just act on their own natural instincts without having to come on here to "weigh up" what they should do next?! Why aren't people "natural" any more?
Sorry I can't help you any further.... Follow your gut or your natural rhythm or do you need help there too?!
Posted by busyeyes88I see reading comprehension isn't your strong suit. Trying to figure out what's going on with someone is human nature, never said drunk texting was human nature. Either way I guess you want a cookie for never texting someone while drunk in your life? Okay. Glad you're probably in the minority here.Posted by vanballmoosThis is bs.Posted by tiki33That's not necessarily true. Quite often people tell you how they feel when they're drunk. Unfortunately, I've sent a few text and called a few girls that I've been interested in and spilled my feelings or reiterated how I felt about them.
FWB in itself doesn't make sense so why waste time making sense of it. I know you desire a specific answer that indicates he has feelings for you but drunk text messages are MEANINGLESS.
He was drunk....Then end
You said that he saw a tweet and reached out to see if you're okay? He clearly cares. If I'm not interested in you in that way I'm not going to reach out and ask if you're okay because of a silly emoji.
Just because FWB doesn't quite make sense there's no harm in trying to figure things out. Human nature.
It's not "human nature".. I have never drunk texted in my life.
He was drunk and probably wanted to get laid AGAIN at that moment...
It's an FWB why waste time "trying to figure out shit".. It is what it is.. Meaningless.. Just like his drunk text.. EOclick to expand
Either way OP sometimes FWB are meaningless sometimes they're not. If you're saying you guys haven't even labeled it FWB yet then even more understandable to try and figure things out. If you're interested just go with the flow. If you really think this guy is into you more than him and that's not what you want just let him know.
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