Mystical pisces
@Klh1203
8 YearsPisces
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Ladies when is the right time to ask the question
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Depends on if you will be fine with the answer.
What she said ^
never, the guy should do it
I was thinking to just go with the flow until he mentions it. He’s already mentioned how he’s not seeing anyone else but me. But it’s that word “seeing” I don’t like. It’s like you’re an option until something better comes along😂
Posted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
What @Phantum is probably implying is that, you have been "seeing" this guy for 3 months, which I am assuming is the Cancer with the Aqua moon.
Posted by Klh1203
He has explained before that he isn’t looking for a relationship and he’s focused on his career but if he does find a relationship he’s open to it but he doesn’t want a woman who isn’t as hard working as him and constantly will cause stress or unnecessary arguments to his life.
So anyway we are currently seeing how things go but my problem is is that now we had sex for the first time, I’m starting to feel myself get attached and I feel like he’s just being the same as he was before we had sex towards me except he’s very very affectionate and more intimate with me now.click to expand
But then it gets messy, because you are also "in love" with your Aqua male friend too.
Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?click to expand
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
What @Phantum is probably implying is that, you have been "seeing" this guy for 3 months, which I am assuming is the Cancer with the Aqua moon.Posted by Klh1203
He has explained before that he isn’t looking for a relationship and he’s focused on his career but if he does find a relationship he’s open to it but he doesn’t want a woman who isn’t as hard working as him and constantly will cause stress or unnecessary arguments to his life.
So anyway we are currently seeing how things go but my problem is is that now we had sex for the first time, I’m starting to feel myself get attached and I feel like he’s just being the same as he was before we had sex towards me except he’s very very affectionate and more intimate with me now.
But then it gets messy, because you are also "in love" with your Aqua male friend too.click to expand
If you read that post you would see that we had been friends for years and it wasn’t going anywhere because I found out in the end he had a girlfriend, since then which I haven’t posted on here I had cut him off and met my cancer friend who I have since been posting about.
I understand what this lady/man is saying but I never come on here judging whatever others post. I’ve had this account for a while previous to this account I had another account on here which I lost the password to. I’ve been on this website from 2010. You will probably see all my past relationship posts on here and so what? I shouldn’t have to explain myself to someone who doesn’t pay my bills and even if I was in love with two guys at the same time so what lol why does it concern her or anyone else. Lol. I’m about to post another post and if she or whoever else doesn’t like it then they can ... you know what.
Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?click to expand
the right time is when you want to know the answer
Posted by PhantumPosted by saggurl88Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
The moon is in Aries. Can I blame it? *giggles*click to expand
😆
Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.click to expand
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
I won’t fuck a dude without exclusivity and test results exchange.
Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
No. I think you're asking for advice based on about 1/10 of the story.click to expand
And you’re basing knowledge on about 1/10 of the story.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
No. I think you're asking for advice based on about 1/10 of the story.
And you’re basing knowledge on about 1/10 of the story.click to expand
Posted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
No. I think you're asking for advice based on about 1/10 of the story.
And you’re basing knowledge on about 1/10 of the story.click to expand
to be fair she was just asking for clarification.
no knowledge demonstrated yet.
ironic though that you seem to express yourself clearly with people you don't know but can't do the same with the guy you are fucking.
Send a gif!
Posted by jeanePosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
No. I think you're asking for advice based on about 1/10 of the story.
And you’re basing knowledge on about 1/10 of the story.
to be fair she was just asking for clarification.
no knowledge demonstrated yet.
ironic though that you seem to express yourself clearly with people you don't know but can't do the same with the guy you are fucking.click to expand
She wasn’t asking for clarification, actually. Asking for clarification isn’t worded how she worded it.
And I do express myself to him when he annoys me. So what now?
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Posted by Klh1203Posted by jeanePosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by PhantumPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
So which one of the previous guys you've asked about is this one?
Whichever one I feel like girl. I don’t know why what I post affects you I will continue to post whatever I feel like just like I have done for the past few years on here
You do you. Just letting you know the rest of us aren't brain-dead.
Girl bye lol! Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂 if that was the case I would have posted this on another website. I am fully aware that everyone can see my posts. But if you don’t like them and they bother you and make you lose sleep at night please block me it’s mercury retrograde out here I don’t want to make your life any more worse than it probably is right now🙄😅
No. I think you're asking for advice based on about 1/10 of the story.
And you’re basing knowledge on about 1/10 of the story.
to be fair she was just asking for clarification.
no knowledge demonstrated yet.
ironic though that you seem to express yourself clearly with people you don't know but can't do the same with the guy you are fucking.
She wasn’t asking for clarification, actually. Asking for clarification isn’t worded how she worded it.
And I do express myself to him when he annoys me. So what now?click to expand
then why are you waiting to ask him what you are?
Posted by dilettante
OP has the actions of the cancer/aqua moon changed from your last thread?
Yes it has a lot! But I have been trying to protect myself from getting too close just in case. I’ve had many experiences in the past where men just switch up on me. Valentine’s Day he took me to Paris which was nice. But doing things like that without asking me to be his girlfriend is confusing. I don’t know if people even ask eachother out these days. My ex who was a cancer just assumed we were together one day I just heard him calling me his girlfriend to his friends etc and introducing time to his dad lol. 🤷🏽♀️
Posted by Klh1203Posted by nikkistarPosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
Are you aware that we can see your other threads?
Yeah....so— Lol
What @Phantum is probably implying is that, you have been "seeing" this guy for 3 months, which I am assuming is the Cancer with the Aqua moon.Posted by Klh1203
He has explained before that he isn’t looking for a relationship and he’s focused on his career but if he does find a relationship he’s open to it but he doesn’t want a woman who isn’t as hard working as him and constantly will cause stress or unnecessary arguments to his life.
So anyway we are currently seeing how things go but my problem is is that now we had sex for the first time, I’m starting to feel myself get attached and I feel like he’s just being the same as he was before we had sex towards me except he’s very very affectionate and more intimate with me now.
But then it gets messy, because you are also "in love" with your Aqua male friend too.
If you read that post you would see that we had been friends for years and it wasn’t going anywhere because I found out in the end he had a girlfriend, since then which I haven’t posted on here I had cut him off and met my cancer friend who I have since been posting about.
I understand what this lady/man is saying but I never come on here judging whatever others post. I’ve had this account for a while previous to this account I had another account on here which I lost the password to. I’ve been on this website from 2010. You will probably see all my past relationship posts on here and so what? I shouldn’t have to explain myself to someone who doesn’t pay my bills and even if I was in love with two guys at the same time so what lol why does it concern her or anyone else. Lol. I’m about to post another post and if she or whoever else doesn’t like it then they can ... you know what.
No one really cares how long you have been on DXP. Not sure why you decided to get into defensive posturing over the length of time you have been on here.
Second, from the looks of your past posts, (which some of them you hid which makes the below quote ironic) that this isn't a relationship. As he already told you, he wasn't interested in one a mere two months ago. So to answer your original question in this thread, it will probably never be a good time to ask him "what we are", as it is not a relationship, since he doesn't want one.
Posted by Klh1203Do you really think I was trying to hide what I post from you or anyone else?😂click to expand
Quite honestly, in the past year, what you posting habits indicate is a bevy of situations in which you find yourself seeing men and agree to stipulations where an actual relationship is not the end goal for these men, and delusionally agree to it. All the while knowing, you actually want more than what they will offer to you. And it is probably more to do with you getting out of an abusive relationship, and actively sabotaging yourself.
I suggest you stay single for a bit, and work out the hurt inside of you first, so that you don't keep finding yourself in situations that go round and round and round.
Posted by Phantum
I really do wish someone would give women (or men, but it's usually women) in this position some good advice about how to bring it up. "What are we doing?" is like this cliche kiss of death that no one wants to utter. It should be more of a conversation, but I think women are reluctant to express our desires for fear of rejection, so a question seems safer. We end up sounding fearful and pressuring the man.
better to know the truth early on than be hurt by waiting.
Posted by Phantum
I really do wish someone would give women (or men, but it's usually women) in this position some good advice about how to bring it up. "What are we doing?" is like this cliche kiss of death that no one wants to utter. It should be more of a conversation, but I think women are reluctant to express our desires for fear of rejection, so a question seems safer. We end up sounding fearful and pressuring the man.
To be honest I worded the question wrong. I wouldn’t ever ask “what are we” but I would want to know where I stand and where he sees this going I just don’t know how I would word it. He’s been very more than just a friend recently and it’s got to the point where when a man approaches me I don’t know if I should say I’m in a relationship or not if you know what I mean? I always go by actions but his actions are showing me I’m his girlfriend but then he hasn’t said it if you know what I mean it’s all so confusing. Maybe I should just leave it and see where it goes.
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
Posted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
I never ask, I stay in the forever dating period until we move in together.
Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
Posted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
I really do wish someone would give women (or men, but it's usually women) in this position some good advice about how to bring it up. "What are we doing?" is like this cliche kiss of death that no one wants to utter. It should be more of a conversation, but I think women are reluctant to express our desires for fear of rejection, so a question seems safer. We end up sounding fearful and pressuring the man.
To be honest I worded the question wrong. I wouldn’t ever ask “what are we” but I would want to know where I stand and where he sees this going I just don’t know how I would word it. He’s been very more than just a friend recently and it’s got to the point where when a man approaches me I don’t know if I should say I’m in a relationship or not if you know what I mean? I always go by actions but his actions are showing me I’m his girlfriend but then he hasn’t said it if you know what I mean it’s all so confusing. Maybe I should just leave it and see where it goes.click to expand
if you want to know where you stand and where he sees it going, ask
"where do we stand?"
"where do you see us going?"
why do women feel it necessary to complicate things? life is too short for this sort of thing.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
I never ask, I stay in the forever dating period until we move in together.click to expand
Hahaha this is cute🥺❤️
Posted by jeanePosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
I really do wish someone would give women (or men, but it's usually women) in this position some good advice about how to bring it up. "What are we doing?" is like this cliche kiss of death that no one wants to utter. It should be more of a conversation, but I think women are reluctant to express our desires for fear of rejection, so a question seems safer. We end up sounding fearful and pressuring the man.
To be honest I worded the question wrong. I wouldn’t ever ask “what are we” but I would want to know where I stand and where he sees this going I just don’t know how I would word it. He’s been very more than just a friend recently and it’s got to the point where when a man approaches me I don’t know if I should say I’m in a relationship or not if you know what I mean? I always go by actions but his actions are showing me I’m his girlfriend but then he hasn’t said it if you know what I mean it’s all so confusing. Maybe I should just leave it and see where it goes.
if you want to know where you stand and where he sees it going, ask
"where do we stand?"
"where do you see us going?"
why do women feel it necessary to complicate things? life is too short for this sort of thing.click to expand
So what do you want me to do lol?
Posted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
here's my most recent experience.... after about a month of messing around with a guy i said to him, "what are we doing? i want to be exclusive."
conversation followed and we worked out what we felt comfortable with.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by saggurl88Posted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
I never ask, I stay in the forever dating period until we move in together.
Hahaha this is cute🥺❤️click to expand
That's the only way to know for sure!
Posted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️click to expand
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?click to expand
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bit
Posted by jeanePosted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
here's my most recent experience.... after about a month of messing around with a guy i said to him, "what are we doing? i want to be exclusive."
conversation followed and we worked out what we felt comfortable with.click to expand
🤣 I see what you did there
Posted by dilettantePosted by Klh1203Posted by dilettante
OP has the actions of the cancer/aqua moon changed from your last thread?
Yes it has a lot! But I have been trying to protect myself from getting too close just in case. I’ve had many experiences in the past where men just switch up on me. Valentine’s Day he took me to Paris which was nice. But doing things like that without asking me to be his girlfriend is confusing. I don’t know if people even ask eachother out these days. My ex who was a cancer just assumed we were together one day I just heard him calling me his girlfriend to his friends etc and introducing time to his dad lol. 🤷🏽♀️
yall this is a troll lolclick to expand
You want me to be a troll so bad 😢
Posted by Klh1203Posted by jeanePosted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
here's my most recent experience.... after about a month of messing around with a guy i said to him, "what are we doing? i want to be exclusive."
conversation followed and we worked out what we felt comfortable with.
🤣 I see what you did thereclick to expand
Posted by PhantumPosted by dilettantePosted by Klh1203Posted by dilettante
OP has the actions of the cancer/aqua moon changed from your last thread?
Yes it has a lot! But I have been trying to protect myself from getting too close just in case. I’ve had many experiences in the past where men just switch up on me. Valentine’s Day he took me to Paris which was nice. But doing things like that without asking me to be his girlfriend is confusing. I don’t know if people even ask eachother out these days. My ex who was a cancer just assumed we were together one day I just heard him calling me his girlfriend to his friends etc and introducing time to his dad lol. 🤷🏽♀️
yall this is a troll lol
Was Paris too much for you? Maybe it was Paris, Texas.click to expand
Nope paris was easy for us, were both from the UK. We can easily spend a weekend there only takes an hour to get there
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Klh1203Posted by Phantum
I really do wish someone would give women (or men, but it's usually women) in this position some good advice about how to bring it up. "What are we doing?" is like this cliche kiss of death that no one wants to utter. It should be more of a conversation, but I think women are reluctant to express our desires for fear of rejection, so a question seems safer. We end up sounding fearful and pressuring the man.
To be honest I worded the question wrong. I wouldn’t ever ask “what are we” but I would want to know where I stand and where he sees this going I just don’t know how I would word it. He’s been very more than just a friend recently and it’s got to the point where when a man approaches me I don’t know if I should say I’m in a relationship or not if you know what I mean? I always go by actions but his actions are showing me I’m his girlfriend but then he hasn’t said it if you know what I mean it’s all so confusing. Maybe I should just leave it and see where it goes.
Well shoot after taking me to Paris I wouldn't care too much lol. The question to ask is when we going to Spain?...if that's how he treats his friends I'd be in hog heaven..click to expand
I have male friends who actually just go on holidays with women it doesn’t mean anything 🤣 and Paris is local to us. We’re both from London.
Posted by dilettante
it sounds like yall have communication issues.
what is your venus & mars?
if it aint in air signs, i’d call all of this a loss. that double water is prob too much
I’m an Aries Venus & Cancer Mars ... the double water is too much I am telling you. I hate it.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bitclick to expand
I mean there are many more ways to trigger a man's possessiveness than lying about suitors...you really don't have to lie at all....but yeah, the more obvious tricks are not gonna work with aqua moon....I find them very hard to read too, and the one's I've known, you really gotta be on your best behavior (particularly around lying) so you don't get dumped on principle....
why do you need an official status at this point since you've gone so long without it? didn't read thread, but is it fear around him not being exclusive w/you? you should always be straightforward and ask that bc its also a health concern....If there's no worries around that, then why don't you just let things be as is, let his feelings grow naturally....it really hasn't been all that much time....
Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bit
I mean there are many more ways to trigger a man's possessiveness than lying about suitors...you really don't have to lie at all....but yeah, the more obvious tricks are not gonna work with aqua moon....I find them very hard to read too, and the one's I've known, you really gotta be on your best behavior (particularly around lying) so you don't get dumped on principle....
why do you need an official status at this point since you've gone so long without it? didn't read thread, but is it fear around him not being exclusive w/you? you should always be straightforward and ask that bc its also a health concern....If there's no worries around that, then why don't you just let things be as is, let his feelings grow naturally....it really hasn't been all that much time....click to expand
I think I’m just obsessed with him and I want him to be all mine now🥺 like when I fall in love I fall deeply and then my Scorpio moon just becomes possessive and weird and obsessive. I never show it to him directly but I think he kind of knows.
I am happy with how it is for now so I’m just going to keep it like this I’m not going to mention anything to him. He’s very stubborn also, he doesn’t like being told what to do.
I do this whenever I meet a guy I like I just become possessive ugh, so annoying wish I would learn to chill out
Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bit
I mean there are many more ways to trigger a man's possessiveness than lying about suitors...you really don't have to lie at all....but yeah, the more obvious tricks are not gonna work with aqua moon....I find them very hard to read too, and the one's I've known, you really gotta be on your best behavior (particularly around lying) so you don't get dumped on principle....
why do you need an official status at this point since you've gone so long without it? didn't read thread, but is it fear around him not being exclusive w/you? you should always be straightforward and ask that bc its also a health concern....If there's no worries around that, then why don't you just let things be as is, let his feelings grow naturally....it really hasn't been all that much time....click to expand
I think I’m just obsessed with him and I want him to be all mine now🥺 like when I fall in love I fall deeply and then my Scorpio moon just becomes possessive and weird and obsessive. I never show it to him directly but I think he kind of knows.
I am happy with how it is for now so I’m just going to keep it like this I’m not going to mention anything to him. He’s very stubborn also, he doesn’t like being told what to do.
I do this whenever I meet a guy I like I just become possessive ugh, so annoying wish I would learn to chill out
Posted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bit
I mean there are many more ways to trigger a man's possessiveness than lying about suitors...you really don't have to lie at all....but yeah, the more obvious tricks are not gonna work with aqua moon....I find them very hard to read too, and the one's I've known, you really gotta be on your best behavior (particularly around lying) so you don't get dumped on principle....
why do you need an official status at this point since you've gone so long without it? didn't read thread, but is it fear around him not being exclusive w/you? you should always be straightforward and ask that bc its also a health concern....If there's no worries around that, then why don't you just let things be as is, let his feelings grow naturally....it really hasn't been all that much time....
I think I’m just obsessed with him and I want him to be all mine now🥺 like when I fall in love I fall deeply and then my Scorpio moon just becomes possessive and weird and obsessive. I never show it to him directly but I think he kind of knows.
I am happy with how it is for now so I’m just going to keep it like this I’m not going to mention anything to him. He’s very stubborn also, he doesn’t like being told what to do.
I do this whenever I meet a guy I like I just become possessive ugh, so annoying wish I would learn to chill outclick to expand
lol yes that all sounds about right....not hitting on you but you're a very attractive girl, and you should know what the chemistry is like betw. the two of you, and you should be confident that he's into you based on that....I think if you just assume that, and operate accordingly, even if he isn't quite yet to the level you are, it'll make it more likely that he gets there....
this is just my opinion, but I always think its best to hang with partners in groups, like a circle of friends, if that's possible...for many reasons, but in your case, him seeing you around others at your most charming/outgoing, him seeing you interact with other men and their attraction to you (even without you intentionally trying to provoke jealousy), will just make it more likely that he sees a need to make more of a claim on you, if that's what you want....I think men are just naturally competitive like that ,no matter how cool and seemingly emotionally distant....
myself I'm very slow to commit, and I can definitely say when I was younger, it was always just too easy to keep relationship status ambiguous with a girl, when I was just seeing them in private....I'd usually keep that going for as long as I could....
Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by MetatronPosted by Klh1203Posted by Metatron
I think you need to read more astrology....as a scorpio moon you don't want to come right out and communicate your feelings, but should already be proactively manipulating this dude to where he wants to ask you what the relationship status is....
Babe I’ve already been doing this! I am the queen of manipulation. But I don’t know how to manipulate him with this relationship thing. All I’ve done is mention other females and him dating other women and all he has said is he’s not interested in any other woman. 🤷🏽♀️
ok...had to verify your astro-identity....people like to fake scorpio placements around here....have you tried subtle things to make him jealous and trigger any budding possessiveness he might have?
No I’m really a Scorpio moon and I hate it 😭 I haven’t actually done that no. I kind of have but it is so hard with him. I just don’t know how to get him jealous because he doesn’t ever show too much emotions he keeps everything in. Like even if he’s upset with me he wouldn’t ever come out with it he would keep it all in and I would just get the vibe he’s annoyed at me. He has an aqua moon so he keeps everything in. Slowly he’s starting to open up more o me but he doesn’t ever express how he feels. So it’s hard to get him jealous because he might feel it but he wouldn’t ever show it. If I lie and tell him about a guy wanting to take me on a date I’m scared it’ll push him away, he’s super sensitive and he doesn’t do the whole “chasing” thing he will just probably back off from me a bit
I mean there are many more ways to trigger a man's possessiveness than lying about suitors...you really don't have to lie at all....but yeah, the more obvious tricks are not gonna work with aqua moon....I find them very hard to read too, and the one's I've known, you really gotta be on your best behavior (particularly around lying) so you don't get dumped on principle....
why do you need an official status at this point since you've gone so long without it? didn't read thread, but is it fear around him not being exclusive w/you? you should always be straightforward and ask that bc its also a health concern....If there's no worries around that, then why don't you just let things be as is, let his feelings grow naturally....it really hasn't been all that much time....
I think I’m just obsessed with him and I want him to be all mine now🥺 like when I fall in love I fall deeply and then my Scorpio moon just becomes possessive and weird and obsessive. I never show it to him directly but I think he kind of knows.
I am happy with how it is for now so I’m just going to keep it like this I’m not going to mention anything to him. He’s very stubborn also, he doesn’t like being told what to do.
I do this whenever I meet a guy I like I just become possessive ugh, so annoying wish I would learn to chill out
lol yes that all sounds about right....not hitting on you but you're a very attractive girl, and you should know what the chemistry is like betw. the two of you, and you should be confident that he's into you based on that....I think if you just assume that, and operate accordingly, even if he isn't quite yet to the level you are, it'll make it more likely that he gets there....
this is just my opinion, but I always think its best to hang with partners in groups, like a circle of friends, if that's possible...for many reasons, but in your case, him seeing you around others at your most charming/outgoing, him seeing you interact with other men and their attraction to you (even without you intentionally trying to provoke jealousy), will just make it more likely that he sees a need to make more of a claim on you, if that's what you want....I think men are just naturally competitive like that ,no matter how cool and seemingly emotionally distant....
myself I'm very slow to commit, and I can definitely say when I was younger, it was always just too easy to keep relationship status ambiguous with a girl, when I was just seeing them in private....I'd usually keep that going for as long as I could....click to expand
Thank you 💕 really good advice.
I’m going to an event with him and a few of his friends (he’s starting to bring me around his friends) so I’m going to take your advice and see what happens with that😂 I’m naturally a chatty person anyway and I can get on with anyone so this should be interesting.
Yeah that sounds a bit like him I think he’s so comfortable where we’re at. Thank you for your advice was really interesting to see someone else’s perspective. When you’re in a situation it’s so hard to see because you’re often involving your feelings lol
Posted by 7thHousePosted by jeanePosted by Klh1203
And can we refrain from this question being about me I genuinely want to know other females experiences!😊
here's my most recent experience.... after about a month of messing around with a guy i said to him, "what are we doing? i want to be exclusive."
conversation followed and we worked out what we felt comfortable with.
I did mine in the car when he was driving me home. I said "So, AM I allowed to see other guys?" and he said "Of course not" and I said "OK. Well you're not allowed to see other girls then. You're my boyfriend now." lolclick to expand
haha, that sounds perfect to my ear. honestly, i think we make such an unnecessary big deal out it.
and i'd like to think that men (or maybe it's just the men i know) don't want guessing games. speak plainly and matter of factly, express what you want (ie, "you're my boyfriend now") and i imagine it's likely you'll get a decent response. i think about how men talk to each other and women should mirror that to some degree.
This is not a fwb. If he Is taking her to Paris for Valentine’s Day and introducing her to his friends, he is courting/ dating her. That is how it should be. Once the two of them get to know each other better, it can blossom into a committed romantic relationship.
I don’t understand why people are saying that you should rush into exclusivity. That’s a little desperate imo. I like to date and feel the person out first. I want to know what I am getting into before making a commitment. It takes time to get to know the person. Rushing into these types of situations, often leaves somebody disappointed or heartbroken. As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more.
I don’t understand why people are saying that you should rush into exclusivity. That’s a little desperate imo. I like to date and feel the person out first. I want to know what I am getting into before making a commitment. It takes time to get to know the person. Rushing into these types of situations, often leaves somebody disappointed or heartbroken. As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more.
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