missmissy
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Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.

Posted by LittleFairyBut he’ll like his other ex’s and flings things too. I met him through a mutual friend. I knew he had gone on a few dates with this woman I know right before we met. He still likes pictures too, so why would him liking the most recent ex’s pictures be different?
Yes. Also because they broke up only a little while ago.
Posted by MiaouIt’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.Posted by missmissyYou're not dating.. Don't worry about it.Posted by MiaouSo why should I be worried?
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.click to expand

Posted by missmissyWhy would you need to be worried about an acquaintance? Be worried about how your tracking all his likes so closely. Chill.
I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.
I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?
Either way should I be worried?

Posted by missmissyHow do you know you want to be exclusive with someone you haven’t dated?? Seems desperate.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?click to expand

Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?click to expand

Posted by HippieGemI just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
Posted by LadyNeptuneHow is that desperate? I didn’t say be his girlfriend. I like him enough for it just be us two so that we can get to know each other better. That’s not desperate.Posted by missmissyHow do you know you want to be exclusive with someone you haven’t dated?? Seems desperate.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?click to expand
Posted by HippieGemI would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.

Posted by LadyNeptuneWe’ve gone on dates.
Maybe redirect your attention into actually getting a date with him. What is he really about? Does he want the same things you do??
Although it all depends... Most don’t consider fb stalking as ‘hitting it off’.

Posted by missmissyBut your not even dating 🤦♀️Posted by LadyNeptuneHow is that desperate? I didn’t say be his girlfriend. I like him enough for it just be us two so that we can get to know each other better. That’s not desperate.Posted by missmissyHow do you know you want to be exclusive with someone you haven’t dated?? Seems desperate.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
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Posted by missmissyPosted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?click to expand

Posted by missmissyHow'd you get all that info in a month? If he's piquing your jealousy, maybe this doesn't look good in the long term. But shit, it's only been a month.
I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.
I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?
Either way should I be worried?
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou’re getting too caught up with words. I consider dating as in being together. Going on dates over after meeting a month ago doesn’t automatically equate to dating.Posted by missmissyPosted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?click to expand

Posted by missmissyYou can’t keep your story straight. What are you hiding?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou’re getting too caught up with words. I consider dating as in being together. Going on dates over after meeting a month ago doesn’t automatically equate to dating.Posted by missmissyPosted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
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Posted by missmissyAre you two in an exclusive relationship? I didn’t read the whole thread, sorry. If you are, then you have every right to ask.Posted by HippieGemI just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.click to expand
Posted by HippieGemNo we’re not. I just don’t want to put myself out there if there may be a red flag such as this.Posted by missmissyAre you two in an exclusive relationship? I didn’t read the whole thread, sorry. If you are, then you have every right to ask.Posted by HippieGemI just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
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Posted by LDM90Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.Posted by HippieGemI would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.click to expand
Posted by LDM90THahks I will
I’d just be careful OP
Posted by HippieGemThat’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.Posted by LDM90Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.Posted by HippieGemI would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.click to expand
Posted by hollyhockThanks. I’ll just repost what I said above.
I'd just make a mental note of it and look out for other behavior. Social media is so weird that you really can't be disconnected from much anymore. Maybe they have remained friendly and posting a like is just trying to maintain the friendship.
If other things occur that are red flags though, then I'd bring all of this up to him.


Posted by missmissyNo, I think you should trust your intuition on this. That wouldn’t sit well with me either. Ask him. Think about it. If he still holds a torch, you’re just a rebound to him :/Posted by HippieGemThat’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.Posted by LDM90Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.Posted by HippieGemI would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemYea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.click to expand
Posted by missmissyThey talked about marriage? Yea, he still wants his ex.Posted by ChuckcemYea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.click to expand

Posted by missmissyWell then why are you asking? If you know it's fine ..it's fine 🙂Posted by LittleFairyBut he’ll like his other ex’s and flings things too. I met him through a mutual friend. I knew he had gone on a few dates with this woman I know right before we met. He still likes pictures too, so why would him liking the most recent ex’s pictures be different?
Yes. Also because they broke up only a little while ago.click to expand
Posted by sugarplumeow
Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.

Posted by missmissyTo me the fact that you are watching her social media activity so much is creepy.Posted by MiaouIt’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.Posted by missmissyYou're not dating.. Don't worry about it.Posted by MiaouSo why should I be worried?
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.click to expand

Posted by justagirlI'm not watching it. I said in the thread our mutual friend set us up and she was giving me the details. She's seeing all this stuff, not me.Posted by missmissyTo me the fact that you are watching her social media activity so much is creepy.Posted by MiaouIt’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.Posted by missmissyYou're not dating.. Don't worry about it.Posted by MiaouSo why should I be worried?
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.
Also chill you have known this guy a month and aren't even dating lol Jesusclick to expand

Posted by missmissyIf it's making you feel insecure tell him about it. Not as in he has done something wrong. But just your feelings. See what he says.Posted by sugarplumeow
Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.
I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid Octoberclick to expand

Posted by missmissyYou are overly invested for barely knowing this guy and the small amount of time it's been.Posted by sugarplumeow
Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.
I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid Octoberclick to expand
Posted by AerialViewHe wanted to marry her. I think it means A LOT.
No worries. That doesn't mean anything really.
Posted by justagirlFor the 5th time now, it's just because I don't want to set myself up. I turned out to be a rebound not that long ago and I don't want the same thing to happen. Do I like him? Yes, but it's more about looking out for myself and not repeating the past.Posted by missmissyYou are overly invested for barely knowing this guy and the small amount of time it's been.Posted by sugarplumeow
Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.
I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October
He needs to run.click to expand

Posted by missmissyThe "liking" issue: if liking pictures is his modus operandi, then its nothing to worry about.... I mean, he likely likes the pictures of everybody, not just exes.... some people just like nearly everything, what shows up on their timeline.... obviously, you (or your friend) would pay more attention to him liking the pictures of exes and dismiss, that he likes everything else as well.... so, this is not a problem
I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.
I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?
Either way should I be worried?

Posted by missmissyI would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.Posted by ChuckcemYea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPlus, and I could be wrong here, but if he’s still liking her stuff he’s not trying to actively move on. That’s because he doesn’t want to move on.Posted by missmissyI would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.Posted by ChuckcemYea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
Also since he's recently single, the last thing on your mind should be exclusivity with him. There's a good chance that if you would be a rebound. First you need to make sure he's open to dating and not hung up on his ex.click to expand
Posted by LDM90Hmm so you think he still wants to be with her?Posted by ChuckcemPlus, and I could be wrong here, but if he’s still liking her stuff he’s not trying to actively move on. That’s because he doesn’t want to move on.Posted by missmissyI would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.Posted by ChuckcemYea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.Posted by missmissyI'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.Posted by MiaouNo, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.
Depends are you dating?
If so, yes.
So why should I be worried?
Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
Also since he's recently single, the last thing on your mind should be exclusivity with him. There's a good chance that if you would be a rebound. First you need to make sure he's open to dating and not hung up on his ex.
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Posted by sas0risaHow is he not trying to get over her? If he's going out on dates isn't that him trying to get over her?
forget him, it's too soon
he wanted to spend his life with her and she is stil in his head. He's not trying to get over her either..

Posted by bittercupcake1. Since when has liking a picture of an ex, especially when he likes his other exes posts mean he still wants to be with her?Posted by missmissyThis all screams of red flags. Why are you going to stick around with a guy whose just using you as a rebound. He wanted to MARRY her. That’s big for a man. There’s no way he’s over her and it’s clear she’s not over him. I wouldn’t doubt that he’s trying to fix things up with her behind the scenes while you sit here pinning and dreaming about your futures, when the probability is, you two don’t have a future.Posted by HippieGemThat’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.Posted by LDM90Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.Posted by HippieGemI would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?
So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...
Rule of thumb: don’t date someone who has just broken up. Chances are they’re not over their partner and you’re just a rebound. Good luck!click to expand

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I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?
Either way should I be worried?