MEN would you forgive your woman for cheating? (Page 2)

Posted by tiziani
@Sag89 I'm talking about both. You are very chill when you talk about yourself on here, in the rare moments you're not playing devil (although that's a lot of fun too I ain't gonna lie).

And men, at heart, do like the company of women who are comfortable to talk about themselves.

The fact that you even feel to ask that question should already kind of make you laugh that you may have underestimated yourself. Surpriiiiiise 😛 The Gemini is making you think.

Hahah got ya

Steve Harvey is the most dsyfunctional sexist jackass I've ever seen. He HATES woman. He is disgusting and has been divorced like 3 times.

he is nothing more than a joke. I really hope no one takes that dickhead seriously.

I know I'm one to talk but shit I didn't make some bullshit book or bullshit movie to poison socities head with.

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Posted by Sag89
I know I'm one to talk but shit I didn't make some bullshit book or bullshit movie to poison socities head with.

I'm glad there's at least one woman out there that said it. I can't talk because I haven't read the book. But to me it's almost on the same level as someone who slings crack cocaine to society.

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It is the very same level. I saw interview where the interviewer asked him if he had any female friends. His response was " Oh no, I could never have a female friend " she asked why he said
" Cause men and woman can't be friends MEN ALWAYS WANT SEX " Ok wow, that says everything about you man. Woman obviously seem to have no other use. Plus that book is full of bullshit. The title says it all.

Now I'm someone with at times weak sexual boundaries and I have issues with the opposite sex so I can't pretend like I don't know exactly what he's talking about. The black and white statements becomes such a mind trap when you haven't worked through your shit. But like I said I'm not stupid and I would never lie to thousands of people for my own selfish fucked up needs. He's just sick and wrong.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Seems like women are more forgiving in this area.
Does it cut deeper for guys than it does women?
Maybe we accept it because society tells us that guys are hardwired to cheat?
And many of you do so, seemingly without a second thought.

Firstly, how do men define cheating?
What is worse, emotional cheating or physical cheating?

Have you or would you forgive?
Why or why not?

I would also like to hear from ladies whom have cheated.
Were you forgiven?

Also add your:
Sun/Moon/Venus

I did. I forgave my ex once. But the second time, I walked.

I forgave the ex the first time because in God??s eyes it was the right thing to do. But the second time??_

When you love someone, truly love them, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a part of yourself that you give to no one else, and you let them inside a part of you that only they can hurt-you.

It's crippling. But I prayed and prayed. It helped. So the second time God said —Walk away and I will rebuild you.?? And he did. He found me a beautiful faithful Christian woman, now my fianc?e, a Sagittarius.

Now to answer your 2nd question would I forgive? If my Sagittarius woman cheated would I walk away?

Before I answer, I asked my Sagi, —Have you ever cheated before— She said, —No. I'm loyal to the core.??

However, to answer your question, I would forgive her. Because, there must have been something missing in the relationship and I'm not going to let it get that far. Relationship takes work. And I??ll work on it every day. Communicate every day.

MY WOMEN DON'T HAVE TO CHEAT
ALL THEY HAVE TO DO IS SAY I THINK I AM GOING TO START FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE
MY RESPONCE IS DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YOU IN THE ARIS.

MY WOMEN DON'T HAVE TO CHEAT
ALL THEY HAVE TO DO IS SAY I THINK I AM GOING TO START FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE
MY RESPONCE IS DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YOU IN THE ARIS.

Posted by james tate
MY WOMEN DON'T HAVE TO CHEAT
ALL THEY HAVE TO DO IS SAY I THINK I AM GOING TO START FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE
MY RESPONCE IS DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YOU IN THE ARIS.

james tate
That's funny that you should say that.

My Sagittarius has said that to the men in her past. She's never cheated because she would say "You better put some backbone in your treetrunking or I'm leaving."

She??d never cheat, she just leave.

Bruce Lee said —Practice all movements slow and fast, soft and hard, technical skill must come first.??

I'm a virgo, and that's the way I roll.

I'm making sure my stroke skills are in place.

If her having sex with someone else was based on wanting some change in her life that I couldn't provide, and that her cheating didn't have much to do with the physiacl aspect, but that the physical aspect was rather an unfortunate (for me) result of the whole deal... then it would be easier to forgive, let's just put it that way. But if she slept with an other guy mainly for the physical attraction between them - and for the physical release - then that would be the end of it as far as I'm concerned.

That's right, I'm one of those weirdos who considers physical cheating to be far worse than its emotional counterpart.

A relationship is the full package, both physical and emotional.

Sex is an emotional thing with women. Obviously, guys its physical.

The way I see it...

Women keep your guy??s belly full and balls empty.

Guys keep your women happy in the bedroom and out... emotionally.

Posted by tiziani
"Never make decisions of note on an empty stomach or full testes"

Ha ha ha. That's funny. So true.

Posted by muffdivingvirgo

Sex is an emotional thing with women. Obviously, guys its physical..

Somehow I don't believe it's that black and white. Times change, so do women.

And men too, for that matter.

LOL....

It really depends. I think both male and female can forgive this but it can truly put a strain on your relationship unless their are extenuating circumstances. How about you save yourself the trouble and not do it... how hard is that?

If your not happy leave.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
LOL....

It really depends. I think both male and female can forgive this but it can truly put a strain on your relationship unless their are extenuating circumstances. How about you save yourself the trouble and not do it... how hard is that?

If your not happy leave.

That's what I love about the Sagittarius independence. They don't have to cheat, hide and betray their partner in a relationship, they just leave.

Don't get me wrong, it hurts. But it's better to leave the relationship than stay. They love new experiences.

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Posted by muffdivingvirgo

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
LOL....

It really depends. I think both male and female can forgive this but it can truly put a strain on your relationship unless their are extenuating circumstances. How about you save yourself the trouble and not do it... how hard is that?

If your not happy leave.

That's what I love about the Sagittarius independence. They don't have to cheat, hide and betray their partner in a relationship, they just leave.

Don't get me wrong, it hurts. But it's better to leave the relationship than stay. They love new experiences.

The person who cheated on me is a sag.
Sags like to make themselves sound like adventurers, but they are just scared little cowards who are too weak to deal with the harshness of life.

So gullible, so weak.

If I didn't have two sag sisters that I love, the sag board would've got so much "attention" from me.

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Yea i remember all your whiney posts

Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by CluelessCancer
1) i was responding to beautiful
2) I'm not playing victim role, i have seen this play out over and over again around me and that made me extremely wary. I'll be honest i am extremely distrustful of men from my ethnic background because I've seen how they treat their girlfriends/wives. Sometimes it even seems cultural.

3) I've never been cheated on, atleast not that i know of

But yet you can't carry what you've seen play out into your relationships or its just a self fulfilling prophesy. Our thoughts are nothing but seeds planted in the subconscious. What springs forth depends on what we plant in our minds. You can't lapply what you've seen happen in society as a whole to your individual relationship with a person. If you want to be viewed as who you are outside of being a woman, then the sad courtesy should be shown to whoever you date. You and him have the power to shape your relationship based on what both of you are looking for and agree upon.

Agreed. It's very difficult to remind myself of that, in my brain everybody is cheating, and someday someone is going to hurt me, so i better make sure i catch it before it happens to me...

yes i know..highly illogical, insecure, etc etc.

it's really stressful and i continue to suffer. it doesn't help that I am somewhat talking/dating a guy that is immature and gives me zero emotional security although i know he hasn't done anything, his actions, sometimes make me go wtf.

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That's the thing though CC, its no ones job to give anyone emotional security. Its impossible and destroys a relationship is before it gets started. Work on yourself first. If your man is immature, why are you with him? He's only adding to your problems. Take sometime to work on yourself first then date.

^^^ trust me CC...I've been there.

People are attracted to light. They will always come regardless. More come than usual when you're vulnerable. People will always try to take advantage of a good heart. But a strong heart and mind is able to resist those things to the point that it doesn't bother you. Focus on that. All it takes is time and patience.

This may sound crazy, but its the best time to give. Why? Because when you give positive you get that back. Seeing the positive impact you have on others strengthens you and subconsciously teaches you at the same time. Charity work, mentoring, things of that nature. Now, I do it all the time. Make sure you take some time to yourself though 🙂

Posted by Sneaky
Why do I have the feeling you're not intelligent enough to get it ?

Why do I get the feeling people cheat on you cause your annoying piece of shit?

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Sag89
Steve Harvey is the most dsyfunctional sexist jackass I've ever seen. He HATES woman. He is disgusting and has been divorced like 3 times.

he is nothing more than a joke. I really hope no one takes that dickhead seriously.

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THANK YOU!

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Yea girl! 🙂

Posted by CluelessCancer
Yes I kind of figured that, it's been years since i've been in an actual relationship, a real relationship being physical and vulnerable, that i never truly noticed these trust issues, but while i was out of the dating game (yes i talked and was serious about guys, but i never truly gave them everything)...my analysis of men was of what was projected in my environment...I can't lie at one point i was so thoroughly disgusted..i thought i would never end up with a man from my ethnic background...

I mean GOD the men who have hit on me, urffff they are so disgusting. i hate them. they are pigs. Married men. Men whom i knew. It disgusted me and than also made me feel sick that they would even approach me!!! like wtf is it about me they think they can flirt with me...like if these maggots had the balls..how about others? is everyone living a secret life—?

i mean it was absurd how much disrespect towards women there was/is, but that type of thinking clouds all the healthy positive healthy relationships that exist.

I know it's not healthy. So i know i have to retrain my brain...

So if you cheated on your Virgo, would he forgive you and take you back?

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
LOL....

It really depends. I think both male and female can forgive this but it can truly put a strain on your relationship unless their are extenuating circumstances. How about you save yourself the trouble and not do it... how hard is that?

If your not happy leave.

That's what I love about the Sagittarius independence. They don't have to cheat, hide and betray their partner in a relationship, they just leave.

Don't get me wrong, it hurts. But it's better to leave the relationship than stay. They love new experiences.

The person who cheated on me is a sag.
Sags like to make themselves sound like adventurers, but they are just scared little cowards who are too weak to deal with the harshness of life.

So gullible, so weak.

If I didn't have two sag sisters that I love, the sag board would've got so much "attention" from me.

Yea i remember all your whiney posts

I miss the days I was comfortable putting my pic in my profile. It made minions of little sluts... oh nevermind.

Just Sayin'.

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I thought I'd just point out that the original post was from an Aquarius male... And the insult must have been inappropriately directed at me ^.^? I saw it and I thought ehh w/e... I don't care that much to correct you. Had I known it would be used as the start of pissy blather for sub quotes I would have corrected you long ago LOL!!

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Posted by Sneaky
Why do I have the feeling you're not intelligent enough to get it ?

Why do I get the feeling people cheat on you cause your annoying piece of shit?

I don't know. I'm surprised you feel anything.

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I feel more than you have in your lifetime.

WHY IS IT WHEN I CLICK ON THIS FUCKING THREAD I GET GOOGEL?