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Is it okay to go? far?
Would you be able to communicate that to a potential person? You’d be surprised at the difference good communication can make. Also, you might be surprised to find yourself needing less space, the more you felt comfortable with them.
Posted by Aju
Have you been with anyone or know of another, who was in romantic relationship where their
partner needed space and the relationship actually last? I'm not talking about space when things go wrong.
{A disruption or misunderstanding that causes one to drift away}
I'm talking about someone who is over stimulated by external things, by people, by places,
and the only thing that seems to help heal this individual is to step back, far back, and get away.
I often think about where I fall [or land] in the realm of relationships. I've never been in one,
with another, but I am someone who thinks about it a lot. I'm not desperate, I'm strong, I do acknowledge
that this "stepping away" could cause harm(?) Confusion(?) But I need this time away.
It isn't on a constant basis though....
Would you accept this?
Would they?
Would I? yes.
Uh, if I'm not mistaken, you're Pisces, aren't you? I have: Conjunction Mars - Uranus: "She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
I can TOTALLY relate to your post here. Look into your birth chart again, as it will explain like it did for me and you'll be able to put 2 and 2 together (to get to 4). Ya'll know I'm an Acting Administrative Assistant for the Army; and I LOVE to work alone!
This won't get in the way when I am involved in a relationship because we'll I'm assertive, I speak my mind, and I love to communicate with my SO (if and when I meet him); and it's going to be RARE for me to post here in DXP about "problems, issues, miscommunication, etc". I got this. I will be able to tell my SO, "Go hunting with your boys; go to the club with the boys" (I'm not the jealous type); as I assure him of this and that gives me time for my "solitude".
Good luck
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I go out (single) to the clubs by myself; nothing wrong with that as I bump into my club friends anyway, OR make new friends along the way (they always invite me to hang out with them; thus I make new friends).
Posted by hippiecrite
Would you be able to communicate that to a potential person? You’d be surprised at the difference good communication can make. Also, you might be surprised to find yourself needing less space, the more you felt comfortable with them.
thank you
I think I would be able to communicate this to a potential person. definitely.
It would definitely help too if I were to let them know before hand. Before I just went away.
Needing less space does make since.
Though, I wouldn't know but I do believe this.
Stepping away? No.
Giving them 'me time', yes super healthy.
When gem was in finals and juggling 50 hour work week he skipped our normal weekend hangout to finish school projects and study. After finals he's been coming 2xs as much now that his schedule has opened up.
Actually in general with him the more laid back and chill I am about plans changing, the more effort he makes to come kick it. Distance makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
Anyways I'm not about a relationship where we are up each others butts 24/7. You have your friends I have mine. I'm always encouraging him to go visit his grandparents cause all mine our dead. That time is so valuable and they can go at any moment.
Giving them 'me time', yes super healthy.
When gem was in finals and juggling 50 hour work week he skipped our normal weekend hangout to finish school projects and study. After finals he's been coming 2xs as much now that his schedule has opened up.
Actually in general with him the more laid back and chill I am about plans changing, the more effort he makes to come kick it. Distance makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
Anyways I'm not about a relationship where we are up each others butts 24/7. You have your friends I have mine. I'm always encouraging him to go visit his grandparents cause all mine our dead. That time is so valuable and they can go at any moment.
Posted by EvatheDiva52Posted by Aju
Have you been with anyone or know of another, who was in romantic relationship where their
partner needed space and the relationship actually last? I'm not talking about space when things go wrong.
{A disruption or misunderstanding that causes one to drift away}
I'm talking about someone who is over stimulated by external things, by people, by places,
and the only thing that seems to help heal this individual is to step back, far back, and get away.
I often think about where I fall [or land] in the realm of relationships. I've never been in one,
with another, but I am someone who thinks about it a lot. I'm not desperate, I'm strong, I do acknowledge
that this "stepping away" could cause harm(?) Confusion(?) But I need this time away.
It isn't on a constant basis though....
Would you accept this?
Would they?
Would I? yes.
Uh, if I'm not mistaken, you're Pisces, aren't you? I have: Conjunction Mars - Uranus: "She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
I can TOTALLY relate to your post here. Look into your birth chart again, as it will explain like it did for me and you'll be able to put 2 and 2 together (to get to 4). Ya'll know I'm an Acting Administrative Assistant for the Army; and I LOVE to work alone!
This won't get in the way when I am involved in a relationship because we'll I'm assertive, I speak my mind, and I love to communicate with my SO (if and when I meet him); and it's going to be RARE for me to post here in DXP about "problems, issues, miscommunication, etc". I got this. I will be able to tell my SO, "Go hunting with your boys; go to the club with the boys" (I'm not the jealous type); as I assure him of this and that gives me time for my "solitude".
Good luck
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I go out (single) to the clubs by myself; nothing wrong with that as I bump into my club friends anyway, OR make new friends along the way (they always invite me to hang out with them; thus I make new friends).
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thank you
Yes I have a Pisces Sun, like you (:
We have the same birthday! March 2
Where did you get this quote from though? :
"She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
That is not me.
I do have Venus Square Uranus which I guess shows that I'm open to unconventional relationships?
Relationships that many may not be open to go through with...? And taking a more independent approach?
Living separately... Living afar? I think that is a very positive trait that you have, to not be jealous because
I feel that is what keeps relationships a float, for both parties to be strong and know their own worth.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Stepping away? No.
Giving them 'me time', yes super healthy.
When gem was in finals and juggling 50 hour work week he skipped our normal weekend hangout to finish school projects and study. After finals he's been coming 2xs as much now that his schedule has opened up.
Actually in general with him the more laid back and chill I am about plans changing, the more effort he makes to come kick it. Distance makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
Anyways I'm not about a relationship where we are up each others butts 24/7. You have your friends I have mine. I'm always encouraging him to go visit his grandparents cause all mine our dead. That time is so valuable and they can go at any moment.
thank you
that's exactly what it is.."me time"
I just hope it isn't something that causes things to end?
"Anyways I'm not about a relationship where we are up each others butts 24/7. You have your friends I have mine. I'm always encouraging him to go visit his grandparents cause all mine our dead. That time is so valuable and they can go at any moment. "
^
I agree//
Uh, if I'm not mistaken, you're Pisces, aren't you? I have: Conjunction Mars - Uranus: "She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
I can TOTALLY relate to your post here. Look into your birth chart again, as it will explain like it did for me and you'll be able to put 2 and 2 together (to get to 4). Ya'll know I'm an Acting Administrative Assistant for the Army; and I LOVE to work alone!
This won't get in the way when I am involved in a relationship because we'll I'm assertive, I speak my mind, and I love to communicate with my SO (if and when I meet him); and it's going to be RARE for me to post here in DXP about "problems, issues, miscommunication, etc". I got this. I will be able to tell my SO, "Go hunting with your boys; go to the club with the boys" (I'm not the jealous type); as I assure him of this and that gives me time for my "solitude".
Good luck
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I go out (single) to the clubs by myself; nothing wrong with that as I bump into my club friends anyway, OR make new friends along the way (they always invite me to hang out with them; thus I make new friends).
******************
Thank you
Yes I have a Pisces Sun, like you (:
We have the same birthday! March 2
Where did you get this quote from though? (birth chart from Cafeastrology.com)
"She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
That is not me.
**I do have Venus Square Uranus which I guess shows that I'm open to unconventional relationships?
Relationships that many may not be open to go through with...? And taking a more independent approach?
*Living separately... Living afar? I think that is a very positive trait that you have, to not be jealous because
I feel that is what keeps relationships a float, for both parties to be strong and know their own worth.
*Yep, I mean the Ugly Green eyed Monster doesn't live in my blood". **I haven't read up on Venus Square Uranus, but it's an interesting read (I have time to Google as we speak).
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I can TOTALLY relate to your post here. Look into your birth chart again, as it will explain like it did for me and you'll be able to put 2 and 2 together (to get to 4). Ya'll know I'm an Acting Administrative Assistant for the Army; and I LOVE to work alone!
This won't get in the way when I am involved in a relationship because we'll I'm assertive, I speak my mind, and I love to communicate with my SO (if and when I meet him); and it's going to be RARE for me to post here in DXP about "problems, issues, miscommunication, etc". I got this. I will be able to tell my SO, "Go hunting with your boys; go to the club with the boys" (I'm not the jealous type); as I assure him of this and that gives me time for my "solitude".
Good luck
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I go out (single) to the clubs by myself; nothing wrong with that as I bump into my club friends anyway, OR make new friends along the way (they always invite me to hang out with them; thus I make new friends).
******************
Thank you
Yes I have a Pisces Sun, like you (:
We have the same birthday! March 2
Where did you get this quote from though? (birth chart from Cafeastrology.com)
"She has a great need of independence, likes her freedom of action" I also have: Saturn Pisces - "She likes to live in solitude, in contemplation, likes to work alone"
That is not me.
**I do have Venus Square Uranus which I guess shows that I'm open to unconventional relationships?
Relationships that many may not be open to go through with...? And taking a more independent approach?
*Living separately... Living afar? I think that is a very positive trait that you have, to not be jealous because
I feel that is what keeps relationships a float, for both parties to be strong and know their own worth.
*Yep, I mean the Ugly Green eyed Monster doesn't live in my blood". **I haven't read up on Venus Square Uranus, but it's an interesting read (I have time to Google as we speak).
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Hmmmmm Venus Square Uranus: (horoscopes.astro-seek.com
This aspect complicates any relationship because these people see relationships literally as a loss of personal freedom and integrity. They are mentally unstable and their feelings constantly change. They often get involved in great number of relationships thorough out their life. They are unconventional, difficult to get along with eccentric and original when t hey create art. They are just as unstable in their ways of dealing with money. They are adventurous and lead unstable love life.
Very interesting.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
This aspect complicates any relationship because these people see relationships literally as a loss of personal freedom and integrity. They are mentally unstable and their feelings constantly change. They often get involved in great number of relationships thorough out their life. They are unconventional, difficult to get along with eccentric and original when t hey create art. They are just as unstable in their ways of dealing with money. They are adventurous and lead unstable love life.
Very interesting.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDiva52
Hmmmmm Venus Square Uranus: (horoscopes.astro-seek.com
This aspect complicates any relationship because these people see relationships literally as a loss of personal freedom and integrity. They are mentally unstable and their feelings constantly change. They often get involved in great number of relationships thorough out their life. They are unconventional, difficult to get along with eccentric and original when t hey create art. They are just as unstable in their ways of dealing with money. They are adventurous and lead unstable love life.
Very interesting.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
thank you
I really love Jewel's Interpretation
I am an introvert, and my boyfriend is highly extroverted.
He loves constantly having the television running, or having lights on. Things that, honestly, can take the wind out of me. I don't game as often as I use to, so I typically come home and lay in bed, because I am exhausted from dealing with so many people at work. He knows this, and leaves me to my own devices a lot of times. He understands, that a lot of times, because of the sheer stress I have at work, that I need him just to leave me alone. But that comes from me verbalizing it to him. So when I need all the lights shut off, and nothing on, he does it
It is all about communication, and telling them what you need. If I didn't step away from life itself, I wouldn't be mentally healthy. I can't keep up in the same way he can, and he still loves me for it.
He loves constantly having the television running, or having lights on. Things that, honestly, can take the wind out of me. I don't game as often as I use to, so I typically come home and lay in bed, because I am exhausted from dealing with so many people at work. He knows this, and leaves me to my own devices a lot of times. He understands, that a lot of times, because of the sheer stress I have at work, that I need him just to leave me alone. But that comes from me verbalizing it to him. So when I need all the lights shut off, and nothing on, he does it
It is all about communication, and telling them what you need. If I didn't step away from life itself, I wouldn't be mentally healthy. I can't keep up in the same way he can, and he still loves me for it.
My husband goes through these "things." He's a Cancer Moon. And, I'm cool (being a Venus Aqua). I have a Gem Moon and need time for intellectual speculations and ponderings.
Once, he was going through a thing where he slept in the den in deep intense silence... but, he would come in the bedroom, fuck me, and return to the den silently. HAWT. Felt like it went on for a month.
I go on travel and barely call home, Lol.
Once, he was going through a thing where he slept in the den in deep intense silence... but, he would come in the bedroom, fuck me, and return to the den silently. HAWT. Felt like it went on for a month.
I go on travel and barely call home, Lol.
I need lots of me time. It has never been a problem. I think that is one of the reasons I get so well with Aquarius. They can give you lots of freedom.
I have a Aries friend married to an Aquarius girl and he is very extreme. He needs to go for a week or two on his own in the woods to relax, but they still managed to make it work. Some people are happy about it
I have a Aries friend married to an Aquarius girl and he is very extreme. He needs to go for a week or two on his own in the woods to relax, but they still managed to make it work. Some people are happy about it
Posted by nikkistar
I am an introvert, and my boyfriend is highly extroverted.
He loves constantly having the television running, or having lights on. Things that, honestly, can take the wind out of me. I don't game as often as I use to, so I typically come home and lay in bed, because I am exhausted from dealing with so many people at work. He knows this, and leaves me to my own devices a lot of times. He understands, that a lot of times, because of the sheer stress I have at work, that I need him just to leave me alone. But that comes from me verbalizing it to him. So when I need all the lights shut off, and nothing on, he does it
It is all about communication, and telling them what you need. If I didn't step away from life itself, I wouldn't be mentally healthy. I can't keep up in the same way he can, and he still loves me for it.
thank you, @nikkistar
Posted by VenusAquarius
My husband goes through these "things." He's a Cancer Moon. And, I'm cool (being a Venus Aqua). I have a Gem Moon and need time for intellectual speculations and ponderings.
Once, he was going through a thing where he slept in the den in deep intense silence... but, he would come in the bedroom, fuck me, and return to the den silently. HAWT. Felt like it went on for a month.
I go on travel and barely call home, Lol.
wow lol
thank you, @VenusAqauarius
Posted by pisceswoman123
I need lots of me time. It has never been a problem. I think that is one of the reasons I get so well with Aquarius. They can give you lots of freedom.
I have a Aries friend married to an Aquarius girl and he is very extreme. He needs to go for a week or two on his own in the woods to relax, but they still managed to make it work. Some people are happy about it
^^
thank you, @pisceswoman123
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