How do you get in a mans heart VS how do you get in a mans pants ? (Page 2)

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You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants

Not true.

Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.

Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.



All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.

There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.

I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.

I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.

Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.



Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.



For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.



Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.

We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.



It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions

Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.

What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.

Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.

That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.

There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.



And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!

Sometimes being too cautious can bite you in the ass too. There are a lot of men and women who are too scared to keep trying for a connection. And most people fall for people that they can't have. It's human nature to want what's not there.

It's part of the reason why I will give a man a second chance if he comes back, with no issues or past salty behavior, because most don't realize what they have till it's gone.

I think women need to realize that men have the same feelings as women, we hear how tough men can be, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to feelings.

You just have to navigate and find the person who works with yours well.

But now we aren't talking about sex anymore, are we? 🙂

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You are every bit of insightful as a true Sagg should be! And yes we feel emotions just like yall do we just express them far differently. I think you taught me a quick lesson today lol

And that last statement haha I see what ya did there.

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You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants

Not true.

Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.

Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.



All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.

There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.

I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.

I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.

Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.



Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.



For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.



Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.

We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.



It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions

Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.

What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.

Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.

That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.

There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.

but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.

if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).

it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.

We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.

I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.

Depends on who you are.

Some people have physical touch as a love language and some don’t.

Yes, which is why I said sex isn't a big factor in why some men leave after it. Even if touch is their love language, they still have to like the person.

You would think that but I’m still convinced most of my exes didn’t like me but loved the sex. 😂

Men need companionship and affection but I think it may be easier for them to express those needs in an arena society tells them should be theirs.

Idk what I’m saying. People have illogical reasons for staying in a relationship.

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Women that have good pussy or good sex usually know. It's well vocalized by any man who comes into contact with them.

And yeah, I agree about illogical reasoning. Men stay with women who don't have sex with them for months at a time, and just cheat instead. Men like comfort and familiarity, but their emotional needs have to be met, just as much as their sexual ones do.

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You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants

Not true.

Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.

Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.



All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.

There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.

I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.

I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.

Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.



Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.



For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.



Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.

We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.



It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions

Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.

What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.

Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.

That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.

There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.



And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!

Sometimes being too cautious can bite you in the ass too. There are a lot of men and women who are too scared to keep trying for a connection. And most people fall for people that they can't have. It's human nature to want what's not there.

It's part of the reason why I will give a man a second chance if he comes back, with no issues or past salty behavior, because most don't realize what they have till it's gone.

I think women need to realize that men have the same feelings as women, we hear how tough men can be, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to feelings.

You just have to navigate and find the person who works with yours well.

But now we aren't talking about sex anymore, are we? 🙂

You are every bit of insightful as a true Sagg should be! And yes we feel emotions just like yall do we just express them far differently. I think you taught me a quick lesson today lol

And that last statement haha I see what ya did there.

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Anytime you need to be schooled, school is in session! 😛

You were pretty great to chat with. I like what you had to say as well 🙂

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You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants

Not true.

Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.

Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.



All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.

There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.

I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.

I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.

Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.



Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.



For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.



Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.

We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.



It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions

Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.

What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.

Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.

That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.

There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.



And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!

Sometimes being too cautious can bite you in the ass too. There are a lot of men and women who are too scared to keep trying for a connection. And most people fall for people that they can't have. It's human nature to want what's not there.

It's part of the reason why I will give a man a second chance if he comes back, with no issues or past salty behavior, because most don't realize what they have till it's gone.

I think women need to realize that men have the same feelings as women, we hear how tough men can be, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to feelings.

You just have to navigate and find the person who works with yours well.

But now we aren't talking about sex anymore, are we? 🙂

You are every bit of insightful as a true Sagg should be! And yes we feel emotions just like yall do we just express them far differently. I think you taught me a quick lesson today lol

And that last statement haha I see what ya did there.

Anytime you need to be schooled, school is in session! 😛

You were pretty great to chat with. I like what you had to say as well 🙂

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Haha aight sensei we'll definitely have more in the future!

By not having him in your heart it seems like, because then the chase is over for him 😄

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know-it-all dudes always practice negging and bragging about material possessions

stuff can be nice but when it's your nature to be self-sufficient, it feels like a put-on

i kinda feel like some women have to really force themselves into the role of 'that kind of woman'

someone has to take the role

I definitely see it the other way around. Men are now the ones who feel compelled to be up to standard or risk harsh treatment by a woman who never wanted em from jump.

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know-it-all dudes always practice negging and bragging about material possessions

stuff can be nice but when it's your nature to be self-sufficient, it feels like a put-on

i kinda feel like some women have to really force themselves into the role of 'that kind of woman'

someone has to take the role

I definitely see it the other way around. Men are now the ones who feel compelled to be up to standard or risk harsh treatment by a woman who never wanted em from jump.

becoming a ruthless feudal lord is the only way to survive

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Im with ya there

My heart - Treat animals with love and respect. Especially cats.

My Pants - Don't be a filthy ho.

What’s better his heart or his pants —

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