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Posted by OCJackNo shit! I am avoiding divorce because I am used to my life. I am cozy. I am comfy. My child loves her father. My Mom is living with us. Divorce will make no difference to me except my poor unable husband will be lost! And he told me that I can screw if he doesn’t know it!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OCJackHe didn’t have to tell me to excuse anything! We were involved up to eyeballs when he told me just recently!Posted by LadyNeptune
This. Tell your husband how you’ve been letting another dude nut in you the last 5 years and then ask him to overcome it...or whatever.
But this isn’t about men overcoming cheating. It’s about you accepting the fact your scorp lied about his wife’s ‘infidelity’ in order to excuse his own.
The answer is spoiled at the end of the OP: Money. Scorps aren't fucked up enough to stay with someone and cheat on them instead of just breaking up with the person, all so they can mooch a buck.
Gemini will tho.
I knew it but I had never said a word hoping he doesn’t know! But he did! And it came up by accident in a conversation...
Mooch a buck? Idiot! He is self made millioner came from nothing to the top!
Go play your vedeogames in mommas basement because youbworrh justnrhat! Price of your video games! Moron!
Re-read my post. I said SCORPS WONT MOOCH A BUCK. I WAS TALKING ABOUT YOU WITH YOUR HUSBAND YOURE CHEATING ON.
You only avoid divorce because of MONEY. Herpderp.
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As soon as I get a good excuse to exit - I will! But for now - why bother?
Like you know what I am talking about...
Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! That’s why I admire Cancer for saying ‘fucknit’ 10 years ago and gave her everything and now living life, having fun, being a great father and grandfather and pulling me out of rhis rot!
Your Scorpio isnt coping is he? He’s just cheating back on her as well. That sounds healthy! Men stay in dead relationships the same reasons women do, it’s easier to keep the family together, along with all the material fun things you’ve acquired. Divorce means you start all over again from zero. It’s just less hassle to live a lie than deal with the ugly confrontation and outcome.
He couldn’t live a lie! Having all the money he has - he didnt give a damn! He is making it now! Still...
But he is a one man show!
Scorp is a public person who will be answering to at least 1000 people daily!
And he can’t deal with it!
Though I am sure one day he will brake and go nuts! I might never see this...
Having too many people to deal with is a hard...and I KNOW what and whom he is dealing with! I would be very scared as well to be a talk if the town.
I like when youngsters who have bit of pot, working at McD and living with parents trying to talk about LIFE! Just ridiculously funny! But it’s keeping me entertained!
Keep going ‘bros’...smoke and post!
Lmao
Posted by Caramel_PrincessIt’s not easier...it’s his choice and that’s why I am out! Unless he will be blessed with wisdom.
Your Scorpio isnt coping is he? He’s just cheating back on her as well. That sounds healthy! Men stay in dead relationships the same reasons women do, it’s easier to keep the family together, along with all the material fun things you’ve acquired. Divorce means you start all over again from zero. It’s just less hassle to live a lie than deal with the ugly confrontation and outcome.
Posted by xyinsaturnYou right. But he was the one who woke me up. Lead me far enough from rebirth to self-distraction and now I’ve met a Cancer!Posted by GemitatiGet yourself somebody who is single. Seems like you have.Posted by OCJackNo shit! I am avoiding divorce because I am used to my life. I am cozy. I am comfy. My child loves her father. My Mom is living with us. Divorce will make no difference to me except my poor unable husband will be lost! And he told me that I can screw if he doesn’t know it!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OCJackHe didn’t have to tell me to excuse anything! We were involved up to eyeballs when he told me just recently!Posted by LadyNeptune
This. Tell your husband how you’ve been letting another dude nut in you the last 5 years and then ask him to overcome it...or whatever.
But this isn’t about men overcoming cheating. It’s about you accepting the fact your scorp lied about his wife’s ‘infidelity’ in order to excuse his own.
The answer is spoiled at the end of the OP: Money. Scorps aren't fucked up enough to stay with someone and cheat on them instead of just breaking up with the person, all so they can mooch a buck.
Gemini will tho.
I knew it but I had never said a word hoping he doesn’t know! But he did! And it came up by accident in a conversation...
Mooch a buck? Idiot! He is self made millioner came from nothing to the top!
Go play your vedeogames in mommas basement because youbworrh justnrhat! Price of your video games! Moron!
Re-read my post. I said SCORPS WONT MOOCH A BUCK. I WAS TALKING ABOUT YOU WITH YOUR HUSBAND YOURE CHEATING ON.
You only avoid divorce because of MONEY. Herpderp.
As soon as I get a good excuse to exit - I will! But for now - why bother?
Like you know what I am talking about...
Scorpio will play you until you meet a concrete wall. Also, he has too much going on anyway.
When you're 50, why would you want that much problem when you can avoid it. Unnecessary problems kill the youthful energy.click to expand
I will never dismiss Scorp from my life.
He is my love larger than life. And he is always going to be my love! I gave intro the God and stopped preventing God to work His way! So far I am happier than ever...been for years! I found MAN! Who had not cave to an ‘existence’ and chosen living! ❤️
Posted by Caramel_PrincessI wasn’t talking ABOUT you. Just answering your comment.Posted by GemitatiWait, you’re not talking about me right!? LOL I can never really tell!Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! That’s why I admire Cancer for saying ‘fucknit’ 10 years ago and gave her everything and now living life, having fun, being a great father and grandfather and pulling me out of rhis rot!
Your Scorpio isnt coping is he? He’s just cheating back on her as well. That sounds healthy! Men stay in dead relationships the same reasons women do, it’s easier to keep the family together, along with all the material fun things you’ve acquired. Divorce means you start all over again from zero. It’s just less hassle to live a lie than deal with the ugly confrontation and outcome.
He couldn’t live a lie! Having all the money he has - he didnt give a damn! He is making it now! Still...
But he is a one man show!
Scorp is a public person who will be answering to at least 1000 people daily!
And he can’t deal with it!
Though I am sure one day he will brake and go nuts! I might never see this...
Having too many people to deal with is a hard...and I KNOW what and whom he is dealing with! I would be very scared as well to be a talk if the town.
I like when youngsters who have bit of pot, working at McD and living with parents trying to talk about LIFE! Just ridiculously funny! But it’s keeping me entertained!
Keep going ‘bros’...smoke and post!
Lmao
Yes, cancers give no fucks! My cancer friend divorced her husband and had to move back home and ended up with so much debt, and so much trauma from her crazy ex, but she was like nope, I got to save my soul.
Scorpios are more resilient though, we have no soul. We can handle so much trauma.click to expand
And don’t tell me! Lol
I know how much drama you can handle!
I am scared shitless for his mental state and health! And those dreams being buried alive! I would put myself out to help and he always reached for me for support but he can’t even do this anymore. When he calls - it’s like talking to a dead soul!
I’ve tried. I’ve pleaded and begged for letting me help him...as before. Shit piles up and he is suffocating telling me he wants to banish...and i am feeling helpless to help! I do have my own shit to deal with...but I would do anything to make him feel better. He just shutting down. Saying everybody hate him and it’s not true.
People adore Him! He just losing himself.
And I am lost.
Life will tell. I am not giving up. I am waiting...
Posted by Caramel_PrincessThat’s why Cancer seems like a breath of fresh air! Positive, active, loving life and living it and making me feel alive and laughing again!
Also this is a specific man trait, but men can live with the wrong thing forever. Men rarely ever file for divorce or initiate breakups. Their women become their “home” no matter how broken and toxic it is.
So weird after such a long negativity and hurt.
So not all men crated the same😍
Posted by OCJackI also said you are worthless regard living in moms basement playing video games. Why haven’t you replied to THAT?Posted by Gemitati
That’s why Cancer seems like a breath of fresh air! Positive, active, loving life and living it and making me feel alive and laughing again!
So weird after such a long negativity and hurt.
So not all men crated the same😍
So you're cheating on your husband with a Scorp, and you're cheating on the scorp with a Cancer. You're retarded, you claim it's all for love. But you don't love anyone but yourself.click to expand
Posted by OCJackMom must forgot to feed you today...Posted by Gemitati
No shit! I am avoiding divorce because I am used to my life. I am cozy. I am comfy. My child loves her father. My Mom is living with us. Divorce will make no difference to me except my poor unable husband will be lost! And he told me that I can screw if he doesn’t know it!
As soon as I get a good excuse to exit - I will! But for now - why bother?
Like you know what I am talking about...
There is no such thing as love where there is cheating. You don't love your affairs any more than you love your husband: You don't love them at all.
Stop lying, Satan. I know your game.click to expand
Posted by Caramel_PrincessI know hon! I’ve dealt with him since 2009!Posted by GemitatiYou can only imagine how much pain he must be feeling then, to say such things and to shut down is because we feel so horrible and so terrible about everything that even talking about it feels so wrong. We just don’t want to acknowledge it or highlight it, At least not with those we are close to... we don’t want you to see the darkness and the horror we feel. Give him his space. A Scorpio man is even more complicated than the average complex man!Posted by Caramel_PrincessI wasn’t talking ABOUT you. Just answering your comment.Posted by GemitatiWait, you’re not talking about me right!? LOL I can never really tell!Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! That’s why I admire Cancer for saying ‘fucknit’ 10 years ago and gave her everything and now living life, having fun, being a great father and grandfather and pulling me out of rhis rot!
Your Scorpio isnt coping is he? He’s just cheating back on her as well. That sounds healthy! Men stay in dead relationships the same reasons women do, it’s easier to keep the family together, along with all the material fun things you’ve acquired. Divorce means you start all over again from zero. It’s just less hassle to live a lie than deal with the ugly confrontation and outcome.
He couldn’t live a lie! Having all the money he has - he didnt give a damn! He is making it now! Still...
But he is a one man show!
Scorp is a public person who will be answering to at least 1000 people daily!
And he can’t deal with it!
Though I am sure one day he will brake and go nuts! I might never see this...
Having too many people to deal with is a hard...and I KNOW what and whom he is dealing with! I would be very scared as well to be a talk if the town.
I like when youngsters who have bit of pot, working at McD and living with parents trying to talk about LIFE! Just ridiculously funny! But it’s keeping me entertained!
Keep going ‘bros’...smoke and post!
Lmao
Yes, cancers give no fucks! My cancer friend divorced her husband and had to move back home and ended up with so much debt, and so much trauma from her crazy ex, but she was like nope, I got to save my soul.
Scorpios are more resilient though, we have no soul. We can handle so much trauma.
And don’t tell me! Lol
I know how much drama you can handle!
I am scared shitless for his mental state and health! And those dreams being buried alive! I would put myself out to help and he always reached for me for support but he can’t even do this anymore. When he calls - it’s like talking to a dead soul!
I’ve tried. I’ve pleaded and begged for letting me help him...as before. Shit piles up and he is suffocating telling me he wants to banish...and i am feeling helpless to help! I do have my own shit to deal with...but I would do anything to make him feel better. He just shutting down. Saying everybody hate him and it’s not true.
People adore Him! He just losing himself.
And I am lost.
Life will tell. I am not giving up. I am waiting...click to expand
I gave him space. I am waiting but I know that shit he is dealing with killing him!
I am feeling helpless and...now annoyed because he told me I am his support and everything that comes with it.
He even told me (never before) that he had talked about stuff and US with his friend...and he said before he can’t talk to men because they are too judgement all...
Friend suggested he took care of himself and took it easy but after that he stood me up for the first time and for me it was wakebup call! I hanged up when he called me...for the first time ever! I can deal with anything except disrespect and I consider that was it. Maybe I was wrong. But I am alive human woman with feelings and I won’t be taking this.
Will see and thanks for all you wrote. Very much needed.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessCancer? Oh! Self made also! Adult kids with kids. 10 years ago being cheated on. Said tried to deal with it but...divorced and got outbid anmisery!Posted by GemitatiI haven’t been on here in a while, is this a new guy? What about him?Posted by Caramel_PrincessThat’s why Cancer seems like a breath of fresh air! Positive, active, loving life and living it and making me feel alive and laughing again!
Also this is a specific man trait, but men can live with the wrong thing forever. Men rarely ever file for divorce or initiate breakups. Their women become their “home” no matter how broken and toxic it is.
So weird after such a long negativity and hurt.
So not all men crated the same😍
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Living life! Workaholic as a Scorp. Nice. Open. I don’t know him that well but he is seems like a nice, genuine, loving man!
I am learning but wake up to ‘good morning love’ daily. And if he is late - he is apologizing and makes me laugh!
Same age with Scorp and spit image of him! Physically. It’s like...can’t be happening...but it is! Lol
Posted by xyinsaturnI do! Can’t you tell? And thanks...lol
You know what, do your thing Gemitati. The universe doesn't live by our moral code.
We live we gage and we die.
Posted by OCJackSo that video games can’t beat Dxp!Posted by Distilled
Genuine commitment to the obligation and duties, by a male or female is not equal to a good relationship.
That's not the point. What is "bad" is subjective. In this case you may empathize with a woman who her husband wasn't having sex with. Like, oh god, so horrible. If anything what's BAD in most situations is simply that which doesn't serve one's own interests. This is proven by just how much the masses at large do not hold genuine love for one another in the first place, and rather are all about themselves.
There's nothing better/gooder than love. End of story.
Needless to say. The only reason a woman has any incentive to stay, is "comfort" like Gemitati admits to. She admits she's only in it for the luxury. Having a roof, good food, money, etc. She only mentions her child as an excuse, as if the kid couldn't see her father if they split up?... herpderp. You never use that excuse, because if anything you're just teaching your kid worse things by being the Devil.Genuine commitment to the relationship itself, as well as its by products, is a choice by both parties involved and is different.
Genuine commitment is all that matters. So no, it's anything else that is "different". It's when people start making it all about anything else, that they are actually NOT loving the other person. Love is no more than sticking through thick and thin together.click to expand
What a waste of money...
Posted by UnicornSagI would wet myself watching this scene...Posted by GemitatiPosted by UnicornSagCrying Scorpio! Someone show me this!!!Posted by GemitatiPosted by UnicornSagTears? Scorpio? 👀Posted by GemitatiPosted by UnicornSagLol always surprised when people talking about Scorpios sweet talk. Wasn’t like that for me AT ALL. I fell on Hello my name is...after 5 years of pure business relashionships and mental self torture - who needs words? LmaoPosted by OneKnightPosted by UnicornSagYes. That's the initial feeling. Can last for a long time, but it goes away slowly.
maybe emotional cords hold the one who was cheated on still with that person cause they can't make peace with a fact they lost that person?
I was the one cheated on eventually, and she filed for divorce ( I was too delusional at first, biggest mistake). All for a Scorpio guy, who left his wife and 2 KIDS. It lasted 2 years. They broke up not long ago. In 2 years they manged to blew up 2 families and her parents company. The guy simply stole all business contract connections and left.
Now the pressure is back on me to "go back". It scares me. My parents want to, the whole family thinks that. The kids are only 9 and 11. But I aint' going back. It's in the back of my head, and the only way I can accept it, is if I move on with somebody else. But I already feel I will be blamed for not fixing it.
So your Cancer might be like that also. We go sideways, but we don't go backwards.
Wise decision. I wouldn't go back either if I was in your place. It can hurt as heel but it will stop eventually, why would you willingly go back to what hurt you once and make yourself suffer more and live it over and over again every day...it's better to hurt badly for a while than to hurt slowly for a life time. I see a lot of women fall for Scorps so easy, I truly can't understand it...I could bet in anything Scorpio guy who chased me for years was better looking than any other in those stories but I never fell for it. I saw right through him from the start and basically I don't fall at all for sweet words or player acts...and that's a typical Scorpio web-one or another and women are all over them. Problem is many women fall for sweet talks and Scorps know just how to get into their heads...
Yeah he didn't have to put much effort lol but stories I hear from girls make me just roll my eyes every time...I just wonder how naive one can be to fall for that lol oh and they usually shed some tears as well! I just call it pathetic...
Yup,believe it or not...she was shocked how "open" he was and I was shocked how pathetic he is and how naive she is...
Is he like 25 metro girl/man?
Nope, he's 38-39 something like that! Nothing metro about him either lolclick to expand
Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesSame with the op. The only time he’s taken her out (that she’s talked about) is to a seedy motel to give her the D.Posted by LadyNeptuneSo stupid. One of my friends has been cheating on his wife for 12 years. This idiot woman is convinced they hate each other. Convinced he doesnt have sex with her. Convinced he doesnt love her. Convinced he will leave. Why? Cause he SAYS SO. lol. He doesnt buy the sidepiece shit. He doesnt take her out. He doesnt spend time with her. He just texts with her and fucks her. She is dillusional. She is nuts. She is also married. She emailed me asking to meet me for coffee caise she knows we are bffs and she thinks i will spill the beans. WRONG. What is with people— If you want to go out fucking multiple people then just be in an open relationship where there are rules and boundaries and everyone is on the same page and is in agreement.Posted by DeadInsideThis. Tell your husband how you’ve been letting another dude nut in you the last 5 years and then ask him to overcome it...or whatever.
i mean, arent you doing the same thing ?
why you dont ask yourself lol
But this isn’t about men overcoming cheating. It’s about you accepting the fact your scorp lied about his wife’s ‘infidelity’ in order to excuse his own.
So stupid i cant even.click to expand
I am 100% convinced he is still having sex with his wife and fucking other women besides op on the side.
Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!click to expand
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.
Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat for? So will lose his blissful unawareness and sit there being all worried and upset?Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.click to expand
I am not a Natzi!
Posted by GemitatiSo you lie to him because you 'care'? GTFOH.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat for? So will lose his blissful unawareness and sit there being all worried and upset?Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.
I am not a Natzi!
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You lie because he's your meal ticket.
Posted by OCJackStop treating sex as a tragedy!Posted by Distilled
Sticking through thick and thin for some relationships can very well be getting through an affair together. For other people, even just one mistake like that can make them forget all the previous thick and thin.
That doesn't count. Cheating is an invalid action, nobody is ALLOWED to do it. So in this case it IS objectively bad. I meant stuff like what I mentioned as an example.
There is no such thing as getting through an affair. The person who sticks around obviously loves the unfaithful person. But even if the cheater changes, it's not actually because of love. It can only be that they are lying to themselves. Not about whether they want to be a cheater, but rather the fact that they cheated irrevocably means they never loved the other person in the first place so they can't just magically start now simply because thet admit they fucked up. That doesn't even make sense, what does your getting your shit straight have to do with me?click to expand
It might seems to you like that from moms basememnt...but it isn’t!
Absents of it is! Presents is not!
Posted by LadyNeptuneI make armleast twice more. He is in disability so STFU...archeologist...go grill your cougar momma! I am tired of your finger in my ass! Pull it out...and be free!Posted by GemitatiSo you lie to him because you 'care'? GTFOH.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat for? So will lose his blissful unawareness and sit there being all worried and upset?Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.
I am not a Natzi!
You lie because he's your meal ticket.click to expand
i'm confused...
Gemitati is bragging she got three men, capricorn,scorpio and cancer guy
LadyNeptune is righteous indignation
and OCJack is telling LN that she's got her own psychology that she secretly wishes to be bad girl but is afraid and is self reflecting.
then later, scoffs and yells at Gemitati that she's a loser
weird twilight zoney
Gemitati is bragging she got three men, capricorn,scorpio and cancer guy
LadyNeptune is righteous indignation
and OCJack is telling LN that she's got her own psychology that she secretly wishes to be bad girl but is afraid and is self reflecting.
then later, scoffs and yells at Gemitati that she's a loser
weird twilight zoney
"Not having sex never killed anyone, and those who say they can't live without it are worthless nobodies who will never amount to anything because they are enslaved by the lowest manifestation of nature within existence"
I wouldn't have put it quite so harshly, but I agree with you....whilst you are dependent on something you can't do without, you are indeed enslaved
I was....but I kicked the habit
It's a slippery slope
I wouldn't have put it quite so harshly, but I agree with you....whilst you are dependent on something you can't do without, you are indeed enslaved
I was....but I kicked the habit
It's a slippery slope
Posted by OCJackActually Karma affects your next life. Not this one.
@LadyNeptune
When I say there is always consequences. I dont mean Karma. Karma implies consequences coming back around on you. Which I don't believe in as a law of the universe. You can "get away with shit". You can avoid consequences happening to yourself. That's not the point, the point is whether you can live with the consequences you inevitably cause others.
Do you want to be a person who only causes pain and destruction for others? Do you want to live knowing that's all you are to the world? Instead of being a good person who left only good things behind?
Posted by lisabethur8I could really care less about how many dicks gemitatis wrinkly pussy has seen. Just pointing out the obvious. Married men who cheat ALWAYS say their spouse cheated first, they are hurt, etc. etc.
LadyNeptune is righteous indignation
Posted by GemitatiSo tell him. According to you, you have nothing to lose.Posted by LadyNeptuneI make armleast twice more. He is in disability so STFU...archeologist...go grill your cougar momma! I am tired of your finger in my ass! Pull it out...and be free!Posted by GemitatiSo you lie to him because you 'care'? GTFOH.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat for? So will lose his blissful unawareness and sit there being all worried and upset?Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.
I am not a Natzi!
You lie because he's your meal ticket.click to expand
Posted by OCJackEvery action is self motivated. If you can't cop to that your either a liar or delusional.Posted by LadyNeptune
Same with the op. The only time he’s taken her out (that she’s talked about) is to a seedy motel to give her the D.
I am 100% convinced he is still having sex with his wife and fucking other women besides op on the side.
Honestly, all you ever talk about is the consequences. What her husband would do, whether or not her affair actually loves her. I mean yeah it's clever cause it's like, you're only fooling yourself and this is exactly why people shouldn't do this stuff.
But it reminds me of how most religious people only do good because they think they will get a reward. Some outright admitting that if there were no heaven and hell that they would have no regards for morality. It'd probably be even worse if they knew they were going to hell.
Whereas a truly righteous person does good for goodness' sake. Even in the face of punishment and hell.
But moreover, I can't help but feel that this reflects on your own psychology and character. This is your first concern. why else would you emphasize it so much? Unless you're self-reflecting. Odds are you have/had promiscuous desires and thoughts, but you tell yourself "I'd be stupid because of all these consequences."
That's all well and good when it comes to theft or violence. But when it comes to /this/. That shouldn't be the reason. Hence why 90% of what I voice towards people like gemitati. Is about the consequences THE VICTIM faces. It's called the only real answer to these kinds of things, is empathy for the victim. Not a selfish fear for one's own well being.
When a Rapist's reason for not raping is "I'll go to prison." He will probably end up raping again, or do something else to harm other people. Because his only concern is his own safety. He doesn't do things based on what does or doesn't hurt things.click to expand
Thanks for the unsolicited analysis. By your logic because I condone the effects cheating will have on the unknowing parties = I am thinking about cheating myself.
Ergo because you talk about how you 'fight evil' must mean you are in fact evil. Steller logic. Thumbs up.
Posted by OCJackNo! People CAN live without sexual but what kind of life!!! I know. I’ve done paying my sexless dues. Now I am retired from sexless existence and enjoying deserved pleasure!Posted by Gemitati
Stop treating sex as a tragedy!
It might seems to you like that from moms basememnt...but it isn’t!
Absents of it is! Presents is not!
Lmao you have that completely backwards. Not having sex never killed anyone, and those who say they can't live without it are worthless nobodies who will never amount to anything because they are enslaved by the lowest manifestation of nature within existence.
It's nothing more than atoms being stuck inbetween other atoms. You only value it because you are brainwashed by instinct and senses. You amount to nothing more than a gross messy bodily act.
It's nothing more than an addiction to a chemical drug. Might as well do Meth instead, I hear it FEELS better and it's proponents say and act like they need it way more than you "need" sex.click to expand
Go ahead. Preach! I am reading.
Posted by JuliietteNo! His back is bad. He is fine...Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI make armleast twice more. He is in disability so STFU...archeologist...go grill your cougar momma! I am tired of your finger in my ass! Pull it out...and be free!Posted by GemitatiSo you lie to him because you 'care'? GTFOH.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat for? So will lose his blissful unawareness and sit there being all worried and upset?Posted by GemitatiThen why not tell him the truth?Posted by LadyNeptuneFirst of all so—Posted by GemitatiDivorce you.Posted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
Second is he wont.
And yes I am sure of it.
I am not a Natzi!
You lie because he's your meal ticket.
what do you mean disability? he literally can't be alone?
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Posted by JuliietteThat was me drunk telling him I can’t go on like that! And he said it.Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteNo. He has no idea. He just said once that if I was smart I would screw around without him knowing...
so a new guy lol.
so your cap gave you permission, or he was joking?
So he doesn’t know. And I don’t think he would be thrilled but what is he gonna do?
Really!!!
again did he gave you a permission or he was joking? people do have those type
of arrangements.
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He wasn’t joking. He is literally prefer to not to know because it’ll hurt his ego.
But I understand. Hand in a sand. Fuck anyone but don’t tell me. I don’t want to know. And if I don’t know - I am happy still with the way things are! As long as my food is Warm and my drink is cold and my TV showing me movies...
Posted by LadyNeptuneLike I give a fuck! You are annoying idiot!Posted by OCJackActually Karma affects your next life. Not this one.
@LadyNeptune
When I say there is always consequences. I dont mean Karma. Karma implies consequences coming back around on you. Which I don't believe in as a law of the universe. You can "get away with shit". You can avoid consequences happening to yourself. That's not the point, the point is whether you can live with the consequences you inevitably cause others.
Do you want to be a person who only causes pain and destruction for others? Do you want to live knowing that's all you are to the world? Instead of being a good person who left only good things behind?click to expand
Haven’t you got it yet that you can talk.
I don’t care! I am just annoyed by your repetitive stupidity!
What do you have to show except pictures of the nice designed places?
I’ve raised a child, married for 24 years to my husband, taking care of my mother and house and paying taxes...
At your age I’ve lived life! Not in Internet.
With my soul and body! So STFU!
I know you won’t and will make another stupid comment...go ahead. Entertain me!
Posted by GemitatiWell for starters I haven't lied to my partner for the last 8 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneLike I give a fuck! You are annoying idiot!Posted by OCJackActually Karma affects your next life. Not this one.
@LadyNeptune
When I say there is always consequences. I dont mean Karma. Karma implies consequences coming back around on you. Which I don't believe in as a law of the universe. You can "get away with shit". You can avoid consequences happening to yourself. That's not the point, the point is whether you can live with the consequences you inevitably cause others.
Do you want to be a person who only causes pain and destruction for others? Do you want to live knowing that's all you are to the world? Instead of being a good person who left only good things behind?
Haven’t you got it yet that you can talk.
I don’t care! I am just annoyed by your repetitive stupidity!
What do you have to show except pictures of the nice designed places?
I’ve raised a child, married for 24 years to my husband, taking care of my mother and house and paying taxes...
At your age I’ve lived life! Not in Internet.
With my soul and body! So STFU!
I know you won’t and will make another stupid comment...go ahead. Entertain me!click to expand
And of course you weren't on the internet at my age...it didn't exist. Neither did cellphones.
You react this way cause you know how your living is wrong.
You hide the truth from your husband cause you know your actions are wrong.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI KNOW!Posted by GemitatiWell for starters I haven't lied to my partner for the last 8 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneLike I give a fuck! You are annoying idiot!Posted by OCJackActually Karma affects your next life. Not this one.
@LadyNeptune
When I say there is always consequences. I dont mean Karma. Karma implies consequences coming back around on you. Which I don't believe in as a law of the universe. You can "get away with shit". You can avoid consequences happening to yourself. That's not the point, the point is whether you can live with the consequences you inevitably cause others.
Do you want to be a person who only causes pain and destruction for others? Do you want to live knowing that's all you are to the world? Instead of being a good person who left only good things behind?
Haven’t you got it yet that you can talk.
I don’t care! I am just annoyed by your repetitive stupidity!
What do you have to show except pictures of the nice designed places?
I’ve raised a child, married for 24 years to my husband, taking care of my mother and house and paying taxes...
At your age I’ve lived life! Not in Internet.
With my soul and body! So STFU!
I know you won’t and will make another stupid comment...go ahead. Entertain me!
And of course you weren't on the internet at my age...it didn't exist. Neither did cellphones.
You react this way cause you know how your living is wrong.
You hide the truth from your husband cause you know your actions are wrong.click to expand
Tell me something I don’t...
And tell me something I would actually care about!
As much as you do!
Btw...why do you care so much about my husband and Scorpios wife and don’t ever question your own mother fucking young body robbing him of a chance to have normal family with children?
I know you will weasel your ass out of answering somehow...
Posted by GemitatiConfused what my mothers dating life has to do with you sucking off a married man... obsessed with me much?Posted by LadyNeptuneI KNOW!Posted by GemitatiWell for starters I haven't lied to my partner for the last 8 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneLike I give a fuck! You are annoying idiot!Posted by OCJackActually Karma affects your next life. Not this one.
@LadyNeptune
When I say there is always consequences. I dont mean Karma. Karma implies consequences coming back around on you. Which I don't believe in as a law of the universe. You can "get away with shit". You can avoid consequences happening to yourself. That's not the point, the point is whether you can live with the consequences you inevitably cause others.
Do you want to be a person who only causes pain and destruction for others? Do you want to live knowing that's all you are to the world? Instead of being a good person who left only good things behind?
Haven’t you got it yet that you can talk.
I don’t care! I am just annoyed by your repetitive stupidity!
What do you have to show except pictures of the nice designed places?
I’ve raised a child, married for 24 years to my husband, taking care of my mother and house and paying taxes...
At your age I’ve lived life! Not in Internet.
With my soul and body! So STFU!
I know you won’t and will make another stupid comment...go ahead. Entertain me!
And of course you weren't on the internet at my age...it didn't exist. Neither did cellphones.
You react this way cause you know how your living is wrong.
You hide the truth from your husband cause you know your actions are wrong.
Tell me something I don’t...
And tell me something I would actually care about!
As much as you do!
Btw...why do you care so much about my husband and Scorpios wife and don’t ever question your own mother fucking young body robbing him of a chance to have normal family with children?
I know you will weasel your ass out of answering somehow...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYour mothers vagina is more wrinkled than mine! Though man doesn’t mine you said...Posted by lisabethur8I could really care less about how many dicks gemitatis wrinkly pussy has seen. Just pointing out the obvious. Married men who cheat ALWAYS say their spouse cheated first, they are hurt, etc. etc.
LadyNeptune is righteous indignationclick to expand
So where do you stand?
I would never fuck 28 yearsbyounger.
Your mom does!
And you ok with that! Have you checked her vagina on wrinkles?
Well...you will have to check mine to compare numbers...
But I don’t fuck boys!
Sorry. I know you probably watched your mother, than read my stories and you’ve got so frigging jealous that your young bf doesn’t marrying your young vagina for 8 years...you go nuts!!!
And you know why!
He gets some elsewhere! Why would he stop on YOU?
Detach. Find a man who will love you. Like your mom did..,ask her HOW!
HOW to get young dick fuck you for free!
Unless he is somehow damaged somewhere...by his mother...
Good fuck...I mean luck! 🙌
Posted by GemitatiLol I doubt that. She had vag rejuvenation last year. She looks like she's a young 40s. Botox you know.Posted by LadyNeptuneYour mothers vagina is more wrinkled than mine! Though man doesn’t mine you said...Posted by lisabethur8I could really care less about how many dicks gemitatis wrinkly pussy has seen. Just pointing out the obvious. Married men who cheat ALWAYS say their spouse cheated first, they are hurt, etc. etc.
LadyNeptune is righteous indignation
So where do you stand?
I would never fuck 28 yearsbyounger.
Your mom does!
And you ok with that! Have you checked her vagina on wrinkles?
Well...you will have to check mine to compare numbers...
But I don’t fuck boys!
Sorry. I know you probably watched your mother, than read my stories and you’ve got so frigging jealous that your young bf doesn’t marrying your young vagina for 8 years...you go nuts!!!
And you know why!
He gets some elsewhere! Why would he stop on YOU?
Detach. Find a man who will love you. Like your mom did..,ask her HOW!
HOW to get young dick fuck you for free!
Unless he is somehow damaged somewhere...by his mother...
Good fuck...I mean luck! 🙌click to expand
Her bf is in his late 30s. I know your ancient af but most of us don't consider late 30s as a 'boy'.
I already addressed the marriage thing on my other comment. Not all of us are looking for a marriage to get our green card/financial support.
Pretty sure my bf is faithful. I can really only control my own actions. And I choose to be an honorable human being, not a cheating ho bag. *Shrug
Posted by LadyNeptuneBlah blah blah keep going!Posted by GemitatiLol I doubt that. She had vag rejuvenation last year. She looks like she's a young 40s. Botox you know.Posted by LadyNeptuneYour mothers vagina is more wrinkled than mine! Though man doesn’t mine you said...Posted by lisabethur8I could really care less about how many dicks gemitatis wrinkly pussy has seen. Just pointing out the obvious. Married men who cheat ALWAYS say their spouse cheated first, they are hurt, etc. etc.
LadyNeptune is righteous indignation
So where do you stand?
I would never fuck 28 yearsbyounger.
Your mom does!
And you ok with that! Have you checked her vagina on wrinkles?
Well...you will have to check mine to compare numbers...
But I don’t fuck boys!
Sorry. I know you probably watched your mother, than read my stories and you’ve got so frigging jealous that your young bf doesn’t marrying your young vagina for 8 years...you go nuts!!!
And you know why!
He gets some elsewhere! Why would he stop on YOU?
Detach. Find a man who will love you. Like your mom did..,ask her HOW!
HOW to get young dick fuck you for free!
Unless he is somehow damaged somewhere...by his mother...
Good fuck...I mean luck! 🙌
Her bf is in his late 30s. I know your ancient af but most of us don't consider late 30s as a 'boy'.
I already addressed the marriage thing on my other comment. Not all of us are looking for a marriage to get our green card/financial support.
Pretty sure my bf is faithful. I can really only control my own actions. And I choose to be an honorable human being, not a cheating ho bag. *Shrug
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I don’t need Botox! Because I don’t fuck boys!
What if she had her real face? He would die! Being unable to get it up!!!
You know that!
Don’t fight it!
It’s anLIE!!!
Posted by TaniwhaYou are right! But no one is leaving...you are welcome to go out get a beer and maybe get some life!
Dear everyone involved in this thread.
Nothing any of you say to each other is going to change anybody's minds on the matter.
Nothing any of you say is going to change the likelihood of anybody cheating on anybody in the entire universe.
Nothing any of you think or feel about the subject has any real impact on anyone's lives outside of this thread.
Nothing that is said in this thread is going to impact your own life.
Nothing in this thread is going to devalue or improve your own sense of self worth.
Nothing in this thread is going to fix tour broken heart
Nothing in this thread is going to pay off your credit card debt
Nothing in this thread is worth your time.
Just leave, it's for your own good.
😘
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No one!
My love...
But how you justify your poor existence that isn’t here and isn’t there and what IS it? Just a crap! No love, no life, maybe some shitty job...btw Vedic games isn’t a job unless you create them!
WHO TA HECK ARE YOU?’
And WHAT are you?
Screaming hysterical drug addict with a good vocabulary? Sweet shit! Really?