@Lunabee
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How important are looks to the one you're attracted to?
How Important Are Looks Versus Personality in Attraction
Attraction varies between individuals, with some prioritizing looks and others valuing personality more. Often, physical appearance may catch initial interest, but emotional connection and shared values tend to deepen attraction over time. Balancing both aspects can lead to stronger, more meaningful relationships.
Your idiosyncrasies they know like the back of your hand...
What. Like wtf
Then I question, if I'm only liked because of my looks. Do I get a pass because I exude sexuality?
Posted by andswho
Looks and LoyaltyThe rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
Posted by andswho
Looks and LoyaltyThe rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
Not me but I'm shallow af
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I thought I was too. But when I sought after what I thought I found attractive I have been turned off. It's these random men whom seduce me to thinking things I shouldn't be thinking.
Posted by youngali
looks can only grab my attention, personality keeps it.
Sag mentality!!! FTW
As potato one can only surmise my partner loves meh for the flava and not my looks 😏
Posted by Lunabee
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!
Chemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
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That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
Posted by wagtail
As potato one can only surmise my partner loves meh for the flava and not my looks 😏
Some say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?
Posted by LovingSeraphina
I dunno...God will choose what I need he knows best. I will know him when i see him.
Right?!
But I totally don't trust myself. I'm feelings things.
Posted by andswho
Looks and LoyaltyThe rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
Not me but I'm shallow af
I thought I was too. But when I sought after what I thought I found attractive I have been turned off. It's these random men whom seduce me to thinking things I shouldn't be thinking.
Ah they turned out to be dbags I see
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Same look but different mentality.
Posted by Lunabee
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!
Chemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
By that time i consider them attractive though 🙂
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Exactly!
Posted by Lunabee
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!
Chemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
Yeah. And my friends had to tell me they were ugly. ? LOL. My libra mars is drawn to charm. It's a curse
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The ugliest person can charm off those panties lol
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Not nearly as important as personality.
Agreed, ?
I could endlessly write about an expressive face. He talks. Through his eyes. Through his smile. Through every wrinkle of his face. Through that stare that speaks millions. We have our own language. My Aqua!
Some say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?
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Not long, he is Virgo spud with Scorp moon...
overall probs just not superficial peeps in general - we have 12year age gap and since Eh am old potato I assume it is not about looks
Some say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?
Not long, he is Virgo spud with Scorp moon...
overall probs just not superficial peeps in general - we have 12year age gap and since Eh am old potato I assume it is not about looks
Whit are you talking about missus? You're smokin'.
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haaaaiiiiiiii 🤗
As potato
Looks are important but only to a certain extent , I like different, unique, intelligence -catch my attention in a different way other than your looks
Ma maw is with a younger spud. #gettingmarriednextyear.
Happy for you xx ma wee leo sunshine. ?
😘 thank yeh meh sweet, & congrats to ya mum on her wedding!
is good to see you posting again btw xox
It just has to be that something that attracts me. I don't need a Chris Brown but I do have to want to be able to wake up to your face in the morning.
Sex appeal matters more to me than looks.
Posted by LiteofMind
It just has to be that something that attracts me. I don't need a Chris Brown but I do have to want to be able to wake up to your face in the morning.
Chris brown is sexy lol I like his music too
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Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?
Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!