So, have you guys ever had an awkward first time sexual encounter? If so what happened? Did you try again or did you just call it good? If you tried again did it get any better?
Most awkward attempt at a sexual encounter
Posted by Sailor_Mars
My partner farted while lifting me up. We didn't try for a few years after that hahahahaha
šššš. I feel like a few years is a long time for something like that!
you try again
Posted by ImperfectStorm
I had an awkward encounter with another Scorpio, he was extremely nervous, it wasnāt terrible just seemed unnatural. Iāll be honest I didnāt give it another shot even though he wanted to. Lol But we are still friends, he is a good guy.
There is a recent Aries. It was the most awkward thing. We both told each other that it felt weird and sucked. I have never had anyone say that (maybe they were being polite). I have always been told I was a good kisser until now š¤·āāļø
Posted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lol
Posted by CclionPosted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lolclick to expand
its always your choice. if you decide you dont like him/her enough to try again then you dont. usually this means things end.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by CclionPosted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lol
I feel like it depends on what made it awkward. There have been times where awkward things happened during the first time like the guy came fast or he had bad breath etc, but the magnetic chemistry was still there. In those instances I would try again. But if everything otherwise is done right but the chemistry is lacking, thatās when I wouldnāt try again. Itās either there or itās not.. sexual chemistry is palpable you can feel if itās there or not, thereās no mistaking.click to expand
I know there is chemistry outside of the situation. I was surprised at how awkward everything was.
Posted by Sailor_Mars
My partner farted while lifting me up. We didn't try for a few years after that hahahahaha
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The first time I ever had sex was awkward. We were both virgins and I couldnāt relax and tensed up. We stayed together for 8 years even though we werenāt sexually compatible. We were very good friends and I fancied the pants off him š
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Went on a tinder date one time, was half assed interested in her, she asked to come back to my place and I figured she wanted to smash for sure. Played myself. She wanted to sleep, literally sleep, next to me in my bed. I tried to kiss her and it was so awkward. Dropped her off the next morning and blocked her
Posted by alexscariesPosted by CclionPosted by ImperfectStorm
I had an awkward encounter with another Scorpio, he was extremely nervous, it wasnāt terrible just seemed unnatural. Iāll be honest I didnāt give it another shot even though he wanted to. Lol But we are still friends, he is a good guy.
There is a recent Aries. It was the most awkward thing. We both told each other that it felt weird and sucked. I have never had anyone say that (maybe they were being polite). I have always been told I was a good kisser until now š¤·āāļø
Kissing is very subjective. I know how I like to be kissed and my personal style . Will be a massive turn off for anyone who likes little pecks.click to expand
Pecking is for aunts and grannies
You canāt beat a long lingering deep snog
Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by CclionPosted by Sailor_Mars
My partner farted while lifting me up. We didn't try for a few years after that hahahahaha
šššš. I feel like a few years is a long time for something like that!
It was our first time...I was very young, he was older but a weird person...When I look back I don't know why we were together...for years...I was a phlegm about my life I guess and his father killed himself...I don't know why both the men I went out with had family, financial and personal issues. They both hate me and call me a whore...but I spent 15 years helping them...I know I did bad things and that I am not a saint...But I didn't want to settle for what they needed...click to expand
Sounds like you are making healthier decisions relationships wise.
Posted by SassyKiwi
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Good to hear! Where did you gonfor your honeymoon? I guess sometimes it takes time. I was thinking about past boyfriends and I guess it was awkward, but I think it was just me feeling awkward vs a bunch of awkward things lol.
Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by CclionPosted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lol
I feel like it depends on what made it awkward. There have been times where awkward things happened during the first time like the guy came fast or he had bad breath etc, but the magnetic chemistry was still there. In those instances I would try again. But if everything otherwise is done right but the chemistry is lacking, thatās when I wouldnāt try again. Itās either there or itās not.. sexual chemistry is palpable you can feel if itās there or not, thereās no mistaking.
So does sexual chemistry equals non awkward sex?
I wonder if we can see this in synastryclick to expand
That would be interesting to find out. I always forget how deep this stuff can actually go.
Posted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwi
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Good to hear! Where did you gonfor your honeymoon? I guess sometimes it takes time. I was thinking about past boyfriends and I guess it was awkward, but I think it was just me feeling awkward vs a bunch of awkward things lol.click to expand
We went to Italy and France for our honeymoon. We had both saved ourselves for marriage. I always liked the idea of having that journey and exploration from the beginning with a life partner. I just could never imagine being deeply intimate and vulnerable with someone I didn't completely trust. You want to be that way with someone you can laugh things off with like if someone accidentally farted in the middle of it or something y'kno.
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Posted by Aquamarine_
So does sexual chemistry equals non awkward sex?
I wonder if we can see this in synastry
That doesn't make any sense. If I have crazy chemistry with someone it might make me somewhat guarded and nervous the first time with them.
Whereas if I'm only physically attracted to a person the sex is way smoother or shall we say, non-awkward.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwi
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Good to hear! Where did you gonfor your honeymoon? I guess sometimes it takes time. I was thinking about past boyfriends and I guess it was awkward, but I think it was just me feeling awkward vs a bunch of awkward things lol.
We went to Italy and France for our honeymoon. We had both saved ourselves for marriage. I always liked the idea of having that journey and exploration from the beginning with a life partner. I just could never imagine being deeply intimate and vulnerable with someone I didn't completely trust. You want to be that way with someone you can laugh things off with like if someone accidentally farted in the middle of it or something y'kno.click to expand
Very true. Thatās whole other level of comfort and trust. Not to mention a sense of humor! Thatās so sweet! What was your favorite part of the honeymoon? How long have you guys been married.
Posted by Moloko_vellocet
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Haha. How did she react? I know some meme bees of the opposite sex know what they are doing, but I still think who is going to know better than someone with the same parts as you.
Posted by IxiPosted by Cclion
So, have you guys ever had an awkward first time sexual encounter? If so what happened? Did you try again or did you just call it good? If you tried again did it get any better?
Lol oh boy...
So I started having sex at around 15 or so...needless to say over 15 years you get a couple of stories š
Okay so...there was this one time I ended up at this shorty's (Super Sexy Scorpio) crib and she threw it at me, during our first session, I:
1.) Got a major case of Whiskey Dick..I'm talking complete power loss for an hour or two.
2.) The shorty's ex (who she just broke up with that morning) rolled in on us to grab his shit and go to his momma's crib
3.) She definitely ended up crying right after the ex rolled through š
4.) This happened in another state so the "walk of shame" home was EPIC š.click to expand
š¤¦š½āāļø What a mess! Lol
Posted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocet
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Haha. How did she react? I know some meme bees of the opposite sex know what they are doing, but I still think who is going to know better than someone with the same parts as you.click to expand
She thought she could turn me full straight. Didnāt believe in bisexual men. Her arrogance also didnāt make me hard.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocet
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Haha. How did she react? I know some meme bees of the opposite sex know what they are doing, but I still think who is going to know better than someone with the same parts as you.
She thought she could turn me full straight. Didnāt believe in bisexual men. Her arrogance also didnāt make me hard.click to expand
Was this someone you knew already? Or just some random chick?
Posted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocet
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Haha. How did she react? I know some meme bees of the opposite sex know what they are doing, but I still think who is going to know better than someone with the same parts as you.
She thought she could turn me full straight. Didnāt believe in bisexual men. Her arrogance also didnāt make me hard.
Was this someone you knew already? Or just some random chick?click to expand
A chick ive known for a while that is used to thinking sheās amazing. It was honestly the equivalent of someone that just drunk fucks one nighters. Sloppy, non consistent and teeth.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by CclionPosted by Moloko_vellocet
Chick kept goading me to go home with her because she promised me she could suck my dick better than a man.
No she did not. I petted her head to make her feel better.
Haha. How did she react? I know some meme bees of the opposite sex know what they are doing, but I still think who is going to know better than someone with the same parts as you.
She thought she could turn me full straight. Didnāt believe in bisexual men. Her arrogance also didnāt make me hard.
Was this someone you knew already? Or just some random chick?
A chick ive known for a while that is used to thinking sheās amazing. It was honestly the equivalent of someone that just drunk fucks one nighters. Sloppy, non consistent and teeth.click to expand
Gotcha! So she needed to be taken down a notch, it seems!
Posted by MyStarsShine
The first time I ever had sex was awkward. We were both virgins and I couldnāt relax and tensed up. We stayed together for 8 years even though we werenāt sexually compatible. We were very good friends and I fancied the pants off him š
You still give off #VirginVibes š
Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by MyStarsShine
The first time I ever had sex was awkward. We were both virgins and I couldnāt relax and tensed up. We stayed together for 8 years even though we werenāt sexually compatible. We were very good friends and I fancied the pants off him š
You still give off #VirginVibes šclick to expand
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Posted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwi
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Good to hear! Where did you gonfor your honeymoon? I guess sometimes it takes time. I was thinking about past boyfriends and I guess it was awkward, but I think it was just me feeling awkward vs a bunch of awkward things lol.
We went to Italy and France for our honeymoon. We had both saved ourselves for marriage. I always liked the idea of having that journey and exploration from the beginning with a life partner. I just could never imagine being deeply intimate and vulnerable with someone I didn't completely trust. You want to be that way with someone you can laugh things off with like if someone accidentally farted in the middle of it or something y'kno.
Very true. Thatās whole other level of comfort and trust. Not to mention a sense of humor! Thatās so sweet! What was your favorite part of the honeymoon? How long have you guys been married.click to expand
I personally enjoyed Italy more than France during the time. We stayed in Rome and took a train and a private tour out to Florence and Pompeii + Sorrento. I loved them both, especially Florence. It rained the day we had plans for Venice so we stayed in. Itās a lot of walking there which I didnāt like during the cold weather of January (Iām sensitive to the cold but spring or summer wouldāve been amazing Iām sure). For France we stayed in Paris the whole week. Our hotel was apartment style with a balcony (La Clef Louvre) which we enjoyed a lot, especially when it snowed one day; it felt as if we temporarily moved to Paris. Bless my Libra husband for planning it all out. There was just not enough time to do everything I wanted in 2 weeks. Iād need many months! Thank you for making me reminisce as I'm now sad of being unable to travel due to covid š Weāve been married for a little over 2 years.
It's extremely rare for me, and the only time I can think of was back in my early 20s with a Leo sun Libra moon woman. My sexual encounters 99% of the time are obvious attraction from the start. Meaning we both give the right signals to engage. That might sound convoluted, but even if a woman is deeply into me but doesn't give the right signals I won't engage. We were making out and she literally put my hand on her breast, but it was so awkward for some reason I didn't engage. Maybe its because naturally I tend to react off a slow vibration that leads to deep intensity. Like slowly going deeper and deeper until the moment our souls connect, then go absolutely wild. Or maybe at the time my ego was so big I just wasn't into her yet. Regardless of which, that was the only awkward sexual moment for me. Don't get me wrong I love women who take control and have dominant aspects. But if you go hard before I'm even into you I'll retreat instantly.
Posted by Sailor_Mars
My partner farted while lifting me up. We didn't try for a few years after that hahahahaha
LOL!!!! *wipe tears* I'm dyin'.....oh sweet Moses.
Posted by CclionPosted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lolclick to expand
Was this with the Ram with that duplicitous Mars in Gem?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CclionPosted by rabidtalker
you try again
Does it get better or just depends on the people? I have never had anything this awkward happen before. So awkward that I donāt know if I want to try again lol
Was this with the Ram with that duplicitous Mars in Gem?click to expand
Yes. We didnāt actually have sex but kissing and a little touching.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by CclionPosted by SassyKiwi
My wedding night. That was my husband and I's first time. I was running on 2 hours of sleep, was gonna have a bunch of people over the next day as well as an early international journey the day after that for our honeymoon. Things were just not going as expected until a week into our honeymoon lol and now we're sluts š
Good to hear! Where did you gonfor your honeymoon? I guess sometimes it takes time. I was thinking about past boyfriends and I guess it was awkward, but I think it was just me feeling awkward vs a bunch of awkward things lol.
We went to Italy and France for our honeymoon. We had both saved ourselves for marriage. I always liked the idea of having that journey and exploration from the beginning with a life partner. I just could never imagine being deeply intimate and vulnerable with someone I didn't completely trust. You want to be that way with someone you can laugh things off with like if someone accidentally farted in the middle of it or something y'kno.
Very true. Thatās whole other level of comfort and trust. Not to mention a sense of humor! Thatās so sweet! What was your favorite part of the honeymoon? How long have you guys been married.
I personally enjoyed Italy more than France during the time. We stayed in Rome and took a train and a private tour out to Florence and Pompeii + Sorrento. I loved them both, especially Florence. It rained the day we had plans for Venice so we stayed in. Itās a lot of walking there which I didnāt like during the cold weather of January (Iām sensitive to the cold but spring or summer wouldāve been amazing Iām sure). For France we stayed in Paris the whole week. Our hotel was apartment style with a balcony (La Clef Louvre) which we enjoyed a lot, especially when it snowed one day; it felt as if we temporarily moved to Paris. Bless my Libra husband for planning it all out. There was just not enough time to do everything I wanted in 2 weeks. Iād need many months! Thank you for making me reminisce as I'm now sad of being unable to travel due to covid š Weāve been married for a little over 2 years.click to expand
That sounds amazing! Yeah, COVID sure has ruined a lot of plans and experiences! Iām ready to get back to normal!
Posted by Soul
It's extremely rare for me, and the only time I can think of was back in my early 20s with a Leo sun Libra moon woman. My sexual encounters 99% of the time are obvious attraction from the start. Meaning we both give the right signals to engage. That might sound convoluted, but even if a woman is deeply into me but doesn't give the right signals I won't engage. We were making out and she literally put my hand on her breast, but it was so awkward for some reason I didn't engage. Maybe its because naturally I tend to react off a slow vibration that leads to deep intensity. Like slowly going deeper and deeper until the moment our souls connect, then go absolutely wild. Or maybe at the time my ego was so big I just wasn't into her yet. Regardless of which, that was the only awkward sexual moment for me. Don't get me wrong I love women who take control and have dominant aspects. But if you go hard before I'm even into you I'll retreat instantly.
Makes sense! Iām a Leo sun and Aries moon, maybe that has something to do with it š
Well, ofc that first attempt aka encounter will not be as good as your fifth or whatever, but with practice and the right partner it gets better and better...it comes down to compatibility. So the first attempt was also my first successful sexual encounter, and it wasn't that bad, but not great either. And if you somehow didn't have a successful first sexual encounter, you need to figure out why it was not, and just go from there. š
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