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Posted by natural25
Nefer I am sorry to hear about your loss.
P you crack me up. You always have such a way with words....you hit it dead on.
haha, thats only because Ms.Pisces puts her opinion out after others have. Yep, when its all said and done, she pops in 🙂
Not saying its a bad thing, but its the kind of thing she does ahahahahaha
Posted by NeferPosted by natural25
P you crack me up. You always have such a way with words....you hit it dead on.
I co-sign! She's a HOOT! 😄
(And thank you, cappy, natural, and everyone else, for your condolences. It was 10 years ago, but he was special indeed, and I will always miss him.)click to expand
No problem 😄!
Life can be really crazy and nuts and terrible -- all at the same time :O Making decisions based on what you went through wasn't easy ....
But look at it this way, if you would have never gotten upset at what was said on here about you, than no one would have never known how strong of a person you are 🙂
If you compare kissing to protected sex, then yes, it is risky. You're more likely to catch herpes than any other disease when having protected sex.....guess what the number one disease spread through kissing is.....
herpes.
Yes, you can catch herpes through kissing. However, there are much more not too pleasant you can catch from sex ... herpes (although its a terrible disases, I think their all terrible mind you) is one major thing but kissing is not as bad as having sex -- especially if its unprotected.
The only time the mouth because an issuse is when its dealing with oral sex, that a completely different. I don't see nor do I feel the need to put the same parameters on kissing as I put on sex.
Speaking of that -- there are some people that will have sex with someone but they will not kiss them. Base on what I know and what I've learned I find that very fasinating ... odd, but fasinating ^_^.
Excluding the emotional issues, if your reason for waiting is to protect yourself from disease, its stupid if you wait an entire year or what have you, only to not get checked out with the person first. My point was, it makes no difference how long you wait if you don't find out for sure what the person has, as it will be there no matter the time frame.
Oh yeah, I agree with that but I made that point too -- I just didn't spell it out that people should go get tested. Some people are not willing to do all the work but in alot cases, its soooooo worth it. And being careful with who you have sex with goes beyond emotional and disease issues too. Yes it does.
herpes.
Yes, you can catch herpes through kissing. However, there are much more not too pleasant you can catch from sex ... herpes (although its a terrible disases, I think their all terrible mind you) is one major thing but kissing is not as bad as having sex -- especially if its unprotected.
The only time the mouth because an issuse is when its dealing with oral sex, that a completely different. I don't see nor do I feel the need to put the same parameters on kissing as I put on sex.
Speaking of that -- there are some people that will have sex with someone but they will not kiss them. Base on what I know and what I've learned I find that very fasinating ... odd, but fasinating ^_^.
Excluding the emotional issues, if your reason for waiting is to protect yourself from disease, its stupid if you wait an entire year or what have you, only to not get checked out with the person first. My point was, it makes no difference how long you wait if you don't find out for sure what the person has, as it will be there no matter the time frame.
Oh yeah, I agree with that but I made that point too -- I just didn't spell it out that people should go get tested. Some people are not willing to do all the work but in alot cases, its soooooo worth it. And being careful with who you have sex with goes beyond emotional and disease issues too. Yes it does.
However, this was an opinion thread, not anything else hahaha.
And my position still stands, this capricorn girl will not go 'spread eagle' to some dude, regardless to how handsome he may be.
As far as ethics go, its really not my thing :/ If others do, thats fine but me ...... nah, I feel I don't have to. There are plenty of other women that will so I can just set back and take it all in haha.
I see explains of it almost everything with my roommate and his ...... ladies .... using that term loosely.
And my position still stands, this capricorn girl will not go 'spread eagle' to some dude, regardless to how handsome he may be.
As far as ethics go, its really not my thing :/ If others do, thats fine but me ...... nah, I feel I don't have to. There are plenty of other women that will so I can just set back and take it all in haha.
I see explains of it almost everything with my roommate and his ...... ladies .... using that term loosely.
Posted by Ms.P
"haha, thats only because Ms.Pisces puts her opinion out after others have. Yep, when its all said and done, she pops in"
lol What? I respond whenever I see something that makes me feel like responding. Theres really no rhyme or reason to it.
That's me too - I've READ nearly every thread on the first two, three pages of every single astrology or relationship board (and some other interesting ones) here on DXP. But I have not often been MOVED to post a response. I'm naturally reticent at times, I guess.
But when you arrive, you Bring The ZING 😄
Posted by Ms.P
"but kissing is not as bad as having sex -- especially if its unprotected."
Yes, but I was comparing it to protected sex.
Right, I know you were.
Its so weird, this woman that my roomie is seeing was trying to talk to me about this very thing. After the conversation, I guess she saw I was a bit different than she is. I'm not sure what she was trying to do but I guess she was suggesting that I be more like her. I said, no I'm good lol. She stopped talking to me ...
haha, that was funny. I was thinking, if thats what she like to do then cool it. Don't try to convert me, because I'm not that easy. She should do her thing and not worry about my eyes and what they see 😉
Maybe it would make her feel better about herself if I did it too :/ ..... hmmmm, nahh, I'll pass lol
Ms.P's new theme song (the chorus at least), everyone sing along, or hum if you must!
Because when I arrive
I, I bring the fire
Make you come alive
I can take you higher
What is this, forgot?
I must now remind you
Let It Rock
Let It Rock
Let It Rock
Because when I arrive
I, I bring the fire
Make you come alive
I can take you higher
What is this, forgot?
I must now remind you
Let It Rock
Let It Rock
Let It Rock
Posted by NeferPosted by Ms.P
"haha, thats only because Ms.Pisces puts her opinion out after others have. Yep, when its all said and done, she pops in"
lol What? I respond whenever I see something that makes me feel like responding. Theres really no rhyme or reason to it.
That's me too - I've READ nearly every thread on the first two, three pages of every single astrology or relationship board (and some other interesting ones) here on DXP. But I have not often been MOVED to post a response. I'm naturally reticent at times, I guess.
But when you arrive, you Bring The ZING 😄click to expand
lol!!! yeah theres a couple of you like that
There was one that popped in on me alot until he deleted his account. I think his name was ipfreely or something lol. I'd say, where in the hell did you come from?
He use to hate that ^_^.
Posted by Ms.P
" see explains of it almost everything with my roommate and his ...... ladies .... using that term loosely."
lol But your roommate and those girls are dirty whores. Not to be compared to what most in this thread were talking about.
Anyway.
LOL! Now that, I'll have to agree with. I had to work on something ... thats why I'm not sleep yet lol! And I had to put up with ones moaning and groaning for the longest 😢 I hope I don't sound like that when I'm having sex because if I do, I need another hobbie.
Now the one girl just left and now the other girl just came over :O -- the one I am 99.9% sure left that disgusting thingie thing on the toilet 😢
My god, he's going to get into so much trouble one of these days, I can feel it ..., he ran to me once when he was in trouble, next time I see it coming I'm spending the night at my buddy's place lol
Posted by Ms.P
"Its so weird, this woman that my roomie is seeing was trying to talk to me about this very thing. "
She was trying to explain to you that no matter how long you wait to have sex with someone, if you don't bother getting checked out before you decide to do it, your risk of contracting a disease is just as high as if you didn't wait?
No, thats not what she was trying to tell me lol. That virgo woman was trying to get me to pick up guys from the bar or whatever. Thats what the entire conversation was about.
When I told her I didn't sleep around like some people ... I guess because of the tone in my voice, she stopped talking to me.
Then I started talking about my degree and how I was going to apply to P.A. school and how I was dating this awesome guy (was dating that guy ... my stupid roommate ruin that too *sigh*) and all that jazz and she really didn't see interested in that :/ Maybe I gave her the wrong impression, I'm not sure but whatever, I didn't really want her talking to me. I was afraid some of her ways would rub off on me. I wanted out of that conversation anyway and after I said a few things she didn't want to talk anymore xD
Posted by Ms.P
Does he have issues with his mother, do you know?
Well, the only thing I know about his mom is the fact that he doesn't like alot the decisions she made concerning the relationship with his father.
I guess she was the type of woman to keep going back to the guy after he would cheat on her with other women. His father was a womanizer and didn't really get to know him until he was a bit older.
The mom doesn't really seem to be the strong type -- she looks stronger than she really is.
I think his whole upbringing cause him to be this way.
Its really unfortunate ... I saw a picture of him when he was like 2 or 3 years old. He was a cute as a buttons! Big brown, round cheeks and lips as red as an apple. Then he grows up into a man that has so much potential but its lost in his arrogance.
He uses that arrogance to protect himself ... deep down, he is afraid of alot of things.
hahaha, its so funny, in that picture, it looks like his nickname should have been sugar-plum ^_^. Oh, looked so darling, pure as snow .... now, my goodness, I often thing, what happened to that little boy in the picture.
I'm kinda pissed with him, he washing the sheets he just screwed the one girl on so this 'other' girl won't detect anything. The only reason I'm pissed is because its going to get hot in my room -- the washing room is right next to me lol.
Just now, I almost, "Do I have to suffer because you want two girls over in the same night?" But if I did that, it will cause so much chaos in here, being that the other girl is here xD
No, I went blew his cover, its not my place to do that.
I'm kinda pissed with him, he washing the sheets he just screwed the one girl on so this 'other' girl won't detect anything. The only reason I'm pissed is because its going to get hot in my room -- the washing room is right next to me lol.
Just now, I almost, "Do I have to suffer because you want two girls over in the same night?" But if I did that, it will cause so much chaos in here, being that the other girl is here xD
No, I went blew his cover, its not my place to do that.
Wow I'm totally lost, well at least everyone back getting along 🙂
How many girls or your friends here sleep with a guy they have just met on their first time together?
And guys if you dare to answer "Does this make you think any less of them?"
I ask as I've noticed recently a few friends and aquaintances that have met someone that night and slept together, no judgement intended but just find it curious. Mostly I haven't seen a solid union from it...except one gf who has met someone younger and he seems totally besotted with her and visa versa...fingers crossed! Another friend has had a dry spell, over a year and is really wanting to get laid but in saying that she also wants someone permanent.
This is the original post and it was about girls sleeping with someone they have just met, not dated, hoping for a more lasting relationship.
Alot of my friends are single and they are all beautiful to me, but it's sad because I know when they meet someone, what they are really looking for because of the timeless discusions we have had. During those discusions is when I offer my opinion or tell my stories of discovery...but when it comes down to it people are free to make their own choices in life and they will do just that without justification to anyone.
And guys if you dare to answer "Does this make you think any less of them?"
I ask as I've noticed recently a few friends and aquaintances that have met someone that night and slept together, no judgement intended but just find it curious. Mostly I haven't seen a solid union from it...except one gf who has met someone younger and he seems totally besotted with her and visa versa...fingers crossed! Another friend has had a dry spell, over a year and is really wanting to get laid but in saying that she also wants someone permanent.
This is the original post and it was about girls sleeping with someone they have just met, not dated, hoping for a more lasting relationship.
Alot of my friends are single and they are all beautiful to me, but it's sad because I know when they meet someone, what they are really looking for because of the timeless discusions we have had. During those discusions is when I offer my opinion or tell my stories of discovery...but when it comes down to it people are free to make their own choices in life and they will do just that without justification to anyone.
I understand your arguement VGT and agree with some of it BUT as the saying goes....
You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink...and thats the sadness when it's people you love...
You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink...and thats the sadness when it's people you love...
lol @ smiles
I still stand firm though. I'm not having sex with anybody on the first date, I don't care, I'm not doing it lol.
I still stand firm though. I'm not having sex with anybody on the first date, I don't care, I'm not doing it lol.
How many girls or your friends here sleep with a guy they have just met on their first time together?
Yep.
And guys if you dare to answer "Does this make you think any less of them?"
Nope.
I slept (well really there was very little sleeping going on) the first time I met my Aries dude. We've been together for over 2 yrs. My cat lives with him. Literally. lol!
Yep.
And guys if you dare to answer "Does this make you think any less of them?"
Nope.
I slept (well really there was very little sleeping going on) the first time I met my Aries dude. We've been together for over 2 yrs. My cat lives with him. Literally. lol!
Posted by eden 3Posted by natural25
I am prob going to catch hell for saying this, but I view sex a little differently. At least for myself. I personally do not have sex until I'm in a monogomous trusting and stable relationship. I understand that everyone (including myself) has needs but for me I rather be intimate with some one who I love. Now, I do understand that some ppl look at sex and love as two completely different entities and have sex not bc they are in love but have a desire that they want to fulfilll which is human nature.
ya me 2 I have Neva & could Neva sleep with someone I was not in love with, no judgment of others tho to each their own.
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What in the world? So kissing someone is about as nasty as having sex with someone? hmmmmmmm, I don't think so. Thats your opinion but I'm not biting too hard on that one. True, you can put up things through saliva but its not like sex in no way, shape or form.
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And how in the blue hell is it stupid for someone to talk about the way they approach sex 1 minute or 1 year after meeting a person.
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