Who is happy? Haha (tight asses - beware)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Tuesday, May 28, 2019 and has 25 replies.

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

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What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

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Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

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Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

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Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

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Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

click to expand

Please start with etc...

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

Please start with etc...

click to expand

I fixed my insecurity and neediness of depending on men. I was with one since 13 and it kind of took over my llfe

To be free of that is like a bloody miracle lol....so like a woman being let out of a (self imposed) prison, I feel elated ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Posted by Gemitati

If making someone happy makes you happy...are you actually making them happy or yourself? ๐Ÿค”

My friend just told me, that she read an articme that said, that women release dopamim when they make other people happy. Men release dopamin when they make themselves happy.

You're asking an old philosophicle question though... The pessimist saying you are never doing anything ever out of sheer love or kindness for other people. Everything you do is to make yourself happy in the end.

Same thing Phoebe tries to do in Friends, where she lets a bee sting her, as to prove, that she can do something, that makes some other being happy but does not make her happy.

Why do I know these things๐Ÿ˜‚

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

Please start with etc...

I fixed my insecurity and neediness of depending on men. I was with one since 13 and it kind of took over my llfe

To be free of that is like a bloody miracle lol....so like a woman being let out of a (self imposed) prison, I feel elated ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Well...I am talking enjoyable relationships...nothig prison like...and being together not because he said so...because itโ€™s always an amazing experience...

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Posted by TheRabbit

Just do what feels right to you.

If it's not hurting anyone else, who gives a flying fuckerooni?

I do! I want to know why do I want to buy his favorite food? Because itโ€™ll make him happy! But than I am happy that he is happy...so...am I selfish?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

Please start with etc...

I fixed my insecurity and neediness of depending on men. I was with one since 13 and it kind of took over my llfe

To be free of that is like a bloody miracle lol....so like a woman being let out of a (self imposed) prison, I feel elated ๐Ÿ˜Š

Well...I am talking enjoyable relationships...nothig prison like...and being together not because he said so...because itโ€™s always an amazing experience...

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......but you're not a Scorpio ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

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@Gemitati
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Posted by starlord

Posted by Gemitati

If making someone happy makes you happy...are you actually making them happy or yourself? ๐Ÿค”

My friend just told me, that she read an articme that said, that women release dopamim when they make other people happy. Men release dopamin when they make themselves happy.

You're asking an old philosophicle question though... The pessimist saying you are never doing anything ever out of sheer love or kindness for other people. Everything you do is to make yourself happy in the end.

Same thing Phoebe tries to do in Friends, where she lets a bee sting her, as to prove, that she can do something, that makes some other being happy but does not make her happy.

Why do I know these things๐Ÿ˜‚

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Iโ€™ve been telling people forever...I am doing something for you because I want to do it!! So...relax! Itโ€™s ok...no need to be dying with appreciation...

So I get it...

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

Please start with etc...

I fixed my insecurity and neediness of depending on men. I was with one since 13 and it kind of took over my llfe

To be free of that is like a bloody miracle lol....so like a woman being let out of a (self imposed) prison, I feel elated ๐Ÿ˜Š

Well...I am talking enjoyable relationships...nothig prison like...and being together not because he said so...because itโ€™s always an amazing experience...

......but you're not a Scorpio ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

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I grew u with one. She is married 4th time now! Lol

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@Gemitati
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Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by TheRabbit

Just do what feels right to you.

If it's not hurting anyone else, who gives a flying fuckerooni?

I do! I want to know why do I want to buy his favorite food? Because itโ€™ll make him happy! But than I am happy that he is happy...so...am I selfish?

A better question is do you give a fuck if you are or aren't selfish.

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Youโ€™ve got me here! ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

What if you're single and happy? ๐Ÿ˜›

Sorry hon. Have to make someone happy or you canโ€™t post with us...

I make a few people happy inc myself ๐Ÿ‘

Do you make those people happy while making yourself happy?

Geez! It sounded just WRONG!

Lmao

Haha......no happy endings๐Ÿ†

I am just known for being happy where I live, I laugh a lot and enjoy life ๐Ÿ‘

Are you into women? ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป

Are you coming on to me? Lol

Sexually....no, but I love them as friends...I know lots of great women โค๏ธ

Iโ€™ve tried that before...why ya fuck are you happyโ€” ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Long story

Freedom.....living my dream, good health, love where I live, love my family and friends, love my work

Etc....

Please start with etc...

I fixed my insecurity and neediness of depending on men. I was with one since 13 and it kind of took over my llfe

To be free of that is like a bloody miracle lol....so like a woman being let out of a (self imposed) prison, I feel elated ๐Ÿ˜Š

Well...I am talking enjoyable relationships...nothig prison like...and being together not because he said so...because itโ€™s always an amazing experience...

......but you're not a Scorpio ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

I grew u with one. She is married 4th time now! Lol

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Well, there you go

lol

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@Gemitati
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Posted by hollyhock

I think if you try to make someone else happy, you are doing it for yourself ultimately, even with they best intentions. If you make someone happy without knowing you were doing it and you find out later, or if you do something for them and you know the are not going to know it was you who did it, that is truly making someone happy

๐Ÿ‘€?